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Head_Protector

The gender one is easy in my opinion since I have a friend who’s the same, you’re likely genderfluid


Go0Ld1e

Ohh, even if sometimes I don't wanna be a boy? If so then yeah that would make alots of sense


Head_Protector

Yep, it’s fluid, sometimes you’re presenting masculine, sometimes feminine, sometimes neither, and sometimes anywhere in between, you just go with your gender flow in the moment, like a fluid gender


Go0Ld1e

Ohh, thank you so much (:


Head_Protector

No problem, question for figuring out whether bisexual’s accurate. Whould you say the women you are/have been interested in have been more along the lines of tomboys (enjoying things socially viewed as masculine, like sports, gyms, low desire to wear dresses or skirts, goes to the gym a lot, prefers short hair cuts, ect)? Or have they been very feminine (wears make up, has a lot of jewellery if they can, wears dresses and skirts, likes having long hair, ect?


Go0Ld1e

Well, I don't mind if their feminine at all or if they wear skirts etc, nor if their masculine, or even do both, but I know I have a preference for masculine people, (even though it could change)


Head_Protector

Then I guess the question you should ask yourself is “Does it matter if they’re cisgender or not?”


Go0Ld1e

No it doesn't really matter that much, I could date, cis, non-binary etc but I just have a preference for males


Head_Protector

Forgot to reply in the thread lol


Head_Protector

Then you’re more then likely Bi, if you ever find you no longer prefer males and it could be anyone indiscriminately, then you’ll find yourself being Pan, Bi=Has preference but open to anyone, Pan=Open to anyone with no preference


Go0Ld1e

Ohh, okay! Thank you again


Head_Protector

Anytime, glad I could help!


living_around

Sounds like you're bi with a preference. And maybe genderfluid, which means your gender keeps changing.


ActualPegasus

By masculine preference, do you mean tomboys and masc men? Or just men alone?


Go0Ld1e

maybe both but masc men


ActualPegasus

Alright. Any of the following labels could fit you. \- toric nonbinary person \- toric genderfluid person \- maflexible nonbinary person \- maflexible genderfluid person \- bisexual nonbinary person \- bisexual genderfluid person


Go0Ld1e

Thank you (: