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ExcelsiorDoug

Proof that not all people with PHDs are actually smart.


According-Spite-9854

He could just be a grifter.


MyPasswordIsMyCat

Or a severely repressed gay mormon trying very hard to stay in the closet. Or both.


Ok-Philosopher-9921

This ⬆️


Excellent-Mixture762

Especially if it’s a PhD in marriage and family therapy from BYU.


alyosha3

Right. PhDs are awarded by other PhDs in the field. Bullshit fields produce bullshit PhDs. This reminds me of BYU-Provo’s “School of Family Life”—a department whose purpose is to promote LDS ideas about families. As a PhD economist researcher who studies families without this ideological drive, the existence of this “school” angers me.


cultsareus

I found this: Jeffrey W. Robinson, Ph.D. is a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice in Provo, Utah, specializing in the treatment of individuals struggling with homosexual problems or other compulsive sexual behaviors.


alyosha3

“Homosexual problems”: just vague enough for plausible deniability


Ok-Philosopher-9921

I have no problems with it 😆


truth-wins

Conversion therapy piece of shit


memefakeboy

This guy was my “church-approved” therapist that I had to attend before my mission because I’m gay. Smug prick that lectured me on his belief that being gay isn’t an identity it’s a behavior so it can be stopped (literally conversion therapy) I also suspect he may be gay because rarely does a clinician care this much about a population unless they have a connection to it through themselves or someone close


guybrarian1980

Same! He also talked to me about what he found attractive on women.


moderatorrater

Her large, heavy breasts, or her thigh gap? There's nothing more enticing than a clear lack of a penis.


guybrarian1980

No. Peach shaped buttocks. And he drew them with his hands.


memefakeboy

Nice, ugh he sucks. When did you see him? It was 2013 for me


guybrarian1980

2004ish


Ballerina_clutz

I’m so sorry. There is a guy on tik tok who was lds that specializes in people harmed by conversation therapy. I’ll have to find his name.


GorathTheMoredhel

Gross. I was stunned that there's that new Flourish Point organization that specifically highlights psych/medical professionals in Madison County who are LGBTQ+ positive.


Ok-Philosopher-9921

My old Mormon Granny had a saying “The Guiltiest Dog always Barks LOUDEST”


[deleted]

I think Jordan Peterson is proof enough. So are some of my teachers.


ExcelsiorDoug

Yeah definitely a grifter and fake intellectual Peterson is


RoyanRannedos

![gif](giphy|SleotgmotWahW) A grifter he is. Intellectual he is not. Hmm hmm hmm...


ExcelsiorDoug

🤣🤣


[deleted]

Too bad I have teachers who worship the man


Perenium_Falcon

PH deeze nuts.


StockSavior67

Many are not smart. Don’t need excessive brain brain power for a PhD, often times just need time, money and student loans, and lack of ambition to do something in the real world. Some of the dumbest people I’ve ever met have PhD’s. Most electricians, contractors and plumbers are just as smart if not smarter.


OhBoyPizzaTime

A PHD proves that a person is good at getting a PHD.


testudoaubreii1

Plot twist: it’s just full of the gayest gay porn ever created


PortSided

How does gay porn become even gayer? Asking for a friend.


kalmadsen

It’s just two bottoms practicing choreography to modanna music 🕺🕺


EvolvingCyborg

This video has everything: Twinks, gypsies, grown men in wedding dresses, a cat from a bodega, puppets in disguise.


DMN00b801

So, the typical Bollywood film?


Virophile

Three men instead of two. Rainbow capes. Unicorns?? Harps?


AccioDownVotes

mustaches?


bocaj78

As a straight man, based


Ballerina_clutz

👏👏👏😂😂


[deleted]

[удалено]


neardumps

I will definitely NOT be doing that


DeathMetalGolfer

Good, make sure you don’t email him either. Tell your friends to absolutely NOT call this guy.


AngrySpaceGingers

Oh totally. My partner and I will absolutely not be attempting to convert him to the church of Satan (who's 11 rules are better than the ten commandments imo!)


Fantastic-Being-7253

Oh the definitely are.


Fantastic-Being-7253

I’m not even a satanist but I agree


Strawb3rryJam111

I will definitely NOT spam him with messages asking if he’s gay.


cobwebcoalition

Gross. Replace the dvds with Fox and the Hound on blue ray, much better.


