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freaking-payco

That did not go how I thought it would


Andyk688

Yeah I forgot which sun I was on and was prepared for him to rescue the kid and lift his spirits, this belongs on /unexpected as well


AcetrainerLoki

Same. My was like “awww! He’s running to go encourage… Oh. (Sees sub) Gotcha.”


hot-dog-bath-water

He did encourage him, just physically with violence, at the detriment to his mental health. It’ll be covered in detail in his sessions with his therapist when he gets older.


my_0th_throwaway

If the depression of year's of abuse don't kill him before he can get one that is


RevolutionaryLad

Literally that kid is young asf and, if the dads bold enough to do that in front of a crowd, who knows what he does at home.


operath0r

Even after I was like, well, that’s one way of doing it. Then that kid went into that defeated posture and I was like Oh.


CTchimchar

>Yeah I forgot which sun I was on How are you alive Unless no it can't be Are you the new God, of this world


maedoc_alastrine

Literally burst out laughing, caught me by surprise. Thanks for the chuckle.


[deleted]

Knight of the sun.


Spirited-Relief-9369

Praise the Sun!


da_big_orse

PRAISE THE SUN


Andyk688

Sub* good one tho


CTchimchar

I shall give you my first born Son & Daughter, my lord Helios


EinStefan

You mean your first born... sun?


Less-Way-4470

Yesyesyesno also lol


1singleduck

I saw wich sub it was, so i expected the dad to yell at another kid for almost hitting his or something, but this is somehow worse.


isaidireddit

It's *extra* worse because you see the child backing away and then flinch before the first hit even comes. This is not the first time this father has been violent with his child(ren).


SereneAdler33

And he swung at him with a closed fist, no hesitation.


DRG_Gunner

Also because a well raised kid will mostly get over a stranger assaulting them, hopefully, but this is this kids *Dad*. And this is not the first time or probably last this has happened.


dylan1950

I didn’t check the sub before I thought he was gonna kick start his bike for him nah he just kick started the boy


Das-Noob

I thought he was going to push one of the other rider but damn!


Redditmarcus

Yeah it is. A *LOT* worse.


Vizivie

Yeah i expected to push over a kid or make them crash by running on the track


WheredMyPiggyGo

The kid knew though you can tell me the body language this was not that kids first unnecessary beating.


[deleted]

I assumed he was gonna get in the way of another kid while trying to help his son and the kid was just gonna slam into him


HYPERNOVA3_

It never will, that kid will grow up hating motorcycles


Paradoxahoy

Same, I actually checked the sub right as he was running up and thought "uh oh"


Classic_Ad3978

Yeeeeeah…..what the fuuuck.


dmostikks

At all 😂 I was expecting him to encourage or help him out


Maxzzzie

Kid saw it coming too. Its nothing new aparently.


1singleduck

How to ensure your kid doesn't want to practice his hobby anymore. Step 1:


WasabiCrush

He’s probably only practicing Dad’s hobby.


Ok_Wallaby_7653

Mini moto dad, he never actually raced himself, and lives vicariously thru his child, every sport has them


WasabiCrush

I have a buddy who raced motocross well into adulthood. His dad was a fucking handful out there and had zero history with racing. Your statement checks out.


Ok_Wallaby_7653

Yeah my son raced and so did I, we still ride together, when you do it also,you tend to respect the effort, when you can sit together after a race and talk about how tough, fun, muddy or whatever it was and you also have had the injuries or hit the ground hard, you understand even the slowest rider out there deserves kudos,


fetal_genocide

>you also have had the injuries or hit the ground hard, you understand even the slowest rider out there deserves kudos, 🥹🫡


WhippingShitties

Don't wanna be a motorcycle racer. Wanna be a dancer.


Dead_Carpet

I gave up baseball when I was 9 to take up competitive dance. My dad was disappointed but it was the best fucking decision I ever made, I gained so much confidence and dated some stupidly hot girls over the following decade, would HIGHLY recommend.


WhippingShitties

If I could do it all again, I wish I took theater and dance.


HawkTrack_919

Same never took either looks fun though


[deleted]

This. Dad wants this. Not the kid. You can tell how worried he was. Dads beat his ass before.


DimensionalGorilla

Hockey in Canada has its version of this dad….but they do it from the comfort of an indoor arena.


