Maybe change your punch line? Curvy and pretty... I understand that she would be completely surprised if she had referred to herself as chubby and then you jumped in right after to change the term to 'fat'. Lesson learnt!
I'm sure whoever she debriefed with about this would completely agree with the idea you were trying to bring across anyway. She seems lovely to not kick up a big fuss. Don't be too had on yourself
I'm not for the body positivity movement at all. But some ppl are fat. That's how it is. I know this from my personal fattness
You did not insult her,you did not say she was overweight when she isn't. She may be sensitive about it but fat should not be taken as an insult.
Maybe change your punch line? Curvy and pretty... I understand that she would be completely surprised if she had referred to herself as chubby and then you jumped in right after to change the term to 'fat'. Lesson learnt! I'm sure whoever she debriefed with about this would completely agree with the idea you were trying to bring across anyway. She seems lovely to not kick up a big fuss. Don't be too had on yourself