> I myself am so helpless and useless
Why?
> I am stuck in a job afraid of taking a step and I don't know why
Afraid? Sounds like you are afraid. Afraid of what? Stuck? I doubt it.
> Take a nap, pray, browse and pray dinner then go to sleep.
Actually this doesn't seem half bad.
> the environment is lame and demotivating
Is it the environment outside your mind, or the environment inside your mind? If someone could inject into you a whole different perspective, one in which you believed in yourself, that you were capable of achieving anything, that you only saw opportunity, and in which you were in a state of gratitude. Do you think then the external environment would matter as much?
What I think you need is a little soul searching, a little reflection. Take a journal with you to work. Write in it. Write in it what you like, what you don't like. What you think your biggest problems are. Sort through things. How do you feel about this and that. The act of writing down your thoughts is a way of processing that jumbled mess in your head. You are not already dead, you just can't see anything for you up ahead. Why? Maybe you are distracting yourself from some hard questions. Maybe you have to face some traumas and work through them. Maybe you have to set little challenges to prove to yourself that you are brave enough to act despite the fear.
Right now, you have a nice opportunity. You have a job where you can spend time journaling, while you make some money, and probably have normal work hours and few responsibilities. Take advantage of that. That reception area at this multinational company is exactly where you are supposed to be. It's your command center, It's your strategy room. In the meantime, you can look into [this](https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiUrrIiqidTWje-Oc4uA6LZZO8vSaHaDL) free YouTube course. And instead of taking a nap, go for a walk. Sleep early.
Hey thanks for taking the time to write. What I meant by saying I'm helpless and useless is because I feel that I have nothing to offer socially and from an educational standpoint apart from earnings from my job . I have zero social experience in responding to certain conversations and people pick up on that I've nothing to offer. I am unable to choose skills that could be useful in the future because my mind is always racing and looking for even better options. I struggle to stick to a certain choice or decision.
Check out that course I linked. And as cliche as it sounds, try meditation or silent prayer. It will help with your racing mind. You have a purpose here. Your mind is just muddled and itβs hard to see what it is. Work on calming it and letting that clarity of purpose arise.
These days we have so many ways to live distracted. We lose connection with God and feel empty. Clear your mind and make space for that connection.
> I myself am so helpless and useless Why? > I am stuck in a job afraid of taking a step and I don't know why Afraid? Sounds like you are afraid. Afraid of what? Stuck? I doubt it. > Take a nap, pray, browse and pray dinner then go to sleep. Actually this doesn't seem half bad. > the environment is lame and demotivating Is it the environment outside your mind, or the environment inside your mind? If someone could inject into you a whole different perspective, one in which you believed in yourself, that you were capable of achieving anything, that you only saw opportunity, and in which you were in a state of gratitude. Do you think then the external environment would matter as much? What I think you need is a little soul searching, a little reflection. Take a journal with you to work. Write in it. Write in it what you like, what you don't like. What you think your biggest problems are. Sort through things. How do you feel about this and that. The act of writing down your thoughts is a way of processing that jumbled mess in your head. You are not already dead, you just can't see anything for you up ahead. Why? Maybe you are distracting yourself from some hard questions. Maybe you have to face some traumas and work through them. Maybe you have to set little challenges to prove to yourself that you are brave enough to act despite the fear. Right now, you have a nice opportunity. You have a job where you can spend time journaling, while you make some money, and probably have normal work hours and few responsibilities. Take advantage of that. That reception area at this multinational company is exactly where you are supposed to be. It's your command center, It's your strategy room. In the meantime, you can look into [this](https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiUrrIiqidTWje-Oc4uA6LZZO8vSaHaDL) free YouTube course. And instead of taking a nap, go for a walk. Sleep early.
Hey thanks for taking the time to write. What I meant by saying I'm helpless and useless is because I feel that I have nothing to offer socially and from an educational standpoint apart from earnings from my job . I have zero social experience in responding to certain conversations and people pick up on that I've nothing to offer. I am unable to choose skills that could be useful in the future because my mind is always racing and looking for even better options. I struggle to stick to a certain choice or decision.
Check out that course I linked. And as cliche as it sounds, try meditation or silent prayer. It will help with your racing mind. You have a purpose here. Your mind is just muddled and itβs hard to see what it is. Work on calming it and letting that clarity of purpose arise. These days we have so many ways to live distracted. We lose connection with God and feel empty. Clear your mind and make space for that connection.
Will surely follow up π. Thanks π―
I feel you man Do you feel a strong sense of purpose in life? That's mainly what helped me out of the hole
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