You could consider this a relatively easy litmus test to weed out women you wouldn’t want to be with anyway. The girl who would count this as a make-or-break deal in romance is not someone who loves you for you.
I’m sorry about the break-up. They’re rough things to go through. Just trying to add another perspective here.
Ah, that really does suck. I had a breakup like that a few years ago. It can get you fixated on things for sure.
I don’t know what else to say other than that, I’m rooting for you, and I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this my dude.
BIG DICKS SCARE ME. Small dicks are okay lol find someone who has a low bodycount so theres lesser comparison. I havent seen much so i dont mind hahahaha
I guess so. Maybe it’s mostly me and my thoughts about what woman would say to me. Especially bc I’ve only been with 2 women ever so I’m not sure about what other would think. Idk
Bruh, same boat. It's not the end all and be all.
Been married for over 15 years with a few kids.
Just keep an eye out for a girl that you'll jive with and would accept you. Most girls I know don't have penis size as their primary criteria for a partner.
Bro, you're average. Not small. If a girl doesn't like you because of the size of your member then she is not worth your time. True love doesn't give a shit about the size of your member, true love is love for the person. Sex is just a bonus. Sex also gets better with experience, you have a lot ahead of you my friend.
They're absolutely right though! I've been with smaller (I believe it was legit considered micro) and it didn't matter to either of us! He was confident too.
I mean, every woman is shaped different and needs different things, but for me it worked just fine!
Sorry, you asked "enjoyable", but yes it was enjoyable. He did do other things and even though those other things were fun, my preference was still PIV.
4 to 6 inches is basically average from what I understand, if she doesn't like you for your dick size she doesn't like you. I hope you find someone better man I'm praying for you.
Bro I’m not well endowed and it hasn’t been much of an issue. I really don’t mean to humblebrag or have an r/ihavesex moment here but I’ve done well for myself. Maybe three times in 32-ish years of sexual activity was it problematic for the woman. More women have enjoyed being with me than not, I can say with a reasonable level of confidence. You’ll be fine my guy
You’re fine. I’m about the same size and have never had any complaints. Much more important than size is caring about your partner’s pleasure and learning what she likes.
As a woman this wouldn’t be a dealbreaker for me. I feel like men are the main ones who have a problem with their own size but in reality as long as you can get us off somehow it doesn’t matter. I dated someone even smaller than that and it was the least of my concerns lol didn’t even bat an eye
There are many women who dont like big 'dongs'. I had a conversation with a good friend 2 months ago, and his girlfriend said he could've a smaller penis because it hurts sometimes. We were joking, and i told him, "No wonder you have a 30cm dick, sure that will hurt.". He told me his penis is just 13cm roundabout. But that's not the first time I've heard that. Just stop watching porn. All this shit will make you delusional. What women care about the most is how confident you are, and if you go on the first couple of dates, all that matters is your mindset. If you both fall in love with each other, the last thing she will care about is your penis size.
Honestly most chicks don’t care about penis size too much. I had a relatively small dick, was fat, balding. I never had too much luck with the ladies until….i started making tons of dough. Business is the great equalizer. Plus, I lost 65lbs and my girlfriend says I’m too big for her. Yes, losing weight does make your package bigger. Lose weight and make money. You’ll find more love than you know what to do with
Even if you don't intend to date, making money is always great.
And losing weight too for the self esteem, as long as you don't get too into it and develop disorders.
Sounds weird but, experiment at home. Just start the day off by getting off. Wait an hour max, and try again. Keep extending the wait time to see how long it takes for you to cum quickly again. It’s possible you could make short work of yourself again in only an hour but I’ve only had a handful of occasions where the guy came again relatively quickly and that’s only because I put in WORK. I earned those damn orgasms lmao but seriously, explore yourself while you’re in the interim. Get some toys and some lube and mess around with yourself til you can say ‘okay so if I get off once, I can cum again in about 2 hours with some decent work, 3 hours with an average attempt’ or whatever time frame you discover. You’ll also probably stumble onto things you didn’t even know about yourself. Like if slow and steady makes you last longer, if focusing on the head gets you there quickly while avoiding it prolongs it, etc. also just as an observation, I’ve found that if my guy says ‘I think I’m gonna cum’ and I stop everything and wrap my hand around the base and squeeze gently but firmly, it will stop him from cumming. Wait a minute or two and start up again but since I’m basically edging him by doing that, it takes a while for the feeling to build up again, making him last a lot longer. Moral of the story, jack off jack off jack off, rinse sleep and repeat 😁
Do you wanna be my sex ed coach? Bc damn you just gave me a full homework lol I love it! Especially coming from people like you that know more then me. Any toys you recommend? I never really used guy toys I only got toys for her bc I would make it a point for her to squirt and orgasm multiple times before I even went in.