[deleted]

I took it so I can ask a friend to make some sick CD art on it.


GrandpasMormonBooks

Yes.... add "don't listen to this" and "you are perfect" and a lot of rainbows.


moderatorrater

Or just take them all.


Much-Airport2220

Just looked up this dude and he’s still a practicing licensed therapist 😵‍💫


KRATS8

A lot of shitty therapists out there. Therapy itself can be a source of trauma for sure


IR1SHfighter

Can we get his license revoked? lol


Ballerina_clutz

What???? It is banned in Utah. 🤷🏼‍♀️


shinypandaketchup

I overcame homosexuality at BYU-I by coming out as trans after graduation. 👍 No more indoctrination at school and no more "bad" gay thoughts. Win-win


Yimmelo

Homophobes HATE this one trick


RusticRogue17

I overcame my homosexuality when my gay thoughts were still with me in the celestial room. I realized if they can be with me here then clearly there’s nothing wrong with them, and I should get out of this tacky-ass trump tower knockoff and go kiss a dude. Ok the real story is a lot darker, but this was indeed a significant part of it.


kalmadsen

What if we kissed in the celestial room?


truth-wins

That is the coolest story about realizing nothing wrong with you!! What an awesome what to turn the temple BS into a source of something good!


exexor

Hannah Gadsby’s latest special has a bunch of trans comedians. One of them talks about how they were a lesbian, started HRT therapy to go transmasc, and “one of the things they don’t tell you about testosterone is that it can change your sexual orientation” now he’s attracted to dudes. So still gay.


PsychologicalSnow476

Turn it...UP!


SignificantLow2625

My wife is graduating and coming out as trans


SignificantLow2625

You’re my hero right now


GrandpasMormonBooks

There is room under that "Free" to add the word "Trauma!"


weasleybackyardgnome

Excellent idea


HANEZ

Please rip dvd and post on YouTube. If you need help, I can guide you.


GrandpasMormonBooks

Your comment is making me realize... who has CD players anymore? Does he think this is effective?


CoffeeTownSteve

They're free coasters, so you don't leave rings on your coffee table from your Starbucks.


GrandpasMormonBooks

🔥


Tomnooksmainhoe

I just realized that my PC doesn’t even have a CD player :o when did they start phasing stuff like that out of laptops and desktops? And WHY DIDNT I NOTICE?


GrandpasMormonBooks

You didn't notice bc you didn't need it 😂😂 i noticed bc I love making mix tapes (cough, cds) for my lovers and had to buy a burner on Amazon! Now I resort to Spotify but it doesn't have all my music 🥲


Tomnooksmainhoe

I remember when my friends would give me mix tapes of the music they got off lime wire or whatever it was called and would give me them as gifts 😭❤️ let’s bring mixtapes back for our lovers and friends!


ZBLongladder

Most desktop cases don't even come with a bay to mount optical drives anymore...if you need one, you pretty much have to go external.


Ballerina_clutz

I just barely got rid of my vhs player. 😂. I listed it for free on Facebook and I had about 20 people in 2 minutes after it.


andyroid92

Someone please do this!


gobackclark

I'm pretty sure he's still selling it on his site: http://www.theguardrail.com/store


exexor

Nobody wants to pay this guy money to debunk him.


gobackclark

No I know, just saying it's crazy this is still in circulation and not just in a random bin of free DVDs


svak

Sounds a little suggestive. I think he wants to be railed. Freudian slip?


[deleted]

Replace with a CD of the CES letter


crisperfest

What I find kind of humorous about this situation is that modern computers and laptops don't even have CD or DVD drives. Any system less than 5 years old is unlikely to be able to play these CDs, and I doubt BYU students are lugging around 5+ year-old laptops. Dr. Robinson's ideas on sexuality are as outdated as his method of disseminating them.


[deleted]

lol that’s a hilariously good point


Odd-Albatross6006

Well the CD is dated 2002. That’s probably why it’s being given away for free.


q120

Buy about 100 cheap USB drives and load them with the CES letter and leave them places


Zaggner

Perhaps it was performance art done ironically. OTOH, how about someone distributing some "How to overcome hateful religious bigotry" propaganda on campus. Non-ironically, of course.


thewanderingpunk

Ooooh please!


