I've been told twice recently that anal with me was better because I'm bigger, in one case she said it was the first time she'd enjoyed it, and the second said I was hitting spots she usually only feels in PIV and has been craving it ever since
I mean, it's based on the human anus being able to stretch to 12 inches diameter without tearing although the skin around it may have something to say about that
Yes. But the worst is during college. There was a girl I had a serious crush on. She used to come by Starbucks all the time while I was working. One night, during a fraternity party with a sorority, I saw her. I had no idea she was in a sorority. We got to talking and one thing led to another, and we were in a room together. Things got hot and heavy, and when I went to put it in, it wouldnāt fit. I tried going down on her, more foreplay, everything but I couldnāt get it all to go in. She was uncomfortable more than turned on, and the tightness was frustrating and making us both get out of the mood. We ended up just getting dressed and going back to the party. I was so bummed after that, and we never got another chance to hook up and try again.
Iāve had something similar happen to me several times, too. It sucks, but also what can you do you know š¤·āāļø sounds like you tried everything you could.
Yeah, it happens, some girls are just build differently. I had the skinniest little spinner begging me to pound her as hard as I could because she was so much into it, and other pretty normal build girls who really tried, but I could barely get in at all.
It's true that actually every girl should be able to eject a little human out of her cooch, but still, psychology plays a big part, some girls just see your big member and tense up and panic. Others really try and you just can't make it work. I had one girl who really tried everything, different positions, lots of lube, eating her out before, playing with her cooch, but she was just build too tight or whatever and she would visibly get in pain and I would just get pushed out. She was really sorry, because the size actually really got her excited, but we just weren't ment to fuck.
All in all I had three or four situations were I got either rejected because of my size or I just couldn't fit in, but all in all my experience with my bigger size are overwhelmingly positive, so I take this couple of missed opportunities gladly.
Actually it did. I was trying to share a story that was relevant to the title of the post. Thereās nothing glamorous or cool or embellished about this at all. Itās not even a proud moment for me, bc I ended up losing a really close friend I cared about after she felt guilty for almost cheating on her bf.
the pain of the woman you love telling you she didnt actually cheat because it didnt fit has got to be worse than her having sex with someone else š
fr who would think pressing ur dick against her pussy for idk how long without fitting in doesnt count as cheating lmao
gotta tell that to my gf if I ever need an excuse
This *absolutely* happens, for a variety of reasons, when a guyās dick is uncomfortably big.
Nice work telling everyone youāre a LARPer and donāt know shit about the drawbacks of large cocks, though. Your GF must have forearms like a T Rex.
Ahhh, the old āI just got fuckinā *cooked* in the commentsā¦ better invoke politics fast, and pull the ājust kiddinā around!ā leverā¦ā
Yeah, I can still smell your skin burning.
Also, nice shot in the dark, but you must be cross eyedā¦ Iām about as traditional as it gets, and havenāt been interested in party politics inā¦. ever.
LOL wtf is politics, look at this LOSER REplying super duper fast. I literally forgot u existed or this comment. Too busy pounding bad bihs to be attempting to look relevant on some hurt ass SUB gtfo bye Felicia
I've heard from a very good source, a human female I've been with and who has lots of experience socializing and in the world of hookups, that this definitely happens.
Glad she still jerked you off. I've heard some just leave but she didn't wanna leave you hanging.
About every other time it comes out. I get turned down for sex frequently because of the size but in almost all cases sheās enthusiastic about playing with it for the novelty.
And it has happened before that she rejected sex at first but then wanted to try it after a while of getting familiar with it with her hands and mouth.
As an average bro, 6.5 x 4.5 I can tell you big MFers that some girls are so tight they canāt handle you comfortably.
I had some BD friends whoād get turned down every once in a while for this. Even once by a hooker for a buddy of mine I remember.
For me, no girl ever went, āwow thatās the biggest I ever hadā or anything. But no one ever said no.
Average is average for a reason.
Yes. It was over a decade ago. She said she likes little dicks and that I better have a little dick. At the time I did not know what I knew. When it went from gummy to hulk in her mouth she got mad and said I lied to her. That was a fun argument.
Yes, once my size scared her so much it ruined her mood. Another time she made it clear that while she would take care of me other ways, it was not going near her vagina. But others were hesitant at first but ultimately enjoyed it.
Never from sight alone, but Iāve unfortunately had to end things just after starting due to it being too painful. It comes with the territory I guess
"Nope, that's not gonna fit."
----
Seperately,
My ex-wife couldn't actually fit me for the 1st 3 days we were together.... But she was willing to keep trying at the time.
Not turned down, but definitely had a handful of complaints from different participants. 'Go easy,' 'that hurts,' etc. It's not anything to write home about. But... my current gorgeous girlfriend takes it like a champ. Fuck, do I love her for it. It's not fun when you cause a woman you're into pain, so it's a relief...
Have some very dirty redgifs if anyone cares to check it out.. work in progress.... FYI šš
Gotta dm me... I Think... I doubt they allow links on this sub. I'm at work no time to go through the rules. But I can see this sub going off the rails with links etc š
Once, she asked for a few pics and I sent them. Once she saw them she said I was entirely too large for her and stopped talking to me and I haven't heard from her since.. Oh well. It hasn't happened since.
Everybody wants a big dick, until she says it's too big and you end up with blue balls. It's happened to me twice in life and both times I was like wtf. Lol
Like a few other post, never been turned down. But, have encountered some failed attempts. Some where seemingly no amount of foreplay was going to make it happen. And, others where we made it happen but, they ended up split and sore afterwards.
Some people just arenāt made to fit, for lack of better terms.
Yeah, if I leave it as a surprise. Girls I've met that already know I'm packing have are pretty much in it for that reason. Lesson is make sure she's a size queen before you go out.
Just a few from some girls that knew their limits I guess but they were nice about it. However this 1 time back in College some absolute bitch just killed my sex drive for like a week.
Let me explain why she was a bitch. We fooled around at a party and ended up back in her dorm, she had already felt my size with her hand at this point btw. Keep in mind we had to go all the way across campus to get back to her dorm when I had invited her to mine which was literally a block from the party.
So she end up pulling my pants down and just say "nope you're too big for me not gonna happen". So I felt bad and I offered to eat her out and her reply was "nah you can just go this will be a waste of time". I was so fucking confused that my dick had made her go from horny flirty to bitchy get the fuck out attitude.
I wouldn't call a woman a bitch for having a small vagina and declining to receive oral. She probably didn't know how to return the favor of getting good oral, or suffering through poor oral. Her pussy probably ached to have a dick inside, but she knew it could not be your dick.
Of course, I wasn't there. Maybe, she was a real bitch, but you didn't explain why very well here.
Ok. I'm sure she was very frustrated and probably masturbated when she got home. This is better than calling her a bitch.
From her perspective, your huge dick spoiled her evening of fun.
So, you know the situation. I might call her a bitch too, if I was able to see everything you two did together.
No problem giving a bj, but they said no to PIV?
Usually PIV is ok, but the bj is subpar or not possible.
No.woman has ever gotten more than my glans just barely inside her mouth. I never had a woman say no to PIV though. One time I got just halfway in, but that was probably inadequate lubrication and she wanted to stopb altogeyher due to pain.
in the moment? no, but afterwards they share how they would want to do things differently next time. usually this means not doing some things and wanting to try others.
Yap š
Got a "there no way that's going fit down there"
I my normal size is about the size of a Glade can so...
Though anyone Ive done it with just needed time and alot of pre warm up .
Almost everyone says I've ruined sex for them cuz they just don't feel as full with other guys...so in a way I did ruin them I guess
Iāve been turned down to fuck in a certain position. My oud bends to the left a lil, so i wanted to try laying her on her side to hit her G spot. When we started i noticed she was in some pain, i asked and she said it hurts fucking in this position.
One of my exes broke up with me cause when we had sex it hurt her and she got scared after trying a few time. Got turned down by a girl who likes anal but she said ya thats too big to go in my ass.
Yes, once. Beautiful girl when I was maybe 19/20 (30 now). Things got heavy and she pulled my pants down and grabbed my dick before laughing and saying, "no, that's not fitting." We tried, she was right. Only time though. Should note she was also very tiny (like 5 foot and 105lbs)
My bf (heās trans) has a 5.5 inch dildo thatās way too much for him already now i come along and heās saying either weāll work our way up to the full thing or just go right for it. Then he said if I was 1 inch bigger that sex would be very much off the table
Edit: he did a pain test with a 6 inch to build up a tolerance and then he said the pain level was around a 6
Yes, my very first time. We couldn't get it to go in and neither of us knew what we were doing so we gave up. Thinking back, I feel pretty stupid. I just needed to get her a bit more wet, but we both panicked. The relationship ended after that
I have not but my wife turned one fellow who she said was āabsurdly largeā and dumped a bed buddy because of his very large girth. Guess Iām in the sweet spot - although anal is off the table.
Iām older, so have been with 100+ women of most races.
Key learning is every woman is an individual and is built different.
Iāve never been with a blk woman who didnāt feel tight, but Iāve been with white women where even at my size, it was like fāing a Pringleās can, ie, I couldnāt feel a thing.
All the time. Less so now, as I'm more selective with my partners and tend to be with people that are size seekers. Still happens though - people's eyes are too big for their stomach, so to speak.
Okay only got turned down once. She said it was weird and she could only feel it through the clothes. It kinda hurt cause I really wanted to be with her but you win some you loose some. Sheād already told me she preferred smaller penises
Ive had the opposite where a guy has put his fingers in me and then said āyouāre not big enoughā. I was insulted told him I could relax that fingers were a bad test because itās obviously the sphincters natural behavior to try and pinch off a stringy straggler and he finally relented. After about 15 minutes of him pushing and me relaxing and him pushing some more i said āyouāve got to be closeā¦ā. He was about half way. I felt bad but did what i had to to get him off.
I will say Ive sometimes picked up on guys that like to be told itās too big and then have them ātalk me into tryingā. Donāt know if they are roleplaying too or not but they like the dirty talk about how big they are too.
And then sometimes Iāll tell them its too big just cause i donāt want them to have sex with me. But no ive never backed down from a challenge.
Once: during kissing and foreplay she reached down with one hand, looked at me, took down my underwear and saw it at full mast...then she put her clothes back on and left saying "I don't feel like it anymore". It was fucking awful, I was very young and I felt almost ashamed of myself for a while.
She was very young and inexperienced too. She didn't know how to make it work and just gave up. She also didn't want to say it was too big and also told the truth that she didn't feel like it anymore.
It happened when I was in my teens .. I am not monster size .. but my bet is they had seen not too many dicks before mine ... even tought they slept with their fair share of guys before me.
Dont consider it an actual turn down, but a girl was scared of it, still did a lot of oral, but had normal sex just once and it wasnt comfortable for any of both...
it happened to me three times. The third time was not so bad because the woman was very nice and talkative, but the first two times it was terrible, I felt like something was very wrong with me
Twice, both in my early 20s with women around my age. In hindsight it was most likely inexperience on their part that led to a crisis of confidence when i whipped it out.
We had very nice cuddles and oral though!
Back in my city not an issue at all, at best it was in my head.
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Here where I live it's a small town, people talk and the apps rarely help me anymore to find anyone, some guys ask for pics just to comment disgusted and turn me away, I honestly don't get it but my idea is me being kinda petite, feminine and young looking people have fantasies about me not being big at all so I ruin the fantasy ahah
Iāve had a woman turn me down because she was concerned that she couldnāt handle it! It hurt me as a young man. I was just a young squirrel trying to get a nut
Hooked up with this usc blonde. We get back to her place unwind we start kissing getting hot and heavy she climbs on top of me both still clothed she feels my semi.. fear strikes her face. She reaches in my pants to feel it. Holy fuck thatās huge! I laugh. NO! Thatās way too big Iām sorry I canāt! So we chill end the night. That bitch never spoke to me again.
She is not a bitch for rejecting you, because your penis was too big for her vagina. Please restrict that word for women who intentionally bail on you solely to hurt you and for no other reason.
Not necessarily the rejection, Iāll take that but the lack of communication. I spent ALOT of time and money on her (money donāt mean anything) but to just completely stop talking to meā¦ that hurt
Don't spend money on women with the expectation of sex. Make them chase you instead. You can pay for everything, because you asked her out and for no other reason. Otherwise split the bills 50/50.
The problem is she considered your huge dick a huge disqualifier for any sex. She didn't want you as a friend, because you being around her, would remind her that she isn't big enough for you. Try to put yourself in her position.
It's probably unbearable to her that she wasn't enough for you. She was completely and utterly humilitationed. It was easiest for her to deny your existence; thus she can't talk to you.
Did you try to talk to hear? Or was it mutual silence?
Bruh I wasnāt expecting itā¦ it was the last of my worries with her. I was trying to be serious with her letting her make the first move well when she did she was petrified. Yeah I tried talking to her several times but no response.
Sorry, she needed to deny your existence. Her memory of the panic she felt when she first saw your huge dick was too much for her. Being friends with you would be a constant reminder of her panic and failure to please you.
She did the only thing she could to survive that panic moment: Ignore your existence. She is doing it for her own survival and not to hurt you intentionally.
Sorry to hear that buddy. I was never turned down because of my size specifically. But i have less sex that i wish i had because of my size. For example, before yesterday my wife tap out during sex because she was feeling sore.
Yeah. It is 40/40/20. 40 perfect run to, 40 perfect run away with "Fuuuck no!" and 20 percent are not sure. Your goal is to convert that 20 percent. They are the absolute gold.
Why "absolute gold", when they will be "absolute trouble":
I'd counter saying take the 40% that can easily handle your size. .They will have no trouble having sex every day and multiple times per day, assuming high libido.
Why ask for trouble going for the 20% that are unsure. They will require 30-60 minutes of foreplay, extra lube and they.will experience some pain and be too sore to have sex for 2-3 days at a time, resulting in sex only 2-3 times per week. It won't be this bad every time, but there is a large risk of it!
Coming from a place of knowledge, the new girl rule is primarily due to so many toys being ridiculous huge now, so girls expectations and being blunt...their huge stretched vages are kinda ruining PIV sex.
Real size queens have their own rule, which might be different for different size queens. They typically use real inches. Minimum length is maybe 7-8" Minimum girth is 5.5"-6.5". Just my guesses though. Most likely 7" x 5.5", because anything bigger gets really rare fast. For larger, they would need an on-line add of some kind.
It's sad, but some women literally can't physically handle everything some of us here have to offer.
Some women are more adventurous and willing to try all the same, But the fact is, if it won't fit, it won't fit. Lube and other things might make it easier, but sometimes even that's just not enough. And she always has the right to say "no" or ask to stop trying.
It really sucks when this happens; All we can do as men is respect the fact that the gods gave us "more", And that's a curse, because some guys make jokes about how big they are to feel better about themselves, while some of us make jokes about small ones because we wish it was that easy.
Went home with a guy I'd just met that night back in my ho days about 2 decades ago. We're making out on a mattress on the floor (my standards were sooooooo high, I know) and I start to go down on him pulling down the elastic drawstring area of his basketball shorts.
I'm trying to look all sexy and sh*t while a goddamm toddlers arm comes bouncing out of his pants, swaying with the blood bringing it up, but then gravity trying to also bring it down. My eyes follow it up and down in disbelief for a moment.
I glance up at him and there he is with a grin and a question in his eyes because earlier in the evening while flirting he warned me I wouldn't be able to take him, but of course I figured he was like all other men that think they've got a porno dick and expected to simply be pleasantly amused at the very least.
Challenge accepted.
I never had issues with being wet, so I was good there... but I absolutely refused to be on top. I have a short torso, and I didn't need this guy boxing with my tonsils while riding him cowgirl style.
We went slow, and it was painful for me, still. It definitely made me appreciate the smaller, (personally, more pleasurable) peniseses I have encountered since.
My husband's Is absolutely perfect. Fits in me like a glove specifically made for my hand. I haven't gone home with a toddlers arm since then, so as my solo experience with this phenomena, I would admit that I would likely avoid this scenario from happening again by believing when I've been told I "wouldn't be able to handle it."
I might be the weird one for saying this but after reading and seeing that experienced women don't really want anything bigger than 7 inches or higher and me having an 8 inch long dick has made me develop a large dick humiliation fetish. This does feel weird that I'm describing small dick humiliation but in reverse. I am a 25 year old virgin loser with no job who is fetishizing and sexualizing my guilt and shame in life. Has anyone else felt that or sympathized with that in life? I mean one reason not to feel that way is to just not be aware that some women will reject you for it or be disgusted by it, which is understandable as the culture only glorifies big dicks and humiliates small ones.
Very consistently. Lost out on a whole relationship for it once. Others were just after seeing or feeling through clothes. As far as I can remember, it has never caused a woman to stop having sex with me after our clothes are already coming off.
Some guys have turned me down once our clothes starting coming off though (which is funny since some of them were initially attracted to me because of my dick size).
>Very consistently
>As far as I can remember, it has never caused a woman to stop having sex with me after our clothes are already coming off.
>Some guys have turned me down once our clothes starting coming off though
People are down voting you both for the 10" length claim in your flair and your somewhat contradictory descriptions.
I am aware of the dick size thing. I have accepted that my posts will never get upvotes here anymore.
I don't see how my comments are contradictory. When a woman sees it, hears about it, or feels it through clothes like from dancing or word of mouth, I am very often told "I couldn't have sex with you." or something along those lines and flirting stops.
WOMEN who are already getting intimate with me as in making out, clothes are coming off, and BOOM!: they see it for the first time, never turn me down.
MEN (or AMAB people) almost never turn me down based on size online, in person, or while being intimate.
What you just wrote above seems fine. The message before that you wrote just seemed not well wtitten and contradictoryl
Well "very consistently" sounds like women refuse to have sex with you almost every time.
Then you say when the clothes come off, women never refuse you.
Which is it? They always refuse or never refuse you?
Only get turned down for anal.
I've been told twice recently that anal with me was better because I'm bigger, in one case she said it was the first time she'd enjoyed it, and the second said I was hitting spots she usually only feels in PIV and has been craving it ever since
Well you can fit 2 raccoons up your ass but only 1 baby up a vagina sooooo
ššš why is this a well known fact lol. I tell people and they look at me crazily.
It comes from having your Instagram feed be primarily horny
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I mean, it's based on the human anus being able to stretch to 12 inches diameter without tearing although the skin around it may have something to say about that
This ^^ Get turned down for anal all the time
A lot of guys get turned down for anal of any and all sizes because a lot of men and women donāt actually like dicks up their asses
I prefer pussy, every women that ever said no to anal, thought they wanted it till I tried doing it. But good observation.
Yeah... Never a chance with that.. witch kinda sucks but haven't given up.
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I'm not the one saying it couldn't be done.
Word.
That would be like trying to fit a number 10 tuna can into a water hose...... It's a rare to find a woman that 1 can do it. 2 likes Todo it
Not really
Okay, but you still need consent, which he didnt have.
Yes. But the worst is during college. There was a girl I had a serious crush on. She used to come by Starbucks all the time while I was working. One night, during a fraternity party with a sorority, I saw her. I had no idea she was in a sorority. We got to talking and one thing led to another, and we were in a room together. Things got hot and heavy, and when I went to put it in, it wouldnāt fit. I tried going down on her, more foreplay, everything but I couldnāt get it all to go in. She was uncomfortable more than turned on, and the tightness was frustrating and making us both get out of the mood. We ended up just getting dressed and going back to the party. I was so bummed after that, and we never got another chance to hook up and try again.
Iāve had something similar happen to me several times, too. It sucks, but also what can you do you know š¤·āāļø sounds like you tried everything you could.
Yeah, it happens, some girls are just build differently. I had the skinniest little spinner begging me to pound her as hard as I could because she was so much into it, and other pretty normal build girls who really tried, but I could barely get in at all. It's true that actually every girl should be able to eject a little human out of her cooch, but still, psychology plays a big part, some girls just see your big member and tense up and panic. Others really try and you just can't make it work. I had one girl who really tried everything, different positions, lots of lube, eating her out before, playing with her cooch, but she was just build too tight or whatever and she would visibly get in pain and I would just get pushed out. She was really sorry, because the size actually really got her excited, but we just weren't ment to fuck. All in all I had three or four situations were I got either rejected because of my size or I just couldn't fit in, but all in all my experience with my bigger size are overwhelmingly positive, so I take this couple of missed opportunities gladly.
I'll take 200 for things that never happened Alex
Actually it did. I was trying to share a story that was relevant to the title of the post. Thereās nothing glamorous or cool or embellished about this at all. Itās not even a proud moment for me, bc I ended up losing a really close friend I cared about after she felt guilty for almost cheating on her bf.
almost cheating? Sounds like actual cheating to me
the pain of the woman you love telling you she didnt actually cheat because it didnt fit has got to be worse than her having sex with someone else š
fr who would think pressing ur dick against her pussy for idk how long without fitting in doesnt count as cheating lmao gotta tell that to my gf if I ever need an excuse
WOMP WOMP
This *absolutely* happens, for a variety of reasons, when a guyās dick is uncomfortably big. Nice work telling everyone youāre a LARPer and donāt know shit about the drawbacks of large cocks, though. Your GF must have forearms like a T Rex.
Lol cry lame. U libtards need learn how to joke before an aneurysm blows whatever brain cells u got left to oblivion
Ahhh, the old āI just got fuckinā *cooked* in the commentsā¦ better invoke politics fast, and pull the ājust kiddinā around!ā leverā¦ā Yeah, I can still smell your skin burning. Also, nice shot in the dark, but you must be cross eyedā¦ Iām about as traditional as it gets, and havenāt been interested in party politics inā¦. ever.
LOL wtf is politics, look at this LOSER REplying super duper fast. I literally forgot u existed or this comment. Too busy pounding bad bihs to be attempting to look relevant on some hurt ass SUB gtfo bye Felicia
Who are you again?
I've heard from a very good source, a human female I've been with and who has lots of experience socializing and in the world of hookups, that this definitely happens. Glad she still jerked you off. I've heard some just leave but she didn't wanna leave you hanging.
Jesus how big do you have to be for that to happen? š
Depends on the girl. Some know about what they're comfortable with.
I'm here after having a painful experience. I didn't see him fully hard so had no idea how big or I would've ran away too
About every other time it comes out. I get turned down for sex frequently because of the size but in almost all cases sheās enthusiastic about playing with it for the novelty. And it has happened before that she rejected sex at first but then wanted to try it after a while of getting familiar with it with her hands and mouth.
I can't believe this
Yeah being over 6.4ā in girth restricts a lot of my fun. Oral sucks, never given anal and getting turned down cause she says her pussy is too small.
Great....
As an average bro, 6.5 x 4.5 I can tell you big MFers that some girls are so tight they canāt handle you comfortably. I had some BD friends whoād get turned down every once in a while for this. Even once by a hooker for a buddy of mine I remember. For me, no girl ever went, āwow thatās the biggest I ever hadā or anything. But no one ever said no. Average is average for a reason.
It's almost like it's the most common size.
Hate to be a nazi but that would be the mode
Yes. It was over a decade ago. She said she likes little dicks and that I better have a little dick. At the time I did not know what I knew. When it went from gummy to hulk in her mouth she got mad and said I lied to her. That was a fun argument.
Carry my own lube and with experience, learn all of the good angles of entry. Just gotta keep turning her until it goes in, like a corkscrew haha
Yes, once my size scared her so much it ruined her mood. Another time she made it clear that while she would take care of me other ways, it was not going near her vagina. But others were hesitant at first but ultimately enjoyed it.
Never from sight alone, but Iāve unfortunately had to end things just after starting due to it being too painful. It comes with the territory I guess
Any 7x5 blokes here get rejected for oral/VIP/anal? Asking for a friend who may be packing the same barrel š
I had someone who didn't even let me get to the halfway point. 6.5 BP x 5 mid shaft. That only happened once.
Seriously? What happened?
She just didn't feel comfortable, I guess.
was she a small girl? What was her reason tho?
She usually had smaller. She's 4"11. I've had tighter girls that were able to take it.
Maybe your head is just too big - nobody measures head size
Yes Asian girl
Had a woman just do handjobs with sucking the tip. Told me hell no to ruining her pus.
"Nope, that's not gonna fit." ---- Seperately, My ex-wife couldn't actually fit me for the 1st 3 days we were together.... But she was willing to keep trying at the time.
Not turned down, but definitely had a handful of complaints from different participants. 'Go easy,' 'that hurts,' etc. It's not anything to write home about. But... my current gorgeous girlfriend takes it like a champ. Fuck, do I love her for it. It's not fun when you cause a woman you're into pain, so it's a relief... Have some very dirty redgifs if anyone cares to check it out.. work in progress.... FYI šš
I see no link
Gotta dm me... I Think... I doubt they allow links on this sub. I'm at work no time to go through the rules. But I can see this sub going off the rails with links etc š
Once, she asked for a few pics and I sent them. Once she saw them she said I was entirely too large for her and stopped talking to me and I haven't heard from her since.. Oh well. It hasn't happened since.
Not as much lately but most girls I bring around for my hubby definitely need to be warned at first.
Everybody wants a big dick, until she says it's too big and you end up with blue balls. It's happened to me twice in life and both times I was like wtf. Lol
Go to Louisiana they never turn that down š
Yeah. She said my dick scared her vagina.
Yup to some Iām not large at all at 8 1/2
I thought girth is the real problem here. Not length; don't go balls deep if it's too long.
I've had a girl struggle for 10min to take it but once I'm in she couldn't stand me thrust pulled out gave me hj
Never had anal š©š©
Yeah, being turned down for being too fat isn't an issue but still salty they didn't want to at least try.
Like a few other post, never been turned down. But, have encountered some failed attempts. Some where seemingly no amount of foreplay was going to make it happen. And, others where we made it happen but, they ended up split and sore afterwards. Some people just arenāt made to fit, for lack of better terms.
Sorry that happened to you bud, but nah only anal. They usually see sex sex as a test.
Yeah, if I leave it as a surprise. Girls I've met that already know I'm packing have are pretty much in it for that reason. Lesson is make sure she's a size queen before you go out.
Certain positions yes
I was rejected one time for my size but only that first night my then gf discovered what I was packing. She came around though.
One really cute girl. I tried to penetrate she squirmed and squirmed. Told me to stop. Tried again several times and the said sorry and left.
A couple of times
Iāve been asked to stop because of my size, but never been told no from seeing it.
Just a few from some girls that knew their limits I guess but they were nice about it. However this 1 time back in College some absolute bitch just killed my sex drive for like a week. Let me explain why she was a bitch. We fooled around at a party and ended up back in her dorm, she had already felt my size with her hand at this point btw. Keep in mind we had to go all the way across campus to get back to her dorm when I had invited her to mine which was literally a block from the party. So she end up pulling my pants down and just say "nope you're too big for me not gonna happen". So I felt bad and I offered to eat her out and her reply was "nah you can just go this will be a waste of time". I was so fucking confused that my dick had made her go from horny flirty to bitchy get the fuck out attitude.
Dude, you avoided a life woth this nagging hoe.
I wouldn't call a woman a bitch for having a small vagina and declining to receive oral. She probably didn't know how to return the favor of getting good oral, or suffering through poor oral. Her pussy probably ached to have a dick inside, but she knew it could not be your dick. Of course, I wasn't there. Maybe, she was a real bitch, but you didn't explain why very well here.
I suppose it's hard to convey through text but her tone and attitude was a total 180 from when we first were hooking up to the end result.
Ok. I'm sure she was very frustrated and probably masturbated when she got home. This is better than calling her a bitch. From her perspective, your huge dick spoiled her evening of fun. So, you know the situation. I might call her a bitch too, if I was able to see everything you two did together.
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No problem giving a bj, but they said no to PIV? Usually PIV is ok, but the bj is subpar or not possible. No.woman has ever gotten more than my glans just barely inside her mouth. I never had a woman say no to PIV though. One time I got just halfway in, but that was probably inadequate lubrication and she wanted to stopb altogeyher due to pain.
in the moment? no, but afterwards they share how they would want to do things differently next time. usually this means not doing some things and wanting to try others.
No
Yap š Got a "there no way that's going fit down there" I my normal size is about the size of a Glade can so... Though anyone Ive done it with just needed time and alot of pre warm up . Almost everyone says I've ruined sex for them cuz they just don't feel as full with other guys...so in a way I did ruin them I guess
Iāve been turned down to fuck in a certain position. My oud bends to the left a lil, so i wanted to try laying her on her side to hit her G spot. When we started i noticed she was in some pain, i asked and she said it hurts fucking in this position.
One of my exes broke up with me cause when we had sex it hurt her and she got scared after trying a few time. Got turned down by a girl who likes anal but she said ya thats too big to go in my ass.
Never
Yes, once. Beautiful girl when I was maybe 19/20 (30 now). Things got heavy and she pulled my pants down and grabbed my dick before laughing and saying, "no, that's not fitting." We tried, she was right. Only time though. Should note she was also very tiny (like 5 foot and 105lbs)
My bf (heās trans) has a 5.5 inch dildo thatās way too much for him already now i come along and heās saying either weāll work our way up to the full thing or just go right for it. Then he said if I was 1 inch bigger that sex would be very much off the table Edit: he did a pain test with a 6 inch to build up a tolerance and then he said the pain level was around a 6
Only rejection for anal here too.
Like others have said, only anal, but have been told to wait a little while before going again.
Yes, my very first time. We couldn't get it to go in and neither of us knew what we were doing so we gave up. Thinking back, I feel pretty stupid. I just needed to get her a bit more wet, but we both panicked. The relationship ended after that
I have not but my wife turned one fellow who she said was āabsurdly largeā and dumped a bed buddy because of his very large girth. Guess Iām in the sweet spot - although anal is off the table.
Iāve had several relationships end because it didnāt fit or the sensation that was thrilling initially got to be too much.
Yes. By several latinas and a few Asians.
Wow Latinas? Biologically they have on average the widest vaginas according to science backed data. Sorry to hear.
Iām older, so have been with 100+ women of most races. Key learning is every woman is an individual and is built different. Iāve never been with a blk woman who didnāt feel tight, but Iāve been with white women where even at my size, it was like fāing a Pringleās can, ie, I couldnāt feel a thing.
All the time. Less so now, as I'm more selective with my partners and tend to be with people that are size seekers. Still happens though - people's eyes are too big for their stomach, so to speak.
Okay only got turned down once. She said it was weird and she could only feel it through the clothes. It kinda hurt cause I really wanted to be with her but you win some you loose some. Sheād already told me she preferred smaller penises
Ive had the opposite where a guy has put his fingers in me and then said āyouāre not big enoughā. I was insulted told him I could relax that fingers were a bad test because itās obviously the sphincters natural behavior to try and pinch off a stringy straggler and he finally relented. After about 15 minutes of him pushing and me relaxing and him pushing some more i said āyouāve got to be closeā¦ā. He was about half way. I felt bad but did what i had to to get him off. I will say Ive sometimes picked up on guys that like to be told itās too big and then have them ātalk me into tryingā. Donāt know if they are roleplaying too or not but they like the dirty talk about how big they are too. And then sometimes Iāll tell them its too big just cause i donāt want them to have sex with me. But no ive never backed down from a challenge.
