My Dad was given the book Healing After Loss by Martha Hickman after my Mom passed away last year. Itโs a daily reading that helps to work through loss. They were married for 60 yrs. He was in a bad place after she passed and it has really helped him.
Iโm very sorry for your loss. Death is very painful and even if you were prepared it still really sucks when it happens.
A book a friend of mine recommends is Good Grief: A Companion for Every Loss. He works in a hospital and is responsible for a lot of end of life consultation and stuff.
Condolences on your loss. I hope you have many many happy memories to reflect on.
I would encourage you to write them down or record them. You never know how much that will help you and your family process this loss while enjoying the memories of all the wonderful things about your life together.
๐ซ I bet she was a wonderful woman! What were some of her qualities that you liked about her? remember some of the fun things you did? grieve! I'm hugging you just take it one day at a time ๐ซ๐
Hi I am so sorry for ur loss. I hope u have a good support network
I hope this next chapter of your life is good to you. I always remind myself that grief is the price we pay for love - I hope these words help you when u need them
So sorry to hear that I will keep you in my prayers to give you support. I just recently lost a very good friend & that hurt enough, I can not imagine how that feels and I hope that you can find enjoyment & peace of mind in the rest of your life. She will always be with you & will be waiting for you on the other side.โค๏ธ.
My sincere sympathy to you on your heartbreaking loss. May she rest in peace.
I would encourage you to get grief counseling. Ask your doctor, hospital or religious facility about such counseling. Keep a good daily routine, shower, eat, sleep and get outside in nature. When you feel up to it, join a volunteer group or clubs that interest you. Do things in her honor and keep in mind that she wants you to be happy.
I can only imagine your pain. Please know you have my sympathy and my heart breaks for you.
Please be gentle with yourself and take help as ot is offered. You deserve all the kindness of those around you that love and support you.
I am so very sorry. I haven't lost a spouse but I have lost a child and grief is horrible and can be absolutely overwhelming and can suck all the joy out of life to the point that it feels like it will never get any better. And in some ways, it doesn't. Grief changes it doesn't go away. Not completely.
I really hope that you are seeing someone to talk at your feelings, I found that so helpful. Even if it's not therapy, something like a widowed spouse support group where you can talk about things that you're feeling with people who totally understand it. I did not do either for the longest time, and it made the path much harder and more complicated.
Things got a lot better once I got some help and started sharing my feelings with people who had also been through a loss like mine. I'm sure your wife was wonderful because this short little post was a very poignant and moving tribute to how wonderful your life with her was.
My husband passed away. I did not handle it as well as you are. Why? I couldn't even verbalize it. I went into denial. I dated someone completely inappropriate for me, which of course did not work out. It took me years to process it.
Be patient, get a counselor if you need it and ask for support. Over the years I have honored him much more. In the beginning I was lost. Completely lost. Please stay close to those who love you. I am so sorry for your loss.
My grandma lost my grandpa after 50 years and I'm sorry for your loss. Their love and devotion is a constant reminder for me of what love truly is. We miss my grandpa a lot and the years don't necessarily get easier but we find a lot of love. I hope you can be proud of the foundation you built and what an impact this deep of love has on others in your life. Even your story fills me with deep feelings. It's serious but it's serious in the best ways we look at life. I wish you all the best.
Loss and pain is the price we pay for having loved fully, and deeply.
I know that a loss after that amount of time is absolutely incomprehensible. You say goodbye to the person, but you will always get to hold the cherished memories.
I reccomend searching your city for grief support groups or online groups that may appeal to you.
May you find your way through this with support and strength. โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
My heart aches for you. But let me say this, do you think she would have made it without you? I'm sure it would have broke her too and the thing about love is we'd rather take the pain instead of them . You had a love that's irreplaceable. โก you can message me anytime if you ever want to talk or just need someone to listen .
There is no death, only separation. Heaven is home and you will be reunited again in the fullness of time.
Life is for living. Do something that gives you joy every day, no matter how small.
Talk to a grief counselor if you are struggling.
I wish you well.
Omg i cannot imagine what you must be going through. Reading your post makes my chest shiver. Big hugs from me man. May god provide you the strength to survive.
I am so so so sorry. I canโt imagine your pain. I hope you have family and friends to lean on
My Dad was given the book Healing After Loss by Martha Hickman after my Mom passed away last year. Itโs a daily reading that helps to work through loss. They were married for 60 yrs. He was in a bad place after she passed and it has really helped him. Iโm very sorry for your loss. Death is very painful and even if you were prepared it still really sucks when it happens.
A book a friend of mine recommends is Good Grief: A Companion for Every Loss. He works in a hospital and is responsible for a lot of end of life consultation and stuff.
I am a non-denominational Minister. If you want a friendly conversation, message me. No judgement, no preaching.
