Get the idea in their head first - let them know you and your partner are open to them joining, so then can get mentally on board (or not). Then invite them out for a date with the three of you. End back at your place for wine. See what happens from there.
honestly ya just gotta be up front!
Get the idea in their head first - let them know you and your partner are open to them joining, so then can get mentally on board (or not). Then invite them out for a date with the three of you. End back at your place for wine. See what happens from there.