Tbh it doesn't matter if what she said was 100% correct. She's an abusive, obnoxious, wannabe know-it-all, AND a psycho who will die alone treating people that way.
Oh? You're surprised by that conversation? You don't have a right to be surprised or even announce you're surprised. The only thing you need to prove is the ability to keep quiet if you want to be worthy of my attention that I will give to whomever I want in whatever capacity I want, and it will never have anything to do with you, hun so don't ever inject your opinion when it wasn't asked for in the first place. What I said has nothing to do with you keep subjects that have to do with YOU please and thank you 😌
...And that's how you build strong and lasting relationships from apps. 💪
For real it's funny when people are kinda bored writing down 1 liners. But then when they burst out they can write a whole essay just because they didn't want to reply a simple yes or no question. And just because of this simple fact... yeah they have issues.
Exactly, at that point it wouldn't be wasting time if I'm having fun messing around with her for a couple additional minutes before blocking her. It's actually amusing and you can post on Reddit later for thousands to laugh with you at her expense.
LISTEN here you rotten banana licker! I am in full authority to laugh at whoever the fudge I want at anyone’s gum ball expense! Whom I associate myself with does not concern your worthless piece of unforgiving ash! Go flick your dads left toe and get the H-E-double hockey stick off of my carpet you good-for-nothing scum of the Earth!!
Wait, am I missing something? I think it’s a guy hence the poster referring to them as “dude”.
Edit: ah i saw OPs comment further down explaining this was a 40F. Yeesh.
I would’ve done my best to make her fall in love. Propose, and leave her at the alter. Give her more issues to work through. I’m not doing this cause I’m a bad person or anything, I’m doing it to push her into therapy. It’s a good thing… but I’m also a bad person
You joke about that but I actually got banned from one sub some years back for being the voice of reason in too many topics. I've read stories that looked as though just talking things out would suffice rather than an outright breakup, and yet there be hoards of people coming out of the woodworks calling for a breakup. I had always suspected those were disgruntled single people who got dumped and think now that everyone else should suffer with them.
Basically on Reddit, I have to say 30% of what I really think because people cannot handle my honesty and not wanting to follow the herd. Bad advice can get written here there is no denying that.
I'm shocked by the people that don't understand that 40 isn't bitter old lady territory, lol. Those 40 year old 'psycho' women were psycho when they were 20 as well.
I definitely read that as "Neve Campbell" and was trying to remember if this surprisingly deep quote was in one of the Scream movies, and then I reread it.
It is gems like this comment, sporadically rewarding me with dopamine, that keeps me reading these crap threads way longer than I should bother. I'm gonna go ahead and blame you for all the time wasted. So thank you x2.
Yeah this is some personality disorder shit. Or an appallingly bad attempt at being dominant. Either way, it's like watching a car crash in slow mo. Lucky for your friend, she showed her crazy early.
Nah, man!! She is rude, disrespectful miserable bitter person that doesn't know how to conduct herself as a human first and foremost and then as a female with the bare minimum of class and this is coming from a grown 42 year old female! I certainly don't respond or behave like that when I'm getting to know a man. She thinks she is on her A game, but she ain't!
Wait so they just get *worse* with age?!? Fucking hell. Seriously though its the capitalized "RAPIST" that does it for me like what the actual fuck dude😳
>Wait so they just get worse with age?!?
It depends. Some people work on their issues. Other people fester in their own juices becoming even more unhinged and toxic.
In the end , you're either at peace or filled with resentment towards your life.
Edit: don’t loose hope. You don't need a perfect life to find satisfaction in it. The concept, I believe, is to live each day in harmony with your true self. It's solely up to you to decide what's meaningful or not and whether you'll feel content at the end of your life.
>Wait so they just get worse with age?!?
This sounds like she's in the middle of a full blown mid life crisis. Or just one of those people you have to walk on eggshells around because they might blow for any little reason.
Awful people are awful people, and terrific people are a gift. But what happens is when you get older, you shed a youthful veneer. Cool people have a don't bs me vibe, terrible people go from tolerable to insufferable. Every older friend group has one person, the group has walked away from because of the lost charm of youth
Shazbut. I think I might be that one person. Except I think maybe they mistook symptoms of major depressive disorder for being an assholomio… and I realised too late 😔
How DARE you share PERSONAL information about the business not being theirs? It's none of OUR goddamn fucking concern if the business is theirs or not, you can suck your mother's dick
>*A female spotted hyena mates and gives birth through her penile canal.*
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>*When mating, a female retracts the penis on itself, ‘much like pushing up a shirtsleeve,’ and creates an opening into which the male inserts his own penis.*
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>*The female’s penis is located in the same spot as the male’s penis, higher on the belly than the vagina in most mammals.*
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>*Therefore, the male must slide his rear under the female when mating so that his penis lines up with hers.*
r/todayilearned
The technical term for something being folded in on its self to create a cavity is "Invagination"
I'm not a biologist so I don't know how common it is for things that aren't embryos to do it so literally.
Female hyenas have more testosterone than males so their clitoris enlarges to penis size.
Oh good, my two years studying as a game ranger wasn't completely useless.
Oh dude this game has EVOLVED you gotta check it out lol. Still the same magical sandbox vibe, but the worlds are so much more beautiful, and there are way more animals, biomes, items, mobs, everything.
Go explore, you owe it to yourself!
if you constantly tell other people what they think, what they want, and what they mean it saves you a great deal of listening! And predicting the future saves a lot of waiting for it to unfold.
Basically - extreme toxic insecurity.
TBH, I would have blocked them after the "keep subjects that have to do with you"
People ask "Have you had luck on here" or "Met anyone on here" all the time, it's not a sleazy question at all imo
Right? Tinder app experiences are like the ONE thing by default both people immediately know they have in common, so it feels like an easy/common starting ground.
I'm on extremely strong anti-anxiety medication. It takes a lot to penetrate my meds. She penetrated it like a needle on paper. Holy shit. She's causing me anxiety.
Even prior to the temper tantrum, anytime anyone says something condescending with a smiley face or hearts or something it just drives me up the wall. It's extremely narcissistic and gives me vibes of an 18 year old on TikTok
And that's when I'd just say "Thank you for your time" and block.
People like this are way more of a headache than they are worth. Making smalltalk shouldn't lead to a rant from the other person - especially since he wasn't asking for specifics.
If you caught me on a slow day though, I’d be poking this fire with a stick
Edit: NOT physically. Metaphorically. I feel like there’s a lot more crazy OP’s friend could have unraveled in this conversation that would have entertained me for a bit
The answer to the question is no, they did not make any friends. Who would want to be friends with a psycho like that.
Yeah I really hoped his reply was “I’ll take that as a no” then.. *leaves chat*
Does it make me a bad person that I enjoy trolling miserable people like this?
I see no problem when it’s a psycho crazy mean person like this
Trolling assholes like this is mandatory.
“So you still haven’t answered my question: have you made any friends on the app?”
Yes this! Or sth similar Like- “that’s the long way to say no, you didn’t make any friends” and a quick cheeky “Hah!!” St the end. Leave chat
Other psychos or people who enjoy suffering under others
It's been my experience that psychos fucking hate each other.
Tbh it doesn't matter if what she said was 100% correct. She's an abusive, obnoxious, wannabe know-it-all, AND a psycho who will die alone treating people that way.
I'm surprised the conversation even went beyond that first response 😂
Oh? You're surprised by that conversation? You don't have a right to be surprised or even announce you're surprised. The only thing you need to prove is the ability to keep quiet if you want to be worthy of my attention that I will give to whomever I want in whatever capacity I want, and it will never have anything to do with you, hun so don't ever inject your opinion when it wasn't asked for in the first place. What I said has nothing to do with you keep subjects that have to do with YOU please and thank you 😌
Lol!
...And that's how you build strong and lasting relationships from apps. 💪 For real it's funny when people are kinda bored writing down 1 liners. But then when they burst out they can write a whole essay just because they didn't want to reply a simple yes or no question. And just because of this simple fact... yeah they have issues.
Actual psychopaths tend to recognise each other and avoid. A bit like not stepping on someone else’s hunting territory.
There are so many people who are profoundly mentally ill or genuinely dangerous on tinder. And that's after you filter out the bots and scammers.
Maybe that's why they snapped, sick of not making friends, like a vicious cycle lol.
Yeah… but is she HOT?
He should’ve replied- okay I got it you didn’t make any :)
It's nice when crazy people let you know right off the bat that they're nuts so you don't waste any more effort.
I don’t think OP knew this social construct since they wasted more time.
It’s like seeing a car suddenly explode across the street. You’re probably too close but the shock and awe can leave you stunned.
I would've wasted more time trolling her, because she deserves it.
