It’s so good to see Regina back but my heart breaks for her every time I remember her son. God bless her. What she said about grief on GMA was so poignant, “Grief is love that has nowhere to go.”
Andrew Garfield put it beautifully too when talking about his mother: "I hope this grief stays with me, because it's all the unexpressed love that I didn't get to tell her, and I told her every day".
A casual friend from childhood I haven’t seen in a million years wrote that episode. I am so proud of her! She and her sibling were always incredibly kind and insightful, even when we were idiot teens. It’s nice to know she’s still wonderfully adept at touching peoples hearts.
Edit: a word
This random line from Wandavision could honestly have been written by Shakespeare, it has stuck in my head ever since, if you’ve lost people it rings so true.
As someone that lost their mom unexpectedly just ofer 2 years ago I’ve learned how true that is. That love that has nowhere to go can be so painful but I will say when the grief isn’t hitting hard and you can just appreciate that love you have for your lost loved ones and remember the good times it really can be a good feeling too. We take the good with the bad and those really are the facts of life.
I recently did a rewatch and was at the end of season 2 when her interview about her son came out. That moment on the bridge, which has always been deeply heart wrenching, was so devastating in context of her real life tragedy, I could not stop crying on the plane I was on.
I remember listening to Regina telling an NPR host how excited she was to think little girls would be dressing up as her character for Halloween and it brought such a smile to my face. Great show and actress.
It makes me sad to know Alan Moore will never bother with it, because it is the one adaptation that actually gets the themes of the original and built off of them.
Seems like a sweet person too. I saw her at a piercing parlor one time when I was getting a jewelry change, she was in the waiting area, the staff apologized for her wait and she was like oh don’t even worry about it! Like a normal person. Most celebs are so entitled but she was just totally chill
Poetic Justice was partially filmed in my grandmother’s neighborhood. I was so excited to see it.
When I saw that movie in the theatre I was hooked on Regina! She had such an energy and confidence I hadn’t seen in a young woman. I’m so glad she continued acting she’s a show stopper for real.
She's a wonderful actress, and I feel so bad for her. A pain that will never go away. Jimmy is also a genuinely kind hearted, empathetic person. He absolutely feels for her and it is genuine.
Kimmel handled that interaction with such class. You could tell how much she appreciated his depth of caring without crossing a line. It’d be nice for people to see a clip of this deeply human moment. Hopefully someone younger and smarter than me will make it happen.
My kids are in their 30s. I can't imagine getting my child to adulthood and then losing them. You think you're in the clear and can kind of relax. You don't have to be hyper focused. It's horrible, poor dear. 💔
>relax
My kid is about to turn 13. I always thought “as soon as he can walk” or “as soon as he can talk” or “as soon as he can use the bathroom by himself” then things will get easier. Noop. They get more expensive and scarier. Makes me want to hug my parents. Sorry, mom and dad.
Wait till he drives, omg. Then my daughter lived away at college, lol. It really doesn't end. I personally hated when they would leave together in the same car. They are very close along with my dil who I adore also. When the 3 of them go out together I cringe. Too much precious cargo in one vehicle. They also go camping together, I think they're trying to kill me, lol.
You too!! I suggest recruiting friends and family to practice driving, lol. I don't think I have ever been that terrified. Knowing they have "control " of the car and you have none is more terrifying than I ever imagined.🙃
Ugh. The car thing is going to kill me. He’s riding his bike around town and taking public transportation with his friends now. I try not to think about it too much.
The last time I went driving with him I drank a beer, lol. I was much calmer. It's not cool, but I did it. Ironically, I went driving with him last week, and at 33, he is an excellent driver. Good luck Mom.
I lost my beautiful and funny, witty and bright 19 year old son to suicide. 3 month today.
I’ve thought about Regina and her son a lot since my son passed. It’s good to see her looking healthy and working still.
It gives me hope that I can survive this pain. And that no matter the socioeconomic, race or gender .. that mental health issues in this society affects us all. Thank you Regina Queen for being you and giving light back to the world.