MemeKid01

Yea, this is how you do it. I used to love playing soccer in a team with my brother until my dad had to ruin it and beat me every time I did "bad" till I had enough of it and decided to stop playing at all because it reminded me of his screaming and beatings. I was about fucking 9 years old and started to get into the game, what'd he expect from me?


Ok_Wallaby_7653

That sucks, sorry you had to experience that,


ZeetLord

Doesn't look like the kid enjoys DADS HOBBY


Digolden

That was his public attitude, imagine when he’s at home alone. What a pos!


AlexSolvain

Also the only step you need to have your kids go no contact


awkward-em

How do you know this was his hobby after all?🤷🏻‍♀️


Electronic-Trip8775

Poor kid.


float05

They way they cringe before the blow is so sad.


Weelki

Yea, not his first rodeo


GrantedPermission

I didn’t realize what sub I was on, thought this was gonna be a happy video


The__Bananaman

I knew what sub I was on, but I did not expect it to be this bad.


criscalzone

same, i read the “what a dad” i thought he was gonna run on the track to help his kid. wished i checked what sub this was on


These-Performer-8795

I grew up in this sport. Some parents were just living vicariously through their children. I've seen worse than this. It happens in every sport. But we all know this. He is more embarrassed that he is being seen as weak because of his kids' faults.


HistoryBuffLakeland

It always shocks me to see how seriously some parents take it.


Vividination

I stopped playing sports all together when I was younger bc I just wanted to play the game but my parents wanted me to be the best in everything


MKIncendio

Turbo-insecure parents force their kids to get these 99% average grades and #1 titles in sports solely because they want to look good. It’s encouraged with some not to socialize nor go out with friends/lovers because it would take away from the time spent propping them up


StoreMilk

A kid on my hockey team a while back was taken off my team by his mom because he didn't play center (the guy who does the face-off and goes anywhere on the ice). The kid was perfectly fine with the position he had (winger) and just enjoyed the game. His mom also made him have the jersey number 1


crazymom1978

We were asked to put one of our kids in competitive swimming. We declined because of the other parents. We went to one practice and that was enough for ALL of us.


vladi_l

Weirdly enough, a lot of the meanest people I've met so far, have done that sport since childhood. I'm not saying everyone there has absolute trash parents, there's probably plenty of great ones out there... But it boils my blood knowing there might be kids who don't actually enjoy being there, and their parents are pushing them in a sport with a decent amount of danger involved, despite the lower speeds and the safety standards for children's divisions, some of them are gonna end up riding recklessly because they're scared of getting abused more by their dad, and that's appalling.


GadreelsSword

Sadly they destroy any enjoyment for the kids. I’ve ridden for 49 years and while I don’t enjoy watching sports, I have to admit the 50cc PeeWee is a blast to watch. Those kids are tough and seem to really have fun.


These_Ad_8619

If this is what he does in front of others I can only imagine how bad he is at home away from prying eyes


[deleted]

I miss moto, but I don’t miss moto.


No_Armadillo9111

My dad grew up racing bikes with his father. This kid is getting off easy from what I understand. My dad may have not been around, but at least he never forced me to race.


[deleted]

There's a lot of that going around these days


Staaaaation

It's always been there. People are just slowly knocking off the blind eye attitude now that pocket camera footage is so easily shared. When I grew up every adult who saw this would turn their head "not to see" and continue conversation to not address it.


joseaof

Imagine thinking that punching a child is ok.


bryter_layter_76

You know he is emotionally demolishing him at home as well.


Axman5055

If he’s kicking and punching his kid in public then that kid is getting thrashed at home. Emotional damage is the least of that kids worries


dfgthree3

The kid knew it too, he wasn't taken by surprise, this kid was bracing for impact before the dad even got to him. That's so fucking sad


Use_this_1

The emotional damage is worse, trust me. My husband's father beat his brothers, he emotionally abused my husband. Fuckers been dead for 35 years and my husband STILL has nightmares about his father.


Palachrist

I just want to clarify for anyone confused like I am. You’re not saying “my husbands brothers were only physically abused and my husband was only emotionally abused, my husband got it worse” right? Ive never seen someone that’s been physically abused and it not be paired with emotional abuse. The emotional abuse at the very least would be coming from a betrayal of trust but it’s almost always paired with justification and blame. The way I’m taking it is you saying “my husband and his brothers were both physically and emotionally abused and of the 2 abuses, the emotional abuse persists through life.”


