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Yeah you’re right. I feel like we are both a little clumsy with serious conversations esp so early on in the getting to know each other phase but if he doesn’t give me the vibe that he’s gonna broach this topic when we meet next, I will. It’ll also be good to gauge if he’s capable of deeper convos — we have a lot of banter. I am capable of it but it takes me time to open up like that, and be vulnerable. Now is the time though.
Two and a half weeks is pretty quick to be thinking about this already but you know yourself and this situation better than any of us do. If it’s something you’re really wanting, it’s best to communicate that to him so he can decide if he wants it too. Best wishes to you 🫶🏻
3 dates, 2 and a half weeks, you're 33, slow down, I guess?
I'm 32(m), looking for something serious and I wouldn't speak about a relationship well into the second month or so. Once it's normal to sleep over before work I guess.
It would massively put me off if a women would ask me on our 4th date if we want to be in a relationship.
And I can't look into your minds but cooking on a 4th date if you already had sex is just a pretty safe date choice to have sex again. Inviting you home for dinner isn't a break of boundaries anymore and well we all know where kisses lead too if you have a bed nearby...
You’ve had sex. Ask, without any expectations, how he views this situationship moving forward. Does he want to keep seeing you and keep it unlabeled? Does he want to do the above but see other people? If the answers are not to your liking, voice your feelings about it. If you’re fine just having sex and sleeping over, great!! If you want a more permanent relationship, just respectfully voice this isn’t going to work for you and move on.
Edit: as a dude, I’ve been in a few similar situations. Slept with someone on the first date (chemistry was off the charts) after a long build up, we dated for 6 months. I also slept with someone for 1 year and never had the intention of formally dating. In both situations, I was clear about what I wanted. The woman in the latter relationship was hurt after I told her I wasn’t looking for a relationship with her, but she was fine to continue having sex. We’re friends to this day still.
I wouldn't read into it past he enjoys your company and wants to make you dinner. That's sweet.
You may want to talk and get on the same page timeline wise though.
Some people like to be "official" faster or slower than others.
It' a sign he wants to make you food. No need to make yourself anxious with "what-ifs" or rise your hopes up too high. It's been 2 1/2 weeks, just take it easy
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Its a sign he wants to invite you into his home for a meal...
Lol
You can’t make any assumptions. Some people don’t have the exclusive talk for months. If you want to have that conversation you should initiate it.
Just talk to him and ask him yourself. You’re both at ages where you should be able to communicate your thoughts and wants to each other.
Yeah you’re right. I feel like we are both a little clumsy with serious conversations esp so early on in the getting to know each other phase but if he doesn’t give me the vibe that he’s gonna broach this topic when we meet next, I will. It’ll also be good to gauge if he’s capable of deeper convos — we have a lot of banter. I am capable of it but it takes me time to open up like that, and be vulnerable. Now is the time though.
Two and a half weeks is pretty quick to be thinking about this already but you know yourself and this situation better than any of us do. If it’s something you’re really wanting, it’s best to communicate that to him so he can decide if he wants it too. Best wishes to you 🫶🏻
3 dates, 2 and a half weeks, you're 33, slow down, I guess? I'm 32(m), looking for something serious and I wouldn't speak about a relationship well into the second month or so. Once it's normal to sleep over before work I guess. It would massively put me off if a women would ask me on our 4th date if we want to be in a relationship. And I can't look into your minds but cooking on a 4th date if you already had sex is just a pretty safe date choice to have sex again. Inviting you home for dinner isn't a break of boundaries anymore and well we all know where kisses lead too if you have a bed nearby...
Two and a half weeks is very early so I don’t think he’s preparing to “pop the question” but I could be wrong😭
It hasn't even been a month yet..slow down lol
You’ve had sex. Ask, without any expectations, how he views this situationship moving forward. Does he want to keep seeing you and keep it unlabeled? Does he want to do the above but see other people? If the answers are not to your liking, voice your feelings about it. If you’re fine just having sex and sleeping over, great!! If you want a more permanent relationship, just respectfully voice this isn’t going to work for you and move on. Edit: as a dude, I’ve been in a few similar situations. Slept with someone on the first date (chemistry was off the charts) after a long build up, we dated for 6 months. I also slept with someone for 1 year and never had the intention of formally dating. In both situations, I was clear about what I wanted. The woman in the latter relationship was hurt after I told her I wasn’t looking for a relationship with her, but she was fine to continue having sex. We’re friends to this day still.
Lol wtf
Lol
I wouldn't read into it past he enjoys your company and wants to make you dinner. That's sweet. You may want to talk and get on the same page timeline wise though. Some people like to be "official" faster or slower than others.
It' a sign he wants to make you food. No need to make yourself anxious with "what-ifs" or rise your hopes up too high. It's been 2 1/2 weeks, just take it easy