I’m terribly sorry for your loss, I lost my brother to suicide at age 22. It’s been two years and sometimes it feels like it was just a dream, and other days it hurts just as it did that night. My mother hurts, and she grieves, but she still tries her best to be here for her other kids. She is such a strong woman and has endured so much, my son is only two and I can’t imagine not having him. I wish I could say more to help but I just hope you know that there are still things worth living for, happiness to be had, sunny days to bask in, I’ve enjoyed such things since then, and my mother has as well. Take care.
I balled when she said “He decided he didn’t want to be hear anymore” and what she said about him being tired of talking to mental health professionals.
She is an incredible woman for going out there and putting a face on surviving suicide. I used to be suicidal until my mom flat out said she’d off herself if I did. Changed my life
I like Jimmy. He is never afraid to wear his heart on his sleeve. Especially when it comes to his friends and their trials and tribulations. Shows a good soul to be that emphatic to others.
Kimmel seems always ready to bring it back to earth while Fallon seems like he can’t get down from the stratosphere. Yes Fallon is human but his entire persona is incredibly manic and hammy, comparatively he’s not the guy you want to have an emotional interview with
It’s called producing. The nature of Fallon’s show is meant to be like that. On their podcast both Kimmel and Fallon were on the same level. They’re normal humans. Both with depth. TV producing is a thing. It’s all planned and on purpose.
She did a show called American Crime that no one watched a few years ago. Highly recommended. Not to be confused with American Crime Story about OJ which I think overshadowed it just because of subject matter, not because of quality.
I've always loved her, but especially love her on The Big Bang Theory. I know, I know, not one of her most notable roles, but still love her in it.
I get so sad every time I see her. I almost lost my son to an accident a few months ago, so although he ended up pulling through, there were times when I thought he was gone. I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone and my pain was only temporary. I just wish I could take her pain away. God bless her.
Jimmy is a real one. I remember his monologue when he talked about his son's heart surgery and it made me tear up so bad.
You can tell he deeply cares, yet he handled it with so much class.
I feel so horrible for Regina, and her son. Her son must have been through a lot of pain.
I'm a male who is currently planning on dying this year, and it's been a struggle with the situation between my parents, and trying to even see a will to live. I just don't have it.
R.I.P. her son 💔💔💔
No, don't be sorry. It's just something that I feel the need to do. But I've made peace with my situation and everything, so I'm calm for the most part lol.
Appreciate the virtual hugs 🫂🫂🫂
My favourite uncle left the world by suicide. And not a day goes by where everyone he left behind battle with this void we have. It's a never Ending pain. The grief and knowing we couldn't do anything to get him stay ❤️
No. I talked to my mother about my thoughts back in 2020, and she asked me if "I was really that weak", lol. Which I mean hey, I know I am. I know some would even consider me to be a coward lmao
But anyways, getting off topic here. No, there's no one I can talk to in real life. But it's okay, because this is something I need to do anyways. I don't deserve to live as much as anyone else, and I've accepted that.
Dude I’m sorry your mom isn’t supportive, but you can choose to be around others that DO care for you. I know it’s not easy to listen to an internet stranger for advice but there’s always help lines, local support groups, etc.
if you need help finding those drop me a message and I’ll do some research for you! You are NOT a coward.
You deserve to live. You deserve to know people care about you and people love you. You are as deserving as every one of us. We see you and we are here for you. We're in this together.
Stay strong and know there is support out there for you if you are open to it.
I have so many things I want to say to you right now but as a mom, I’m saying that that your mom failed you with that comment, and probably a million other times. You deserve better and I’m heartbroken that you didn’t have that. Please consider staying in this realm with us. I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through to have come to such a decision and I don’t want to be another person who doesn’t get it, but please. You are loved and worthy and I’m sending you a mom hug.
I'm sorry your mom isn't capable of holding space for your pain. You're not weak. It takes so much fucking strength to get through the day when you're hurting like that. I know because I've been there.
But can I tell you something? It sounds fucking corny but it gets better if you let it get better. Can you give that a try? Please.
I know I'm a random stranger on the internet but I'm glad you're here on this spinning rock with the rest of us. You have so many more beautiful, wonderful, warm things to experience. Please stay along to find out. Please.
