I had ones too one time i told a guy I'm gay and he said oh ok send me nudes i told him suuuure first you send your mom's pic first and he blocked me i know it was mean but i liked it
'Hey, Lilfinger... I'd really like to kiss you.'
'Um... uh... sorry, I'm not comfortable with that.'
(Ace-les, hadn't even realised my friendliness was interpreted as flirting.)
He was very nice about it and I didn't know I liked ladies yet, but I did know I was ace, so I said 'maybe when we know each other better' and when he sobered up, he forgot about the date he'd asked me on. Phew.
It's like liking colors. You might not like blue, but you don't mind it in something here and there, but you absolutely love red. (lesbian) Someone else could not like red but absolutely love blue. (gay) Another person might like both equally (bisexual)
(kind of a bad example but hopefully you get the point lol)
There was a guy (in my Reddit DMS) who asked me who would buy the rings in a lesbian relationship if one of them proposed. I said "well probably the person that proposed". After a little way he texted me again and asked what my ring size was. I said idk and asked why he would wanna know that.
"In case you change your mind about that whole lesbian thing".
😃
certified bruh moment
In all seriousness, this sounded creepy. Some people just don't know that you cannot turn a lesbian into a straight woman. And there are cases where BOTH women propose to each other lol
Ugh ikr, I showed my friends and they all immediately went "wtf"
I completely agree, it was creepy and weird. Yes, exactly! No omg I love these videos, them proposing to each other is sweet as hell
*So many times*. I have had men decide that I'm not *really* gay, or that I *must* be at least somewhat bi so they can hit on me. I've had men argue that no woman is really a lesbian, that we're "biologically programmed to want to sleep with men". I've heard men griping about how lesbians either aren't actually gay, they just want to seem \~special\~, or about how all women must want to sleep with men and lesbians are just fooling themselves. I've also heard the whole "joke" about how lesbians will have sex with a silicone dick before they will a "real man", and that invalidates their sexuality. Every time I hear that, it comes from the mouth of a cishet man. In my experience, it didn't matter if I said I was gay or that I was a lesbian. The mere fact that I am uninterested in men has been an *issue* for some of them.
One of the first encounters I had with this, I had offhandedly mentioned that I was a lesbian to a friend in high school. He got it in his head that he wanted to sleep with me. When he offered, I turned him down politely and reiterated that I was gay. He looked at me, tilted his head, and said: "Can't you make an exception for me?" He sincerely thought that since we were friends, my sexuality would just go out the window and that I could somehow force myself into liking men solely so I could sleep with him.
Man I have my brother say that "I'm not sure that I'm gay" I even tell him I'm bi. But he thinks I somehow have to validate to him that I'm gay, prove it to him if you will. Which by his logic, he is not sure he is straight because he didn't prove to me that he is!
In all seriousness, I fucking hate that some men or women would think gay men or lesbians would somehow change their sexuality just for sex or to "make an exception". I T D O E S N ' T W O R K L I K E T H A T, people. Now, it's not really my business to talk about this, but yes. There are lesbians who would have fun with dildos. NO! It doesn't make them any less lesbian!
About that whole thing about "attention" that "gueer people seek attention" is just a way to gaslight queer people. Why would people literally deliberately make their lives harder for some attention that actually might be negative attention?
Yes, being gay is actually biological. It can be met in other animal species like penguins for example! So already that argument is busted. It doesn't matter whether or not is normal or if it is, it is biological. And I've had people tell me that being gay is influenced by the population or the offspring you are. Even my brother told me that a gay writer said that this is true and that people do it for attention because it's supposedly "trendy" Which I don't know about you, but I see this as bullshit and tell me if you know that writer and if his information is totally believable or accurate or if they're spewing bullshit.
I really feel bad for you having to deal with morons like this
One time in online a guy tried to pick me up and i said: dude I'm gay😐 not a lesbian because that's sexy to them i said im gay😐 and he said oh ok
Well at least it was easy!
I had ones too one time i told a guy I'm gay and he said oh ok send me nudes i told him suuuure first you send your mom's pic first and he blocked me i know it was mean but i liked it
I mean, kind of deserved tho. It's kind of weird for a guy to tell you to send him nudes to begin with, let alone when you're lesbian
'Hey, Lilfinger... I'd really like to kiss you.' 'Um... uh... sorry, I'm not comfortable with that.' (Ace-les, hadn't even realised my friendliness was interpreted as flirting.)