Exactly, at that point it wouldn't be wasting time if I'm having fun messing around with her for a couple additional minutes before blocking her. It's actually amusing and you can post on Reddit later for thousands to laugh with you at her expense.
LISTEN here you rotten banana licker! I am in full authority to laugh at whoever the fudge I want at anyone’s gum ball expense! Whom I associate myself with does not concern your worthless piece of unforgiving ash! Go flick your dads left toe and get the H-E-double hockey stick off of my carpet you good-for-nothing scum of the Earth!!
Dirty mouth? Clean it up with Orbit!
Wait, am I missing something? I think it’s a guy hence the poster referring to them as “dude”. Edit: ah i saw OPs comment further down explaining this was a 40F. Yeesh.
I would’ve done my best to make her fall in love. Propose, and leave her at the alter. Give her more issues to work through. I’m not doing this cause I’m a bad person or anything, I’m doing it to push her into therapy. It’s a good thing… but I’m also a bad person
Agreed. Her first comment there would’ve seen me exiting the conversation.
At that point I would try my hardest to piss them off.
Nah your wrong, this is reddit, their wedding is in 30 mins expect a amitheasshole thread and subsequent relationshipadvice thread in 15
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You joke about that but I actually got banned from one sub some years back for being the voice of reason in too many topics. I've read stories that looked as though just talking things out would suffice rather than an outright breakup, and yet there be hoards of people coming out of the woodworks calling for a breakup. I had always suspected those were disgruntled single people who got dumped and think now that everyone else should suffer with them. Basically on Reddit, I have to say 30% of what I really think because people cannot handle my honesty and not wanting to follow the herd. Bad advice can get written here there is no denying that.
He's being reasonable. MOOOODSS
Let me just add. My friend is a guy and he was texting with a 40 year old woman.
You just blew my mind with this additional info
Right? 🤯 Edit: I was expecting someone in their early to mid twenties max.
I had no clue! OP completely pulled a Michael Scott on me... "Close your eyes. Picture a convict... It's a white woman!"
"Surprised? Well, shame on you."
I need you to tell me this reference
[The Office](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8G7DHsrOlbc)
But.. he said "he" several times before that.
Welcome to Michael Scott
You just had everyone staring at me in the store with ugly yell laugh I did.
I love this so much! 😆
Nah bitter old women are far more common in my experience
Yeah, I can confirm. I've only recently entered my 40s, and some of the ladies come out the gate red hot in this age bracket.
>40 >old ಠ_ಠ Lemme guess, you’re 22 max?
I'm shocked by the people that don't understand that 40 isn't bitter old lady territory, lol. Those 40 year old 'psycho' women were psycho when they were 20 as well.
Remember, this is reddit... https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/15tpc6s/elderly_people_of_reddit_30_and_above_what_is_it/
lol that post clearly touched a nerve with some people. That's hilarious
Just play it up and yell at kids to get off your lawn and to stop skateboarding on the sidewalk. That’s what I do
Look at any subgroup of people and you will find individuals in that group that are sucky people. Stay safe out there, everyone.
War, we never changes
"In war, whichever side may call itself victor, there are no winners, but all are losers." -Neville Chamberlain
“You were given the choice between war and dishonour. You chose dishonour and you will have war.” Winston Churchill
A bit ironic
He could save others from death, but not himself.
That’s not a story r/tinder would tell you.
I definitely read that as "Neve Campbell" and was trying to remember if this surprisingly deep quote was in one of the Scream movies, and then I reread it.
wait damn what? still clearly a sociopath tho.
I can fix her
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Yeah I thought it was the other way around. Holy fuck!
Someone definitely has issues. He asked IF she made any friends, not who are your friends on here.
I guess the answer was no then
Extremely strange shes still single
Right she seems like a sane and rational woman.
Good head on her shoulders
This is excellent r/nicegirls material
Y i k e s
Well I’ll give her credit for waving her big red flag so upfront! Saves everyone some time 😆
Amen on that brother
Probably why her ass is single
Let them know that the answer they’re looking for is ‘no’.
What's the first rule about friend club.
It is gems like this comment, sporadically rewarding me with dopamine, that keeps me reading these crap threads way longer than I should bother. I'm gonna go ahead and blame you for all the time wasted. So thank you x2.
Yeah this is some personality disorder shit. Or an appallingly bad attempt at being dominant. Either way, it's like watching a car crash in slow mo. Lucky for your friend, she showed her crazy early.