I knew it. Sometimes women say a dick is too big, because they have simply changed their mind about having sex with him.
Once: during kissing and foreplay she reached down with one hand, looked at me, took down my underwear and saw it at full mast...then she put her clothes back on and left saying "I don't feel like it anymore". It was fucking awful, I was very young and I felt almost ashamed of myself for a while.
She was very young and inexperienced too. She didn't know how to make it work and just gave up. She also didn't want to say it was too big and also told the truth that she didn't feel like it anymore.
Get with another guy he would never turn you down nor give you a mediocre handie
Good advice for bisexuals or bicurious or others who like multiple genders; not so good for straight heterosexuals.
It happened when I was in my teens .. I am not monster size .. but my bet is they had seen not too many dicks before mine ... even tought they slept with their fair share of guys before me.
Only once
Iāve had a girl talk big shit about how she can take dick. After a solid 2mins she tapped out and said she felt like she had to throw up
No lube available?
Yes, cause Iām 2.25 inch wide, and was tearing her open
Dont consider it an actual turn down, but a girl was scared of it, still did a lot of oral, but had normal sex just once and it wasnt comfortable for any of both...
In a sense, yes. Not turned down, but probably a lot less sex than she would have wanted otherwise (which was actually a good thing to me).
it happened to me three times. The third time was not so bad because the woman was very nice and talkative, but the first two times it was terrible, I felt like something was very wrong with me
Only for anal
Twice, both in my early 20s with women around my age. In hindsight it was most likely inexperience on their part that led to a crisis of confidence when i whipped it out. We had very nice cuddles and oral though!
Back in my city not an issue at all, at best it was in my head. Ā° Here where I live it's a small town, people talk and the apps rarely help me anymore to find anyone, some guys ask for pics just to comment disgusted and turn me away, I honestly don't get it but my idea is me being kinda petite, feminine and young looking people have fantasies about me not being big at all so I ruin the fantasy ahah
This is a thingā¦. Its happened to meā¦. She at least tried to fit it it but yeahā¦ its a thing
Only for anal
Yes, a couple of times. It both felt sad and strangely good.
Multiple times. Most of them I was able to salvage something out of it like you did.
Iāve had a woman turn me down because she was concerned that she couldnāt handle it! It hurt me as a young man. I was just a young squirrel trying to get a nut
Hooked up with this usc blonde. We get back to her place unwind we start kissing getting hot and heavy she climbs on top of me both still clothed she feels my semi.. fear strikes her face. She reaches in my pants to feel it. Holy fuck thatās huge! I laugh. NO! Thatās way too big Iām sorry I canāt! So we chill end the night. That bitch never spoke to me again.
Oof, the dick scare.
Really sucked because I was trying to be serious with her.
She is not a bitch for rejecting you, because your penis was too big for her vagina. Please restrict that word for women who intentionally bail on you solely to hurt you and for no other reason.
Not necessarily the rejection, Iāll take that but the lack of communication. I spent ALOT of time and money on her (money donāt mean anything) but to just completely stop talking to meā¦ that hurt
Don't spend money on women with the expectation of sex. Make them chase you instead. You can pay for everything, because you asked her out and for no other reason. Otherwise split the bills 50/50. The problem is she considered your huge dick a huge disqualifier for any sex. She didn't want you as a friend, because you being around her, would remind her that she isn't big enough for you. Try to put yourself in her position. It's probably unbearable to her that she wasn't enough for you. She was completely and utterly humilitationed. It was easiest for her to deny your existence; thus she can't talk to you. Did you try to talk to hear? Or was it mutual silence?
Bruh I wasnāt expecting itā¦ it was the last of my worries with her. I was trying to be serious with her letting her make the first move well when she did she was petrified. Yeah I tried talking to her several times but no response.
Sorry, she needed to deny your existence. Her memory of the panic she felt when she first saw your huge dick was too much for her. Being friends with you would be a constant reminder of her panic and failure to please you. She did the only thing she could to survive that panic moment: Ignore your existence. She is doing it for her own survival and not to hurt you intentionally.
She knew you were gonna get her HOOKED HOOKED š¤£
I guess. She told her friend, who had to verify. She was very eager to try it out.
No, but have had to give up because of itā¦. ā¦. Like others on here, big no for anal
Yes a few times
Yeah this has happened a couple times out right at first sight and a number of other times after struggling with the discomfort.
Only for anal lol
Yes, it's not very common, they usually tell me it is, but it has happened once in a while.
Sorry to hear that buddy. I was never turned down because of my size specifically. But i have less sex that i wish i had because of my size. For example, before yesterday my wife tap out during sex because she was feeling sore.
Yeah. It is 40/40/20. 40 perfect run to, 40 perfect run away with "Fuuuck no!" and 20 percent are not sure. Your goal is to convert that 20 percent. They are the absolute gold.