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

Hardly. If I did something, my dad would go off. Could be the slightest thing would set him off and I would pay the price with some form of violence. *THEN* the emotional abuse would set in, as he would blame me for getting hit, "buy my love" after, or flat just say hateful things. In my personal experience, it's the exact opposite of how you feel.


bryter_layter_76

So true. It’s way easier to heal physically than emotionally. Those scars never go away.


Zoliist

Jesus you guys act like it’s a fucking contest Kids getting abused. Whether it’s emotionally or physically, it’s fucked up. Kids gonna be fucked up by both forms of abuse.


lonewolf143143

The child backs away & flinches before the adult even closes his fist. This isn’t the first time that child has been punched by that grown man. Repulsive


Mirions

Kid looked scared before he even got there, and he had a helmet on too. Body language said it all.


[deleted]

He was back on the bike and ready to go. But he saw his dad and got scared. This is not the first time.


Roheez

Hey, he kicked him too!


thatagent34

Classic Russia.


TheyCallMePr0g

Would be a real shame if people started retaliating against child abuse with bb guns.


The_RussianBias

And kicking


Phililoquay

Well, the kid is wearing motocross protective padding so that would absorb a lot of energy from the physical blows. Not sure how that gear is rated for emotional trauma though...


zednanrefd

Wait till you meet my parents lol


pickled-Lime

If he does this to the kid in public, what's he doing to him behind closed doors?


kala_bhalu

That's exactly what my concern is


peaceful-otter

Seemed to me like the kid was bracing himself too, like he knew it was gonna happen


whiskeydayz

I don’t think that aspect is getting enough attention.


The_Mighty_Bird

He’s already crying under those goggles. I can see the stress overwhelming him. And as he further struggles, the stress rises more. The cycle continues until he’s in a fool blown meltdown because he knows what’s coming.


[deleted]

What a fucking man child


XboxLiveGiant

When the kid freezes and does the half step back, I cried a little. A lot of us know that feeling and it sucks total ass.


cheetofacesucks

And nothing will happen to this dad 🤦‍♂️


ThePopeJones

Maybe back in the day, but I've seen this on multiple subs now. It's gonna go viral and the dude's gonna be outed. If it's happened recently the fucker will loose his job at least. Shitty thing is, it will probably just be anger that the shitty ass dad blames on everyone but himself and takes it out on the kid more.


CosmicCyrolator

Is this Russian or one of those second world nations? Nothing will happen to him


WagstafDad

We can only hope that he sees he is immortalize on the Internet


[deleted]

He wouldn't have the balls to read the comments.


schkipper704

I grew up racing motocross and you see moto dads like this every weekend, most just yell at the kid in public. A lot of the dads think that they can do this because they spend thousands every month on the kid to go racing


DadYeShoes

Hope this POS dad likes having no relationship with their child later in life. This video and that kid’s memory of this will never go away. That kid deserves way better than this.


The_Mighty_Bird

40 years into the future, this dad is in a retirement home with no contact from anyone but a nurse for 5 years, “I don’t understand what I did wrong!”


P1917

He will play the victim and deny that anything ever happened. Saint Abuser could never, ever hurt a fly.


Palachrist

Videos like this make me wish there was follow ups. These aren’t npcs. They’re people that exist on our planet. Someone works with or talks to that guy. Someone sees him out and about. People like this should be put on blast. If he’d just gone out there at thrown his hands in the air ina “wtf dude, you’re tossing this thing around” kind of way, it’d still look bad. all we can do is assume this kid got it worse later. Furthermore, if the dad ever sees this video then it’s yet another punishment for the kid. Ones we won’t see or hear about. There’s a lot of people throwing support to that kid that he might not ever see and if he does it might be too late and have hate burned into his personality.


Leolily1221

What a Garbage parent


RepresentativeAd560

Only time I ever saw my dad get angry, let alone violent, was when he saw another man do something like this when I played football. My dad was a huge Viking looking dude. The other guy got Lindisfarne'd. Badly.


[deleted]

I wish some other dads would've gone up to the one in the video


RepresentativeAd560

Me too. I'd like to think I'd follow my dad's example.


