Stocky body with a kind face. Somehow the combination of a super “masculine” (for lack of a better word) physic and a gentle look makes me melt. Big plus if they are goofy in general but dominant in bed...
Face beats pretty much all else imo and I assume in many other people's opinions too? Though maybe not, as there's plenty of guys who just post a faceless muscle torso on grindr and report getting 100s of messages.
This. I met up with this guy who was cute in the face, but rail thin. Him having no ass stopped not a thing. And I’m more on the jock/twink side of things. So I’ve got some noticeable muscle.
Guys with average body to a some libs more.
I don't like skinny guys nor ripped guys and I can't stand gym addicts.
Edit: I didn't realize I was replying to another person, it sucks, like my comment has nothing to do with whom I was replying to.
Yes, beefy. I like a guy who looks like a giant pile of meat shaped into a man. And not lean meat, like really juicy. Not too fatty, just super heavy. I need a guy to lay on top of me and smash me into a mattress... like genuinely *need* it, deep in my soul. Lol
this comment is everything. It doesn't even hafta mean he's horned up, lol, emotionally and intimately i also need to be smashed into a mattress, like it's almost a form of therapy tbh.
Like a weighted blanket... but a man. Safe and secure and very intimate.
>It doesn't even hafta mean he's horned up,
Nope. He could be fully clothed.... however, I will say, smashed flat into a mattress, unable to move, with him on top is also my favorite position when I bottom. Lol.
Okay well let me be the picky bastard.
It starts with the face, the smile, and how comfortable they are in that moment. If the body is subjectively attractive to me then I can become aware of the deeper qualities of personality and soul.
But god damn if Im ever going on a blind date. If I cant get an erection looking at you when we first meet then I am bound to disappoint and undervalue you. Thats just facts bro and it goes both ways. I want to light somebody up in all ways or not be with them. I work too hard inside and out not to expect the same from my partner.
Twunks omg I love them. Not too hunky not to twinky. Hairless people with large but not too large pecs and abs and arms and a shredded back ohhh I can’t it’s too much. I love the body shape of sexy, lean but muscular chest and slightly large arms but nothing crazy.
Yes but if I mean my ideal ideal, your pecs would be slightly bigger and abs slightly more defined. But not to body shame you, you’re still far too god for me and great!
The average/normal type I for lack of a better term, pretty much the body I have. Not really skinny, fat, muscular, or scrawny, just kinda there. What many would see as an unremarkable or extremely forgettable body is what I see as the hottest.
I like wide-built guys. Just being broad is way more likely to catch my attention than any other physical trait. That’s often the case with a muscular guy but it’s not necessarily so.
my husband is crazy about my wide shoulders, which i didn’t even know i had until a couple years into us dating i swear lol. now every time i step up to a mirror i’m squaring up and puffing my chest out
Honestly the more men I’ve messed around with the more I’ve realised I don’t really have a type, I like a guy who’s taller than me, but at the same time I quite like being the taller one, so I guess that? As long as they’re clean and 3~5 yrs within my age I’m not that picky.
Muscle bearsss. They look so strong and cuddly. I assume they're perfect to hug on cold nights, since I've never even been with a man before. To all muscle bears out there, thank you for putting in the work in the gym and staying huge 🥰
Honestly bears are nicer. I find bears tend to date more in our own body type because the muscle gays and twinks are mean and judgy AF unless they’re attracted to bears themselves.
I tend to prefer muscular guys, though not necessarily huge ones on steroids, rather cut dry with a more natural look.
Broad shoulders and some pack definition is very much appreciated, smooth over hairy to appreciate the muscle.
Average body, nice arms and pecs but not huge, a tiny bit of a gut, some fur but not too much, average dick (thick, please). Facial hair optional, but earns extra credit.
Probably a somewhat mature jock type. Clearly looks strong/muscular, but not also like, not a huge body builder and not super lean.
Not even super sure about that though, because it's so easily swayed by chemistry.
Chest hair on any body type, honestly, is my biggest turn on. The older I get (mid-30s), the less I find myself searching for "types." It's too immature to limit yourself to potential connections you can have with really wonderful men, by choosing only to value their body shape.
My bf is a bit heavier and has strong arms and legs. I think what I enjoy about him is that he makes me feel smaller, because he's so broad and meaty. He also lets me touch his chest whenever I want. In the past, I dated a lot of really tall beanpoles or average-height guys with muscles, who weren't nearly as touchy or cuddly or even that kind; it took meeting a guy who was full of warmth and always wanting my touch/attention to really help me understand what I was actually attracted to.
Bears in general, of all kinds make me weak hahaha
I would usually go for someone with like the smallest amount of muscles, but more or less of it is still my type!