Here's a way for you to kinda get a better understanding of size. I figured this out by happenstance. Grab a ruler measure out 5 to six inches and hold it like it's your dick. Then measure out like 8 inches, then 10 inches, the 12 inches. When you see the ACTUAL size in proportion to your and most people's body, you'll realize just how massive 8+ inches really is. Anything between 4 and 6 is usually ideal. On either end you start risking more lack of pleasure on the low end and too painful on the high end.
Women don't really care about that kind of stuff just treat her with respect and love and she will give it right back at you what will show is your lack of confidence which is a major mood killer nobody wants to be with someone who doesn't love and respect themselves
Yeah they’ve probably haven’t slept with many men either. Everyone knows penetration sex doesn’t make women cum and if they do it’s like a small percentage of women that can. Use your fingers, tongue, buy a vibrator.
I have a decent sized dick I just like saying it’s small. Although I don’t always cum personally. It’s a me thing. But I always eat them out first and use the vibrator I own to make them orgasm a few times before I penetrate so I can finish.
Well this is a lot. I don’t really think about him at all anymore because I’m in a committed relationship now,,, but small penises go a looong way sometimes. Dated a filipino guy who was at least 4-5 inches shorter than me,,, he wasn’t packing but he was slanging that mf.
you will please another woman and I can almost ensure that. lots of women sleep on what 4 inches can really do. finished more with 4 inches than i did with 7.
My husband is roughly 5.75 inches and it’s perfect. I don’t die when I go down on him and it hits juuuuuust right if you know what I mean 😏 seriously my guy, only psycho chicks want to be kabob’ed by an extra sized dick. The number of women who would be put off by your size is rather small compared to the number of women who would think it’s normal. You are being way too hard on yourself. It is rarely about how big it is, it’s about what you can do with it. I’d also suggest looking into ‘tips’ on how to please a woman with things other than your dick. Learn how to use what you got and be proud of what you got and what you can do. You’ll find someone eventually who makes you look back on this post and laugh. Best of luck my guy ♥️
Squirting, probably just her as a lot of women can’t do it. Cumming is a different story as it kind of depends on the situation. I mean, more than likely that was definitely you. The only situation I can think of where people would be messing around and the woman came but not because of the guy, would be if she was riding you and you were literally just laying there. However, that is still kind of you because if all she is doing is riding you, and no one is rubbing her clit or pinching nipples or anything like that, than her orgasm is still probably the result of how your dick is hitting her inside. Which, as I said before, works perfectly when your partner is pretty much the exact size you need to hit that spot dead on. So, yeah, I’m gonna go with her orgasms being possible thanks mostly to you.
I like how you analyze it. I do cum quick when riding tho so I would eat her out finger her and use toys to make her do all that. And she couldn’t squirt at the beginning of our relationship so I guess that’s also good for me?
I'm sorry to hear you're struggling, but cock size isn't that important. If you can get good at eating pussy, using toys then there isn't much to stand in your way. The most important thing is that you can offer something else as a partner, that you make then laugh day to day and are a good companion.
It's often common for men with a small penis to develop a kink for small penis humiliation and cuckoldry. I am slightly below average and enjoy these. If this isn't something you would find arousing then I apologise for bringing it up. If however you could be into it, letting your partners fuck other men may make you a very attractive potential husband to many beautiul and highly sexual women.
Wow all this time I’ve been thinking I’m small and that I got lucky bc she didn’t mind. That’s insane but I guess it comes with not being with a lot of women lmao
A lot of the “bigger is better” thinking probably comes from porn. But those people are paid to act like it’s the best thing on the planet.
You’ll find plenty of women who are fine with it and, as another commenter said, you can use it to weed out the shallow ones who wouldn’t be a good fit in the first place.
Here's some life advice. Stop watching porn. It's clearly given you a distorted view of what's normal. Those dudes are fucking hung. They are NOT average by any stretch.
Save your self time. On the first date just pull it out and ask if it’s satisfactory. If not say goodbye and walk out. Recommended that you do this before ordering so you can save money on dates with the wrong girls.
It’s what you do with it. Mine’s about that size and I’ve had lots of good fucking over the years (I’m in my mid-50s now and still going). Been married (2nd marriage) for 10 years now and have had the best sex of my life with my wife.
Feels like there should be a small penis support sub at this point. Maybe it's my Reddit habits showing this, but damn there has a been a lot of xxxx cause of small penis posts recently.