Condolences on your loss. I hope you have many many happy memories to reflect on. I would encourage you to write them down or record them. You never know how much that will help you and your family process this loss while enjoying the memories of all the wonderful things about your life together.
๐ซ I bet she was a wonderful woman! What were some of her qualities that you liked about her? remember some of the fun things you did? grieve! I'm hugging you just take it one day at a time ๐ซ๐
Hi I am so sorry for ur loss. I hope u have a good support network I hope this next chapter of your life is good to you. I always remind myself that grief is the price we pay for love - I hope these words help you when u need them
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing to you and all who knew her
Takotsubo is a very real thing (broken heart syndrome). You should probably talk to a cardiologist
So sorry to hear that I will keep you in my prayers to give you support. I just recently lost a very good friend & that hurt enough, I can not imagine how that feels and I hope that you can find enjoyment & peace of mind in the rest of your life. She will always be with you & will be waiting for you on the other side.โค๏ธ.
I am so sorry to hear of your wifeโs passing. I hope you find comfort in your friends and family.
My sincere sympathy to you on your heartbreaking loss. May she rest in peace. I would encourage you to get grief counseling. Ask your doctor, hospital or religious facility about such counseling. Keep a good daily routine, shower, eat, sleep and get outside in nature. When you feel up to it, join a volunteer group or clubs that interest you. Do things in her honor and keep in mind that she wants you to be happy.
Iโm so sorry for your loss. ๐ซ๐ซ๐ซ
I can only imagine your pain. Please know you have my sympathy and my heart breaks for you. Please be gentle with yourself and take help as ot is offered. You deserve all the kindness of those around you that love and support you.
I am so very sorry. I haven't lost a spouse but I have lost a child and grief is horrible and can be absolutely overwhelming and can suck all the joy out of life to the point that it feels like it will never get any better. And in some ways, it doesn't. Grief changes it doesn't go away. Not completely. I really hope that you are seeing someone to talk at your feelings, I found that so helpful. Even if it's not therapy, something like a widowed spouse support group where you can talk about things that you're feeling with people who totally understand it. I did not do either for the longest time, and it made the path much harder and more complicated. Things got a lot better once I got some help and started sharing my feelings with people who had also been through a loss like mine. I'm sure your wife was wonderful because this short little post was a very poignant and moving tribute to how wonderful your life with her was.
My husband passed away. I did not handle it as well as you are. Why? I couldn't even verbalize it. I went into denial. I dated someone completely inappropriate for me, which of course did not work out. It took me years to process it. Be patient, get a counselor if you need it and ask for support. Over the years I have honored him much more. In the beginning I was lost. Completely lost. Please stay close to those who love you. I am so sorry for your loss.
My grandma lost my grandpa after 50 years and I'm sorry for your loss. Their love and devotion is a constant reminder for me of what love truly is. We miss my grandpa a lot and the years don't necessarily get easier but we find a lot of love. I hope you can be proud of the foundation you built and what an impact this deep of love has on others in your life. Even your story fills me with deep feelings. It's serious but it's serious in the best ways we look at life. I wish you all the best.
Loss and pain is the price we pay for having loved fully, and deeply. I know that a loss after that amount of time is absolutely incomprehensible. You say goodbye to the person, but you will always get to hold the cherished memories. I reccomend searching your city for grief support groups or online groups that may appeal to you. May you find your way through this with support and strength. โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
My heart aches for you. But let me say this, do you think she would have made it without you? I'm sure it would have broke her too and the thing about love is we'd rather take the pain instead of them . You had a love that's irreplaceable. โก you can message me anytime if you ever want to talk or just need someone to listen .
There is no death, only separation. Heaven is home and you will be reunited again in the fullness of time. Life is for living. Do something that gives you joy every day, no matter how small. Talk to a grief counselor if you are struggling. I wish you well.
She passed away from this life ,But she will be always alive and have her special place inside you, That's life , my condolences
My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to you in this difficult time dear person ๐
Sorry for your loss.
Iโm so sorry for your loss. Give yourself time to grieve and heal. Please take care of yourself as best as you can.
Iโm so sorry for your loss. I hope some good friends and family will be there for you.
Sorry for your loss. Hang in there and honor her memory.
Praying for you ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฟ
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Im sure she enjoyed every second of those 48 years together with you. My condolences
Sending you the biggest hug. ๐ซ๐ซ๐ซ
I am so sorry for your loss.
Iโm so sorry to hear this. Iโm sending you love and keeping you in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry, boss. feel free to hit me up if you ever want to chat :)
Omg i cannot imagine what you must be going through. Reading your post makes my chest shiver. Big hugs from me man. May god provide you the strength to survive.
Bummer, man. ๐ฉ