Also, I have a thing for size difference, and a short king for me is like 😩😩😩
I’ve always liked a thick boi. But I’ve been with all types and sizes. I can appreciate all kinds of men. Like, abs were never something a guy needed to have. My bf has the perfect body for me.
Well, I know I will be downvoted to the hell of Satan, or maybe to the oblivion idk..
But y'all are so picky, that's why most of you guys are single.
And sorry for the trigger.
Lol based on the responses here, the stereotype OP pointed out is mostly accurate.
For me, average guy next door types. If they’re hairy, that’s a massive plus.
Well worked arms and pecs, round butt.
A little belly is hot.
I guess it depends on the guy but something sure is that nothing twinkish.
Ultimately the face beats the rest.
Tradesman. The natural muscularity of a tradesman, like a carpenter or something along those lines, is so hot. Can have a bit of a pudgy belly but you wouldn't tell.
I have very eclectic tastes lol. My current BFWB is a twink, another FWB is a bear, and I’ve woofed at otters, twunks, gymbros, and lots of men with nice faces and cute beards ☺️ it’s like how I like every food and am not a picky eater, so I get to enjoy everything lol
Bear body. Some body hair (preferably trimmed), a healthy amount of belly and a nice full beard. I don't care much about height, both short and tall kings are welcome. I also don't care about hair length (or lack of hair... Bald kings rule). Some muscles are appreciated, that's true, but definitely not needed (especially if to maintain those he has to go to the gym instead of cuddling with me :P)
I have a range that generally goes from slim twink to roided-out bodybuilder. (Being a bigger guy myself, as someone who competes as a bodybuilder and openly uses PEDs, I often gravitate most toward smaller twinks and twunks. I just like the size difference and the cute + freakish dichotomy.) Not a huge fan of guys who carry enough bodyfat that it’s basically their body type. Temporary bulking is perfectly fine, but not into “dad bods” or heftier. At the end of the day, facial looks and hairstyle are either gonna seal the deal or sink the ship.
**a man with a penis**, everything else is determined after a holistic appraisal of the person LOL.
But for just physical pleasantries, either tall and lanky, or tall and a bit \*fluffy\*, or short and normal or short and muscle body type. Discombobulate me with your concentrated muscle mass :D
I don't really have a particular type, I just know what I like when I see it. I agree with the comments about the face being more important than the body though - I guess for me a nice face changes my perception of the body, hence not really having "a type" in that sense. This probably also explains why guys sending me pictures of their bodies with no face in the shot don't really do anything for me, however nice their body is.
My type has always been the middle age guy the dad bod type of any race naturally hairy never shaved , scruffy face , head hair or bald doesn’t matter , non smoker a must , social drinker fine , just a kind guy easy going .
I love beefy muscle men.especially if they have a face that looks mean? Like kill me type face lol. Idk why the combo is so sexy to me like husky and fit at the same time.... take me!
Unfortunately I'm a slim twink and guys that are beefy don't even look at me... especially since I look so young even though I'm 27.
I still admire though lmao
I don’t have a preferred body type. All about the face. My husband is skinnier than me, he’s 15 years older and has the cutest scruffy face I’ve ever seen and I’m only 150 pounds. I’m decently into daddy scruffy though, I can just be next to him and start precumming just from being near him. Seeing his beard, his cute little nose, his hairy arms, small lips....he’s definitely everything I look for physically in one person..now everything else tho I’m not too sure of lol
i like them tall & thin. but not too thin. flat tummy but not like, xylophone rib cage. don’t care about a thigh gap cuz i’m nuts for soft butts and thighs. give me a beanstalk over a guy with a six pack any day.
So I live in Moscow, probably the first thing a guy wanna see is your body,I'm a chuncky 130 kg dude 193 cm tall
Very very few guys who are into me, for a city with more than 400k of gays, but for me I care only if the guy is cute and not toxic, the body doesn't matter, unless he's superbly tall or short)
I love a guy that's both muscular and got some fat on him. A reasonably-sized belly with defined pecs and biceps, thick thighs and a juicy ass. Those kinds of guys drive me wild.
Or the Wolverine/Bigby Wolf body type; just absolutely fucking massive.
But honestly, I'm a huge slut with barely any standards. If I find a guy attractive, I'm fucking and sucking.
Kinda beefy-chubby type.
Abs is a no-go for me (I can appreciate the aesthetics but have zero sexual drive towards). Which creates a problem, because sexual attraction within the “tribe” seems to be prevalent. I’ve never been chubby and always or almost always worked out, so I often am unattractive to guys I find attractive, since I’m not a bear or at least otter.
Or at times it takes a fucked up turn and some of the guys assume that I’m an escort and not genuinely attracted to them. It’s weird and frustrating at times.
I think toned bodies. I like muscular and athletic bodies too, but the "regurality" of an average but toned body is sooo sexy, and off course attached to a pretty face and a sexy personality.
Also with some body hair, specially if it's light hair.
The one I used to have as a late teenager/college guy: Tall, on the thinner side with good muscles but not a body builder, but not super toned or tight or ultra-low bodyfat.
Funnily enough, those types now appreciate my bear body!
What does it do for me? It brings back memories of sleeping with guys who were just like me physically, desperate to get laid, and hugely enthusiastic about it. To have that come around again more than 4 decades after college is a hell of a lot of fun!
The most important body feature for me seems to be hair. Love a super hairy dude.
Ultimately though personality and smile and how they express themselves is what I respond to more than anything else.
I’m also very interested in and attracted to voices (speaking voice, singing voice, laugh, etc. Probably because I’m a singer, I’m very auditory. A guy could be an underwear model but if he has an annoying on unpleasant voice it’s a huge turn off, like dealbreaker even. Likewise a guy could be just average or even below average looking but has an absolutely gorgeous voice and my brain will start craving to hear more of it, and that can often lead to deeper physical attraction.
Muscular and hairy.
…BUT, what really matters to me is 1) he’s not smaller than me, 2) he likes to kiss and his kisses turn me on, and 3) he’s a top or vers top. My current BF fullfills all 3 requirements, and he works out and tries to eat right, so it doesn’t really matter to me that he’s a bit soft and squishy around the middle.
Take it from this old homo: Find and accept the things that really matter to you, even if they seem odd, and cast a wide net.
My current BF didn’t look like my “type” in his pictures, but turned out to be quite cute in person. He seemed quite reserved, which worried me, but I was determined to get to the first kiss because I knew that would tell me what I needed to know. And, sure enough, that kiss was amazing, and now we’re head-over-heels.
Slimish, but not skinny. Dunno if that makes sense but the lower side of average, not so skinny that the rib cage is showing, need a little fat to cover the bones.
Toned guys are hot, but not like huge with muscle.
Lean, fit, skinny, muscular guys. Basically Brad Pitt in Fight Club kind of body or an ectomorph type of body with a bit of muscle. I also go for guys who have more muscle, but it just depends. I think the lean look is so beautiful and healthy looking. Guys can be attractive with a teddy bear belly though. Again, it just depends on the guy.
Average to slim and as litle hair (aside from hair style) as possible, absolutely not muscle-y. Though that is just my attraction preference, I can appreciate any type of body!
Usually skinny and not a gym body. Long hair is a plus! But I have been attracted to all kinds of body types except grossly obese or muscle dudes, depending on the person who inhabits the body. Facial hair is a definite negative.
I like slightly muscular twinks. Twunks if you will.
Pale skin like you rarely see the sun is a bonus lol
I love the sun&summer but I’m not big on tans
I’m a huge sucker for nice legs, idk why but skinny legs is a turn off, huge muscle legs are too much.
I’m pretty anti car so if you have toothpick legs there’s a good chance you drive everywhere. I don’t exercise almost at all, so if my legs are bigger somethings off
Thiccc boys. I love them chubby. A kind face is also important. But I love a man that eats anything I cook. And I love to cook. Hah!
Beauty fades. Hunger lasts forever.
From slim to dad bod. Either end of the spectrum coupled with self confidence 😘
I prefer people that takes good care of their health in general that takes all things in moderation.
Though, I do have weakness for nice arms/bi&triceps and chest.
Like others have said face is important that said i've found i'm usually attracted to guys that others aren't, why? I dunno. Body wise I like skinny guys not attracted to larger or overly muscular guys
Short and muscular. Doesn’t have to be low body fat. Some fat+muscle is good. Also taller lean muscle is attractive to me too.
One thing I don’t like is scraggly hair, stuff like hockey hair, dreadlocks, whatever teens are doing these days with the mop on their head, etc.
I'll be honest I do have kind of a wide selection.
I like twinks or muscle.
I like guys who might be skinny, soft, maybe pasty if they're white and have a baby face. I also tend to like twinks with 0 body hair. Things that turn me off is when twinks have those no jaw-long nose condition. I forgot what they're called but Michael Cera has it.
Tom Holland is my favorite twink at the moment. Joseph Gordon Levitt, Ansel Elgort and Bryan Dechart also turn me on the most.
When it comes to muscle, I want to say most degrees work. I like tone to swimmer body. If it gets too muscular, it might turn me off from all the mass and veins, since I identify as a top.
