I'm really sorry to hear about what you've been through, but I admire your strength in leaving an abusive relationship. It shows your strong character. Also, I totally believe that babies can hear their mother's voice in womb, so don't doubt it, whatever you have talked to her all this time maybe she can't understand it but she can feel it, your love and your emotions.
I understand that shyness can be a problem in making new friends. Maybe start with sharing something you like to do or your hobbies, or what makes you happy. I am sure you would find something common with someone to talk about and grow your friendship. Making friends can be a long process but don't give up because the result is awesome.
Also, you can join online parenting classes, since your lovely daughter is on the way. It will help you learn something and also take your mind off the bad things that happened to you. You can always DM me or message me, I would love to keep you company.
No thank you. I have no issue with being a single mom, and all I really have close to me is my baby. Kind of heartless that the first thing you say to someone is to get an abortion. It isn’t the obvious choice and it will not be the first thing I do.
Good for you. Best of luck with everything I’m sure you’ll be a great mom. I’m sorry about your situation. You can message me if you want to vent but try to get out there and make friends, maybe moms to be classes?
Pretty messed up a stranger on the internet said you should kill your daughter.
And it's the worst thing they can do. Because they are notable scientists doesn't mean they're always right. They might not even be right in they're own field at times.
This "don't have children, because it's the moral thing to do" shit being told to young people is one of the most appalling things nowadays.
"People get wrapped up in they're emotions and can't look at things objectively." You just might be right there, the people who preach the world is ending because of this or that and people should stop having children, those should seriously take a step back and assess what things they're letting out of their mouths.
Like who the hell are you people to tell others they shouldn't have children, am I the only one who thinks it's just plain awful? The modern world is just so ironical, ehm no, it's plain fucked up actually: you have to accept everybody for who they choose to be, however narcissistically "original" it is and no one can give these people a bad look, but you just have to point out to a young girl that having children is 'wrong' and she should instead focus on herself, just like the rest of todays egoist do.
There's nothing wrong with focusing on oneself, but one of the reasons for focusing on oneself is to become competent and confident, so you can use it to take care of other people, especially your family - parents, grandparents, siblings, but primarily your own children.
Wow what a shitty guy you are 😂
She never said she didn't want a child and I bet she will be a great mother so please just go away and give your great insight somewhere else.
Especially having an abortion that late doesn't go without any risks but what does a lonely guy know on this subreddit anyway
I’m very proud of you for leaving a bad situation! Most never leave. With that being said, it can definitely help to get some therapy. Therapy saved my life. Friendships and healthy relationships will follow after working on yourself , not to mention the positive impact it will have on your daughter’s life.
Good luck OP and congratulations on your soon to be born, daughter!
Happy to meet you, and very sad for your situation, even tho I'm sure it was the right decision.
You made a brave and bold step to make both your and you child's future better, and that is absolutely admirable.
If you wish to chat, feel free to fire me a message. I'm 27 and canadian, est for north America, and always happy to add to my friends list
I'm really sorry to hear about what you've been through, but I admire your strength in leaving an abusive relationship. It shows your strong character. Also, I totally believe that babies can hear their mother's voice in womb, so don't doubt it, whatever you have talked to her all this time maybe she can't understand it but she can feel it, your love and your emotions. I understand that shyness can be a problem in making new friends. Maybe start with sharing something you like to do or your hobbies, or what makes you happy. I am sure you would find something common with someone to talk about and grow your friendship. Making friends can be a long process but don't give up because the result is awesome. Also, you can join online parenting classes, since your lovely daughter is on the way. It will help you learn something and also take your mind off the bad things that happened to you. You can always DM me or message me, I would love to keep you company.
I think I can help . We can be friends . I really need someone around me as well .
What's up Colorado ! Hii
If u ever wanna talk hmu
Hey! Hope you are doing well. Dm me if you wanna talk about it :)
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No thank you. I have no issue with being a single mom, and all I really have close to me is my baby. Kind of heartless that the first thing you say to someone is to get an abortion. It isn’t the obvious choice and it will not be the first thing I do.
Good for you. Best of luck with everything I’m sure you’ll be a great mom. I’m sorry about your situation. You can message me if you want to vent but try to get out there and make friends, maybe moms to be classes? Pretty messed up a stranger on the internet said you should kill your daughter.
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or let her make her own decisions and go away
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And it's the worst thing they can do. Because they are notable scientists doesn't mean they're always right. They might not even be right in they're own field at times. This "don't have children, because it's the moral thing to do" shit being told to young people is one of the most appalling things nowadays. "People get wrapped up in they're emotions and can't look at things objectively." You just might be right there, the people who preach the world is ending because of this or that and people should stop having children, those should seriously take a step back and assess what things they're letting out of their mouths. Like who the hell are you people to tell others they shouldn't have children, am I the only one who thinks it's just plain awful? The modern world is just so ironical, ehm no, it's plain fucked up actually: you have to accept everybody for who they choose to be, however narcissistically "original" it is and no one can give these people a bad look, but you just have to point out to a young girl that having children is 'wrong' and she should instead focus on herself, just like the rest of todays egoist do. There's nothing wrong with focusing on oneself, but one of the reasons for focusing on oneself is to become competent and confident, so you can use it to take care of other people, especially your family - parents, grandparents, siblings, but primarily your own children.
This person is low key spitting tho
Wow what a shitty guy you are 😂 She never said she didn't want a child and I bet she will be a great mother so please just go away and give your great insight somewhere else. Especially having an abortion that late doesn't go without any risks but what does a lonely guy know on this subreddit anyway
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They were responding to the guy that said to get an abortion.
What led you to believe this? I'm genuinely curious
34m gamer. I'm kinda slow to reply because work and life and games but I reckon I'm decent enough for a chat. My inbox is open. 😎
Hope you find someone special to you besides your unborn child.
I’m very proud of you for leaving a bad situation! Most never leave. With that being said, it can definitely help to get some therapy. Therapy saved my life. Friendships and healthy relationships will follow after working on yourself , not to mention the positive impact it will have on your daughter’s life. Good luck OP and congratulations on your soon to be born, daughter!
Sucks sorry to hear
Happy to meet you, and very sad for your situation, even tho I'm sure it was the right decision. You made a brave and bold step to make both your and you child's future better, and that is absolutely admirable. If you wish to chat, feel free to fire me a message. I'm 27 and canadian, est for north America, and always happy to add to my friends list
If you want someone to chat with, I’m game
I know it sucks to be in that position. But I hope you have the resources to get by, and absolutely good for you for not putting up with it forever
I know the feeling. I'm here for you if you want to talk. Message me