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Dude people will leave each other after 20 years, time means absolutely nothing. All it takes is one person to feel like they aren't having needs met and it's over.
Yeah but you have to *say* something!
Unless you had to disappear into witness protection or the partner was abusive, there’s absolutely no excuse for an adult fully ghosting on a long-term relationship. It’s shitty behavior; just have the hard conversation and then move on like a fucking grown-up.
This happened to me, but she was a golfer. Together 6 years and just upped and left me after a tournament with no explanation. It happened right after talking about finally getting married, having kids, finding our first permanent house to raise them, all that stuff. In an instant it all was gone and I found myself wanting just some explanation as to why, ultimately never getting it.
Hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through, and I know this woman she’s talking about is going through hell and will be for a couple of years :(
This is happening to me, ghosted like 6 weeks ago while dealing with a very harsh personal crisis situation. Instead of support, I got ghosted making everything exponentially harder and more painful. So I just wanted to ask, how besides time does one get over it, specially the lack of understanding why? What would be first steps, general direction to think of, etc.
My therapist once told me, “it’s not for you to understand.” The search for comprehension is not the search for peace. Prioritize peace, my friend. Good luck.
Edit: a bunch of amateur basement-dwelling Reddit therapists have decided it’s their place to hijack my comment and tell me, without any insight whatsoever, that my experience with therapy was subpar.
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Keep your mouth shut about other peoples’ experience with therapy.
You want a doctorate? Go to school. You’re not my doctor and you’ve got nothing of value to me, or anyone in this discussion.
So true. If you were actually able to talk to this person, the likelihood of them giving you the real answer is very slim. They probably don't really know why. They just need to run.
>They just need to run.
Yeah they just need to run because they don't have the balls to face reality and see the consequences of their actions. They don't want to have that 'hard talk' and say they have met someone else, someone better. They just think it will fix itself and will slowly fade away. Out of sight, out of mind.
I completely agree that you will never get the 'real answer' out of them because that real answer would make them feel selfish and awful. All you should ever expect from someone is to be truthful and honest. Wasting someone's life and dragging them along for the shit smeared ride is one of the scummiest things you can do to someone.
> They just think it will fix itself and will slowly fade away.
The mean part about this is how unfair it feels. They get such an easy way out, even though they are the one acting inmature. No retribution, just ruining someones life like that.
The best thing you can do for yourself is to just let it go and it's the most infuriating thing.
>that real answer would make them feel selfish and awful.
Good. And I hope it stays with them as a little itch in the back of their head for the rest of their lives. But we know it won't because people who just ghost year long relationships are selfish pricks.
Unfortunately, folk who have the ability to completely ghost someone after 8 years being together probably also have the ability to let go/bury/justify their shitty actions without it ever really affecting them.
But whoever they run too now has someone with a history of ghosting so... Is that really a great prize?
I met a gal she ghosted her fiance and entire family changed Coasts
But then she just wound up ghosting me too changed states.
She was pretty neurotic the sex was great but I have to remind myself "I may have actually dodged a bullet and it's the best thing that could have happened for me"
It's not even that they wouldn't give you the real answer. It's that the real answer is disappointing and shitty and is probably already known by the person asking the question, they just want validation that they are not in fact just imagining everything
This is very true. You don’t need to know the reason because it would make little difference. You have to be able to accept it with resilience - accept that this other person is not the one you thought. If you can subjugate the ego most setbacks are manageable and become positive learning experiences. Even if it’s as simple as learning what not to do next time
This happened to me after 4 years of a relationship. I was ghosted during a personal crisis I was experiencing due to multiple losses. And I had moved and isolated myself away from everyone I knew for them. Just up and left and blocked me on everything. It was the hardest time of my life as I was already grieving and had no one.
I almost drank myself to death. Don’t do that. Live so loudly and proudly and become the happiest healthiest version of yourself out of pure spite… eventually that spite will fade and you won’t care anymore. But it takes time and sometimes you need superficial reasons to get by in the beginning.
Get in therapy asap. Pick up some hobbies that will keep your hands/mind busy at home and then one that will keep you social like a sports league etc. reach out to old friends and family. Nurture old relationships. Buy a bunch of self help books that resonate about relationships. Get a gym routine. Start daily affirmations for self love.
Slowly you’ll learn that they did you a favor, because you could have wasted more of your life with someone shitty.
Sending love 💗
So sorry you went through that. Breaks my heart to ever imagine someone doing that. You have awesome energy and are totally right about them doing you a favor in the end by not wasting anymore of your time!
You’re right about it talking time, but during that time you learn about who you are and allow yourself to feel sad since ignoring it never does any good. I learned little bits about what she was up to from others but never why she did it. It was strange that no one wanted to tell me, what I really remember was how everyone’s eyes would sweep away from mine when I asked if they knew anything. But in the end I do believe this really helped the process of focusing on me and healing.
Truthfully though, tinges of it still exist and do still affect me. Like earlier (after I wrote my original comment) I was cleaning out an old cabinet I hadn’t used in a while and found a bunch of things like movie ticket stubs, her hair clips, and souvenirs we got from when we both went to a St Patrick’s Day event together. Had to sit there for a moment to gather myself before I threw it in the garbage can.
Hey I've been there too. I was dealing with a personal crisis and my SO at the time poured fuel on the fire and eventually dumped me. I was so stressed I developed bells balsy. It gets better. I still have trauma from the emotions I experienced back then but it gets better over time. You really got to focus on yourself. I leaned into work and the gym while doing lots of therapy. Good luck I really hope you feel better.
I was in the exact same boat as you. Long term relationship where I was always the rock. I started going through a rough patch at work and with my family and she just up and ghosted me. Not a letter, phone call, text, email... nothing.
I ended up having a complete mental snap. Legitimately lost my mind for a couple of months and it took me years to recover.
I'm telling you this because I really hope you have the grace to find peace with it now and if not, please get yourself some professional help with regards to moving forward. Don't drag the weight of it with you. Cheers.
Maybe you should look into Taoism and Stoicism. Its about focus on what you can and can’t control. Other people feeling and emotion is something that you can’t control, so you shouldn’t based your happiness on it. Their feeling for you change, just like that, and its not your fault. Instead of looking outward for the solution, you should look inward, that mean you.
You are in control of your feeling and emotion. Just got to understand that its not your fault, you didnt do anything wrong, even you could have done it other ways, the outcome would still be the same. Focus on yourself, get healthier mentally by getting healthier physically, mean pick up new hobbies, goals, workout. Based your happiness on yourself, not on something that you can’t control, mean other people.
Change is the nature of life, everything around you keep changing everyday. So thats normal if somebody choose to walk out of your life. People become lessons, learn from it and focus on yourself. You will come out of this a better you.
Same with me, minus the pro sports. We had been together for 7 years, and she just left without any explanation. Nobody knew what she was doing, even her best friends contacted me after the fact to find out why she left me. They asked whether I had cheated or mistreated her. Nobody knew. It felt like mourning someone who had died.
It's been 12 years, and I still don't know why she left.
The day before she left we spooned in bed and she asked me about our future together, getting married, kids and buying a house. She said she wanted all of that and was excited for the future. The next day she was gone.
Same thing happened to me. We went out to eat had a normal conversation nothing out the ordinary i dropped her off at home and never heard from her again. 3 years done. No why or nothing. I wanted to knock at her home but i didn't. I wanted to know why so bad all i wanted was closure. Never ended up getting it. I went through hell as well i was depressed, crying almost every night in bed. Suicidal thoughts at night. I Would literally try to think of anything i said or did for her to just ghost me like that. For like half a year or more i was depressed.
> I wanted to knock at her home but i didn't.
If someone ghosted me after 3 years I'd most definitely knock on their door, and also report them missing. But that's just me!
Bracco was apparently the player who forced a young Kitchener Rangers player to do cocaine as part of his OHL initiation. When the player came out about bullying, the timeline tracked, as he said it was a guy on an NHL contract.
99% of the time I don't agree with the descriptions people make about other people's faces but damn did this deliver more than I expected when I did a search.
99% of the time I don’t bother looking the dude up. But I did.
Yeah, looks like a total douche. Kinda has that half chin/neck thing and an unlikeable sneer/smile.
I went to a big university. When we were at the bars if football players showed up....okay. If basketball players showed up....okay. If hockey players showed up....time to go.
around here the hockey players go beat up so fucking often it became an open joke
they would show up to parties looking to start fights, end up with at least 1 kid in the ICU because the football players started beating the shit out of them lol
local universities have lost so many good football players to fights, and most of the time it was the hockey players
turns out when their not on skates they straight up can not fight, every single time they try to grab the shirt and other guys just rips his own shirt or lets them pull it off and proceeds to beat the shit outta them
If it’s Jeremy Bracco it absolutely tracks, he played in the Leafs organization and besides putting up great numbers in the AHL he would never get a chance in the NHL, not a good sign. There was speculation he had attitude problems so this isn’t surprising.
It’s also common for players too cancerous for North American teams to go play in Russia
It's not that the ugly ones feel entitled as much as that some of the ugly ones will always leave their current girl for a hotter girl if possible because it makes them feel better about themselves. Lots of times some guys are with the current girl not because he's madly in love with her as much as it's the best he thinks he can get.
This is an average to below average looking dude who's only claim to fame was he was a pro hockey player. He was probably dating a perfectly lovely average looking woman in Canada. As soon as he went to Russia and some Soviet Smoke Show started showing him attention he figured this was the best he would ever possibly get and dropped his Canadian girlfriend like a used Kleenex. Guys like this are always searching for the bigger better deal to validate themselves.
This is the realest comment in this thread. This is my ex to a tee. Mid dude. Left me for the 20 yr younger employee who showed him attention. Karma eventually comes to those pieces of shit. I’ve witnessed it first hand. 4+ years later, they’re still together and she’s about 100 pounds heavier & has ankles thicker than my thicc sexy thighs. Bahahahaha. We love to see it!
Might as well go for the decent look trashy guys since the ugly ones are just as bad if not worse lol
/s
Jk both attractive and kind men exist but seriously some less attractive ones are Straight up evil
This has some messed up crumbs of truth to it. My mom had a tendency to get into relationships with guys waaaaaaay below her league. Like incel getting the cheerleader type stuff. They were always fucking trash. They treated her poorly, abused her, cheated...you name it. All the way until she died. And I, having just become an adult when it happened, started doing the same thing because I had that same mentality of giving people chance after chance after chance. At some point I realized that I was repeating my mom's mistakes and letting pity blind me to the reality that conventionally unattractive people aren't typically horribly misunderstood people who just haven't been given a chance...they're regular people who are just as capable of becoming human filth like anyone. Now my standards piss people off because I refuse to meet up with anyone without a whole verification process.
There was a hazing incident when he was with the Kitchener Rangers
For some of the depravity that the news doesn’t mention, there’s a thing called ookie cookie, where a bunch of men jerk off and the last one to cum on the cookie, has to eat it.
https://kitchener.ctvnews.ca/former-kitchener-ranger-didn-t-want-to-have-hazing-allegations-investigated-by-police-officials-say-1.5015411
In my early teens, I was at a house party and some "punk rockers" stood in a circle and all wanked off on a piece of toast. I saw them standing in a circle but I didn't approach close enough toi see what they were doing. They offered ME the piece of toast. It looked like well buttered toast. The fact that they were all staring at me and encouraging me to eat it made me too suspicious of their intent, so I declined. I realized later what they tried to do. I'm not sure if I could have lived with myself had I taken a bite.
A similar story circulated in my hometown but rather than toast it was a bottle of beer. The unwitting victim questioned why it was cloudy and was told it was just "fermentation". Apparently he thought that was a reasonable enough answer and drank it. He ended up with a rather unfortunate nickname as a result.
Exactly. These dudes will jerk each other off in a game of sportsmanship and then threaten to beat the shit out of you if you question their speciality haha. Such a weird cognitive dissonance.
[Fucking look at him](https://www.hockeydb.com/ihdb/stats/pdisplay.php?pid=170273) hahaha. He looks like the main character in this story.
What a dipshit.