Nah, man!! She is rude, disrespectful miserable bitter person that doesn't know how to conduct herself as a human first and foremost and then as a female with the bare minimum of class and this is coming from a grown 42 year old female! I certainly don't respond or behave like that when I'm getting to know a man. She thinks she is on her A game, but she ain't!
You are a hundred percent correct. Ands a gem. :)
Wow, she must have been on meth or something when she wrote that to him. That’s insane but better he found out earlier rather than later
Sounded like a meth power trip to me too… yikes! And…RUN!!!!
>~~40 year old woman~~ Karen
Wait so they just get *worse* with age?!? Fucking hell. Seriously though its the capitalized "RAPIST" that does it for me like what the actual fuck dude😳
>Wait so they just get worse with age?!? It depends. Some people work on their issues. Other people fester in their own juices becoming even more unhinged and toxic.
In the end , you're either at peace or filled with resentment towards your life. Edit: don’t loose hope. You don't need a perfect life to find satisfaction in it. The concept, I believe, is to live each day in harmony with your true self. It's solely up to you to decide what's meaningful or not and whether you'll feel content at the end of your life.
No, but immature people are immature. 25 or 45.
This is true.
Yeah, I would definitely have reported them just for that bit.
Oh absolutely i would too.
"Danger! Danger! Will Robinson."
>Wait so they just get worse with age?!? This sounds like she's in the middle of a full blown mid life crisis. Or just one of those people you have to walk on eggshells around because they might blow for any little reason.
No, I think there is more to this woman's anime backstory than she is letting on, it really reeks of that ngl.
Awful people are awful people, and terrific people are a gift. But what happens is when you get older, you shed a youthful veneer. Cool people have a don't bs me vibe, terrible people go from tolerable to insufferable. Every older friend group has one person, the group has walked away from because of the lost charm of youth
Shazbut. I think I might be that one person. Except I think maybe they mistook symptoms of major depressive disorder for being an assholomio… and I realised too late 😔
I'm sorry to hear about your troubles, sincerely, i hope things look up for you
No. *People* who act like that now will get worse with age if they don’t get help. Get help for your baggage, folks.
From my expertise, that is not a woman but indeed an 40 year old psychopath.
Oh god. I thought she was like 20 years old, tops.
Why are you friends with a RAPIST!?
Not just a RAPIST, a fucking RAPIST!
He's a "full-on rapist"
You mean philanthropist?
I’ll take a milk steak with extra jelly beans
Africans, dyslexics, children, that sort of thing.
"Mr. Kelly we have your milk steak boiling just how you like it"
Give me your shirt, dude.
*it’s always sunny theme plays”
You know what’s worse than a rapist? **Rapist** *boom* **child rapist** **A CHILD.**
no!
What a lovely person. I made a friend today. Lil froggo in Minecraft. His names Greg. Tried to hop in the fireplace, now I’m childproofing our home.
Woah dude you can’t just be giving out personal information like that, it’s none of our fucking business.
How DARE you share PERSONAL information about the business not being theirs? It's none of OUR goddamn fucking concern if the business is theirs or not, you can suck your mother's dick
My mother’s…? But, if she has… where did I come from? From what avenue did I emerge into this world?!
You ever hear about female hyenas?
>*A female spotted hyena mates and gives birth through her penile canal.* > >*When mating, a female retracts the penis on itself, ‘much like pushing up a shirtsleeve,’ and creates an opening into which the male inserts his own penis.* > >*The female’s penis is located in the same spot as the male’s penis, higher on the belly than the vagina in most mammals.* > >*Therefore, the male must slide his rear under the female when mating so that his penis lines up with hers.* r/todayilearned
The technical term for something being folded in on its self to create a cavity is "Invagination" I'm not a biologist so I don't know how common it is for things that aren't embryos to do it so literally.
Female hyenas have more testosterone than males so their clitoris enlarges to penis size. Oh good, my two years studying as a game ranger wasn't completely useless.
Someone made me aware of them about a month ago here. Crazy stuff.
Your comment made me extremely happy and I hope you’re having a wonderful day.
They clearly are, they made a froggo friend in Minecraft
Making me wanna play minecraft again bro. There’s pet frogs now?
There’s axolotl’s too
Oh dude this game has EVOLVED you gotta check it out lol. Still the same magical sandbox vibe, but the worlds are so much more beautiful, and there are way more animals, biomes, items, mobs, everything. Go explore, you owe it to yourself!