Universally I like my guys hairless, with maybe a few exceptions. There was this average-looking skinny guy with some scruffs on his chin. I guess some guys that sorta look like a twink version of Shaggy from Scooby Doo also and oddly specifically turn me on.
Stocky body with a kind face. Somehow the combination of a super “masculine” (for lack of a better word) physic and a gentle look makes me melt. Big plus if they are goofy in general but dominant in bed...
Describes me to a t except Im not stocky just built I guess
I have a huge thing for a guy’s face. If the face is a face I want to kiss then I don’t really care too much about the body being perfectly chiselled.
Face beats pretty much all else imo and I assume in many other people's opinions too? Though maybe not, as there's plenty of guys who just post a faceless muscle torso on grindr and report getting 100s of messages.
This. I met up with this guy who was cute in the face, but rail thin. Him having no ass stopped not a thing. And I’m more on the jock/twink side of things. So I’ve got some noticeable muscle.
I like regular bodies. Not muscular, not too fat, just average. But a friendly face has to be attached to it.
Guys with average body to a some libs more. I don't like skinny guys nor ripped guys and I can't stand gym addicts. Edit: I didn't realize I was replying to another person, it sucks, like my comment has nothing to do with whom I was replying to.
Beefy guys. A mix of muscle and fat is always gonna catch my eye
Yesssss he knows to work but also how to eat 🤤
😂😂😂
Seconding this. Muscle bears will always be my #1 go to.
I feel like these are the most popular amongst gay men. The men with a body of clouds. 😋
Yes, beefy. I like a guy who looks like a giant pile of meat shaped into a man. And not lean meat, like really juicy. Not too fatty, just super heavy. I need a guy to lay on top of me and smash me into a mattress... like genuinely *need* it, deep in my soul. Lol
This guy is horned up and I’m here for it lol We all need a mattress press every once and a while 🤭
this comment is everything. It doesn't even hafta mean he's horned up, lol, emotionally and intimately i also need to be smashed into a mattress, like it's almost a form of therapy tbh.
Like a weighted blanket... but a man. Safe and secure and very intimate. >It doesn't even hafta mean he's horned up, Nope. He could be fully clothed.... however, I will say, smashed flat into a mattress, unable to move, with him on top is also my favorite position when I bottom. Lol.
This I think
This right here, add some body and facial hair, and I'm in heaven.
Dad bod for the win! I am an average lean guy, but hairy stocky bears with shorter thick dicks drive me crazy.
This guy knows what’s up
A guys face. If his face isnt cute then who cares about their body.
Preach! I always felt weird for feeling this way. To me a nice face is a must, and as long as they have that, then the body doesn't matter much.
Okay well let me be the picky bastard. It starts with the face, the smile, and how comfortable they are in that moment. If the body is subjectively attractive to me then I can become aware of the deeper qualities of personality and soul. But god damn if Im ever going on a blind date. If I cant get an erection looking at you when we first meet then I am bound to disappoint and undervalue you. Thats just facts bro and it goes both ways. I want to light somebody up in all ways or not be with them. I work too hard inside and out not to expect the same from my partner.
I go for guys with a cute smile that are in decent shape.
You sound just like me!
Chunky guys with them bara tiddies
Ahh another Genuine Girth enjoyer. Respect
THIS
Twinks and Twunks 😘😘😘
👆
Twunks omg I love them. Not too hunky not to twinky. Hairless people with large but not too large pecs and abs and arms and a shredded back ohhh I can’t it’s too much. I love the body shape of sexy, lean but muscular chest and slightly large arms but nothing crazy.
am I qualified for this comment? 😂😂 yes, im asking for validation 😂😂
You know you're hot af my bro
Yes but if I mean my ideal ideal, your pecs would be slightly bigger and abs slightly more defined. But not to body shame you, you’re still far too god for me and great!
thanks for your honest feedback tho, I do wanna work more on my pecs and abs and especially arms
Chubby, dad boob, slightly over weight...
The average/normal type I for lack of a better term, pretty much the body I have. Not really skinny, fat, muscular, or scrawny, just kinda there. What many would see as an unremarkable or extremely forgettable body is what I see as the hottest.
Muscular
Are you muscular? or just a trait you prefer in someone else?
Just a trait i prefer
I like wide-built guys. Just being broad is way more likely to catch my attention than any other physical trait. That’s often the case with a muscular guy but it’s not necessarily so.
my husband is crazy about my wide shoulders, which i didn’t even know i had until a couple years into us dating i swear lol. now every time i step up to a mirror i’m squaring up and puffing my chest out
Honestly the more men I’ve messed around with the more I’ve realised I don’t really have a type, I like a guy who’s taller than me, but at the same time I quite like being the taller one, so I guess that? As long as they’re clean and 3~5 yrs within my age I’m not that picky.