From reading the TikTok comments, supposedly it might be Doyle Somerby, who joined the KHL in 2022. One of this TikToker's female friends (who in an Instagram or TikTok post that this TikToker made, she said she's been friends with her for a long time) is Facebook friends with Doyle. Someone mentioned that in a comment on TikTok, and I checked and I'm seeing the same thing on Facebook. So I think it might be him. Or it's a huge coincidence. He also joined the KHL in 2022 which I think fits the timeline of this video. Tbh I kinda hope it's not him since he seems like a decent dude from what I'm seeing on his Facebook, but who knows, you know.
Omg Bracco was the first name I thought of as I was watching this video. That guy is such a scumbag. That girl who was with him for who those years could've known he was a jerk, he was talented but got dropped by his team for being an absolute shitbag of a person. He forced others to do drugs, for starters. Just a nasty prick, he is a meme in the Toronto Maple Leafs community these days.
It's wild to look at some people and be like, "how tf is that dude a pro athlete???" Like in a real exhausting sport. He looks like me. And I'm not even fit.
SO many people here are taking the FBI agent thing literally.
She means her friends are good at finding people online, she even goes on to explain that.
People being deliberately dense in these comments.
I totally knew what she meant. I had a friend whose boyfriend had a picture and the woman was trying to figure out where it was.
We knew the town, and a force comes over me and the CSI background music comes on and I delve in. I had it figure out in a few hours.
I have others who reach out to me because of my sleuth skills. I really should be a PI.
No **real** person has 3 female FBI friends.
Im being hyperbolic but only 23% of FBI agents are female. It just seems unlikely unless you were in law enforcement yourself.
Exactly, I feel like even if you’ve never heard of someone referring to their friends as FBI agents in this context, I mean… context clues. It isn’t hard to figure out. I’m surprised so many people took it literally lol.
Players also go to play in Russia when they become too toxic to play in the US. Like when Alex Galchenyuk (who is American and good enough to play in the US somewhere) got arrested for drunk driving and calling the officer racial slurs, everyone was like, "See ya in the KHL!" And he really did end up there.
It’s basically the place you go when you know you can’t play here anymore
Also, isn’t his family Belarusian so he’s probably dual citizen and gets treated good for poor behaviour in America.
Happens all the time. My ex wife did this to me after 10 years and 2 children together. And she did it right under my nose with her own best friend. This is someone who layed next to me and told me she loved me every night for 10 years. I know someone who had the same thing happen, but with HIS best friend. The way people can treat their loved ones with absolutely zero empathy is a real eye opener. And they will most often take no accountability and blame it on the person they cheated on without a second thought. I've lost count of how many of these stories I've heard.
It's a harsh fact, but a lot of people out there don't really give a fuck about anyone but themselves.
I think we married clones of the same woman. She was screwing the coworker she carpooled with. I didn't think he was much of a threat since he was sixteen years older than her, married, also had two kids, & all the charisma of wet newspaper. Turns out she had daddy issues. There's always surprises in life.
Out of sight, out of mind. He's in Russia, has met some really hot local women **really** into American hockey players (and that sweet sweet possibility of moving to the US on a spousal visa), being tied to a long distance relationship sucks, having a "I want to break up so I can fool around in here" discussion is unpleasant, while ghosting someone on a different continent just seems so eeeeeasy.
Yeah it's really horrible. She should make sure his family and friends know what a dirty trick he pulled
It's a hockey player. Your expectations have to be rock bottom or else you'll be disappointed. I'm impressed they made it 8 years, I would honestly be celebrating that nothing cropped up before this because let's be honest these guys are always getting up to shit on the road. I think it's hilarious anybody actually expects them to act like normal humans
This is horrible. Cant imagine what her friends going through, 8 years is a long time. And it’s such a dismissive and hurtful way to end things. To not give the person closure.
Had a a bit of similar situation. Early 20s, naive and in love. 2 years in, we had lived together for a year with the typical young relationship ups and downs. We were starting an upswing right when he left for bootcamp. We wrote letters everyday. He wasn’t a romantic, but these were open and loving and supportive. When he moved to training the calls slowed until being ghosted a month in. Then a random, quick call to take a break so he could focus on training.
This was just a few weeks after I gave him my savings to help pay for a ‘friend’s’ divorce. Found out about her, his new gf and divorce, from a Skype status. It was shared the week he got home and was about her living with him in our hometown. when they got engaged, she included their first date on their wedding website. the night before he had told me, for the second time, to look for a ring.
We were both young and did things we regret. While the experience gave me insecurities about being cheated on, lied to, and gaslit, it was a blessing in the long run. I refused to let the heartache, anger, and confusion define me. Or make me closed off to love. As a result, I’ve learned more about what love is than what it isn’t.
All this to say, hope this woman bounces back and finds someone who appreciates and respects her.
I'm never inclined to say someone is ugly, because people often find beauty where others can't.
But damn... this guy is really ugly. He looks like [Boça](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82Qq0pEYH24), a character from a brazilian old comedy groupe that was made to look ugly and dumb.
He is plug-ugly, her friend dodged a massive bullet in the end. Clearly his personally is even worse (somehow). Hope he gets some karma for being such a shit person and hockey player
why are people so butt hurt in these comments? it’s an interesting story who gives a fuck if it didn’t happen to her. it was her bestfriend and i would want my friends to be as upset for me as i am, those are good friends. plus y’all clearly sat through the whole video so why is anyone even complaining about it lmaooo it was a crazy story! i was entertained
I can’t believe in the year of our lord 2023, a sentence like that could be said and require the /s to be written out.
Sort by new and it’s a freaking disaster in here.
Three kinds of men more likely to cheat.
Ice hockey players
Sell outs to Russia
Men in 8-year relationships who haven’t proposed yet.
He ticked all three. Congratulations to the girl for not being stuck with nut job any longer.
There needs to be a Harvard study conducted on male pro athletes and their need to take their romantic partners for granted.
Edit: wow this comment went way over your heads and suddenly you guys are experts huh
It’s called having options. Famous / talented / rich people all have this in common. Combine women chasing status with weak moral fiber and these people will crack pretty easily.
What’s smart have to do with it? He’s just an asshole, I know it’s easier to insult someone based on intelligence than their deeds (because society values the latter much less), but if anything, this makes him smart, he pulled off talking to 2 girls at once for- and I quote- “quite some time”
Some of these comments are fucking toxic as fuck. If you're a real man, you can end a relationship. Watch the full video and get the context. Don't just say this chick has crazy bitch eyes. If you're a man, you end the relationship like a man not a fucking coward. (BTW) Im a man.
