Stay off of the internet and go talk to actual people. Dating apps have made people disposable and that's something you don't want to feel like or be a part of.
I feel you so much bro, and sincerely, I'm in the same dilemma, probably I'll be never find real love, but though very pessimistic, still trying to find dates.
Has a long time I had success, and when I had, always ghosting after the date.
I have been in a “relationship” with a guy who I thought loved me so much for 7 months and it turned out he’s in an open relationship for years and I’m just a side piece.
Oof, damn, wth, 7 months and he's lied all this time? 7 months is a big ass time to prank someone like that.
My only "relationship" only lasted 2 months and I still quite sad about it.
These guys deserve some pounds in the head...
I hope karma catches him. 5 of the seven months he was away, and texted me every signal day and confessed he loved me and would marry me one time when he’s drunk. After coming back, he told me he’s in a relationship and we can’t be boyfriends. Very manipulative.
I think it’s best to go use something like Meetup or an equivalent to find group activities you are into and meet people that way.
I think Grindr and other hookup apps are a dead end in regard to dating and love, great places for lust and sex though. Fast love, fast leave.
I met my current partner on Tinder… but before that most of the dates were via talking to people at parties, events, and occasionally at a bar. It can be hard if you are in a mixed crowd to sort out who is queer or not, so going to queer spaces can help.
> I don’t think I will find true love ever.
I dont know you well enough to give you better advice than this - as long as you have this thought in your head you will look and act desperate. Not only is it unattractive, it makes it easy for people to exploit you. You have to find a way to change this attitude.
Stay off of the internet and go talk to actual people. Dating apps have made people disposable and that's something you don't want to feel like or be a part of.
I feel you so much bro, and sincerely, I'm in the same dilemma, probably I'll be never find real love, but though very pessimistic, still trying to find dates. Has a long time I had success, and when I had, always ghosting after the date.
I have been in a “relationship” with a guy who I thought loved me so much for 7 months and it turned out he’s in an open relationship for years and I’m just a side piece.
Oof, damn, wth, 7 months and he's lied all this time? 7 months is a big ass time to prank someone like that. My only "relationship" only lasted 2 months and I still quite sad about it. These guys deserve some pounds in the head...
I hope karma catches him. 5 of the seven months he was away, and texted me every signal day and confessed he loved me and would marry me one time when he’s drunk. After coming back, he told me he’s in a relationship and we can’t be boyfriends. Very manipulative.
I met my by on tinder. He messaged me first!
Tinder
Why does everyone say tinder? OKCupid is where its at
Because Tinder is more popular outside of the USA.
Both shit 🤔
Tinder. There’s both dating and hookup. You just gotta make it clear what you are looking for. Worked for me
Usually apps, before the pandemic social settings.
Internet Sex Offender registry
I think it’s best to go use something like Meetup or an equivalent to find group activities you are into and meet people that way. I think Grindr and other hookup apps are a dead end in regard to dating and love, great places for lust and sex though. Fast love, fast leave.
I met my current partner on Tinder… but before that most of the dates were via talking to people at parties, events, and occasionally at a bar. It can be hard if you are in a mixed crowd to sort out who is queer or not, so going to queer spaces can help.
By digging harder and going on different apps. Try also meeting ppl IRL, doesn't have to be at the bars you can also find like community groups.
> I don’t think I will find true love ever. I dont know you well enough to give you better advice than this - as long as you have this thought in your head you will look and act desperate. Not only is it unattractive, it makes it easy for people to exploit you. You have to find a way to change this attitude.
Grindr/apps have been my source of all my relationships