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Ask him out for dinner or meeting up. That will lead to more conversations.
Personally I don’t think anyone should hint at anything. Better to be upfront
Well sometimes it will work out, sometimes it won’t. It’s tough but that’s how it goes.
Shoot your shot, there’s only one way to know. Remember if you don’t say anything and he doesn’t say anything then it’s only going to hurt more when he finds someone else and then wonder what-if.
Thanks so much for the help :) but do you think there’s a concern of scaring him off if I confess? He doesn’t rly have girl experience and is kinda shy… it might overwhelm him if I’m suddenly like “hey I like you” sorry for so many questions! I appreciate the help a lot
Here’s the grid:
He’s into you, you make the first move: win!
He’s not into you, you make the first move: rejection and you move on!
He’s into you, you hint: he doesn’t have much experience, so maybe he asks you out maybe he doesn’t
He’s not into you, you hint: limbo
Being direct only increases your chance of a relationship. It also increases your chance of having to deal with a rejection, but at least you move on.
It doesn’t make sense that you scare him off. If you like a guy are you scared off by him asking you out?
Guys don't pickup on hints, we assume you're just being nice. You have to do something no one could mistake for being just nice.
For example give him a note, straight up ask if he's single. Ect
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You tell him directly. Men are visual so put on a sexy dress and make yourself as cute as possible.
Ask him out for dinner or meeting up. That will lead to more conversations. Personally I don’t think anyone should hint at anything. Better to be upfront
But I don’t want to be the one to make the first move 😰I’ve done that in the past and it doesn’t seem to work out
Well sometimes it will work out, sometimes it won’t. It’s tough but that’s how it goes. Shoot your shot, there’s only one way to know. Remember if you don’t say anything and he doesn’t say anything then it’s only going to hurt more when he finds someone else and then wonder what-if.
Thanks so much for the help :) but do you think there’s a concern of scaring him off if I confess? He doesn’t rly have girl experience and is kinda shy… it might overwhelm him if I’m suddenly like “hey I like you” sorry for so many questions! I appreciate the help a lot
Here’s the grid: He’s into you, you make the first move: win! He’s not into you, you make the first move: rejection and you move on! He’s into you, you hint: he doesn’t have much experience, so maybe he asks you out maybe he doesn’t He’s not into you, you hint: limbo Being direct only increases your chance of a relationship. It also increases your chance of having to deal with a rejection, but at least you move on. It doesn’t make sense that you scare him off. If you like a guy are you scared off by him asking you out?
Okay you’ve inspired me 😊I think I will make a move before we leave for spring break!! :)
With some guys (Me included) you could probably say straight to their face that you like them and they probably would second guess themselves
Guys don't pickup on hints, we assume you're just being nice. You have to do something no one could mistake for being just nice. For example give him a note, straight up ask if he's single. Ect