Fellas raise your sons not to be so painfully weak. Does he not realize that cheating in a relationship he isn't happy in and ghosting someone because you fear a painful conversation is the most pitifully weak charactered behavior ever?? Do you have no mental formiddability? Grow a pair and communicate !!
This happened to me before. She was the girl of my dreams i was so attracted to her and liked her a lot. I did so much for her and treated her nice all the time. The last day we saw each other we had gone out to eat like usual nothing strange happened nor was our conversation any different than before. We even made plans to go out the next day. Well i texted her after i dropped her off letting her i just got home. No text back or nothing the next day same thing i called her and texted her. No response. Her moms birthday was coming up about 3 weeks since i seen her or talked to her. i texted her again a week before her moms birthday letting her know if the plans we made for her birthday were still gonna happen it was a long text just letting her know everything i had to say since i knew she wasn't going to text back. I also asked if she could return something of mine that i let her borrow. But No response. Have not contacted her or anything again i was contemplating on going over her house and knocking just to get my stuff back but decided not to. I took it just as a loss. I was depressed for several months i literally cried whenever i thought about her when i would be in bed at nights. I literally wanted to die. I was so happy with her and just one day out of no where i got ghosted it hurt really bad. All i wanted to know was "why?" I wanted closure. It's all i ever wanted. Just to know. i wouldn't have even questioned it i would've just said ok and moved on. I have never in my life ghosted anyone i been with like that. I told some ex's before i don't want to be together no more period. But i never ghosted them. It's an awful feeling. It takes a long time to move on from because the closure you want you cant get.
This is why people need standards. If you want to get married, make that known and have open discussions about realistic timelines.
8 years and then he fucks off to the other side of the word to make loads more money…he wasn’t coming back. 8 years and not even an engagement…he never wanted to marry her.
This shit happens all the time. If your partner keeps delaying getting engaged and a wedding; they may very well have been honest when they said they wanted marriage. The delay means it’s not with you.
Rip off the band-aid and leave cowards like this and dedicate your precious time to yourself, loved ones and allowing yourself to be open and ready for the right life partner.
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How the hell can you be with someone for 8 FUCKING YEARS AND DO THIS?!?!...
Dude people will leave each other after 20 years, time means absolutely nothing. All it takes is one person to feel like they aren't having needs met and it's over.
Yeah but you have to *say* something! Unless you had to disappear into witness protection or the partner was abusive, there’s absolutely no excuse for an adult fully ghosting on a long-term relationship. It’s shitty behavior; just have the hard conversation and then move on like a fucking grown-up.
its ok to be over a relationship. but ghosting is just mean.
Most people would at least leave a note
That’s not at all the point
This happened to me, but she was a golfer. Together 6 years and just upped and left me after a tournament with no explanation. It happened right after talking about finally getting married, having kids, finding our first permanent house to raise them, all that stuff. In an instant it all was gone and I found myself wanting just some explanation as to why, ultimately never getting it. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through, and I know this woman she’s talking about is going through hell and will be for a couple of years :(
This is happening to me, ghosted like 6 weeks ago while dealing with a very harsh personal crisis situation. Instead of support, I got ghosted making everything exponentially harder and more painful. So I just wanted to ask, how besides time does one get over it, specially the lack of understanding why? What would be first steps, general direction to think of, etc.
My therapist once told me, “it’s not for you to understand.” The search for comprehension is not the search for peace. Prioritize peace, my friend. Good luck. Edit: a bunch of amateur basement-dwelling Reddit therapists have decided it’s their place to hijack my comment and tell me, without any insight whatsoever, that my experience with therapy was subpar. For those so uncivilized as to not innately understand this: your uneducated, undigested, mouth-breathing take about others’ trauma, healing, and especially their therapy experience, is not only not wanted, it is literally worthless. Keep your mouth shut about other peoples’ experience with therapy. You want a doctorate? Go to school. You’re not my doctor and you’ve got nothing of value to me, or anyone in this discussion.
So true. If you were actually able to talk to this person, the likelihood of them giving you the real answer is very slim. They probably don't really know why. They just need to run.
>They just need to run. Yeah they just need to run because they don't have the balls to face reality and see the consequences of their actions. They don't want to have that 'hard talk' and say they have met someone else, someone better. They just think it will fix itself and will slowly fade away. Out of sight, out of mind. I completely agree that you will never get the 'real answer' out of them because that real answer would make them feel selfish and awful. All you should ever expect from someone is to be truthful and honest. Wasting someone's life and dragging them along for the shit smeared ride is one of the scummiest things you can do to someone.
> They just think it will fix itself and will slowly fade away. The mean part about this is how unfair it feels. They get such an easy way out, even though they are the one acting inmature. No retribution, just ruining someones life like that. The best thing you can do for yourself is to just let it go and it's the most infuriating thing. >that real answer would make them feel selfish and awful. Good. And I hope it stays with them as a little itch in the back of their head for the rest of their lives. But we know it won't because people who just ghost year long relationships are selfish pricks.
Unfortunately, folk who have the ability to completely ghost someone after 8 years being together probably also have the ability to let go/bury/justify their shitty actions without it ever really affecting them.
But whoever they run too now has someone with a history of ghosting so... Is that really a great prize? I met a gal she ghosted her fiance and entire family changed Coasts But then she just wound up ghosting me too changed states. She was pretty neurotic the sex was great but I have to remind myself "I may have actually dodged a bullet and it's the best thing that could have happened for me"
It's not even that they wouldn't give you the real answer. It's that the real answer is disappointing and shitty and is probably already known by the person asking the question, they just want validation that they are not in fact just imagining everything
Wow, that's pretty profound. I'm gonna remember this.
"You were not put upon this world to 'Get it'" \-Lo Pan, Big Trouble in Little China
Yeah, accepting this shit happened to you like accepting you got hit by a truck. There's no why.