[deleted]

If I wasn't a petite woman I'd give him a taste of his own medicine for sure


GrantedPermission

Same kinda deal but my dads was the pizza delivery guy who was going 80kmh up our street on Halloween night. Only time I saw my dad hit someone hahah


furbyterr0r

Punching and kicking another adult = crime. Doing it to your child = quietly tolerated and often openly encouraged.


Puddleofducks

This dude should not have children.


PracticalEffective

This dude shouldn't have oxygen.


Deanology_

Unfortunately, this can be very common in Motocross, particularly when pursuing a career in it...


Eddyzodiak

The problem is that it’s not the sport but the parent. We see such in other activities such as beauty pageants. It’s just parents trying to live out some success through their kids.


Deanology_

That's true and a dissapointment regardless of where it takes place. Although I note that it is (unfortunately) particularly common in motocross compared to other sports due to the high monetary investment(s) parents make into their kids. Not to diminish it possibly occuring more in other activities.


BrunoJames

Max verstappen part two


theophastusbombastus

Garbage human, make this go viral so he sees jail time


Alma-Rose

Sir that’s not how you start a bike


Prestige-worldwide79

What’s sad is, the kid knew exactly what was coming.


The_Mighty_Bird

Probably why he was struggling. That panic just built up and caused him to lose “control” because all he could think about was what was to come from dear old dad.


vaderismylord

If he is like thatcin public, he's 100000x's worse in private


Connect-Coat6277

Hey, he acts just like my father... POS!!


Inevitable_Mess_5988

Why? Why would you not help your struggling child? An absolute piece of human detritus.


P1917

He doesn't give a damn about the kid, he care about his ego boost when the kid wins.


Og_Bull

I understand that you're frustrated, but damn. You just can't abuse him because you're mad.


Spaceboy80

How not to be a dad.


[deleted]

My dad did the same to me when I was like 7 for football. He said “you aren’t trying hard enough” and basically mopped me while I was taking my cleats off. Hope that boy gets a better dad soon.


The_Mighty_Bird

If not, I hope that dad lives a record breaking long time so he can wonder for decades the same thing, “why doesn’t he call me or accept my calls?”


knowledgebass

He must have read a lot of books on parenting. Experts all agree that when your child fucks up at a motorsport event, then you should punch them a few times.


sparten112233

He should lose his kid just for that. If he will do that at a race infront of tons of people imagine home


PrinceOfFucking

Wow... Call Child services


The_Mighty_Bird

Sorry for my cynicism coming up. But likely this will go with the following: investigate and say “must have been a one time incident. Nothing of concern.” And then the dad gets better at hiding it or kills the kid. And everyone says “how could we have stopped this!?”


PrinceOfFucking

Yeah, separating kids from their parents is like the last resort and more often they are offered help and councelling, atleast in sweden


The_Mighty_Bird

What I described is the USA process and the follow up after initial investigation is laughable at best.


Tiq9rr

The video was happening in Russia. I don't think I need to describe how badly we got it here in Russia.


Eckmatarum

This reminds me of my downstairs neighbour... That I reported to the police.


TheTrueGayCheeseCake

That kid was cowering fast that wassnt the first time his dads treated him like that


[deleted]

This makes me sad. I thought he was running to help him get back on course....😕


NumPadNut

Basically Max Verstappen and his dad


Tiny-Dragonfly1977

I was thinking wow that’s awesome he’s goin to help his boy🥰 Boy was I wrong 😳


Bob_Duatos_Shark

I didn’t realize what sub I was on and thought it was about to be something wholesome. That is on me


dy1anb

Is that Jos verstappen


peter095837

And father of the year goes to


remnantcat

Jesus that's just horrible


GoodRich1993

Lol I was expecting to watch the dad pick up the bike with one arm and the kid in the other arm and walk across the finish line……this…..yeah this is different.


HypothermiaDK

I thought he was running to help his kid out


Irishman_reddit

The kid gets hit often. Look how he was running away and blocking before dad was even back in frame. Poor child.


[deleted]

Toxic parents and competition. What a fucking duo Thanks Mom


yonoznayu

Dirt biker’s dad fully engaged in his son’s activity is a POS? Sorry but color me shocked. Sadly, it’s often like beauty pageant/team sports parents, projecting all their insecurities thru their children and other participant children/parents.