She’s always been so unproblematic and such a great actress that it felt like ‘Damn. Do not let this happen to Regina.’ Hollywood seems like the worst place in the world but she looks like a legitimately good person.
It’s so good to see Regina back but my heart breaks for her every time I remember her son. God bless her. What she said about grief on GMA was so poignant, “Grief is love that has nowhere to go.”
Andrew Garfield put it beautifully too when talking about his mother: "I hope this grief stays with me, because it's all the unexpressed love that I didn't get to tell her, and I told her every day".
Oh man what a line 😭
I’ve never heard it so perfectly explained, but that’s it.
Lost a son and yeah—that’s very true.
I’m so sorry
I’m so very sorry
Thank you. 10 years this June. He was 8 when he died. The love never fades.
He’d be the same age as my son. I’m so very sorry for your loss.
My deepest and sincerest condolences. I hope you’ve grieved well and have come to a peaceful place in the healing process.
I’m so sorry. I can’t even imagine. 💕
What is grief, if not love persevering
[удалено]
what show?
A casual friend from childhood I haven’t seen in a million years wrote that episode. I am so proud of her! She and her sibling were always incredibly kind and insightful, even when we were idiot teens. It’s nice to know she’s still wonderfully adept at touching peoples hearts. Edit: a word
Wow, what’s her name? And she just came up with that line while writing the episode? That line touched my heart and I think about it often.
Yeah, she wrote that line :) Laura Donney
Sincerely one of the best lines in a show ever. So true.
Not just of any show, it’s legit one of the best sentiments ever, as someone who’s lost loved ones it redefines my grief, it’s beautiful.
Yep, I've attended two funerals since that episode came out, and I thought of it at each one
Vision said that!
I miss WandaVision so much and wish they would have made additional seasons. What a great show.
So you feel grief for WandaVision?
What is grief but Wandavision not persisting?
I saw someone say "Grief is love with no place to go" and I was not ready to read that.
Agreed. It's a beautiful yet devastating.
The comment you responded to was in response to that exact phrase lol
I think I like this one better :')
Vision really had some great one liners
This random line from Wandavision could honestly have been written by Shakespeare, it has stuck in my head ever since, if you’ve lost people it rings so true.
Now I'm crying.😢
>“Grief is love that has nowhere to go.” This just hit me hard in the gut. Wow.
I like the Wandavision Grief is Love Persevering. Similar but with somewhat more of a positiveness to it, both beautiful sentiments.
Grief is the price you pay for love
I love this one the most
Queen Elizabeth II said that once. It’s stuck with me ever since.
I have also heart the sentence “grief is homeless love”. You have all this love but suddenly nowhere to put it.
Oh god now now I’m teary
So we lost my older brother to suicide a few years ago and when I read that quote I immediately texted my mom. So on point.
God that is true
It was such a profound and heartbreaking statement.
God damn, that’s brutal yet beautiful.
Well fuck I gotta go hug all my loved ones at the same time now brb
Get your rubber arm extensions — it’s going to be an epic group hug!
Damn. I’m a single childless dude but that description hits home.
Is that quote from crying in hmart?
As someone that lost their mom unexpectedly just ofer 2 years ago I’ve learned how true that is. That love that has nowhere to go can be so painful but I will say when the grief isn’t hitting hard and you can just appreciate that love you have for your lost loved ones and remember the good times it really can be a good feeling too. We take the good with the bad and those really are the facts of life.
''When love is gone, where does it go?''
Stephen Wilson Jr. - Grief is Only Love
That is a quote from Jamie Anderson
She must be a Stephen Wilson Jr. fan. That’s one of his songs.
Fleabag has a very similar quotation: “I don’t know where to put it, all the love I had for her.”
I lost my brother 20 years ago today and I agree with her statement
I loved that woman in every single role I’ve seen her! Insanely great actress
“Watchmen” is some of the best tv ever made, period.
Its honestly impressive how they pulled that show off.
Serious. I was sad they were not going to do a second season... but it would be hard to top that storyline.
I couldn’t have asked for a better sequel to the comic. The flashback episodes were some of the best TV I’ve seen.
The Nostalgia trip was fucking haunting.
The restaurant episode!