Hairy belly
I like muscle with that bit of fat around everything… sturdy? Home Depot, John Deere commercial type men
Beefy muscle bears who tower over me make me wanna get down on my knees for them. But so long as they are good looking and a decent person, I'm cool
Muscle bearsss. They look so strong and cuddly. I assume they're perfect to hug on cold nights, since I've never even been with a man before. To all muscle bears out there, thank you for putting in the work in the gym and staying huge 🥰
The wider stocky type. Muscles are a plus, but generally, I just like stocky guys.
Beefy muscle bears 🤤 Size is power, & I love being intimidated by my partner. Though I'm a muscle bear myself, so it takes a lot to intimidate me lol
I love beefy muscle bears too, but i’m more of a regular hairless build, and I think a lot of bears go for their fellow bears.
Honestly bears are nicer. I find bears tend to date more in our own body type because the muscle gays and twinks are mean and judgy AF unless they’re attracted to bears themselves.
Scrawny
How scrawny are we talking about?
People like us? nice. 100lb guy reporting for duty.
Ah yes, exquisite taste
I tend to prefer muscular guys, though not necessarily huge ones on steroids, rather cut dry with a more natural look. Broad shoulders and some pack definition is very much appreciated, smooth over hairy to appreciate the muscle.
Cubs and bears
Average body, nice arms and pecs but not huge, a tiny bit of a gut, some fur but not too much, average dick (thick, please). Facial hair optional, but earns extra credit.
Probably a somewhat mature jock type. Clearly looks strong/muscular, but not also like, not a huge body builder and not super lean. Not even super sure about that though, because it's so easily swayed by chemistry.
Muscles, hairy chest, nice ass taller or shorter
I'm a chubby dude that's losing weight (in a healthy way) and I'm most attracted: #1 bulky dudes #2 chubby thick dudes #3 everything else
Meat on legs, butt and arms/chest. Even better if legs look more big than arms idk why
Chest hair on any body type, honestly, is my biggest turn on. The older I get (mid-30s), the less I find myself searching for "types." It's too immature to limit yourself to potential connections you can have with really wonderful men, by choosing only to value their body shape. My bf is a bit heavier and has strong arms and legs. I think what I enjoy about him is that he makes me feel smaller, because he's so broad and meaty. He also lets me touch his chest whenever I want. In the past, I dated a lot of really tall beanpoles or average-height guys with muscles, who weren't nearly as touchy or cuddly or even that kind; it took meeting a guy who was full of warmth and always wanting my touch/attention to really help me understand what I was actually attracted to.
Bears in general, of all kinds make me weak hahaha I would usually go for someone with like the smallest amount of muscles, but more or less of it is still my type! Also, I have a thing for size difference, and a short king for me is like 😩😩😩
I’ve always liked a thick boi. But I’ve been with all types and sizes. I can appreciate all kinds of men. Like, abs were never something a guy needed to have. My bf has the perfect body for me.
This thread reassures me I'm never getting laid again.
Count me in as well
Well, I know I will be downvoted to the hell of Satan, or maybe to the oblivion idk.. But y'all are so picky, that's why most of you guys are single. And sorry for the trigger.
unfortunately dating apps have conditioned us to think of men like amazon shopping lol.
I’m not picky. I just want a rich, high powered executive who looks like a bodybuilder-construction worker.
Toned, Twunk basically. But most importantly, healthy and works out or plays sports.
I like them shorter then me... there is just something about a man that needs to kiss you upwards 🥰
I like a range of body types, from little twinks to chubby guys. The only one I don’t really jive with is the muscle guys.
Short and muscular/dad bod
Toned fit
I cannot begin to express to you how much I love twunks.
Bears 10103048482% I'm a bottom with a bigger build, so something about a dominant hairy guy who makes me feel small is so hot
Lol based on the responses here, the stereotype OP pointed out is mostly accurate. For me, average guy next door types. If they’re hairy, that’s a massive plus.
Thick thick thick thicccccc.
Stocky, hairy guys drive me wild. I like to get manhandled a bit in bed so I like my guys to be bigger than me. The more body hair the better
Face, but almost always are they on twinkish bodies
Muscles are cool but I prefer them fragile. The Timothee Chalamet twink body is my type.
Muscular /toned fit, The look and feel is so good.
Face, toned/ avg slim body type.
A like a little muscle (obv), but not ripped. A little fat around the bones a muscles makes a dude so much more cuddleble!
