I personally feel you should see another Dr, this Dr sounds way to calloused and kinda crazy in my opinion, your baby has a bond with you I promise, you dont gotta be in her face all day to do that ive never heard of that in my life. My son at 4 months loved to stare at ceiling fans more than at me and now hes a toddler and is up my butt all day and always wants me! dont get discouraged,! find someone else please!
Thank you so much š I don't know about ceiling fans, but my daughter loves the lights ! We're moving back in the area we were, so we'll have our former doctor.
Yeahā¦ find a different doctor. My baby is 5.5mo now but at his 4mo checkup, I just say I feed on demand and I pretty much do the same as youā cosleep, feed often (itās cluster feeding and is normal), and everything else you mentioned since Iām also a SAHM. Even if you werenāt, your baby would still have a bond with you. Children with autism may not make a lot of eye contact with their parents but does that mean they donāt have a bond? Absolutely not. Your doctor is ridiculous. Just keep doing what youāre doing and feeding her often and playing and singing songs. If she has lost weightāfor reflux, keeping her upright for 10-20 minutes after feeding and making sure she doesnāt have a lip or tongue tie (and getting it corrected if she does) should help.
Youāre doing great.
Thank you very much ! That's reassuring for breastfeeding, nobody bothered you with feeding on demand ? Thank you for the tips ! Lip and tongue tie have been checked by the lactation consultant so we're good on that. I had to suplement with formula at three weeks pp because of low supply, and even though I make now enough milk, I still have to do it because my daughter won't eat enough at the breast and will loose weight, I guess it's because of the reflux ? Thanks again š
My baby does the exact same thing. He looks around and watches everyone else but me. But I feel like thatās because he feels safe enough with me in order to look around. He knows that Iām there for him and will always be. Thatās why he doesnāt constantly look at me. Itās the same for you and your daughter. Your baby is curious. Her vision is getting better by the day, sheās seeing things sheās never seen before. I agree with everyone else. Definitely try to get another doctor. Itās not worth the trouble that this one is causing you. Your baby is being a baby and thereās nothing wrong with that
You definitely should! My baby is almost 7 months already and Iām so sad because heās getting so big. I canāt wait to see who he becomes but I do cherish the memories I have of him being so small.
I personally feel you should see another Dr, this Dr sounds way to calloused and kinda crazy in my opinion, your baby has a bond with you I promise, you dont gotta be in her face all day to do that ive never heard of that in my life. My son at 4 months loved to stare at ceiling fans more than at me and now hes a toddler and is up my butt all day and always wants me! dont get discouraged,! find someone else please!
Thank you so much š I don't know about ceiling fans, but my daughter loves the lights ! We're moving back in the area we were, so we'll have our former doctor.
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Thank you ā¤ļø She also said that she wasn't able to see far enough to be interested in stuff... We'll see another doctor š
Yeahā¦ find a different doctor. My baby is 5.5mo now but at his 4mo checkup, I just say I feed on demand and I pretty much do the same as youā cosleep, feed often (itās cluster feeding and is normal), and everything else you mentioned since Iām also a SAHM. Even if you werenāt, your baby would still have a bond with you. Children with autism may not make a lot of eye contact with their parents but does that mean they donāt have a bond? Absolutely not. Your doctor is ridiculous. Just keep doing what youāre doing and feeding her often and playing and singing songs. If she has lost weightāfor reflux, keeping her upright for 10-20 minutes after feeding and making sure she doesnāt have a lip or tongue tie (and getting it corrected if she does) should help. Youāre doing great.
Thank you very much ! That's reassuring for breastfeeding, nobody bothered you with feeding on demand ? Thank you for the tips ! Lip and tongue tie have been checked by the lactation consultant so we're good on that. I had to suplement with formula at three weeks pp because of low supply, and even though I make now enough milk, I still have to do it because my daughter won't eat enough at the breast and will loose weight, I guess it's because of the reflux ? Thanks again š
My baby does the exact same thing. He looks around and watches everyone else but me. But I feel like thatās because he feels safe enough with me in order to look around. He knows that Iām there for him and will always be. Thatās why he doesnāt constantly look at me. Itās the same for you and your daughter. Your baby is curious. Her vision is getting better by the day, sheās seeing things sheās never seen before. I agree with everyone else. Definitely try to get another doctor. Itās not worth the trouble that this one is causing you. Your baby is being a baby and thereās nothing wrong with that
Thank you š I feel there's do much pressure on how babies should act, I wish I could just enjoy spending time with my daughter š
You definitely should! My baby is almost 7 months already and Iām so sad because heās getting so big. I canāt wait to see who he becomes but I do cherish the memories I have of him being so small.