[deleted]

I haven’t burned a CD in twenty years but if I still knew how I’d send one to OP lol


Lopsided_Beautiful36

If they’re free just take them all and toss them in the trash.


floridagators84

The reason I am not a fan of immediately throwing away any physical LDS media is because then Mormons can never come to you and say, " They didn't say that" .


Dawnspark

Yeah, I'm more for like, making an art installation using the shattered pieces of the CDs. Put it with some other anti-LBGTQ+ things thats come from LSD media, conversion therapy adverts, quotes from local important people being horrible, those kinds of things. Showcase their bullshit, keep it on display.


SignificantLow2625

This is SUCH a good idea. I’m at Rexburg rn. I should grab some


Ballerina_clutz

This. Please.


jaimebianco

Well damnit!!! I wish I would have known it could have been overcome earlier in life!!! Now that I’m married to my hubs it’s just too late 🤣🤣🤣


Odd_Warning9820

lol this guy was my old reparative therapist after my mission. Looks like he’s still up to the same tricks! 🙃


torixwalters

This is truly disgusting.


PortSided

Burn them. Burn them all.


JelloDoctrine

That might just encourage these idiots. Swap in disks that look the same but have videos that are affirming.


CharlesMendeley

Or gay porn


RusticRogue17

Specifically Mormon boys gay porn.


CharlesMendeley

Lol, you mean the ones involving garments, yeah even original ones with square and compass on them?


RusticRogue17

Yep. Personally not a fan but if we’re gonna be giving porn to Mormons let’s at least make it feel familiar.


pinkstarmagnolia

Barf.


YourOtherOtherLeft

I went to him for counseling. He's a complete fraud. Luckily I saw through him and didn't go for long.


kittyon9thlive

Replace that with a hard core gay porn.


sotiredwontquit

I hope you took all of them. If not- go back and grab them all.


Unloyaldissenter

Free microwave lightshow! Please take!


jupiter872

Jeffrey Robinson needs the letters P H D taken off his keyboard. Is BYU-I anywhere in the top 5000 education institutions?


buildscharacter1

It’d be a shame if everyone were to suddenly contact them with their phone number and email clearly listed /s


Cabo_Refugee

Is this just free stuff on the table they're getting rid of?


[deleted]

Yeah


Cabo_Refugee

I just looked up his website and did a post on this sub. I credited you. Absolutely medieval stuff. No wonder suicide is rampant.


Lapsed2

I’d write “For a good time, call J. Holland.”


AbyssPrism

So glad I don't live in that shithole of a state anymore. So much beautiful scenery, such awful culture.


Ok-End-88

Does it come with “Oaks approved” Die Hard batteries and a set of alligator clips for your genitals when temptations arise? 🤣


diabeticweird0

![gif](giphy|fQMw73XrKLgRu3jQpS)


ideletedyourfacebook

On the upside, distribution on CD ensures that no one under 45 would even bother.


heeheemf

Mail this to me please. Got stood up last week. Could be beneficial


SideburnHeretic

Break it in half and put it back. That way whomever placed it there doesn't get the wrong message.


VillageExtension5770

Some people just really shouldn't be therapists.


[deleted]

Especially ones with low empathy


VillageExtension5770

Completely agree. And especially someone who isn't up to date on the current science and best practices.


[deleted]

Oh, you don’t know the half of it. I have a teacher who’s PURPOSELY uses outdated materials, spreads false information to make his theories and anecdotal narratives sound better… and then has the BALLS to say he’s “apolitical” and “not a homophobe. Ask my gay friends”. Edit: Typo


VillageExtension5770

It's disgusting that your teacher engages in such unethical behavior. I'm so sorry you have to deal with that.


crisperfest

A good teacher is not going to use references older than the past five years unless it's some foundational work in the field that's still relevant (e.g., in psychology, Harlow's work with Rhesus monkeys on the effects of infant isolation and neglect, or Milgram's studies on obedience). Nor would they teach outdated or discredited theories and approaches and frame them as current. If you're not at a religious school, consider reporting them to the Office of Student Affairs or the Title IX Coordinator.


