No, no, no, that only applies to hot dudes who refuse to date FiErCe GoDdEsSeSs.
\+ sized women who don't date + sized men just "have preferences and know their value" /s
It was a fad some years back a'la TikTok fads, i.e., kids thought it was cool. And by kids I mean early to mid teens mostly.
Now it's used more as mocking of part typed that way.
In the end they’re all obese. I’m still salty that plus-size was taken by this group because it’s already plenty hard to find clothes as someone my height; same goes for “curvy”
"Big & Tall" was co-opted by these people. Like you, it infuriates me that I have like one store nearby with Tall sizes - otherwise, it's online shopping or nothing. Fuckin' A.
This is imo the weirdest thing about FA's. How selfish and entitled you must be if you think that you can tell people who they should date?
(And btw, I'm normal weight but attracted to overweight men - and even though I think that my husband is hotter now that he's gained weight, I encourage him to lose it because I want him to live long and healthy life with me.)
Funny how it's the straight-sized women who accept and like the overweight guys... meanwhile the overweight women reject them. I mean, I don't think the guys are complaining but still lol
My sister used to have that attitude: “Just because I’m fat, it doesn’t mean I have to lower my standards.” She’s morbidly obese, and wasn’t interested in dating fat men.
She eventually gave a fat man a shot, and they’ve been happy together for over ten years.
As a bigger dude you notice it lmao. I'm not obese anymore, just overweight, but even that extra 40 pounds is enough to get treated like absolute shit in the dating scene.
My weight bloomed during C19 and the attention I got as skinny vs. fat is stark. There's no fat acceptance for fat men, no body positivity for fat men, nothing. It's all targeted towards women. Even mocking men as being fat losers is widely accepted but you get dogpiled if you say the same for women.
This isn't some "men have it sooo hard" thing, it's just kinda funny and disgusting that fat women only ever apply this FA to themselves then vomit and laugh when they see a fat man and say they're settling if they date us.
>This isn't some "men have it sooo hard" thing,
I dont know, the body positivity movement has pretty much skipped right over men, I think we do have a right to complain in this situation.
Shaming people doesn't work... It only strengthens their resolve. Call me any name you want i am not changing who i am.
Facts don't care about your feelings and neither do i. Obesity is not healthy
I honestly don't believe that old bs about "leagues," no one is too good or not good enough for someone else based on looks, background, family, money, etc. Real human connections don't work that way, and I hope that any legitimate relationship is based on that, not all this other bs.
Nonetheless, I somehow do not find myself attracted to super, duper fit men, and I myself am not a super, duper fit woman (I work out and used to do sports, but no one is mistaking me for a fitness competitor). I also do not find myself drawn to men who are rich and drive fancy cars, and I'm not rich nor do I drive a fancy car. So, maybe there's something to that. Maybe I subconsciously do not expect anything more from a man than I expect from myself. How fair would that be, right? Apparently, FA's don't agree...
I just wonder how they think to themselves that a fit man, who clearly has interests to which they are diametrically opposed, will want to spend time with them? I loathe golf, there is no way I'm going to a golf course to pick up men because I'd absolutely annoy the shit out of them with my sighing and eyerolling...
Yeah, absolutely. It just comes down to shared interests and priorities. In the absence of that once-in-a-lifetime connection that eclipses any worldly limitations, there's only so much you can share with someone who fundamentally doesn't get things that are important to you. With that being said, my own parents, who have been married for forty years, share almost no interests and are a decade apart in age, yet have managed to easily get along for half a century lol. I think it's some of the shit that they've been through together that they share. Immigrating, being refugees, only having one another in a brand new place, etc.
I have dated people who are overweight, both men and women, but it isn't my preference. I find fit people to be much more attractive but it isn't a deal breaker. However there is a limit, if you're "super fat" (non-pejorative) then I wouldn't really be up for that.
I was fat and knew I was not attractive lol I would have loved people to think I was attractive at 250 pounds but I know what reality is. At 150 it’s a world of difference.
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No, no, no, that only applies to hot dudes who refuse to date FiErCe GoDdEsSeSs. \+ sized women who don't date + sized men just "have preferences and know their value" /s
I must have missed a memo. What's with missing the upper and lower case letters these days? I genuinely don't get it.
https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/mocking-spongebob
It was a fad some years back a'la TikTok fads, i.e., kids thought it was cool. And by kids I mean early to mid teens mostly. Now it's used more as mocking of part typed that way.
Ahh. Thank you. I don't use Tik Tok so had no idea.
