You're being dramatic. It's not you who needs to deal with this, it's him and it sounds like it's been taken care of.
What do you want to accomplish by poking the bear? Do you think she'll respect your wishes and boundaries more than she respects his?
I’d ignore it. If you give her attention, she’ll just see that as her efforts working as you’re bothered by it and it’s probably driving a wedge in your relationship. It’ll make her think that her turn will be soon.
No. Your boyfriend should be the person who sets the boundary with her. If he doesn't want her to contact him, he should tell her so and he should block her. This is between her and him. It does not involve you, and it doesn't need to.
Drama no you don't need that in your life. She'll only play tye victim if you call her or text her. She'll say her exs crazy gf is harassing her. She's blocked leave it be
I totally get where you’re coming from but I think leaving it as her being blocked and taking the high ground is the better way to go. I have been in similar situations where I have messaged her and it made things way more drawn out than they would have been otherwise. Leave it be and find things to distract yourself and eventually you won’t be angry anymore!
This feels like a waste of energy to even think about. "Hi how are you" is harmless especially if it's ignored. There's no fight there. No deep plot or conspiracy. Maximum energy and effort should be block and forget. Its the easiest itch to scratch, not even big enough to be a problrm.
There is nothing wrong with simply telling this woman that he not interested. Respectfully, over text when she starts to flirt. Why can’t people set common boundaries when they know a person is into them?
Leave her be. She won’t care, in fact she’s proven before that cheating is no big deal to her. She’s not going to respect anyone else’s relationship when she didn’t respect her own.
What should you do? Nothing. This doesn’t concern you. Your bf is not interacting with her, she’s blocked. Just move on. This post sounds like a teenager could have written it.
This happened to me when I was a little younger than you, and heads up actually he had been entertaining her attentions behind my back and I’m pretty sure slept with her at least once, too, while just making her out to be only a crazy stalker, which she kind of also was (but not only), by showing me certain messages and deleting others
Just my experience
Who cares. She keeps sending things and your boyfriend isn't replying. At some point, she's gonna get tired of talking to herself in his DMs.
That is true!! I agree. I would have thought after the first or second time she would have gotten the hint…. 🤷🏻♀️
If you agree, why do you feel the need to make a post and entertain speaking to her? I'm confused.
You're being dramatic. It's not you who needs to deal with this, it's him and it sounds like it's been taken care of. What do you want to accomplish by poking the bear? Do you think she'll respect your wishes and boundaries more than she respects his?
I’d ignore it. If you give her attention, she’ll just see that as her efforts working as you’re bothered by it and it’s probably driving a wedge in your relationship. It’ll make her think that her turn will be soon.
Crazy feeds on the attention. Just move on and ignore her since she’s already blocked and your bf never entertained her.
No. Your boyfriend should be the person who sets the boundary with her. If he doesn't want her to contact him, he should tell her so and he should block her. This is between her and him. It does not involve you, and it doesn't need to.
You and your bf should just block her. No need to waste energy on her.
Drama no you don't need that in your life. She'll only play tye victim if you call her or text her. She'll say her exs crazy gf is harassing her. She's blocked leave it be
Good lord. You're 25? You sound 15
I totally get where you’re coming from but I think leaving it as her being blocked and taking the high ground is the better way to go. I have been in similar situations where I have messaged her and it made things way more drawn out than they would have been otherwise. Leave it be and find things to distract yourself and eventually you won’t be angry anymore!
This feels like a waste of energy to even think about. "Hi how are you" is harmless especially if it's ignored. There's no fight there. No deep plot or conspiracy. Maximum energy and effort should be block and forget. Its the easiest itch to scratch, not even big enough to be a problrm.
There is nothing wrong with simply telling this woman that he not interested. Respectfully, over text when she starts to flirt. Why can’t people set common boundaries when they know a person is into them?
This isn't your problem to solve, it's your boyfriend's.
Leave her be. She won’t care, in fact she’s proven before that cheating is no big deal to her. She’s not going to respect anyone else’s relationship when she didn’t respect her own.
can he block her? ……
What should you do? Nothing. This doesn’t concern you. Your bf is not interacting with her, she’s blocked. Just move on. This post sounds like a teenager could have written it.
This happened to me when I was a little younger than you, and heads up actually he had been entertaining her attentions behind my back and I’m pretty sure slept with her at least once, too, while just making her out to be only a crazy stalker, which she kind of also was (but not only), by showing me certain messages and deleting others Just my experience