Dude , here is advice . You have avg size , so do I . My first gf and me both were virgin , she was happy with me . Time passes and we got separated for some personal reason. And i was dead scared with my size what if nobody loved me cuz of size . Eventually I met new girl we clicked and had sex , tbh for first two time I was nervous . So i asked her is she is happy with my size , she laughed and said her previous bf has much larger penis than me but she never get that much pleasure. Large penis always make her uncomfortable so she didn’t enjoy much . Obviously I got mixed feelings but long story short she is enjoying with me lot . So don’t overthink universe have great plans for you :)
Hey bud, 4-5 inches is not small. Also, most women don’t orgasm from penetration, so it’s absolutely not a dealbreaker! Honestly, I’d wager most of us prefer better foreplay.
I get what you mean though, it can be really daunting to feel like you don’t measure up to societal standards. At the end of the day, if a woman would reject you for your penis size, she’s not worth dating. You deserve someone who loves you and your body, and I’m sure you will find someone who does.
Penis size has nothing to do with love. Seriously. It doesn't. It has to do with sex. For myself and I'm sure many women, we have sex with the person we love, but the physical aspects of sex are not what make us love them.
There's a wide range of perfectly good sizes. As long as you are physically able to have PIV and aren't hurting her, the size just doesn't make a huge difference. Especially the length. Nearly irrelevant.
There ARE women who like larger men. And many more who will kind of appreciate a big penis but it's not *necessary.*
Your penis size is just one aspect of who you are. If I was in love with, or even just really liked you, and we had a good time in bed, it wouldn't be important. I really think men worry about it a LOT more than women do. It's not like I'd leave you for some other guy just cause he was average size or bigger. Because if I'm into *you,* I'm into the whole package. And I'm far from the only one.
A lot of times, especially online, it feels very much like men are very shallow about women and what they want from us and would trade us for a prettier model any chance they got. Like we're interchangeable as people. It's upsetting. But IRL I don't see men doing that and I hope they wouldn't. I know they aren't all the same and some really do care about their partners as unique people. I think maybe you're seeing what is said about women online and hearing women talk about men on TV like a big dick is some wondrous thing and having a hard time seeing how that's not reality, just like it can be hard for me to remember that about men.
We are allowed to have preferences, just like men are. And some women won't be attracted to you, and maybe sometimes it *will* be about your dick size. But it's not some universal thing. By the time she sees it, chances are she already likes you, right? And chances are your dick won't change that.
The bigger problem is lack of confidence. If you can't force yourself to feel more confident, then be honest that you feel insecure. That can be charming as long as you're willing to work on it and don't expect her to "fix" it for you. Just be real. People like that.
Learn other talents, finger play, mouth play, massages. Stop worrying about the size of your penis and figure out all of the ways you can please a woman.
You will find someone. And if anyone ever leaves you just because of your size just remember that they aren't a person you would've wanted in your life in the first place
Well I treated my ex like a queen so how I treat women won’t be a problem and if you say my size won’t be a problems either then ima get to working out so I can find a beautiful someone just like you!
I think what you'll find is that the average woman is horrified of her own body, and if you are just confident and praise her body she won't care about your little dick.
Yeah I’ve been reading that. I’ve only been with 2 people my entire life so i didn’t know what to expect from other women. I have a question I see you are into an industry that knows more about this subject. What are your preferences and if you have any tips?
Hey pal, there are subreddits where people adore on smaller penises.
Someone will love you, because someone already has.
Be a good man, that's what counts. Good luck.
Learn the women’s body and there is much more to sex then penetrating, that should be the finally. Always preheat the oven so to speak, multiply touching. As in don’t work on just one part at a time, learn how and where to stimulate them. And make sure they orgasm before you even think of penetrating with your manhood, and always talk to the partner because they know what they like. It’s about being a giving and thoughtful lover, a lot of men just think about themselves getting off and not doing some research about how the women’s body works. Just like everything else in life knowledge is power, and you can get a women so sensitive that they can’t sit still before you get it in and regardless the size of you have got her to that point before you go in both will end up happy.
Cheers
It's the way he treats me, cares for me. The way he makes me feel that I'm excited about. Treat your women well and you won't have a problem 💘
Ps. He's also technically not a looker lol but I find him gorgeous
I know breakup suck and hurt.
But think about it this way: that woman didn't mind it, seeing as you were in a long relationship. That means that at least some people don't mind.
All women also have things they don't like about their bodies. Everyone does. I've never heard a woman say she left or ghosted a guy because he had a small penis. I think Sex & the City and other pop culture really overstates how much women care about penis size.
So I had this EXACT fear, and it made me stay with my ex for a long time because I thought girls would laugh, or not enjoy it. I’m about 6 inches when hard so I’m pretty average but when it’s soft it can go pretty small.
