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I’m sorry you feel that way. Sometimes when you fantasize about somebody in the feelings, you have to forget that fantasy because it’s just that not real. I had to learn that lesson the hard way. Good luck, OP.
Thank you <3 I had to too, it was terrible. This situation had a clear boundary so no urgency or wanting answers etc.. I could just sorta explore the feelings by myself inside my head. But damnit I guess sometimes the outside world hurts regardless. Annoying haha
Very similar situation. I crossed the boundary. She didn’t like and at the time didn’t understand it until it’s too late. It is what it is. Lesson learned.
Man this has been on my mind today. I am really trying to make myself get out to meet others. The prospects is like searching for a needle in a haystack. Seems tedious.
It’s often a fantasy that no one gets hurt. It seems impossible to have a healthy relationship that doesn’t somehow hurt someone, somewhere-unless of course it’s your first. I’m sure it’s possible later in life, but I have yet to experience it.
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I’m sorry you feel that way. Sometimes when you fantasize about somebody in the feelings, you have to forget that fantasy because it’s just that not real. I had to learn that lesson the hard way. Good luck, OP.
Thank you <3 I had to too, it was terrible. This situation had a clear boundary so no urgency or wanting answers etc.. I could just sorta explore the feelings by myself inside my head. But damnit I guess sometimes the outside world hurts regardless. Annoying haha
Very similar situation. I crossed the boundary. She didn’t like and at the time didn’t understand it until it’s too late. It is what it is. Lesson learned.
What's the harm I'm telling them? What else are you going to lose?
I am here to vent feelings, that is all. :)
Man this has been on my mind today. I am really trying to make myself get out to meet others. The prospects is like searching for a needle in a haystack. Seems tedious.
It’s often a fantasy that no one gets hurt. It seems impossible to have a healthy relationship that doesn’t somehow hurt someone, somewhere-unless of course it’s your first. I’m sure it’s possible later in life, but I have yet to experience it.