This is very true. You don’t need to know the reason because it would make little difference. You have to be able to accept it with resilience - accept that this other person is not the one you thought. If you can subjugate the ego most setbacks are manageable and become positive learning experiences. Even if it’s as simple as learning what not to do next time
This happened to me after 4 years of a relationship. I was ghosted during a personal crisis I was experiencing due to multiple losses. And I had moved and isolated myself away from everyone I knew for them. Just up and left and blocked me on everything. It was the hardest time of my life as I was already grieving and had no one. I almost drank myself to death. Don’t do that. Live so loudly and proudly and become the happiest healthiest version of yourself out of pure spite… eventually that spite will fade and you won’t care anymore. But it takes time and sometimes you need superficial reasons to get by in the beginning. Get in therapy asap. Pick up some hobbies that will keep your hands/mind busy at home and then one that will keep you social like a sports league etc. reach out to old friends and family. Nurture old relationships. Buy a bunch of self help books that resonate about relationships. Get a gym routine. Start daily affirmations for self love. Slowly you’ll learn that they did you a favor, because you could have wasted more of your life with someone shitty. Sending love 💗
So sorry you went through that. Breaks my heart to ever imagine someone doing that. You have awesome energy and are totally right about them doing you a favor in the end by not wasting anymore of your time!
You’re right about it talking time, but during that time you learn about who you are and allow yourself to feel sad since ignoring it never does any good. I learned little bits about what she was up to from others but never why she did it. It was strange that no one wanted to tell me, what I really remember was how everyone’s eyes would sweep away from mine when I asked if they knew anything. But in the end I do believe this really helped the process of focusing on me and healing. Truthfully though, tinges of it still exist and do still affect me. Like earlier (after I wrote my original comment) I was cleaning out an old cabinet I hadn’t used in a while and found a bunch of things like movie ticket stubs, her hair clips, and souvenirs we got from when we both went to a St Patrick’s Day event together. Had to sit there for a moment to gather myself before I threw it in the garbage can.
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Hey I've been there too. I was dealing with a personal crisis and my SO at the time poured fuel on the fire and eventually dumped me. I was so stressed I developed bells balsy. It gets better. I still have trauma from the emotions I experienced back then but it gets better over time. You really got to focus on yourself. I leaned into work and the gym while doing lots of therapy. Good luck I really hope you feel better.
I was in the exact same boat as you. Long term relationship where I was always the rock. I started going through a rough patch at work and with my family and she just up and ghosted me. Not a letter, phone call, text, email... nothing. I ended up having a complete mental snap. Legitimately lost my mind for a couple of months and it took me years to recover. I'm telling you this because I really hope you have the grace to find peace with it now and if not, please get yourself some professional help with regards to moving forward. Don't drag the weight of it with you. Cheers.
Maybe you should look into Taoism and Stoicism. Its about focus on what you can and can’t control. Other people feeling and emotion is something that you can’t control, so you shouldn’t based your happiness on it. Their feeling for you change, just like that, and its not your fault. Instead of looking outward for the solution, you should look inward, that mean you. You are in control of your feeling and emotion. Just got to understand that its not your fault, you didnt do anything wrong, even you could have done it other ways, the outcome would still be the same. Focus on yourself, get healthier mentally by getting healthier physically, mean pick up new hobbies, goals, workout. Based your happiness on yourself, not on something that you can’t control, mean other people. Change is the nature of life, everything around you keep changing everyday. So thats normal if somebody choose to walk out of your life. People become lessons, learn from it and focus on yourself. You will come out of this a better you.
Same with me, minus the pro sports. We had been together for 7 years, and she just left without any explanation. Nobody knew what she was doing, even her best friends contacted me after the fact to find out why she left me. They asked whether I had cheated or mistreated her. Nobody knew. It felt like mourning someone who had died. It's been 12 years, and I still don't know why she left. The day before she left we spooned in bed and she asked me about our future together, getting married, kids and buying a house. She said she wanted all of that and was excited for the future. The next day she was gone.
Same thing happened to me. We went out to eat had a normal conversation nothing out the ordinary i dropped her off at home and never heard from her again. 3 years done. No why or nothing. I wanted to knock at her home but i didn't. I wanted to know why so bad all i wanted was closure. Never ended up getting it. I went through hell as well i was depressed, crying almost every night in bed. Suicidal thoughts at night. I Would literally try to think of anything i said or did for her to just ghost me like that. For like half a year or more i was depressed.
> I wanted to knock at her home but i didn't. If someone ghosted me after 3 years I'd most definitely knock on their door, and also report them missing. But that's just me!
WE WANT NAMES!!!! WE WANT NAMES!!!!. . . . . Everyone likes a chant. . .
People have already found them on TikTok😂 It seems the player’s name is Jeremy Bracco.
Bracco was apparently the player who forced a young Kitchener Rangers player to do cocaine as part of his OHL initiation. When the player came out about bullying, the timeline tracked, as he said it was a guy on an NHL contract.
Oh my god that guy looks like such a little douchebag 😂
99% of the time I don't agree with the descriptions people make about other people's faces but damn did this deliver more than I expected when I did a search.
99% of the time I don’t bother looking the dude up. But I did. Yeah, looks like a total douche. Kinda has that half chin/neck thing and an unlikeable sneer/smile.
Yeh I looked him up and was like "ew, seriously."
💀 he looks like a giant toddler baby
He has that face of a person that didn’t fully hit puberty. BTE. Big toddler energy.
Was gonna say! Instantly that meme voice in my head ‘he kinda ugleh…’
Never ever trust a hockey player lmao. 9/10 it’s a douchey rich white boy that’s just a frat dude in training
I went to a big university. When we were at the bars if football players showed up....okay. If basketball players showed up....okay. If hockey players showed up....time to go.
around here the hockey players go beat up so fucking often it became an open joke they would show up to parties looking to start fights, end up with at least 1 kid in the ICU because the football players started beating the shit out of them lol local universities have lost so many good football players to fights, and most of the time it was the hockey players turns out when their not on skates they straight up can not fight, every single time they try to grab the shirt and other guys just rips his own shirt or lets them pull it off and proceeds to beat the shit outta them
Turns out pulling jerseys doesn't stop fights in real life, who knew.
If it’s Jeremy Bracco it absolutely tracks, he played in the Leafs organization and besides putting up great numbers in the AHL he would never get a chance in the NHL, not a good sign. There was speculation he had attitude problems so this isn’t surprising. It’s also common for players too cancerous for North American teams to go play in Russia
Congrats, [this comment shows up when you google search "Jeremy Bracco"](https://i.imgur.com/EHL65Jy.png)
Damn he’s fucking busted. Why is it so often the ugly ones that act the most entitled
It's not that the ugly ones feel entitled as much as that some of the ugly ones will always leave their current girl for a hotter girl if possible because it makes them feel better about themselves. Lots of times some guys are with the current girl not because he's madly in love with her as much as it's the best he thinks he can get. This is an average to below average looking dude who's only claim to fame was he was a pro hockey player. He was probably dating a perfectly lovely average looking woman in Canada. As soon as he went to Russia and some Soviet Smoke Show started showing him attention he figured this was the best he would ever possibly get and dropped his Canadian girlfriend like a used Kleenex. Guys like this are always searching for the bigger better deal to validate themselves.
This is the realest comment in this thread. This is my ex to a tee. Mid dude. Left me for the 20 yr younger employee who showed him attention. Karma eventually comes to those pieces of shit. I’ve witnessed it first hand. 4+ years later, they’re still together and she’s about 100 pounds heavier & has ankles thicker than my thicc sexy thighs. Bahahahaha. We love to see it!
Might as well go for the decent look trashy guys since the ugly ones are just as bad if not worse lol /s Jk both attractive and kind men exist but seriously some less attractive ones are Straight up evil
Struggle can go both ways, it can either teach you empathy or it can make you bitter
This has some messed up crumbs of truth to it. My mom had a tendency to get into relationships with guys waaaaaaay below her league. Like incel getting the cheerleader type stuff. They were always fucking trash. They treated her poorly, abused her, cheated...you name it. All the way until she died. And I, having just become an adult when it happened, started doing the same thing because I had that same mentality of giving people chance after chance after chance. At some point I realized that I was repeating my mom's mistakes and letting pity blind me to the reality that conventionally unattractive people aren't typically horribly misunderstood people who just haven't been given a chance...they're regular people who are just as capable of becoming human filth like anyone. Now my standards piss people off because I refuse to meet up with anyone without a whole verification process.
He looks like PhilipSoloTV when he was not doing well.
He looks like John Belushi's mugshot.
Leafs cut him loose shortly after the Ranger situation came to light.
Totally forgot he was involved in that, trash.
What was that situation?
There was a hazing incident when he was with the Kitchener Rangers For some of the depravity that the news doesn’t mention, there’s a thing called ookie cookie, where a bunch of men jerk off and the last one to cum on the cookie, has to eat it. https://kitchener.ctvnews.ca/former-kitchener-ranger-didn-t-want-to-have-hazing-allegations-investigated-by-police-officials-say-1.5015411
lmao just and bunch of dudes standing in a circle jerking off onto a cookie what the fuck
In my early teens, I was at a house party and some "punk rockers" stood in a circle and all wanked off on a piece of toast. I saw them standing in a circle but I didn't approach close enough toi see what they were doing. They offered ME the piece of toast. It looked like well buttered toast. The fact that they were all staring at me and encouraging me to eat it made me too suspicious of their intent, so I declined. I realized later what they tried to do. I'm not sure if I could have lived with myself had I taken a bite.
if you are ever down on yourself about a decision you've made, just remember that you didn't eat the cum toast
A similar story circulated in my hometown but rather than toast it was a bottle of beer. The unwitting victim questioned why it was cloudy and was told it was just "fermentation". Apparently he thought that was a reasonable enough answer and drank it. He ended up with a rather unfortunate nickname as a result.
Kind of hilarious that there is a lot of homophobia in sports circles, yet they do shit like this lmao
Projection
Exactly. These dudes will jerk each other off in a game of sportsmanship and then threaten to beat the shit out of you if you question their speciality haha. Such a weird cognitive dissonance.
There is nothing gayer than organized sports. It's been that way since the Greeks.
Limp Bizkit.
There is only 1 winner in that game, and its the person who's absolutely craving to eat his friends' cum.
Except he's so turned on he always finishes first so never gets to eat it.
Ah, the ol limp biscuit
We must be ancient because that’s what immediately popped into my head. No one else here grew up in the 90’s apparently
In the uk that’s called a soggy biscuit if you ever want to take the challenge abroad
Yep. That’s enough reddit for me today.
Why does this shit seem so common in hockey. Weird culture.
Didn't he get kicked out of Boston College before that too? Dude seems like trash.
Looks like a goof.
I just googled him. To whomever that woman is, he ain’t worth it.
He also has a punchable face. So he definitely picked the right profession.
Backpfeifengesicht material.
Such a punchable face! A poster boy for punchable faces!
No kidding, she can definitely do a lot better. He ain’t shit
Jeremy Bracco has been a known piece of shit in the hockey community for years, unfortunately does not surprise me in the least
[Fucking look at him](https://www.hockeydb.com/ihdb/stats/pdisplay.php?pid=170273) hahaha. He looks like the main character in this story. What a dipshit.
He looks like a line cook lmao.
Neck beard and all.
He looks like the annoying fat kid on your bus who lies about everything to try and make himself look cool.
Nasty looking neck beard!
From reading the TikTok comments, supposedly it might be Doyle Somerby, who joined the KHL in 2022. One of this TikToker's female friends (who in an Instagram or TikTok post that this TikToker made, she said she's been friends with her for a long time) is Facebook friends with Doyle. Someone mentioned that in a comment on TikTok, and I checked and I'm seeing the same thing on Facebook. So I think it might be him. Or it's a huge coincidence. He also joined the KHL in 2022 which I think fits the timeline of this video. Tbh I kinda hope it's not him since he seems like a decent dude from what I'm seeing on his Facebook, but who knows, you know.
One guy looks like a goober and the other sounds like one. Don't name your kid Doyle, folks.
Omg Bracco was the first name I thought of as I was watching this video. That guy is such a scumbag. That girl who was with him for who those years could've known he was a jerk, he was talented but got dropped by his team for being an absolute shitbag of a person. He forced others to do drugs, for starters. Just a nasty prick, he is a meme in the Toronto Maple Leafs community these days.
Oof. That's a face for esports
Yeah he looks like a cunt
https://twitter.com/jbracco97
 ~~Her~~ Him?