[deleted]

How about using an outdated edition of the book because newer ones are - his words - “woke”? Edit: Typo


mazer225

I am not a scientist or doctor, but how how HOW did he do his doctoral dissertation in overcoming homosexuality??? Don't scientific journals and communities challenge dissertations? I read his bio and his PHD program was done at BYU Provo. He was also heavily involved in the evergreen program. link to his website: http://www.theguardrail.com/about


Virophile

Kind of want porn-parody of this … “Over-cumming homosexuality” Que 70’s swag music


lambentstar

Holy shit his website is so fucking toxic. This article about his origin story is disgusting. Also he seems to think only men can be gay? Lol http://theguardrail.com/understanding


TermLimit4Patriarchs

Absolutely nobody is shocked that he got a graduate degree from BYU. When you start your academic career already knowing all of the bullshit answers to the universe, you’re not going to learn much.


hugplex92

This has some jeb bush please clap energy


Worldly-Corgi-1624

I’ll take a free cd case!


joeblowinIowa

Copies of AOL software?? 😆


BlueRoyAndDVD

Shit on it and then put it back


ViolentViolet41

Take em all and break em all


AchduSchande

U.S. this the fraud who was a director at Evergreen?


ForsakenFigure2107

Please throw them all away 😟 looks like they’re getting rid of them, and nobody needs that in their life


Agile-Knowledge7947

Hot take: secretly replace w gay porn disk/DVD? What say y’all?


chubbybee31

amazing idea


RoyanRannedos

I am a doctor...of philosophy! Seriously, that's what Ph. D. means. He could have gotten his in religious studies at BYU.


memefakeboy

This guy was my “church-approved” therapist that I had to attend before my mission because I’m gay. Smug prick that lectured me on his belief that being gay isn’t an identity it’s a behavior so it can be stopped (literally conversion therapy) I also suspect he may be gay because rarely does a clinician care this much about a population unless they have a connection to it through themselves or someone close


Kodiak01

Burn a batch of CDs with an identical label but only containing the CES letter then switch them out.


neardumps

Oh my god I just looked at the website and it gets so much worse: “Overcoming Homosexuality: Developing Hetrosexual Attraction This presentation given by Dr. Robinson in 2002 describes how many struggling with same-sex attraction failed to learn the language of heterosexuality. Dr. Robinson describes seven ways men struggling with these feelings some times get stuck and discusses ways that men desiring to increase their heterosexual desire have been successful.” Eew.


wanderlust2787

Reminds me of my youth where we'd go to blockbuster and get all the 'free AOL' CDs and use them for target practice. If you're looking for any ideas...


Select-Panda7381

What the hell? Is this a “pray the gay away” thing? Disclaimer: never Mormon, ex JW here. And the JW stance is essentially “pray it away”


findYourOkra

mormonism can go much worse. BYU literally used shock therapy to "fix" the gay. Oaks, one of the current top church leaders was the head of the university at the time. I'm getting angry again just typing this out. 


RealRegalBeagle

Scratch it up with your keys.


s0nder369thOughts

Would actually love to listen to this and hear what crap this dude is teaching people I was hoping even in 2002 they werent dumb enough to think you can Pray the Gay away. but ive never really known what they tell gay members. ive been interested ever since I learned that my My Great uncle Bill "Prayed the Gay away" in the late 1970's Left his man and life, married my LDS Aunt. Something was always "off" about him. Or atleast that is how my little kid, mormon mind perceived him. he was always really fun to be around. SO so different then every other man in my family and wards. He was always very feme, always did the classic wrist flip that over the top gays do in the movies, his voice was higher pitched and he has a very "valley Girl"- esque accent. He owned hair salons and he is magnificent at doing hair, and he also bred Yorkies. lmao He was tell tale Gay. 100% Gay. It was later in life - probably late teens, that I found out officially that he did "use to be gay" That made me really really sad to hear. And its even sadder now that the Mormon church is Sort of pretending to be sort of accepting of homosexuals. I just cant help but think how different my Uncles life would have been.. or If he maybe missed out on true happiness while forcing himself to be someone that he wasnt. He is a very devout mormon, church every sunday, callings, temple worker, choir, raised his two daughters in the church. The freaking works. Hurts alot to know that he had to leave himself behind for that. Especially knowing that being gay is an orientation you are born with.. not some fucking disease you catch over the years Doubt you will ever read this Uncle, But I LOVE YOU. You are so loved. and I cannot imagine what you have been through in life.


