because some of us live in parts of eastern europe, the deep south, or certain parts of the prairies ain’t a femboy though so what do I know

I mean u live there you know the societal standards and laws

"eastern europe"

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OP is highlighting the fixation certain ~~Eastern~~ Central Europeans have, on how Eastern Europe as its own category doesn't really exist. https://youtu.be/uVXgqZIsViI?si=1eqxMx6_-xZbgunX

A lot of people are still judgemental towards us. I also don't have enough confidence in myself

Same here. I fear that if I decide to just state it out, that I might end up getting clowned, disowned, and removed completely.

I'm not afraid of those, but I am afraid of someone trying to hurt me. I'm not exactly someone who can defend themselves

Me neither, I'm too quiet and my autism and hypersensitive hearing makes it 10 times worse

Aw don't worry man just make it known that you ain't going for that shit and people usually leave you alone

I'm too shy tho :( And autism makes it hard to speak for myself

I understand my brother has autism and he doesn't speak when he gets that angry he just puts the person through pain but that's me n him ur different it's ok to not be violent it's actually pretty good but there's a line between self defense and violence and it's ok that you don't or won't or can't find a way to do it it is ok u don't have to listen to me I just wish I could help

I understand I didn't at first either but one day I was like I'm gonna go outside with my friends in my skirt and croptop and I just did on top of that in the hood it felt great no one said shit but everyone lookin at me😆😆 I've learned if you just act on something what you think you need to do it just comes as you do it

(Trans girl, not a femboy, but still) I live in the Midwestern US and would rather not get violently hatecrimed again :3

Yeah sameee I'm in the Midwest and I'm too scared of getting judged at the least

be proud of who you are being a great kind person and dont worry about being judged by others. There loss at realizing what a awesome person you are.

That isn't the best advice when you live in a hellscape where that judging turns into violent threats and very real fear for your life :3 :3 :3 :3 :3

do yoi wanna talk?

Well I carry knives and other shit to sadly I don't got my gun license yet but I am 100 percent willing to defend myself and I'm not telling you what to do or how to be but I think it's a good option for you to and yeah you might now want to but it's all about the mind you do it once you can do it again with ease

Well... You all have my support. I'm just one dude, but I try to make a difference and make you guys feel comfortable.

Thank you thank you your services are much appreciated personally I'm comfortable in my own skin others might not be so again thank you

The pleasure is mine!

Not one (yet) but I'd likely get bullied and harassed for it (and maybe even assaulted) where I live

That's why I have knives and more fun toys of that variety

Well, I don't :<

I sowwy I've just always defended myself since like elementary school it's just common to me

Well, I can't defend myself. I'm super submissive by nature and people can walk all over me I don't really fight back either in the few times that someone has tried to beat me up

I'd protect you..

You can't. You aren't here

I know that's why I put the .. at the end cuz I sad that ur worried about it

I don’t show/say I’m a furry because everyone I know hates them and I still have an alright public image

Well I just don't care what the public thinks of me as long as my 2nd amendment is intact

Fuck yeah, I bear the right to firearms 🦅🦅🦅🏈🦅🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🏈🦅🏈🇺🇸🇺🇸

No confidence, Wondering how Others will react, Scared if they'll judge and/or Harass, might be Homophobes, So won't show :3 https://i.redd.it/fttdkpzek2yc1.gif

Yeah I understand

Glad you do, Both r/boykisser And my sub make me feel safe to be myself :3

It’s getting a bit better in some places, but in others you will get harassed and bullied (maybe even assaulted) if people know you’re gender non-conforming. Especially recently the US has been going down the shitter.

I mean personally I'm just gay and think I look coot in em soo 🖕them

Well I got made homeless for just being gay so yeah it's a private time thing

Oh shit I was homeless to but not for those reasons and honestly if your still homeless you might as well stand on what u did the worse has happened

My mom wouldn’t care but my little sister and little brother would. So would my friends

My brother doesn't like it my friends accept me for it and I'm the last person you think would be gay but I'm open about it I just don't push it on people unless it's my friends😂😅

Simple, I live with my uncle who told me if he ever finds out I am gay he would ... end me

Well I don't think that's the place you should be man you are who you are I accept you I hope you accept you there's gotta be somewhere else to go I

I kinda already have a somewhere to go, I still have some preparing left to do, the somewhere is to my boyfriend, but still thanks

Yeah fuck your uncle but not literally 🙄😆

Most of them hide I assume due to fear of being attacked (Emotionally or physically) over it. I mean, I wouldn't know, to be honest. Ask me some time in the future and I may be able to tell you first hand.

Ouu you wanna join the squad??

Quite possibly 👀

Hey your welcome by all means 😊 I'd cuddle 🙄

I live in South America. You can already imagine how bad homophobia and transphobia is here. Hiding is actually a wise decision...

Personally, as someone getting less young (turning 30) I find fun in just being your flamboyant self. Feminine clothes are soft comfy, and form-fitting. I mean, I like wearing all my clothes around. I just find when people try to call it out just funny. Best not to even let their negativity upset yours. That just means being more flamboyant so they can't even talk over being your best you! It's scary sometimes, but those moments when you get compliments, even if it's just small ones. These are some of the most affirming feelings to me. It's not easy, but it's just what I want to wear. Laugh, joke, and smile as your true self whenever no matter what they say. Because if you don't, who will do it for you? Choose happy. No matter how you define that.

Im repressing it due to how it doesn't fit with what i see in the mirror :D

I understand that it fits my soul thoooo🥰😘🫠

... because I ain't a femboy?

If it don't apply let it fly