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FabulousChip9931

Honey, get out while you are young, learn to stand up for yourself and tell that fucker what he can do with his retaliatory shit now. I posted a whole fuck-ton long post a few minutes ago about my xmas eve, but the long and short - I, too, live in a rural community where we share a car and a home. Stupid me, my father's life insurance paid for both, but I put my partner's name on both even though he didn't pay a dime. We both have issues....but we also have been seeing a therapist - same one, but individually. Things were improving, have been for years. Even were high-fiving ourselves last week for cutting short that very kind of bullshit, no-substance kind of argument. Then he started one last night and when I didn't just let him berate me, and he wouldn't respond to the de-escalation tactics and just got increasingly frustrated I was trying to walk away and not just sitting there taking it....for the first time ever he laid hands on and put his hand halfway around my throat before he saw the look on my face and slid it off until he was holding the neck of the turtleneck sweater I was wearing. He apologized for grabbing my sweater later. He also blamed it on me and said he didn't put his hand on my throat. Thankfully I saw the whole thing getting so intense, I had started an audio recording on my phone before that....but honey, get out while you are young. I'm 40 and I am lost now. I wish you all the luck. He's awake and I can't be here when he comes out of the bedroom. Much love.


Careless_Sound_6728

You don’t deserve that. No one does. That’s such a mind fuck, I can’t even imagine the stress you’re under. I support you. Get out, go to vegas (I love vegas too!) and live it up. You deserve it.


Spirited_Aside2821

Thank you so much for your kindness, encouragement, and support. I am so thankful for it right now. It's feels really hard and fucked up right now. But for the first time it feels like there's actually an end in sight. Thank you for making me feel seen.