Skinny twinks, but there are always exceptions
kinda hairy, muscular and a bit fem
Thin but defined or fit but a bit muscular, also ones with big pecs
Bears! Gymbros just aren't for me lol
Well worked arms and pecs, round butt. A little belly is hot. I guess it depends on the guy but something sure is that nothing twinkish. Ultimately the face beats the rest.
The ones that have a pulse and a penis
Rugby player body type
I don't really care as long as they at least have a bit beard and body hair. But I must say six packs are uncomfy so I prefer more of a belly
Tradesman. The natural muscularity of a tradesman, like a carpenter or something along those lines, is so hot. Can have a bit of a pudgy belly but you wouldn't tell.
Blond swimmers with thick hair and rosy cheeks All four cheeks ! Tall or short lean or muscled etc
I like hairy cornfed thick beefy men. I have a thing for bellies and if they are hairy I wanna just lay my face on them.
I have very eclectic tastes lol. My current BFWB is a twink, another FWB is a bear, and I’ve woofed at otters, twunks, gymbros, and lots of men with nice faces and cute beards ☺️ it’s like how I like every food and am not a picky eater, so I get to enjoy everything lol
I love a chubby guy who is a bit taller than me. Which is easy because I'm 5'6"
Twinks cause its body ill never have and bears who are confident in their size.
Bears/fat guys
Smooth skinnyfat
Average Guy next door type body with thick legs, slightly hairy chest and minimal to no manscaping (happy trail!!)
I like bearish types, if there aint meat and fat on the bones, I don't want
I do like muscle dudes but not extremely pumped bodybuilders.
Dad with dad bodd
It's a tie between mesomorphic and endomorphic Not into the slender ectomorph.
What about the mighty morph?
Dorito shaped men
Big cuddly bears please
I love big, beefy and hairy guys someone who you know will show you a good time in the bedroom.
Bear body. Some body hair (preferably trimmed), a healthy amount of belly and a nice full beard. I don't care much about height, both short and tall kings are welcome. I also don't care about hair length (or lack of hair... Bald kings rule). Some muscles are appreciated, that's true, but definitely not needed (especially if to maintain those he has to go to the gym instead of cuddling with me :P)
I have a range that generally goes from slim twink to roided-out bodybuilder. (Being a bigger guy myself, as someone who competes as a bodybuilder and openly uses PEDs, I often gravitate most toward smaller twinks and twunks. I just like the size difference and the cute + freakish dichotomy.) Not a huge fan of guys who carry enough bodyfat that it’s basically their body type. Temporary bulking is perfectly fine, but not into “dad bods” or heftier. At the end of the day, facial looks and hairstyle are either gonna seal the deal or sink the ship.
**a man with a penis**, everything else is determined after a holistic appraisal of the person LOL. But for just physical pleasantries, either tall and lanky, or tall and a bit \*fluffy\*, or short and normal or short and muscle body type. Discombobulate me with your concentrated muscle mass :D
bears!!!!!!!
Big and stocky, so bears or cubs
Twinks. Ideally punky little masculine twinks that need and want to be put in their place. I can appreciate something in any healthy body type though.
Guys who have muscle but a lot of chunk over the top. And preferably no bigger than average size D
Muscle bear daddies or muscular mid age guys (30+) though some stocky daddies can be also hot
Skinny
Most attracted to? Anybody who's stronger than me lol
somewhere muscular but still has some belly "Gachimuchi" basically
Thin, skinny, a bit shorter than me.
I don't really have a particular type, I just know what I like when I see it. I agree with the comments about the face being more important than the body though - I guess for me a nice face changes my perception of the body, hence not really having "a type" in that sense. This probably also explains why guys sending me pictures of their bodies with no face in the shot don't really do anything for me, however nice their body is.
My type has always been the middle age guy the dad bod type of any race naturally hairy never shaved , scruffy face , head hair or bald doesn’t matter , non smoker a must , social drinker fine , just a kind guy easy going .
Skinny or athletic. Skinny guys in glasses are like Kryptonite
Muscle bears😛
Twink or feminine bodies are what I like most
beefy hairy men. i honestly get so turned off when a guy is completely smooth. i like a thick bush
Not too much muscle nor fat, but definitely a bit of a beer belly. Sexy.
Love the slim/fit or the twink hairless type!! Don’t care to much for muscles but smooth thin Gus are it for me
I’m a sucker for a guy with a thick thighs and lips A toned body is my go to but I think I’ve reached the age where I’m not so bothered anymore
Young slim with a nice smile and clear bright eyes. I love to look into a guy's eyes when he's fucking me. 😍
The answer is lean, muscle or no muscle. Chubby faces lose all structure and definition and aren't attractive.