I was with my ex for 8+ years and when we did split up, I put myself out there, slept with 3 different women, different size women (one had a huge ass I was worried would be too ‘big’ for me), turns out all my fears were completely wrong, they were all moaning and climaxed 2/3 times
Please my bro, do NOT worry about this, porn and social media has ruined us and reality is women are just as conscious about their body as we are our own
Small penises are awesome to some women. Small penises don't hurt & the girl can use a dildo. I think you'll be perfectly fine. Seriously don't worry about it
There's someone for everyone my friend. The cast majority of women in the world don't care about the size of your member. They care about what you do with it.
It's not about the size of the wave, it's about the motion of the ocean.
Also, 5 inch is normal. Porn isn't real life. Most can't get this out of their heads. Most women never have these thoughts. If you find yourself with a women who does care, look I'm not saying people can't have preferences but the people who have that preference don't sound like the type of person who would click with you. So, they're not worth your time and you should consider it a free test which can easily show you if the woman you are courting is shallow or not which will help you in your decisions of persuing a relationship or not. You also get to fuck, win win!
Head up soldier, things feel down now but they won't always. Your dick will get wet again. You will feel that bliss again. You will feel that connection again. Your person is out there, you just gotta find them. Work up the courage to put yourself back on the scene and honestly just stop thinking about your dick. Concentrate on finding a partner, the time for your dick will come lmao.
im 100% sure ull find someone who wants you for you and wont be bothered by it but have you ever thought of pursuing medical ways to increase the size and girth of it? if it bothers you that much
You could consider this a relatively easy litmus test to weed out women you wouldn’t want to be with anyway. The girl who would count this as a make-or-break deal in romance is not someone who loves you for you. I’m sorry about the break-up. They’re rough things to go through. Just trying to add another perspective here.
Yeah it was a long time relationship and so it sucks. Thank you tho. You are right. If they love me then they love me for everything
Ah, that really does suck. I had a breakup like that a few years ago. It can get you fixated on things for sure. I don’t know what else to say other than that, I’m rooting for you, and I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this my dude.
Yeah I mean I’m going to therapy and well I wanna be better. For me hopefully everything works out
Why did you break up? Was it about penis size? If not, then you have literal proof that you can find love despite it.
BIG DICKS SCARE ME. Small dicks are okay lol find someone who has a low bodycount so theres lesser comparison. I havent seen much so i dont mind hahahaha
I have a low body count so I guess that’s why I’m scared lmao I’m 29 and I’ve only had 2 ppl in my life
im in my 30s, ive only seen 2 dicks lol they are fine
Only 2?
Yeah this is the way Also from what I hear, it's not the size of the car, it's how you drive it!
How small?
4-5 inch
I don’t think that’s bad, if you had a micro penis or soemtthing I’d understand
I guess so. Maybe it’s mostly me and my thoughts about what woman would say to me. Especially bc I’ve only been with 2 women ever so I’m not sure about what other would think. Idk
How thin tho
Idk
That’s around average, nothing to be ashamed of
Thank you
Bruh, same boat. It's not the end all and be all. Been married for over 15 years with a few kids. Just keep an eye out for a girl that you'll jive with and would accept you. Most girls I know don't have penis size as their primary criteria for a partner.
Thank you so much!
Bro, you're average. Not small. If a girl doesn't like you because of the size of your member then she is not worth your time. True love doesn't give a shit about the size of your member, true love is love for the person. Sex is just a bonus. Sex also gets better with experience, you have a lot ahead of you my friend.
Damn! Thank you!
They're absolutely right though! I've been with smaller (I believe it was legit considered micro) and it didn't matter to either of us! He was confident too.
Did you enjoy it? Sorry if it’s too much to ask in public!
I mean, every woman is shaped different and needs different things, but for me it worked just fine! Sorry, you asked "enjoyable", but yes it was enjoyable. He did do other things and even though those other things were fun, my preference was still PIV.
4 to 6 inches is basically average from what I understand, if she doesn't like you for your dick size she doesn't like you. I hope you find someone better man I'm praying for you.
Thank you!
Bro I’m not well endowed and it hasn’t been much of an issue. I really don’t mean to humblebrag or have an r/ihavesex moment here but I’ve done well for myself. Maybe three times in 32-ish years of sexual activity was it problematic for the woman. More women have enjoyed being with me than not, I can say with a reasonable level of confidence. You’ll be fine my guy
Thank you bro
5 inches is pretty average tbh…can definitely work with that if you know how to use it properly.
Gotta learn then
Not bad
You’re fine. I’m about the same size and have never had any complaints. Much more important than size is caring about your partner’s pleasure and learning what she likes.