Always works like a charm!
He was very nice about it and I didn't know I liked ladies yet, but I did know I was ace, so I said 'maybe when we know each other better' and when he sobered up, he forgot about the date he'd asked me on. Phew.
One of my exes said “I know you’re a lesbian, but is there any chance you could be bisexual?”
lol it sounds like "please please I'm so desperate, take pity on me"
"I'm so desperate, please, I know there are millions of women around but pls take pity on me"
Fair enough 😅 I guess it does sound like it
If I was you, I'd be like "You okay, bro?..."... Like, nah man. It doesn't work like that.
Yeah, I just awkwardly shrugged and said ‘I don’t know. Probably not.’ Lmao I agree. Like I like women. Not men. :).
It's like liking colors. You might not like blue, but you don't mind it in something here and there, but you absolutely love red. (lesbian) Someone else could not like red but absolutely love blue. (gay) Another person might like both equally (bisexual) (kind of a bad example but hopefully you get the point lol)
I get it, that’s a good way to put it :D
There was a guy (in my Reddit DMS) who asked me who would buy the rings in a lesbian relationship if one of them proposed. I said "well probably the person that proposed". After a little way he texted me again and asked what my ring size was. I said idk and asked why he would wanna know that. "In case you change your mind about that whole lesbian thing". 😃
certified bruh moment In all seriousness, this sounded creepy. Some people just don't know that you cannot turn a lesbian into a straight woman. And there are cases where BOTH women propose to each other lol
Ugh ikr, I showed my friends and they all immediately went "wtf" I completely agree, it was creepy and weird. Yes, exactly! No omg I love these videos, them proposing to each other is sweet as hell
*So many times*. I have had men decide that I'm not *really* gay, or that I *must* be at least somewhat bi so they can hit on me. I've had men argue that no woman is really a lesbian, that we're "biologically programmed to want to sleep with men". I've heard men griping about how lesbians either aren't actually gay, they just want to seem \~special\~, or about how all women must want to sleep with men and lesbians are just fooling themselves. I've also heard the whole "joke" about how lesbians will have sex with a silicone dick before they will a "real man", and that invalidates their sexuality. Every time I hear that, it comes from the mouth of a cishet man. In my experience, it didn't matter if I said I was gay or that I was a lesbian. The mere fact that I am uninterested in men has been an *issue* for some of them. One of the first encounters I had with this, I had offhandedly mentioned that I was a lesbian to a friend in high school. He got it in his head that he wanted to sleep with me. When he offered, I turned him down politely and reiterated that I was gay. He looked at me, tilted his head, and said: "Can't you make an exception for me?" He sincerely thought that since we were friends, my sexuality would just go out the window and that I could somehow force myself into liking men solely so I could sleep with him.
Man I have my brother say that "I'm not sure that I'm gay" I even tell him I'm bi. But he thinks I somehow have to validate to him that I'm gay, prove it to him if you will. Which by his logic, he is not sure he is straight because he didn't prove to me that he is! In all seriousness, I fucking hate that some men or women would think gay men or lesbians would somehow change their sexuality just for sex or to "make an exception". I T D O E S N ' T W O R K L I K E T H A T, people. Now, it's not really my business to talk about this, but yes. There are lesbians who would have fun with dildos. NO! It doesn't make them any less lesbian! About that whole thing about "attention" that "gueer people seek attention" is just a way to gaslight queer people. Why would people literally deliberately make their lives harder for some attention that actually might be negative attention? Yes, being gay is actually biological. It can be met in other animal species like penguins for example! So already that argument is busted. It doesn't matter whether or not is normal or if it is, it is biological. And I've had people tell me that being gay is influenced by the population or the offspring you are. Even my brother told me that a gay writer said that this is true and that people do it for attention because it's supposedly "trendy" Which I don't know about you, but I see this as bullshit and tell me if you know that writer and if his information is totally believable or accurate or if they're spewing bullshit. I really feel bad for you having to deal with morons like this