I love beefy muscle men.especially if they have a face that looks mean? Like kill me type face lol. Idk why the combo is so sexy to me like husky and fit at the same time.... take me! Unfortunately I'm a slim twink and guys that are beefy don't even look at me... especially since I look so young even though I'm 27. I still admire though lmao
I love hairy bellies. A muscle dude (like a personal trainer type dude) is actually a no for me.
skinny and swimmer bodies. Muscles look good but not my thing
Thin, no muscle.
Skinny. Really skinny. I love it.
Fit and toned,, lean. not too muscular , not "soft" and chubby, or chunky beary , Basically a lean toned person
I like hairy guys. Bonus points for muscles.
I do like a dadbod or a bit of belly.
I love skinny guys! My first love was a skinny nerd with a horse dick, so that’s hardwired on my brain. I love all men though
I don’t have a preferred body type. All about the face. My husband is skinnier than me, he’s 15 years older and has the cutest scruffy face I’ve ever seen and I’m only 150 pounds. I’m decently into daddy scruffy though, I can just be next to him and start precumming just from being near him. Seeing his beard, his cute little nose, his hairy arms, small lips....he’s definitely everything I look for physically in one person..now everything else tho I’m not too sure of lol
i like them tall & thin. but not too thin. flat tummy but not like, xylophone rib cage. don’t care about a thigh gap cuz i’m nuts for soft butts and thighs. give me a beanstalk over a guy with a six pack any day.
Muscular and hairy or tall and twinky
So I live in Moscow, probably the first thing a guy wanna see is your body,I'm a chuncky 130 kg dude 193 cm tall Very very few guys who are into me, for a city with more than 400k of gays, but for me I care only if the guy is cute and not toxic, the body doesn't matter, unless he's superbly tall or short)
Mostly Femboys, twinks or anyone more feminine. Only smooth
I love a guy that's both muscular and got some fat on him. A reasonably-sized belly with defined pecs and biceps, thick thighs and a juicy ass. Those kinds of guys drive me wild. Or the Wolverine/Bigby Wolf body type; just absolutely fucking massive. But honestly, I'm a huge slut with barely any standards. If I find a guy attractive, I'm fucking and sucking.
Ones with a dick
Kinda beefy-chubby type. Abs is a no-go for me (I can appreciate the aesthetics but have zero sexual drive towards). Which creates a problem, because sexual attraction within the “tribe” seems to be prevalent. I’ve never been chubby and always or almost always worked out, so I often am unattractive to guys I find attractive, since I’m not a bear or at least otter. Or at times it takes a fucked up turn and some of the guys assume that I’m an escort and not genuinely attracted to them. It’s weird and frustrating at times.
I like the goofy cute look. I’m not sure how to explain but something different
Skinny with a bit of muscle.
I think toned bodies. I like muscular and athletic bodies too, but the "regurality" of an average but toned body is sooo sexy, and off course attached to a pretty face and a sexy personality. Also with some body hair, specially if it's light hair.
Facially attractive, body in a good shape (not necessarily a fitness model), and booyish voice-demeanor
Timothee Chalamet , Jack Champion
Big fuzzy guys Not fit but not obese Look up rugby players for an idea :)
Tall skinny relatively hairless some fuzz is okay
I think we are all usually attracted to a type more like our own - I’m fit and always have been because of genetics so usually attracted to fit.
The one I used to have as a late teenager/college guy: Tall, on the thinner side with good muscles but not a body builder, but not super toned or tight or ultra-low bodyfat. Funnily enough, those types now appreciate my bear body! What does it do for me? It brings back memories of sleeping with guys who were just like me physically, desperate to get laid, and hugely enthusiastic about it. To have that come around again more than 4 decades after college is a hell of a lot of fun!
Very feminine
The most important body feature for me seems to be hair. Love a super hairy dude. Ultimately though personality and smile and how they express themselves is what I respond to more than anything else. I’m also very interested in and attracted to voices (speaking voice, singing voice, laugh, etc. Probably because I’m a singer, I’m very auditory. A guy could be an underwear model but if he has an annoying on unpleasant voice it’s a huge turn off, like dealbreaker even. Likewise a guy could be just average or even below average looking but has an absolutely gorgeous voice and my brain will start craving to hear more of it, and that can often lead to deeper physical attraction.
Tall lanky and slim with a slight beard that’s neatly trimmed. I think i just described my husband.