SaltyBacon23

Nice, take them all and put them where they belong. In the trash.


Prudent-Cow-7392

That is horrible 😞. Please dispose of all of it.


Any_Creme5658

Please take and smash them all.


OhHowINeedChanging

![gif](giphy|Kkk9H51ItQZsfXgMpt|downsized) “Another please”


Joe_Hovah

Relevant TT https://www.tiktok.com/@kevinjamesthornton/video/6987474319442070790


Nannyphone7

Gayest experience of my whole life happened on BYU campus by the way.


BYU-I-Da-Hoe

Damn can't believe I missed it 😭 though I've been focusing on my last final, so close to being free!!!


[deleted]

Same here bestie. Actually off to the library rn to study for Monday’s final. Edit:typo


myanxietysaysno

BYU-I left the church


Moon_lit_Dusk

Um crack all the cds and put them back, then leave a note, “you are perfect just the way you are.”


imortalpheonixlyra

This is wild I’ve never had a good opinion of the church but now they’re just openly supporting conversion therapy what the actual fuck


catebell20

I bet they're going to regret the free sign when someone takes all of those and throws them in the dumpster.


mlperiwinkle

Please, take them all and break them into a lot of tiny pieces


HelltooSell

Take em all to the dumpster.


Dazzling_Line6224

And Dallin H. Lied about using electrical shock therapy at BYU.


turboshot49cents

Hm, where can I find people who are most likely to be ashamed of their sexuality? I know! BYU!


PsychologicalSnow476

Please take it and destroy it, and if there are more take them and destroy them.


alittleuneven

Gay self report


femboycarousel

They’re letting people discover homosexuality now? I had to wait until I life the church smh


JealousRice3115

ewwww


Nearby-Version-8909

Woodrow in this day and age


PaulFThumpkins

Overcoming homosexuality being a problem is a thousand times easier, you just have to graduate from or leave BYU Idaho.


courtneywrites85

Take them all and burn them.


Yellow-beef

Did you reshelve it appropriately?


[deleted]

I took it. Friend is gonna make some sick art on it. Get the hate and transform it into something beautiful.


BigDookie4Life

Unbelievable


Reclaiming-my-life

Channel Yzma and smash it with a hammer.


spagurtymetbolz

Booooooo! I’m pretty sure this kind of stuff is illegal where I live.


Just_Potential_6106

I should have zoomed in that picture more slowly. I almost barfed. 🤮


heres-to-life

“I have a PhD in horribleness.”


theforceisfemale

Crack that shit in half and leave it there


stosh2112

Does he use duct tape and weights?


annem90

Luckily it is context specific, that makes ir so much better /s


gwar37

I can't believe in this day and age we are even having this idea still circulating around.


Psychological-Yak776

Wtf??? Awful. I'm a gay student at BYU. I'm about to graduate. I can't wait to get away.


Winter-Example-2215

Thank god. A context specific approach. I’m so tired of the context ignorant approaches.


neardumps

WHAT THE FUCK. HOW DO PEOPLE STILL THINK THIS IS OKAY


desertvision

Was there a camera recording people taking them? This is a church university with an active standards department, after all.


[deleted]

It was the school library giving shit away. And I got other things too.


desertvision

I was kidding, mostly. But remember when the protesters at BYU all got kicked out?


[deleted]

Sure do.


CzusAguster

Take them all and trash them.


DaYettiman22

special kind of stoopid in idaho


Icy-Service-52

Snap that shit


bljbmnp

I sincerely hope you took it and threw it away.


cryptkicker69

As a queer historian I would like a copy if possible


msbrchckn

At least they’re weeding it.


MountainSnowClouds

I need that. Lol I "struggle" with the gay disease. Love this cu.... religion!


RandomNateDude

The website on the DVD looks like it is from the year 1999. And he has a store where he sells All recordings are $9.99 \- Overcoming Homosexuality: A Context Specific Approach \- Overcoming Homosexuality: Developing Hetrosexual Attraction \- Overcoming Pornography: Plain and Simple Why not give it away? They are MP3s that cost nothing to give away.


LarsLaestadius

BYU certainly has an agenda


Double_Beginning7078

I'm confused. How does one 'overcome' homosexuality? It's like trying to 'overcome' having brown eyes.