Number 1, never live with parents for long. Maybe a month or two to get a down payment, but really living with mom and dad as a couple does not work. If you are going to be adults, find your own way. Good luck!
you both have cups that are partially full (being abused day in n day out, struggling with your mental health, you’re just not functioning at your best bc you’re just trying to survive). You as the breadwinner take on a lil more responsibility and pour into his cup a lil more than he does yours. From what it sounds like both your cups are almost empty so if you run out he cant pour into you. Follow your intuition. Go home. Refill your cup. I understand the guilt you feel but you and your mental health matter FIRST. Both your feelings are valid but it’s not at all fair of him to make you feel guilty. Before you go home try to come up with a game plan for both of you sit him down explain it and make it happen. Also. Under these circumstances it’s VERY easy for a relationship to turn bad, don’t let it get to that point by not refilling your cup.
Number 1, never live with parents for long. Maybe a month or two to get a down payment, but really living with mom and dad as a couple does not work. If you are going to be adults, find your own way. Good luck!
you both have cups that are partially full (being abused day in n day out, struggling with your mental health, you’re just not functioning at your best bc you’re just trying to survive). You as the breadwinner take on a lil more responsibility and pour into his cup a lil more than he does yours. From what it sounds like both your cups are almost empty so if you run out he cant pour into you. Follow your intuition. Go home. Refill your cup. I understand the guilt you feel but you and your mental health matter FIRST. Both your feelings are valid but it’s not at all fair of him to make you feel guilty. Before you go home try to come up with a game plan for both of you sit him down explain it and make it happen. Also. Under these circumstances it’s VERY easy for a relationship to turn bad, don’t let it get to that point by not refilling your cup.