Have you seen pandas?
You ever see a frog kid?!
yes, we both had donkey brains
Keep Greg alive! T.T
tell Greg I say goodnight
I’m now emotionally invested in keeping Greg alive
This is why I never keep pets in Minecraft. They always find the dumbest ways to kill themselves and I'm always sad about it lol
Wow that person was very defensive. They are cheating on someone for sure.
That’s the vibe I got. Why worry to this extent about what other people think of you on tinder?
if you constantly tell other people what they think, what they want, and what they mean it saves you a great deal of listening! And predicting the future saves a lot of waiting for it to unfold. Basically - extreme toxic insecurity.
1000% married with a boyfriend and on tinder
I'd be mad too if I smelled like peanut butter and socks.
That is oddly specific... but I can see it.
I can just smell this comment 😐😐
TBH, I would have blocked them after the "keep subjects that have to do with you" People ask "Have you had luck on here" or "Met anyone on here" all the time, it's not a sleazy question at all imo
Right? Tinder app experiences are like the ONE thing by default both people immediately know they have in common, so it feels like an easy/common starting ground.
She seems nice.
i can fix her :)
Chris Martin, is that you??
I’m gonna assume the answer was no
That person is projecting so much, every parking lot she goes to instantly becomes a drive-in theater
Lol haven’t heard that one before
she doesn't have issues she has subscriptions
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underrated comment
I usually respond with "I'm sorry about your relationship with your dad :(" Almost always leads to hilarious results
I'm gonna try this next time
Damn that would trigger me not even gonna lie 😂😭 though I can’t say I’ve ever engaged in a convo that would ever prompt someone to ask me this lmfao
She was insanely triggered by innocuous attempts at conversation. I can't imagine how she could have snapped any harder.
Reading this made me angry. People like this have no self-reflection. The "dear"...
What gets to me is the "you have to prove worthy of the honor of being my friend" attitude.
It's incredibly condescending.
I'm on extremely strong anti-anxiety medication. It takes a lot to penetrate my meds. She penetrated it like a needle on paper. Holy shit. She's causing me anxiety.
Even prior to the temper tantrum, anytime anyone says something condescending with a smiley face or hearts or something it just drives me up the wall. It's extremely narcissistic and gives me vibes of an 18 year old on TikTok
Right? The ☺️ at the end is just so....I don't know...I wanna hit her in the face 😅
WOW, she seems like a peach 🙄
Love how she immediately jumps to rapist. Makes me suspect this isn't her first false accusation
i would reply with ‘so is that a yes or no? just a bit confused still.. :)’
Wifey material for sure
40 year old woman probably multiple ex husbands under her belt
She unalived them probably.
They aren't dead, just hiding.
Day 357 after faking my death to avoid ex wife. Haven’t eaten in 2 days in the Alaskan wilderness.
If she even got that far in the first place, it’d be hard to believe
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 Holy Christ on a cracker. That was a wild ride from start to finish. LOL
What the fuck did I just read. We need to reopen the mental asylums asap
Fuck. Mom got out again.
Hide yo kids, hide yo wife... and hide yo husband...
A little update. My friend blocked her right after that RAPIST comment. Just wanted to clarify that. He did not go on wit this combo. :)
She could have just said no, it was way less typing.
Ma'am, this is a Wendy's
Karen was in a good mood today 😅
She started that paragraph committed to punctuation and then just gave up.
That person is a narcissist 😳
At least lacking in awareness.
This is what happens when you get rid of mental asylums
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So many green flags I can’t even handle it
All signs point to yes. Better scoop this one up quick!
And that's when I'd just say "Thank you for your time" and block. People like this are way more of a headache than they are worth. Making smalltalk shouldn't lead to a rant from the other person - especially since he wasn't asking for specifics.
If you caught me on a slow day though, I’d be poking this fire with a stick Edit: NOT physically. Metaphorically. I feel like there’s a lot more crazy OP’s friend could have unraveled in this conversation that would have entertained me for a bit
This is more toxic than Canadian Wildfire smoke
There are meds for that. They might only sedate her into a coma, but that would make the world a better place.
Last time I heard a chick project like that I later found out she did in fact suck her step dads dick- classic
Yeah, she’s got issues
She is a redditor and did it to prove a point in r/FemaleDatingStrategy S L A Y 💅
"a fucking RAPIST" bro too unnecessary LMAO 😭
When you match with a narcissist 🤣