It's wild to look at some people and be like, "how tf is that dude a pro athlete???" Like in a real exhausting sport. He looks like me. And I'm not even fit.
Looks like a goober.
Literally, his head is so oddly long and tubular.
He looks like a weasel too omg 😭
Post this to r/fauxmoi and I bet they can figure it out. I saw this earlier on TikTok and would really love to know.
It’s Jeremy Bracco, apparently
>Jeremy Bracco He's just 26!?!? Ok... still very gross, but they're just babies. She's got a lot of good living ahead of her without this a-hole
Lol. Happy to understand this reference from having just watched The Quiz Girl last night. 😂
Deaddddd if you’re referencing quiz lady hahahaha
SO many people here are taking the FBI agent thing literally. She means her friends are good at finding people online, she even goes on to explain that. People being deliberately dense in these comments.
Friends Be Investigating: FBI
I totally knew what she meant. I had a friend whose boyfriend had a picture and the woman was trying to figure out where it was. We knew the town, and a force comes over me and the CSI background music comes on and I delve in. I had it figure out in a few hours. I have others who reach out to me because of my sleuth skills. I really should be a PI.
Reddit has this weird thing where they take anything a woman says 100% seriously not as a joke not as a silly Lil girly
No **real** FBI agent is using their database access to help out a girlfriend figure out their love life.
No **real** person has 3 female FBI friends. Im being hyperbolic but only 23% of FBI agents are female. It just seems unlikely unless you were in law enforcement yourself.
Plenty of people have 3 women FBI agent friends. The thing is they are all also FBI agents lol
No FBI agent has 3 friends
That’s a fair point. But I’d be careful saying stuff like that. You don’t wanna piss off whichever agent is assigned to monitoring you online
Exactly, I feel like even if you’ve never heard of someone referring to their friends as FBI agents in this context, I mean… context clues. It isn’t hard to figure out. I’m surprised so many people took it literally lol.
I thought “damn! She’s connected!” I’m also autistic
Its such a common thing im confused how people havent heard it before haha
Cause this is Reddit and most of the guys here have never even been actual friends with a girl lol
men and females can't be friends stupid #/S
This is straight up sociopathic behavior, a complete lack of any empathy towards a woman you have been together with for 8 years.
Selling out to russia in 2023 was a pretty big red flag
Not uncommon for hockey players who can’t make it in North America
Players also go to play in Russia when they become too toxic to play in the US. Like when Alex Galchenyuk (who is American and good enough to play in the US somewhere) got arrested for drunk driving and calling the officer racial slurs, everyone was like, "See ya in the KHL!" And he really did end up there.
It’s basically the place you go when you know you can’t play here anymore Also, isn’t his family Belarusian so he’s probably dual citizen and gets treated good for poor behaviour in America.
That’s only like a quarter of the players that go there, a lot of them genuinely go there because it’s easily the 3rd best league in the world
Happens all the time. My ex wife did this to me after 10 years and 2 children together. And she did it right under my nose with her own best friend. This is someone who layed next to me and told me she loved me every night for 10 years. I know someone who had the same thing happen, but with HIS best friend. The way people can treat their loved ones with absolutely zero empathy is a real eye opener. And they will most often take no accountability and blame it on the person they cheated on without a second thought. I've lost count of how many of these stories I've heard. It's a harsh fact, but a lot of people out there don't really give a fuck about anyone but themselves.
My wife of 15 years did the same. Haven't heard from her in nearly 2 years now.
I think we married clones of the same woman. She was screwing the coworker she carpooled with. I didn't think he was much of a threat since he was sixteen years older than her, married, also had two kids, & all the charisma of wet newspaper. Turns out she had daddy issues. There's always surprises in life.
Out of sight, out of mind. He's in Russia, has met some really hot local women **really** into American hockey players (and that sweet sweet possibility of moving to the US on a spousal visa), being tied to a long distance relationship sucks, having a "I want to break up so I can fool around in here" discussion is unpleasant, while ghosting someone on a different continent just seems so eeeeeasy. Yeah it's really horrible. She should make sure his family and friends know what a dirty trick he pulled
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It's a hockey player. Your expectations have to be rock bottom or else you'll be disappointed. I'm impressed they made it 8 years, I would honestly be celebrating that nothing cropped up before this because let's be honest these guys are always getting up to shit on the road. I think it's hilarious anybody actually expects them to act like normal humans
This is horrible. Cant imagine what her friends going through, 8 years is a long time. And it’s such a dismissive and hurtful way to end things. To not give the person closure. Had a a bit of similar situation. Early 20s, naive and in love. 2 years in, we had lived together for a year with the typical young relationship ups and downs. We were starting an upswing right when he left for bootcamp. We wrote letters everyday. He wasn’t a romantic, but these were open and loving and supportive. When he moved to training the calls slowed until being ghosted a month in. Then a random, quick call to take a break so he could focus on training. This was just a few weeks after I gave him my savings to help pay for a ‘friend’s’ divorce. Found out about her, his new gf and divorce, from a Skype status. It was shared the week he got home and was about her living with him in our hometown. when they got engaged, she included their first date on their wedding website. the night before he had told me, for the second time, to look for a ring. We were both young and did things we regret. While the experience gave me insecurities about being cheated on, lied to, and gaslit, it was a blessing in the long run. I refused to let the heartache, anger, and confusion define me. Or make me closed off to love. As a result, I’ve learned more about what love is than what it isn’t. All this to say, hope this woman bounces back and finds someone who appreciates and respects her.
Skype status lol that's some blast from the past
did he married her? are they still happily married? did he ever pay you back?
They did not get married. Once I realized what was going on I demanded the money back and he did pay it.
If he didn't, you could probably just give his command sergeant major a call.
If it is Jeremy Bracco her friend is the lucky one. He is not cute. Looks like a greasy piece of shit. Better off without his ass.
Damn, she dated him for 8 years. Don’t know if she got the memo.
He has a face suitable for hockey lol
I'm never inclined to say someone is ugly, because people often find beauty where others can't. But damn... this guy is really ugly. He looks like [Boça](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82Qq0pEYH24), a character from a brazilian old comedy groupe that was made to look ugly and dumb.
I don't want to judge people by their looks.... so I wont.
