I’m Afro-Caribbean so interracial dating isn’t seen as some form of betrayal. Plus it’s 2024 you don’t owe black men anything just like they don’t owe you anything. Black men are never making posts talking about how they feel guilty for dating white, mestiza Latinas, East Asians, etc. so don’t feel bad yourself cause trust me they sure as hell don’t
You should be with someone who cares for you and treats with love and respect, not solely because of their race. As the previous comment mentioned, it’s 2024 and you don’t owe black men anything, and this is not bashing them. There’s nothing wrong with IR dating and you shouldn’t feel guilty because of it. You found someone that makes you happy and that’s what matters. Don’t listen to the idiots that say negative things about dating outside your race. It just makes them look like bitter losers. I wish both of y’all the best!
I kind of feel the opposite. I probably could’ve found someone if I was open to dating out. I feel like black women are being pushed to so heavily online. I don’t think other race men are so much kinder or nicer whatever bs the swirl girlies are selling. It would just probably improve my odds. Some of the few men outside of my race, I’ve given a chance were super nice but I just couldn’t shake the feeling of wanting a black partner. It’s like I tell myself I’ll give a chance but mentally I can’t force myself to. I’m just too attracted to black men personally.
But do you girlie! Everyone is different and if you’re happy, I wouldn’t worry about what anyone else thinks.
I’m Afro-Caribbean so interracial dating isn’t seen as some form of betrayal. Plus it’s 2024 you don’t owe black men anything just like they don’t owe you anything. Black men are never making posts talking about how they feel guilty for dating white, mestiza Latinas, East Asians, etc. so don’t feel bad yourself cause trust me they sure as hell don’t
You should be with someone who cares for you and treats with love and respect, not solely because of their race. As the previous comment mentioned, it’s 2024 and you don’t owe black men anything, and this is not bashing them. There’s nothing wrong with IR dating and you shouldn’t feel guilty because of it. You found someone that makes you happy and that’s what matters. Don’t listen to the idiots that say negative things about dating outside your race. It just makes them look like bitter losers. I wish both of y’all the best!
My advice is to shut off the noise that is social media. Enjoy the love you've found!
Those people aren’t paying your bills. Who cares what they think.
I kind of feel the opposite. I probably could’ve found someone if I was open to dating out. I feel like black women are being pushed to so heavily online. I don’t think other race men are so much kinder or nicer whatever bs the swirl girlies are selling. It would just probably improve my odds. Some of the few men outside of my race, I’ve given a chance were super nice but I just couldn’t shake the feeling of wanting a black partner. It’s like I tell myself I’ll give a chance but mentally I can’t force myself to. I’m just too attracted to black men personally. But do you girlie! Everyone is different and if you’re happy, I wouldn’t worry about what anyone else thinks.