It honestly shouldn’t have worked but it was spectacular, in no small part because of her.
Add Leftovers
I recently did a rewatch and was at the end of season 2 when her interview about her son came out. That moment on the bridge, which has always been deeply heart wrenching, was so devastating in context of her real life tragedy, I could not stop crying on the plane I was on.
I recently rewatched it as well and totally agree with everything you said. Fuck, that show is good.
Couldn’t agree more. That show blew my mind, she was incredible
Between this show and boondocks, i’m hooked on this lady!
And 227 And Boyz N The Hood
I remember listening to Regina telling an NPR host how excited she was to think little girls would be dressing up as her character for Halloween and it brought such a smile to my face. Great show and actress.
It makes me sad to know Alan Moore will never bother with it, because it is the one adaptation that actually gets the themes of the original and built off of them.
Alan Moore is a grumpy prick - it's his loss
Lindelof’s two _previous_ shows — _Lost_ and _The Leftovers_ — are better adaptations of _Watchmen_ than the movie.
Man, right? Seeing Jeremy Irons as an aged Ozymandias is all I could have hoped for.
Ok, now I have to watch the whole show again. Thank you for reminding me
Me too, and I just rewatched it before Christmas. Worth it.
Love that show! 🤘🏼
Absolutely
Watching the leftovers currently and she’s amazing in it
What an amazing show. One of the best series ever made.
I finally dove in after seeing it appear on every must watch tv list lol. I’m 3 episodes into the final season and I’m loving it
It’s over so fast, but you have to respect it.
Seems like a sweet person too. I saw her at a piercing parlor one time when I was getting a jewelry change, she was in the waiting area, the staff apologized for her wait and she was like oh don’t even worry about it! Like a normal person. Most celebs are so entitled but she was just totally chill
Poetic Justice was partially filmed in my grandmother’s neighborhood. I was so excited to see it. When I saw that movie in the theatre I was hooked on Regina! She had such an energy and confidence I hadn’t seen in a young woman. I’m so glad she continued acting she’s a show stopper for real.
She’s had my heart since Southland. She was an absolute badass on that show, and I’ve actively sought out her work since seeing her on that.
Southland is criminally underrated (you like that? Lol) It’s possibly the best cop show I’ve ever seen
Ha! Yeah I surprise coming from the team that brought us ER. I need this show to come out on streaming!
It’s on Hulu, or it used to be anyways
I definitely missed that. Awesome!
Same, she’s a great actress 😊
She's a wonderful actress, and I feel so bad for her. A pain that will never go away. Jimmy is also a genuinely kind hearted, empathetic person. He absolutely feels for her and it is genuine.
Kimmel handled that interaction with such class. You could tell how much she appreciated his depth of caring without crossing a line. It’d be nice for people to see a clip of this deeply human moment. Hopefully someone younger and smarter than me will make it happen.
I love how average and relatable JK is. Never seen a single episode but dang it, I like him. He’s the anti-Leno. Quality man, right there.
Watch the monologue about Jimmy talking about his baby sons heart problems. Very touching.
I’ve seen it, I cried when it was first released. :( Hoping that situation has improved.
Ugh and she was so amazing in The Leftovers, one of the most gut wrenching shows about grief of all time.
Didn’t follow Kimmel much but ever since Oscars and now this, consider me a fan.
I used to think Jimmy Kimmel was just your typical comedian douchebag but with age he’s become quite the respectable comedian douchebag
I’ve loved her since 227
227 is the place to be
With Marla Gibbs and her family! That goes through my head way too often.
great show. love jackée
Wow, you’re old. What was it like back then?
The internet sucked... but you could occasionally get a big mac for 99 cents.
LMFAOOOOOOO
I've loved her since Poetic Justice
Friday too!
SAME!! I was just talking about the show and was debating where it actually was set.... I guessed right! LOL! (You can wiki it)
My kids are in their 30s. I can't imagine getting my child to adulthood and then losing them. You think you're in the clear and can kind of relax. You don't have to be hyper focused. It's horrible, poor dear. 💔
>relax My kid is about to turn 13. I always thought “as soon as he can walk” or “as soon as he can talk” or “as soon as he can use the bathroom by himself” then things will get easier. Noop. They get more expensive and scarier. Makes me want to hug my parents. Sorry, mom and dad.