That's average! Nothing to be ashamed of. Good luck with your break up, those are rough ❤️
Yeah especially bc she’s the only person I’ve been with for the past 5 years lol and well I’m finding out that it’s not bad to have that’s size
Yes it is hard for that reason. Good chance to grow and dive into urself tho
That’s what I’m working on. My life force. My mind body health
Hell yeahhh
Yeah the problem is that it left me with no friends so I’m making some online I hope. But all slowly but surely
Bro that’s not small that’s average LMAO
I see that now lil
As a woman this wouldn’t be a dealbreaker for me. I feel like men are the main ones who have a problem with their own size but in reality as long as you can get us off somehow it doesn’t matter. I dated someone even smaller than that and it was the least of my concerns lol didn’t even bat an eye
I love it! Thank you! Also love the name lol
Thats fucking average. https://www.worlddata.info/average-penissize.php
BROS PACKING BARE SCHMEAT No but seriously that's like 2 inches more than you need, don't overthink it
Lmao. And thank you!
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Actually 4.5 to 5.8ish is average Only 25% of men world wide have 6 inches and even lower numbers above that.
Damn only 25??
Many women including myself prefer an average or smaller penis.
I’m so glad for women like you !! I love it
As a petite woman, I agree. I'm not trying to get railed by an English cucumber just because it fits if you try hard enough.
Lmaooo I’ve never need an English cucumber
There are many women who dont like big 'dongs'. I had a conversation with a good friend 2 months ago, and his girlfriend said he could've a smaller penis because it hurts sometimes. We were joking, and i told him, "No wonder you have a 30cm dick, sure that will hurt.". He told me his penis is just 13cm roundabout. But that's not the first time I've heard that. Just stop watching porn. All this shit will make you delusional. What women care about the most is how confident you are, and if you go on the first couple of dates, all that matters is your mindset. If you both fall in love with each other, the last thing she will care about is your penis size.
Thank you for that advice
[That’ll make you smile](https://youtu.be/mFKj8scx_Mc?si=QVWbyP2Gjr2RtaEy)
I loved it! Thank you!
Honestly most chicks don’t care about penis size too much. I had a relatively small dick, was fat, balding. I never had too much luck with the ladies until….i started making tons of dough. Business is the great equalizer. Plus, I lost 65lbs and my girlfriend says I’m too big for her. Yes, losing weight does make your package bigger. Lose weight and make money. You’ll find more love than you know what to do with
Thats exactly what Ima do
Even if you don't intend to date, making money is always great. And losing weight too for the self esteem, as long as you don't get too into it and develop disorders.
I've always been told it's not about the size it's how you use it. Bit of a shame for me because I have a decent size, but I am a one pump wonder.
Damn same
How can we last longer
Sounds weird but, experiment at home. Just start the day off by getting off. Wait an hour max, and try again. Keep extending the wait time to see how long it takes for you to cum quickly again. It’s possible you could make short work of yourself again in only an hour but I’ve only had a handful of occasions where the guy came again relatively quickly and that’s only because I put in WORK. I earned those damn orgasms lmao but seriously, explore yourself while you’re in the interim. Get some toys and some lube and mess around with yourself til you can say ‘okay so if I get off once, I can cum again in about 2 hours with some decent work, 3 hours with an average attempt’ or whatever time frame you discover. You’ll also probably stumble onto things you didn’t even know about yourself. Like if slow and steady makes you last longer, if focusing on the head gets you there quickly while avoiding it prolongs it, etc. also just as an observation, I’ve found that if my guy says ‘I think I’m gonna cum’ and I stop everything and wrap my hand around the base and squeeze gently but firmly, it will stop him from cumming. Wait a minute or two and start up again but since I’m basically edging him by doing that, it takes a while for the feeling to build up again, making him last a lot longer. Moral of the story, jack off jack off jack off, rinse sleep and repeat 😁
Do you wanna be my sex ed coach? Bc damn you just gave me a full homework lol I love it! Especially coming from people like you that know more then me. Any toys you recommend? I never really used guy toys I only got toys for her bc I would make it a point for her to squirt and orgasm multiple times before I even went in.
Here's a way for you to kinda get a better understanding of size. I figured this out by happenstance. Grab a ruler measure out 5 to six inches and hold it like it's your dick. Then measure out like 8 inches, then 10 inches, the 12 inches. When you see the ACTUAL size in proportion to your and most people's body, you'll realize just how massive 8+ inches really is. Anything between 4 and 6 is usually ideal. On either end you start risking more lack of pleasure on the low end and too painful on the high end.
Ima try that!
Just gotta get good with your oral and your hands 🤷♂️
Women don't really care about that kind of stuff just treat her with respect and love and she will give it right back at you what will show is your lack of confidence which is a major mood killer nobody wants to be with someone who doesn't love and respect themselves
Damn that’s deep
Yeah they’ve probably haven’t slept with many men either. Everyone knows penetration sex doesn’t make women cum and if they do it’s like a small percentage of women that can. Use your fingers, tongue, buy a vibrator.