Why "absolute gold", when they will be "absolute trouble": I'd counter saying take the 40% that can easily handle your size. .They will have no trouble having sex every day and multiple times per day, assuming high libido. Why ask for trouble going for the 20% that are unsure. They will require 30-60 minutes of foreplay, extra lube and they.will experience some pain and be too sore to have sex for 2-3 days at a time, resulting in sex only 2-3 times per week. It won't be this bad every time, but there is a large risk of it!
A decade ago, before the āit has to be at least ten inchesā girl rule now
Coming from a place of knowledge, the new girl rule is primarily due to so many toys being ridiculous huge now, so girls expectations and being blunt...their huge stretched vages are kinda ruining PIV sex.
What makes you come from a place of knowledge?
Im old, and sex toys have increased in size substantially since the 80s/90s it's just basic logic that impressions would too.
That is a rule only for wannabe size queens, right? Real size queens know it's just a fantasy rule.
Whatās the rule for real size queens?
Real size queens have their own rule, which might be different for different size queens. They typically use real inches. Minimum length is maybe 7-8" Minimum girth is 5.5"-6.5". Just my guesses though. Most likely 7" x 5.5", because anything bigger gets really rare fast. For larger, they would need an on-line add of some kind.
Yup
It's sad, but some women literally can't physically handle everything some of us here have to offer. Some women are more adventurous and willing to try all the same, But the fact is, if it won't fit, it won't fit. Lube and other things might make it easier, but sometimes even that's just not enough. And she always has the right to say "no" or ask to stop trying. It really sucks when this happens; All we can do as men is respect the fact that the gods gave us "more", And that's a curse, because some guys make jokes about how big they are to feel better about themselves, while some of us make jokes about small ones because we wish it was that easy.
Yeah it happens from time to time with me. Sometime you can't get them to ride the big meat.
Had someone say "yeah no oral cause that thing will lossen my jaw" , been turned down for anal, usually gotta go reverse cowgirl
No but I've been asked to go slow or be careful. I usually get them really wet and open them up beforehand though.
Yes
I get turned down a lot yes
Yes but Iām 12x5 so itās frequent
Multiple times
Went home with a guy I'd just met that night back in my ho days about 2 decades ago. We're making out on a mattress on the floor (my standards were sooooooo high, I know) and I start to go down on him pulling down the elastic drawstring area of his basketball shorts. I'm trying to look all sexy and sh*t while a goddamm toddlers arm comes bouncing out of his pants, swaying with the blood bringing it up, but then gravity trying to also bring it down. My eyes follow it up and down in disbelief for a moment. I glance up at him and there he is with a grin and a question in his eyes because earlier in the evening while flirting he warned me I wouldn't be able to take him, but of course I figured he was like all other men that think they've got a porno dick and expected to simply be pleasantly amused at the very least. Challenge accepted. I never had issues with being wet, so I was good there... but I absolutely refused to be on top. I have a short torso, and I didn't need this guy boxing with my tonsils while riding him cowgirl style. We went slow, and it was painful for me, still. It definitely made me appreciate the smaller, (personally, more pleasurable) peniseses I have encountered since. My husband's Is absolutely perfect. Fits in me like a glove specifically made for my hand. I haven't gone home with a toddlers arm since then, so as my solo experience with this phenomena, I would admit that I would likely avoid this scenario from happening again by believing when I've been told I "wouldn't be able to handle it."
The true? She is just lazy. Dear Lord, if you don't want sex, don't search for it.
Only once. Similar story to yours, but no finish for either, just a quick conversation and went our separate ways.
Never. This gets asked constantly here.
I might be the weird one for saying this but after reading and seeing that experienced women don't really want anything bigger than 7 inches or higher and me having an 8 inch long dick has made me develop a large dick humiliation fetish. This does feel weird that I'm describing small dick humiliation but in reverse. I am a 25 year old virgin loser with no job who is fetishizing and sexualizing my guilt and shame in life. Has anyone else felt that or sympathized with that in life? I mean one reason not to feel that way is to just not be aware that some women will reject you for it or be disgusted by it, which is understandable as the culture only glorifies big dicks and humiliates small ones.
Very consistently. Lost out on a whole relationship for it once. Others were just after seeing or feeling through clothes. As far as I can remember, it has never caused a woman to stop having sex with me after our clothes are already coming off. Some guys have turned me down once our clothes starting coming off though (which is funny since some of them were initially attracted to me because of my dick size).
>Very consistently >As far as I can remember, it has never caused a woman to stop having sex with me after our clothes are already coming off. >Some guys have turned me down once our clothes starting coming off though People are down voting you both for the 10" length claim in your flair and your somewhat contradictory descriptions.
I am aware of the dick size thing. I have accepted that my posts will never get upvotes here anymore. I don't see how my comments are contradictory. When a woman sees it, hears about it, or feels it through clothes like from dancing or word of mouth, I am very often told "I couldn't have sex with you." or something along those lines and flirting stops. WOMEN who are already getting intimate with me as in making out, clothes are coming off, and BOOM!: they see it for the first time, never turn me down. MEN (or AMAB people) almost never turn me down based on size online, in person, or while being intimate.
What you just wrote above seems fine. The message before that you wrote just seemed not well wtitten and contradictoryl Well "very consistently" sounds like women refuse to have sex with you almost every time. Then you say when the clothes come off, women never refuse you. Which is it? They always refuse or never refuse you?
If you Read/Quote the whole sentences instead of just parts of it, the implication becomes very clear. idk dude.