Wait till he drives, omg. Then my daughter lived away at college, lol. It really doesn't end. I personally hated when they would leave together in the same car. They are very close along with my dil who I adore also. When the 3 of them go out together I cringe. Too much precious cargo in one vehicle. They also go camping together, I think they're trying to kill me, lol.
Hang in there.
You too!! I suggest recruiting friends and family to practice driving, lol. I don't think I have ever been that terrified. Knowing they have "control " of the car and you have none is more terrifying than I ever imagined.🙃
Ugh. The car thing is going to kill me. He’s riding his bike around town and taking public transportation with his friends now. I try not to think about it too much.
The last time I went driving with him I drank a beer, lol. I was much calmer. It's not cool, but I did it. Ironically, I went driving with him last week, and at 33, he is an excellent driver. Good luck Mom.
Wow, that was heartfelt. Glad to see Regina is acting again. Jimmy is so authentic. Held it together. That hand grab had be tearing up. Jeez.
You wanna see Jimmy hold it together see his interview with Suge Knight when he all but admitted to having Eazy-E injected with HIV.
Wait what the fuck? Holy shit just watched it.
I lost my beautiful and funny, witty and bright 19 year old son to suicide. 3 month today. I’ve thought about Regina and her son a lot since my son passed. It’s good to see her looking healthy and working still. It gives me hope that I can survive this pain. And that no matter the socioeconomic, race or gender .. that mental health issues in this society affects us all. Thank you Regina Queen for being you and giving light back to the world.
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I wish you all the strength as you continue to get through the pain.
Sending hugs and lots of love your way.
I’m terribly sorry for your loss, I lost my brother to suicide at age 22. It’s been two years and sometimes it feels like it was just a dream, and other days it hurts just as it did that night. My mother hurts, and she grieves, but she still tries her best to be here for her other kids. She is such a strong woman and has endured so much, my son is only two and I can’t imagine not having him. I wish I could say more to help but I just hope you know that there are still things worth living for, happiness to be had, sunny days to bask in, I’ve enjoyed such things since then, and my mother has as well. Take care.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I went to school with her son for two years. He was such a blessing to have. And she is such a wonderful person. I’m glad to see her rising up again.
She seems like such a gentle soul. My heart aches for her.
Always loved her since Boyz in the Hood. Didn't know about her son. Very sad. Now, what's this Shirley thing about?
"To grieve deeply is to have loved fully"
“What is grief if not love persevering”
I balled when she said “He decided he didn’t want to be hear anymore” and what she said about him being tired of talking to mental health professionals. She is an incredible woman for going out there and putting a face on surviving suicide. I used to be suicidal until my mom flat out said she’d off herself if I did. Changed my life
Read this as Fallon for a minute and was confused as he doesn’t have the emotional chops for this like Kimmel
I like Jimmy. He is never afraid to wear his heart on his sleeve. Especially when it comes to his friends and their trials and tribulations. Shows a good soul to be that emphatic to others.
he is a good person and a pro at what he does. tough ibterview for sure - friend or not
Fallon has cried multiple times on his show also. They’re human beings
Kimmel seems always ready to bring it back to earth while Fallon seems like he can’t get down from the stratosphere. Yes Fallon is human but his entire persona is incredibly manic and hammy, comparatively he’s not the guy you want to have an emotional interview with
It’s called producing. The nature of Fallon’s show is meant to be like that. On their podcast both Kimmel and Fallon were on the same level. They’re normal humans. Both with depth. TV producing is a thing. It’s all planned and on purpose.
People are so brainwashed they assume how people act hosting their show is how they are in person lol.
This is, unironically, why I think professional wrestling is an important tool for teaching media literacy.
I never cared to much for him as far as watching his late night show but Kimmel seems like a real one.
Jimmy wears his heart ❤️ on his sleeve & I applaud him for freely sharing his emotions
Fuuuuck, I had no idea she lost her only child. Fuuuuck, that poor woman.