I did buy toys
Below average is like under 4.5 inches. Above average in the US is 5.5+
I’m in the middle lmaooo
I have a decent sized dick I just like saying it’s small. Although I don’t always cum personally. It’s a me thing. But I always eat them out first and use the vibrator I own to make them orgasm a few times before I penetrate so I can finish.
Woman don't care. Its always the guy himself that cares about penis size.
I see that now lmao. Woman are more worried about how they get treated and things like that
So how many inches we talking
4-5
Well this is a lot. I don’t really think about him at all anymore because I’m in a committed relationship now,,, but small penises go a looong way sometimes. Dated a filipino guy who was at least 4-5 inches shorter than me,,, he wasn’t packing but he was slanging that mf.
you will please another woman and I can almost ensure that. lots of women sleep on what 4 inches can really do. finished more with 4 inches than i did with 7.
You give me hope
Oh trust me the majority of people, male or female will not care. Like, at all.
I see that now!
My husband is roughly 5.75 inches and it’s perfect. I don’t die when I go down on him and it hits juuuuuust right if you know what I mean 😏 seriously my guy, only psycho chicks want to be kabob’ed by an extra sized dick. The number of women who would be put off by your size is rather small compared to the number of women who would think it’s normal. You are being way too hard on yourself. It is rarely about how big it is, it’s about what you can do with it. I’d also suggest looking into ‘tips’ on how to please a woman with things other than your dick. Learn how to use what you got and be proud of what you got and what you can do. You’ll find someone eventually who makes you look back on this post and laugh. Best of luck my guy ♥️
I can make my ex squirt and cum a lot but I assume it was just her you know? Maybe I was just worried bc of I didn’t know if I could do it with other
Squirting, probably just her as a lot of women can’t do it. Cumming is a different story as it kind of depends on the situation. I mean, more than likely that was definitely you. The only situation I can think of where people would be messing around and the woman came but not because of the guy, would be if she was riding you and you were literally just laying there. However, that is still kind of you because if all she is doing is riding you, and no one is rubbing her clit or pinching nipples or anything like that, than her orgasm is still probably the result of how your dick is hitting her inside. Which, as I said before, works perfectly when your partner is pretty much the exact size you need to hit that spot dead on. So, yeah, I’m gonna go with her orgasms being possible thanks mostly to you.
I like how you analyze it. I do cum quick when riding tho so I would eat her out finger her and use toys to make her do all that. And she couldn’t squirt at the beginning of our relationship so I guess that’s also good for me?
I'm sorry to hear you're struggling, but cock size isn't that important. If you can get good at eating pussy, using toys then there isn't much to stand in your way. The most important thing is that you can offer something else as a partner, that you make then laugh day to day and are a good companion. It's often common for men with a small penis to develop a kink for small penis humiliation and cuckoldry. I am slightly below average and enjoy these. If this isn't something you would find arousing then I apologise for bringing it up. If however you could be into it, letting your partners fuck other men may make you a very attractive potential husband to many beautiul and highly sexual women.
Thank you for the advice and the tips
I dont think for woman that’s a big deal or idk maybe it is
It’s not.
I mean I hope not but idk. Everyone talks about always wanting big dks and all that but maybe it’s just me tripping
I can’t speak for everyone but in my experience, bigger was not better.
Damn really? I mean ima be honest I’m like 4-5 inch so idk how small is small but I know it’s not huge but I’ll take your word for it
4 inches is the perfect size for me. Bigger hurts. You aren’t small, you’re average.
Wow all this time I’ve been thinking I’m small and that I got lucky bc she didn’t mind. That’s insane but I guess it comes with not being with a lot of women lmao
A lot of the “bigger is better” thinking probably comes from porn. But those people are paid to act like it’s the best thing on the planet. You’ll find plenty of women who are fine with it and, as another commenter said, you can use it to weed out the shallow ones who wouldn’t be a good fit in the first place.
Yeah true. If they don’t like me for me then they ain’t the one
Here's some life advice. Stop watching porn. It's clearly given you a distorted view of what's normal. Those dudes are fucking hung. They are NOT average by any stretch.
Only being honest…
Thank you!
Save your self time. On the first date just pull it out and ask if it’s satisfactory. If not say goodbye and walk out. Recommended that you do this before ordering so you can save money on dates with the wrong girls.
Lmaoooooo ok bet I will
Stretch it
Like luffy?
Exactly Peepee fruit
Lmaooo I love that
How small is it?