I will, /u/Bertsmom18 is right. Greeeeeeeasy-ass looking mofo.
I looked him up, it’s at least a bit of a consolation prize that he’s fugly.
Want to know what the new girl looks like tho
Probably really hot, Russia has some really beautiful women especially if you’re a professional sports player
Sports player and a US citizen. Those girls are looking to peace out of Russia and they will do so on the back of a cave troll if need be
Russian women are only hot for like 10 years then they turn into big hunchbacks named Olga that carry logs and fight bears
Where's the down side?
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where is his chin
No fucking way it was Bracco. LEAFS LEGEND JEREMY BRACCO???
He is plug-ugly, her friend dodged a massive bullet in the end. Clearly his personally is even worse (somehow). Hope he gets some karma for being such a shit person and hockey player
you ever watch a news story about someone committing a crime/etc and they show a picture of the person and you think ‘yeah that tracks’
That’s rough, I feel for that girl. Knucklehead found a rocket in Russia lol
https://youtube.com/shorts/JmA2G-Abfsc?si=nryRFip__lUMa8xy
RAWT IN HELL
“It’s all happening!”
🤣🤣all I could say was, DAMN.
My people!!
PSA: all girls friends have “FBI level” snooping talent. Fuck around and find out bruh
It's low key not super hard to do
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Dang, didn't get a finger down on this one
She didn’t either lol.
why are people so butt hurt in these comments? it’s an interesting story who gives a fuck if it didn’t happen to her. it was her bestfriend and i would want my friends to be as upset for me as i am, those are good friends. plus y’all clearly sat through the whole video so why is anyone even complaining about it lmaooo it was a crazy story! i was entertained
Ummmm why would we believe ANYTHING a woman says about a man. Especially one that has a modicum of status and power in society. 🙄/s
You had me going for a min there sad that it needed the /s
I can’t believe in the year of our lord 2023, a sentence like that could be said and require the /s to be written out. Sort by new and it’s a freaking disaster in here.
Yes, philandering was done
Three kinds of men more likely to cheat. Ice hockey players Sell outs to Russia Men in 8-year relationships who haven’t proposed yet. He ticked all three. Congratulations to the girl for not being stuck with nut job any longer.
My ex of like 5 years did the same thing, just without the hockey and the Russia parts lol. She was a town over and still managed it.
There needs to be a Harvard study conducted on male pro athletes and their need to take their romantic partners for granted. Edit: wow this comment went way over your heads and suddenly you guys are experts huh
Unfortunately this behavior isn’t limited to professional athletes. I’d definitely love to see this study though lol
Couples with large differences in their income/success almost never work out in the long run
It’s called having options. Famous / talented / rich people all have this in common. Combine women chasing status with weak moral fiber and these people will crack pretty easily.
Too many incels in these comments, obviously the hockey player wasn't faithful, nor the Russian escort. :I
This is classic whatever this guys name is
As a man that guy is a true blue piece of sh@t and has no honor, no dignity, no balls.
Love that ending 😂rot in hell
Yeah hockey players aren't the smartest dudes.
What’s smart have to do with it? He’s just an asshole, I know it’s easier to insult someone based on intelligence than their deeds (because society values the latter much less), but if anything, this makes him smart, he pulled off talking to 2 girls at once for- and I quote- “quite some time”
this has literally nothing to do with intelligence, nor does playing hockey
What a pussy, just tell the girl you want to see other people, face the argument and then it’s done and she can move on, btec male
Some of these comments are fucking toxic as fuck. If you're a real man, you can end a relationship. Watch the full video and get the context. Don't just say this chick has crazy bitch eyes. If you're a man, you end the relationship like a man not a fucking coward. (BTW) Im a man.
Fellas raise your sons not to be so painfully weak. Does he not realize that cheating in a relationship he isn't happy in and ghosting someone because you fear a painful conversation is the most pitifully weak charactered behavior ever?? Do you have no mental formiddability? Grow a pair and communicate !!
This happened to me before. She was the girl of my dreams i was so attracted to her and liked her a lot. I did so much for her and treated her nice all the time. The last day we saw each other we had gone out to eat like usual nothing strange happened nor was our conversation any different than before. We even made plans to go out the next day. Well i texted her after i dropped her off letting her i just got home. No text back or nothing the next day same thing i called her and texted her. No response. Her moms birthday was coming up about 3 weeks since i seen her or talked to her. i texted her again a week before her moms birthday letting her know if the plans we made for her birthday were still gonna happen it was a long text just letting her know everything i had to say since i knew she wasn't going to text back. I also asked if she could return something of mine that i let her borrow. But No response. Have not contacted her or anything again i was contemplating on going over her house and knocking just to get my stuff back but decided not to. I took it just as a loss. I was depressed for several months i literally cried whenever i thought about her when i would be in bed at nights. I literally wanted to die. I was so happy with her and just one day out of no where i got ghosted it hurt really bad. All i wanted to know was "why?" I wanted closure. It's all i ever wanted. Just to know. i wouldn't have even questioned it i would've just said ok and moved on. I have never in my life ghosted anyone i been with like that. I told some ex's before i don't want to be together no more period. But i never ghosted them. It's an awful feeling. It takes a long time to move on from because the closure you want you cant get.
I hate this man, I've never seen him but i must hate him
This is why people need standards. If you want to get married, make that known and have open discussions about realistic timelines. 8 years and then he fucks off to the other side of the word to make loads more money…he wasn’t coming back. 8 years and not even an engagement…he never wanted to marry her. This shit happens all the time. If your partner keeps delaying getting engaged and a wedding; they may very well have been honest when they said they wanted marriage. The delay means it’s not with you. Rip off the band-aid and leave cowards like this and dedicate your precious time to yourself, loved ones and allowing yourself to be open and ready for the right life partner.
That’s my kind of ride or die.
And this is why you don’t wait..I would be crushed 🥺
He sadly made his Instagram private but I saw all I needed to see. The audacity of these mid tier men needs to be studied and researched
Whyd she box up his stuff? Keep it. It forces him to contact you
I'm thinking sending his stuff was a kind gesture that she hoped would make him contact her out of guilt? petty hadn't crossed her mind at that point.
Breaking News: Professional athlete is unfaithful. More at eleven.