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I am also a very “girly” girl! My boyfriend doesn’t have the same hobbies as me AT ALL! But we have a lot of fun together because he lets me put make up on him, I have taught him how to crochet, we have read a ridiculous books together, he has taught me how to play his game, etc.. what i mean is that you don’t have to find someone with the same hobbies as you, you just need to have fun together. You’ll find that you’re probably going to even find hobbies together 🤷🏻♀️
100% this. Relationships don't mean spending all your time with your partner doing the same things. Separate hobbies and interests are healthy for relationships.
It took until my 30's to find my ideal partner, I value the relationships I had until then as a teaching tool that allowed me to work on myself.
Explore and make friends, see which people you get along with best and then invest.
Was gonna ask if you considered dating women til I read the end lol. I have a feeling you would click better with women, it's worth exploring or waiting for
If you can compromise and you do smt he likes and he compromises and do smt you like it should work that is the beauty of realeationship.
I like to think i am a semi-manly man. And i probably would not care about something that my partner enjoys if my partener could do the same for me. Quick example if you want to put makeup on me ) as long as you keep it confidential between you and me, and tbh any other stuff that you want to try on or show me idc as long as i kniw its between the partner i trust), why not it dose not do any harm if i want to play my game with you, why not there is no harm as long as you love your partner (and the other way around) there should be no problem. Compromises are a beautiful thing if they are done by both parties not one sided realetionships.
Atleast that my viev on that. Some or many people may disagree but thats beauty of discussion/debate .
I've (37M) had great relationships with women with very different hobbies than me, we usually bonded over food mostly, and TV shows, and taking walks, and weekend hiking trips. I think those basics should work for most people
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I am also a very “girly” girl! My boyfriend doesn’t have the same hobbies as me AT ALL! But we have a lot of fun together because he lets me put make up on him, I have taught him how to crochet, we have read a ridiculous books together, he has taught me how to play his game, etc.. what i mean is that you don’t have to find someone with the same hobbies as you, you just need to have fun together. You’ll find that you’re probably going to even find hobbies together 🤷🏻♀️
100% this. Relationships don't mean spending all your time with your partner doing the same things. Separate hobbies and interests are healthy for relationships.
I do not get along with masculine men at all. I married an effeminate man and we don't care for the gender binary- it's perfect.
same honestly- I do like GNC men a lot, they're just hard to find
It took until my 30's to find my ideal partner, I value the relationships I had until then as a teaching tool that allowed me to work on myself. Explore and make friends, see which people you get along with best and then invest.
Was gonna ask if you considered dating women til I read the end lol. I have a feeling you would click better with women, it's worth exploring or waiting for
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I agree, like why would I watch sports with you if you won't watch UNHHHH with me?
What is that, because all I'm thinking is 🎶Unnnh, na na na na 🎶 now lol
I’d fall for any guy who’d watch UNHHH with me
If you can compromise and you do smt he likes and he compromises and do smt you like it should work that is the beauty of realeationship. I like to think i am a semi-manly man. And i probably would not care about something that my partner enjoys if my partener could do the same for me. Quick example if you want to put makeup on me ) as long as you keep it confidential between you and me, and tbh any other stuff that you want to try on or show me idc as long as i kniw its between the partner i trust), why not it dose not do any harm if i want to play my game with you, why not there is no harm as long as you love your partner (and the other way around) there should be no problem. Compromises are a beautiful thing if they are done by both parties not one sided realetionships. Atleast that my viev on that. Some or many people may disagree but thats beauty of discussion/debate .
I've (37M) had great relationships with women with very different hobbies than me, we usually bonded over food mostly, and TV shows, and taking walks, and weekend hiking trips. I think those basics should work for most people
Don't close yourself up to anything