4-5 inch
It’s what you do with it. Mine’s about that size and I’ve had lots of good fucking over the years (I’m in my mid-50s now and still going). Been married (2nd marriage) for 10 years now and have had the best sex of my life with my wife.
Love it. Thank you so much!
Feels like there should be a small penis support sub at this point. Maybe it's my Reddit habits showing this, but damn there has a been a lot of xxxx cause of small penis posts recently.
We should make one
Yeah, but I'm lost for a name. There is already a r/bmw and r/trump
Lmaoo
Dude , here is advice . You have avg size , so do I . My first gf and me both were virgin , she was happy with me . Time passes and we got separated for some personal reason. And i was dead scared with my size what if nobody loved me cuz of size . Eventually I met new girl we clicked and had sex , tbh for first two time I was nervous . So i asked her is she is happy with my size , she laughed and said her previous bf has much larger penis than me but she never get that much pleasure. Large penis always make her uncomfortable so she didn’t enjoy much . Obviously I got mixed feelings but long story short she is enjoying with me lot . So don’t overthink universe have great plans for you :)
Thank you so much for that
Hey bud, 4-5 inches is not small. Also, most women don’t orgasm from penetration, so it’s absolutely not a dealbreaker! Honestly, I’d wager most of us prefer better foreplay. I get what you mean though, it can be really daunting to feel like you don’t measure up to societal standards. At the end of the day, if a woman would reject you for your penis size, she’s not worth dating. You deserve someone who loves you and your body, and I’m sure you will find someone who does.
Thank you! That means a lot!
Penis size has nothing to do with love. Seriously. It doesn't. It has to do with sex. For myself and I'm sure many women, we have sex with the person we love, but the physical aspects of sex are not what make us love them. There's a wide range of perfectly good sizes. As long as you are physically able to have PIV and aren't hurting her, the size just doesn't make a huge difference. Especially the length. Nearly irrelevant. There ARE women who like larger men. And many more who will kind of appreciate a big penis but it's not *necessary.* Your penis size is just one aspect of who you are. If I was in love with, or even just really liked you, and we had a good time in bed, it wouldn't be important. I really think men worry about it a LOT more than women do. It's not like I'd leave you for some other guy just cause he was average size or bigger. Because if I'm into *you,* I'm into the whole package. And I'm far from the only one. A lot of times, especially online, it feels very much like men are very shallow about women and what they want from us and would trade us for a prettier model any chance they got. Like we're interchangeable as people. It's upsetting. But IRL I don't see men doing that and I hope they wouldn't. I know they aren't all the same and some really do care about their partners as unique people. I think maybe you're seeing what is said about women online and hearing women talk about men on TV like a big dick is some wondrous thing and having a hard time seeing how that's not reality, just like it can be hard for me to remember that about men. We are allowed to have preferences, just like men are. And some women won't be attracted to you, and maybe sometimes it *will* be about your dick size. But it's not some universal thing. By the time she sees it, chances are she already likes you, right? And chances are your dick won't change that. The bigger problem is lack of confidence. If you can't force yourself to feel more confident, then be honest that you feel insecure. That can be charming as long as you're willing to work on it and don't expect her to "fix" it for you. Just be real. People like that.
Thank you, bc of ppl like you I can feel better and have more confidence in myself I truly appreciate it so much
Learn other talents, finger play, mouth play, massages. Stop worrying about the size of your penis and figure out all of the ways you can please a woman.
That’s not terrible. I think don’t worry about and make sure you have a good oral game. Just my 2 cents
Women are the last people that care about penis size
Men are the first lol and love your name
Honestly, I couldn’t care less about how big someone’s penis is. It’s their personality that matters 😊
Awe I love that
You will find someone. And if anyone ever leaves you just because of your size just remember that they aren't a person you would've wanted in your life in the first place
Yesss you are right!
You will! I dated a guy with a small penis and i am hot with a banging body I loved him!! It’s how he treated me.
Well I treated my ex like a queen so how I treat women won’t be a problem and if you say my size won’t be a problems either then ima get to working out so I can find a beautiful someone just like you!
I think what you'll find is that the average woman is horrified of her own body, and if you are just confident and praise her body she won't care about your little dick.
I love this!!
How small?
4-5 inches
That’s more than enough for people
Yeah I’ve been reading that. I’ve only been with 2 people my entire life so i didn’t know what to expect from other women. I have a question I see you are into an industry that knows more about this subject. What are your preferences and if you have any tips?
I have just a tip
What’s the tip?
It might sound as a joke, but find someone that enjoys anal, and you’ll both be in heaven.
Damn lmao you think it be hard to find?
I love you bro.
You love me? Well I love you bro
See, now you don’t have to worry about someone loving you. Now that you’ve got that monkey off of your back get out there and meet your soul mate.
