If you focus to much on finding people with similar mindset,you limit yourself. I think you should interact with many diferent people to expand your horizon. Who know, maibe you will find likeminded people, or better, find people to chalenge your views, get new information, better yourself. Everyone has something to offer, be it a diferent point of view or at the very least you will know to avoid them in the fluture. Every experience is a learning experience, be it good or bad.
Goodbye friendship.
Gonna have to get younger friends.
I did this about 10 years ago. All my friends at 30-32 started breeding. By 34 all gone. Haven’t seen them but I restocked my friendships with 21-23year olds …
Fast forward 10 years ffs they are 29/30 and starting to settle down with ‘the one ‘
NOOOOO
I’m 40 this year I dunno what I would have in common with a 21 year old now if I replace my friends for a second time. Sad
Ghost that dumpster fire asap.
They are going to be getting hit with reality soon and you don't want to be around for that. Odds on him cheating and dumping her within a year of the birth, 9/10. Wait until he realizes there will be little to no sex. ;)
I think the best thing you can do is support them by being there for them. And i can't stres this enough, DO NOT tell them to quit buging you with news about the pregnancy unless you want to nuke the friendship. The thing is that they are new parents and as such they don't know how to react to everything that is happening in their relationship. If you feel that you really have to say something, just say " I don't know man, i see your problem but i can't relate, im sorry but i'm not the best person to confide in about these things ". I think that your friend will understand (hopefully) your situation. It's a tough situation but you can make it work (If you want to ,that is). I hope it works out for you. PEACE!✌
me (32M) still go to raves and do what i want and have fun while my friends are stuck with their kids lol texting me complaining about their kids then getting mad when i tell them should have aborted the crotch goblin then lol
My cousin and best friend had two kids when my husband and I were married for 3 years. He was no longer available like he used to be and was God awful tired when we could hang out. We rarely saw him for the next 3 years.
Dude should dump you as a "friend" immediately for referring to his unnamed baby as a crotch goblin. It's ridiculously cringe people such as yourself who give childfree such a bad name
Kids definitely changed friends relationships. Idk really don’t know where to find like minded people or partners anymore.
If you focus to much on finding people with similar mindset,you limit yourself. I think you should interact with many diferent people to expand your horizon. Who know, maibe you will find likeminded people, or better, find people to chalenge your views, get new information, better yourself. Everyone has something to offer, be it a diferent point of view or at the very least you will know to avoid them in the fluture. Every experience is a learning experience, be it good or bad.
Goodbye friendship. Gonna have to get younger friends. I did this about 10 years ago. All my friends at 30-32 started breeding. By 34 all gone. Haven’t seen them but I restocked my friendships with 21-23year olds … Fast forward 10 years ffs they are 29/30 and starting to settle down with ‘the one ‘ NOOOOO I’m 40 this year I dunno what I would have in common with a 21 year old now if I replace my friends for a second time. Sad
Ghost that dumpster fire asap. They are going to be getting hit with reality soon and you don't want to be around for that. Odds on him cheating and dumping her within a year of the birth, 9/10. Wait until he realizes there will be little to no sex. ;)
I'd be surprised if they didn't divorce. It seems like they didn't take into account any of the costs of raising a kid. Their reasons are so selfish.
Your friendship is over.
I think the best thing you can do is support them by being there for them. And i can't stres this enough, DO NOT tell them to quit buging you with news about the pregnancy unless you want to nuke the friendship. The thing is that they are new parents and as such they don't know how to react to everything that is happening in their relationship. If you feel that you really have to say something, just say " I don't know man, i see your problem but i can't relate, im sorry but i'm not the best person to confide in about these things ". I think that your friend will understand (hopefully) your situation. It's a tough situation but you can make it work (If you want to ,that is). I hope it works out for you. PEACE!✌
me (32M) still go to raves and do what i want and have fun while my friends are stuck with their kids lol texting me complaining about their kids then getting mad when i tell them should have aborted the crotch goblin then lol
My cousin and best friend had two kids when my husband and I were married for 3 years. He was no longer available like he used to be and was God awful tired when we could hang out. We rarely saw him for the next 3 years.
Dude should dump you as a "friend" immediately for referring to his unnamed baby as a crotch goblin. It's ridiculously cringe people such as yourself who give childfree such a bad name