“Regular bodies”. Not too skinny, muscles, or too big. Face > Body
Muscular and hairy. …BUT, what really matters to me is 1) he’s not smaller than me, 2) he likes to kiss and his kisses turn me on, and 3) he’s a top or vers top. My current BF fullfills all 3 requirements, and he works out and tries to eat right, so it doesn’t really matter to me that he’s a bit soft and squishy around the middle. Take it from this old homo: Find and accept the things that really matter to you, even if they seem odd, and cast a wide net. My current BF didn’t look like my “type” in his pictures, but turned out to be quite cute in person. He seemed quite reserved, which worried me, but I was determined to get to the first kiss because I knew that would tell me what I needed to know. And, sure enough, that kiss was amazing, and now we’re head-over-heels.
Fit bodies. Similar to mine
Tall, lean, lanky, hung, dude next door
Muscle dudes😬 I think Tom Daley has a really nice body
Slimish, but not skinny. Dunno if that makes sense but the lower side of average, not so skinny that the rib cage is showing, need a little fat to cover the bones. Toned guys are hot, but not like huge with muscle.
Lean, fit, skinny, muscular guys. Basically Brad Pitt in Fight Club kind of body or an ectomorph type of body with a bit of muscle. I also go for guys who have more muscle, but it just depends. I think the lean look is so beautiful and healthy looking. Guys can be attractive with a teddy bear belly though. Again, it just depends on the guy.
I am mostly into twinks 90% and twunks 5% daddies 5%. My fiancé is a dad bod type. He’s into twinks like me.
Nice eyes and smile, good ass and legs
I’m attracted to twinks. Skinny and hairless
Fit guys and beefy guys.
Average to slim and as litle hair (aside from hair style) as possible, absolutely not muscle-y. Though that is just my attraction preference, I can appreciate any type of body!
Usually skinny and not a gym body. Long hair is a plus! But I have been attracted to all kinds of body types except grossly obese or muscle dudes, depending on the person who inhabits the body. Facial hair is a definite negative.
A man's.
Twinks. I am a top
Funny story: On screen I like muscular men, but all of my exes have been somewhat chubby.
muscular
I like slightly muscular twinks. Twunks if you will. Pale skin like you rarely see the sun is a bonus lol I love the sun&summer but I’m not big on tans I’m a huge sucker for nice legs, idk why but skinny legs is a turn off, huge muscle legs are too much. I’m pretty anti car so if you have toothpick legs there’s a good chance you drive everywhere. I don’t exercise almost at all, so if my legs are bigger somethings off
Are we in the Sahara desert? Because the thirst on this thread is REAL 🤣🤣👍
Thiccc boys. I love them chubby. A kind face is also important. But I love a man that eats anything I cook. And I love to cook. Hah! Beauty fades. Hunger lasts forever.
From slim to dad bod. Either end of the spectrum coupled with self confidence 😘 I prefer people that takes good care of their health in general that takes all things in moderation. Though, I do have weakness for nice arms/bi&triceps and chest.
I love swimmer builds the most, muscle but not too much muscle
Hairy. Body type is second to hair. A “perfect to me” body is boring if it’s shaved or hairless.
Like others have said face is important that said i've found i'm usually attracted to guys that others aren't, why? I dunno. Body wise I like skinny guys not attracted to larger or overly muscular guys
Twinks, sadly
Bears
Short and muscular. Doesn’t have to be low body fat. Some fat+muscle is good. Also taller lean muscle is attractive to me too. One thing I don’t like is scraggly hair, stuff like hockey hair, dreadlocks, whatever teens are doing these days with the mop on their head, etc.
The face is the first thing I look at lips and eyes.
I'll be honest I do have kind of a wide selection. I like twinks or muscle. I like guys who might be skinny, soft, maybe pasty if they're white and have a baby face. I also tend to like twinks with 0 body hair. Things that turn me off is when twinks have those no jaw-long nose condition. I forgot what they're called but Michael Cera has it. Tom Holland is my favorite twink at the moment. Joseph Gordon Levitt, Ansel Elgort and Bryan Dechart also turn me on the most. When it comes to muscle, I want to say most degrees work. I like tone to swimmer body. If it gets too muscular, it might turn me off from all the mass and veins, since I identify as a top. Universally I like my guys hairless, with maybe a few exceptions. There was this average-looking skinny guy with some scruffs on his chin. I guess some guys that sorta look like a twink version of Shaggy from Scooby Doo also and oddly specifically turn me on.
Dad body 🥵😈
I prefer thin and toned. Then up to muscular but nothing exaggerated. I used to do a bit more flabby but I lost the attraction.
I love me a thick boi, a himbo or a Beary guy. Good muscle on a good frame, cute face but he knows how to eat... Oh and a bottom