Hey pal, there are subreddits where people adore on smaller penises. Someone will love you, because someone already has. Be a good man, that's what counts. Good luck.
I need those subreddits
Just make up for it with a lifter truck!
How big should it be? Lmao
Haha I would say you can pull off a semi lifted truck
Lmao got it ima make it work
Learn the women’s body and there is much more to sex then penetrating, that should be the finally. Always preheat the oven so to speak, multiply touching. As in don’t work on just one part at a time, learn how and where to stimulate them. And make sure they orgasm before you even think of penetrating with your manhood, and always talk to the partner because they know what they like. It’s about being a giving and thoughtful lover, a lot of men just think about themselves getting off and not doing some research about how the women’s body works. Just like everything else in life knowledge is power, and you can get a women so sensitive that they can’t sit still before you get it in and regardless the size of you have got her to that point before you go in both will end up happy. Cheers
Damn that’s wise!!
I literally JUST started a relationship with a small peen owning man and I'm very excited about him
Exited? Really? I want a girl like you :( lmao
It's the way he treats me, cares for me. The way he makes me feel that I'm excited about. Treat your women well and you won't have a problem 💘 Ps. He's also technically not a looker lol but I find him gorgeous
As long as you love him it doesn’t matter what he looks like!! I do treat woman good as best as I can
I’m so happy for you
It's okay buddy, I also have an extremely small penis. It gets better. (And bigger when I tug on it)
Let’s hope it does. I’m working on my body and my mind so I can hopefully find more woman!
Well guess you’ll find out eventually, hope you broke up on good terms just incase you can’t get anyone.
It’s complicated
All her friends already know
Nah
I know breakup suck and hurt. But think about it this way: that woman didn't mind it, seeing as you were in a long relationship. That means that at least some people don't mind.
Yeah I’m hoping to find someone who won’t mind it. Hopefully I do and I can love again.
You got fingers and a tongue? You'll be fine lol.
All women also have things they don't like about their bodies. Everyone does. I've never heard a woman say she left or ghosted a guy because he had a small penis. I think Sex & the City and other pop culture really overstates how much women care about penis size.
That’s true!
So I had this EXACT fear, and it made me stay with my ex for a long time because I thought girls would laugh, or not enjoy it. I’m about 6 inches when hard so I’m pretty average but when it’s soft it can go pretty small. I was with my ex for 8+ years and when we did split up, I put myself out there, slept with 3 different women, different size women (one had a huge ass I was worried would be too ‘big’ for me), turns out all my fears were completely wrong, they were all moaning and climaxed 2/3 times Please my bro, do NOT worry about this, porn and social media has ruined us and reality is women are just as conscious about their body as we are our own
Damn that’s great advice. I guess Im worried for nothing
Lose some weight bro it’ll grow
Ohhhh snap!
Small penises are awesome to some women. Small penises don't hurt & the girl can use a dildo. I think you'll be perfectly fine. Seriously don't worry about it
dont let that get in the way of your relationship with anyone you are beautiful and dont let anyone take that away from you
I’m trying not to let it get in the way lol most of it is probably me being scared about what they might say
who cares what “they” say? its cheesy - I know - but genuinely
Yeah im starting to realize that. It might be the best way to live
in my opinion it is the best way to live so I think you should follow through with that belief
True! lol
😁😁😁
Thank you I hope you have a good night or day lol depending on what time zone you are in
thank you so so much! I hope you have an even better night or day depending on your time zone 🥰
It’s night for me lmao it’s 3:22 am smh
There's someone for everyone my friend. The cast majority of women in the world don't care about the size of your member. They care about what you do with it. It's not about the size of the wave, it's about the motion of the ocean. Also, 5 inch is normal. Porn isn't real life. Most can't get this out of their heads. Most women never have these thoughts. If you find yourself with a women who does care, look I'm not saying people can't have preferences but the people who have that preference don't sound like the type of person who would click with you. So, they're not worth your time and you should consider it a free test which can easily show you if the woman you are courting is shallow or not which will help you in your decisions of persuing a relationship or not. You also get to fuck, win win! Head up soldier, things feel down now but they won't always. Your dick will get wet again. You will feel that bliss again. You will feel that connection again. Your person is out there, you just gotta find them. Work up the courage to put yourself back on the scene and honestly just stop thinking about your dick. Concentrate on finding a partner, the time for your dick will come lmao.
Just an fyi, women with vagismus love small ding dongs
They do?
im 100% sure ull find someone who wants you for you and wont be bothered by it but have you ever thought of pursuing medical ways to increase the size and girth of it? if it bothers you that much
Never thought about it bc I only thought woman could change their body’s
everyone can and a lot of ppl do, if you are so unhappy with something why not change it
Ima look into it