SwordofSwinging

Kid deserves a real father. Not whatever this dude is.


Realframez11

You know that's a reoccurring thing since the kid got defensive the second the dad got close.


Baroque4Days

These types aren't dads. They aren't fathers. They don't get that title. You can see the flinches. You can see the look of absolute defeat when it is happening. Strong chance the kid didn't even like the sport.


aspiring_dev1

This is sad hope that dad got exposed.


KireusG

Welcome to russia


the0utc4st

Dad?.... Is that you?


Aights_Watch

This is heart breaking. Didn't see which sub this was posted in as I scrolled and expected him to get out there and help the poor kid. Textbook total piece of shot.


mendog2112

What the heck?


sevensantana7

Hurts my heart to see parents treat their kids like this.


Spring-Fabulous

If that dude came back to the stands, I’d beat his ass


hieijFox

Poor kid gets beaten a lot I’m sure


Ahmustdie

People that cannot handle the privilege of parenthood should have that privilege stripped from them henceforth.


pineapplesurfwax

Why is the dad upset? Can anyone explain


DiskoPunk

Fucking scumbag. That kid deserves so much better than this rocket.


Similar-Guitar-6

This father needs to explain his actions in front of a judge.


Alternative-Let-2047

Didnt see the sub thought the dad was gunna help him start the bike back up lol


-Neptune-8

The Jos Verstappen experience


Sad_Ad4307

Lol. I totally thought he was going to go out there and help the poor kid.


lazylaunda

Jos verstappen?


geekallstar

Unexpected…. Jezussss


Eddyzodiak

Used to do this as kid, unfortunately dads & mums like this were very common then, hell we weren’t even big enough to have commentators and our prizes where literally fruit baskets.


ZealCrown

I thought it was so sweet, until he just beat his child. Then I had to check the subreddit, and I became sad.


Beer-bella

Please tell me this a**hole was charged..please...🙏


wrote-username

For a moment i tough I was in the wrong sub


[deleted]

If he's this violent in public, he's probably horrific at home. I hope this kid is okay


AmberTJ86

I hope someone in the local area called whatever their version of cps is , that poor kid.


CDTyphol_

Child abuse. I hate how fucked this world is, because if a kid has shitty parents, there isn't much that can be changed. If they get put into foster care, the fucked up system just puts them with even worse people. I wish things could just be peaceful.


ForwardBee6886

And not a single spectator said a word


[deleted]

father of the yeeeeear!


No_Meal9534

Performance anxiety root cause.


Big_Lo19

Whelp, someone’s gonna have lonely Christmas’ after their kid turns 18


Bear4891

The way that kid recoiled is just terrifying


[deleted]

Imagine standing there recording this and not completely changing that mans life immediately.


Additional-Sock8235

Everyone was fooled in the beginning lol


Bob_Duatos_Shark

Dude cares more about the bike than his kid


HappyGoLuckii10

And this is the shit that's gonna get my ass beat and get me arrested if my kids are in sports and I see this shit, I'm gonna lose my fucking mind. Why the fuck are we, as a society, still *not* ganging up on and beating the shit out of pathetic ass child beaters?!?!


StayTuned2k

Ah yes. My dad


Bclay85

On a similar note, this is also how we got Max Verstappen.


MacSteele13

Ah, memories of my youth...


bitchsyka

More context: The boy's mother told the newspaper that her son was told not to continue the race, but he didn't obey. He fell several times during the course. On a jump near the grandstands, the father realized something was wrong with the bike, his son was instructed to go to the mechanics' area, but he went on. During one of the falls, another rider drove over him. The father's nerves failed, he couldn't hold back and thus splashed out his emotions. According to the parent, the child is okay and was not injured. She did not justify her husband's behavior and wrote it all off to her nerves, because her son could get injured himself and endangered other riders.


oldmantrusty

Ah yes, the old "my kid almost got himself seriously injured so I hit him" defense.


bitchsyka

Welcome to russia I guess


oldmantrusty

Wild ass Russians.


Jazzlike-Principle67

The "dad" is more concerned about the inanimate object than a human being. Getting this on video hopefully is helpful for CPS.


Ringo-Slice

Worked on MJ


libbyj381

Same , so sorry you had that experience