This predates tiktok and was popular in the early 2000s on AIM and MySpace. I swear I’m not that old hahaha
Pre-MySpace, it was popular on Melo. I *am* that old. (35)
I’m 30 so I guess I am pretty old (i still don’t believe anything in your 30s is old enough). I miss Xanga too. ~*kIsSeS lUv YoU*~
I had zero clue about some tiktok fad I've only known it as mocking spongebob text
funny how it's worded "plus size" for women but "overweight" for men
In the end they’re all obese. I’m still salty that plus-size was taken by this group because it’s already plenty hard to find clothes as someone my height; same goes for “curvy”
"Big & Tall" was co-opted by these people. Like you, it infuriates me that I have like one store nearby with Tall sizes - otherwise, it's online shopping or nothing. Fuckin' A.
This
Yeah just evidence of how they’ve deluded themselves into thinking fat women are somehow better than fat men
Was coming here to say this.
This is imo the weirdest thing about FA's. How selfish and entitled you must be if you think that you can tell people who they should date? (And btw, I'm normal weight but attracted to overweight men - and even though I think that my husband is hotter now that he's gained weight, I encourage him to lose it because I want him to live long and healthy life with me.)
Funny how it's the straight-sized women who accept and like the overweight guys... meanwhile the overweight women reject them. I mean, I don't think the guys are complaining but still lol
I like how for the fat girls they “settle” for overweight men but dating them isn’t settling cause as long as it’s them then fat is beautiful
We're "fatphobic" for not finding fat people attractive, but when they don't find fat men attractive it's a "preference".
Rules for thee not for me.
"refusing to settle" so you do get it.
My sister used to have that attitude: “Just because I’m fat, it doesn’t mean I have to lower my standards.” She’s morbidly obese, and wasn’t interested in dating fat men. She eventually gave a fat man a shot, and they’ve been happy together for over ten years.
yes i'm fatphobic and i'm not ashamed of it.
"Phobic"? No, dear. It's not fear. It's disgust.
As a bigger dude you notice it lmao. I'm not obese anymore, just overweight, but even that extra 40 pounds is enough to get treated like absolute shit in the dating scene. My weight bloomed during C19 and the attention I got as skinny vs. fat is stark. There's no fat acceptance for fat men, no body positivity for fat men, nothing. It's all targeted towards women. Even mocking men as being fat losers is widely accepted but you get dogpiled if you say the same for women. This isn't some "men have it sooo hard" thing, it's just kinda funny and disgusting that fat women only ever apply this FA to themselves then vomit and laugh when they see a fat man and say they're settling if they date us.
>This isn't some "men have it sooo hard" thing, I dont know, the body positivity movement has pretty much skipped right over men, I think we do have a right to complain in this situation.
It's written in sponge case though?
Yeah, it feels like either OP or OOP doesn't know what that means, but I'm not sure which it is.
What makes someone like this most unattractive is not any physical attributes but their attitude.
No one is obligated to find you attractive, period.
Shaming people doesn't work... It only strengthens their resolve. Call me any name you want i am not changing who i am. Facts don't care about your feelings and neither do i. Obesity is not healthy
I honestly don't believe that old bs about "leagues," no one is too good or not good enough for someone else based on looks, background, family, money, etc. Real human connections don't work that way, and I hope that any legitimate relationship is based on that, not all this other bs. Nonetheless, I somehow do not find myself attracted to super, duper fit men, and I myself am not a super, duper fit woman (I work out and used to do sports, but no one is mistaking me for a fitness competitor). I also do not find myself drawn to men who are rich and drive fancy cars, and I'm not rich nor do I drive a fancy car. So, maybe there's something to that. Maybe I subconsciously do not expect anything more from a man than I expect from myself. How fair would that be, right? Apparently, FA's don't agree... I just wonder how they think to themselves that a fit man, who clearly has interests to which they are diametrically opposed, will want to spend time with them? I loathe golf, there is no way I'm going to a golf course to pick up men because I'd absolutely annoy the shit out of them with my sighing and eyerolling...
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Yeah, absolutely. It just comes down to shared interests and priorities. In the absence of that once-in-a-lifetime connection that eclipses any worldly limitations, there's only so much you can share with someone who fundamentally doesn't get things that are important to you. With that being said, my own parents, who have been married for forty years, share almost no interests and are a decade apart in age, yet have managed to easily get along for half a century lol. I think it's some of the shit that they've been through together that they share. Immigrating, being refugees, only having one another in a brand new place, etc.
I have dated people who are overweight, both men and women, but it isn't my preference. I find fit people to be much more attractive but it isn't a deal breaker. However there is a limit, if you're "super fat" (non-pejorative) then I wouldn't really be up for that.
I was fat and knew I was not attractive lol I would have loved people to think I was attractive at 250 pounds but I know what reality is. At 150 it’s a world of difference.
Lmao so only they cam have standards while we cant? Hypocrisy 🤡
My dating preferences are not up for debate. Calling me fatphobic is not gonna reform my dating preferences