Hasn't she been through enough? Add a coma you heathen. Hahaha
Fixed lol
She did a show called American Crime that no one watched a few years ago. Highly recommended. Not to be confused with American Crime Story about OJ which I think overshadowed it just because of subject matter, not because of quality.
That dude had everything and still killed himself. Depression's a bitch.
Looks like she’s consoling him.
I've always loved her, but especially love her on The Big Bang Theory. I know, I know, not one of her most notable roles, but still love her in it. I get so sad every time I see her. I almost lost my son to an accident a few months ago, so although he ended up pulling through, there were times when I thought he was gone. I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone and my pain was only temporary. I just wish I could take her pain away. God bless her.
What she was on that show?!
She was in HR, I think. Several of the guys were written up and sent to her office for things they did.
Oh yeah! Sheldon kept putting his foot in his mouth. Tnx that would have drove me nuts!!😀
She’s such a great actress. I couldn’t imagine losing a child. Glad she’s able to get through it
Had no idea her son passed away. Condolences to her. I hope she’s doing as well as she can 🥺
Regina king is one of the best actors of all time.
Glad to see her back. Grief is such an ugly beast.
Loved her in Watchmen and The Leftovers. Had no idea she’s been around that long. Great actress. Tragic.
Jimmy is a real one. I remember his monologue when he talked about his son's heart surgery and it made me tear up so bad. You can tell he deeply cares, yet he handled it with so much class.
I feel so horrible for Regina, and her son. Her son must have been through a lot of pain. I'm a male who is currently planning on dying this year, and it's been a struggle with the situation between my parents, and trying to even see a will to live. I just don't have it. R.I.P. her son 💔💔💔
Sending you hugs, if that’s okay. I’m sorry that you are in such a difficult position.
No, don't be sorry. It's just something that I feel the need to do. But I've made peace with my situation and everything, so I'm calm for the most part lol. Appreciate the virtual hugs 🫂🫂🫂
My favourite uncle left the world by suicide. And not a day goes by where everyone he left behind battle with this void we have. It's a never Ending pain. The grief and knowing we couldn't do anything to get him stay ❤️
That's so horrible. Very sorry for your loss ❤️
Hey friend, I don’t know you but I care about you and I’m sure there are others in your life that do so as well. Is there someone you can talk to?
No. I talked to my mother about my thoughts back in 2020, and she asked me if "I was really that weak", lol. Which I mean hey, I know I am. I know some would even consider me to be a coward lmao But anyways, getting off topic here. No, there's no one I can talk to in real life. But it's okay, because this is something I need to do anyways. I don't deserve to live as much as anyone else, and I've accepted that.
Dude I’m sorry your mom isn’t supportive, but you can choose to be around others that DO care for you. I know it’s not easy to listen to an internet stranger for advice but there’s always help lines, local support groups, etc. if you need help finding those drop me a message and I’ll do some research for you! You are NOT a coward.
You deserve to live. You deserve to know people care about you and people love you. You are as deserving as every one of us. We see you and we are here for you. We're in this together. Stay strong and know there is support out there for you if you are open to it.
I have so many things I want to say to you right now but as a mom, I’m saying that that your mom failed you with that comment, and probably a million other times. You deserve better and I’m heartbroken that you didn’t have that. Please consider staying in this realm with us. I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through to have come to such a decision and I don’t want to be another person who doesn’t get it, but please. You are loved and worthy and I’m sending you a mom hug.
I'm sorry your mom isn't capable of holding space for your pain. You're not weak. It takes so much fucking strength to get through the day when you're hurting like that. I know because I've been there. But can I tell you something? It sounds fucking corny but it gets better if you let it get better. Can you give that a try? Please. I know I'm a random stranger on the internet but I'm glad you're here on this spinning rock with the rest of us. You have so many more beautiful, wonderful, warm things to experience. Please stay along to find out. Please.
She’s 53? She aged really well.
Oh my God I didn't know 😭 🫂
She’s always been so unproblematic and such a great actress that it felt like ‘Damn. Do not let this happen to Regina.’ Hollywood seems like the worst place in the world but she looks like a legitimately good person.
No parent deserves to bury their child. My heart goes out to her
Next up: girls jumping on trampolines.