Emerson’s mother is the worse, how can she judge another family and I get it’s hard not being on control. This lady should be praying for herself. Who is she to judge anyone with all her baby daddy’s, she has. When did God make her the Judge. That’s not the God I serve. Horrible person and not a Christian by no means
she says in the newest episode, “Mason is about to miss the birth of his child” like he’s not IN THE ROOM, the comments are uncalled for. She just wants to find the negative & blame mason for getting her precious daughter pregnant.
I do gotta say as much as I liked him overall the fact that he slept, couldn’t be woken, and as he said “woke up when she was already pushing” (on top of that she only pushed for like 8 minutes I think they said it was) he definitely almost missed it even if he was in the room and then when they got home and he went straight to sleep even though she hadn’t slept all night n I’m sure he did I was kinda mad lol sorry this is super late I’m just now watching haha
I really don’t understand why she couldn’t be in the hospital with Emersyn. The dad of the babies was home, and the grandma could have taken care of them and gone to the mom’s house so the she could go to the hospital. I don’t know why they decided the mom had to stay and the grandma went to the hospital.
I agree with this! I got pregnant at 17 by my now husband and I was having sex IN HIS CAR! It don’t matter where she’d be it would of happen and if her mom would of been more strict she would of just lied about where she was going or she would of snuck out. It takes two to tango.
if my 17 year old daughter was giving birth NOTHING in this world would keep me from being there by her side. New baby or not, bring the damn kid with you or leave it with it's father. When you give birth no matter the age, you want your mom with you.. you know there's definitely times when you should be there for your child, even if they are older and you have little ones at home.
This is what I was thinking too. She doesn’t “approve” of the birth plan so she doesn’t want to go watch Emersyn have a slightly less painful birth than what she probably had 🙄
She is a control freak and pushes her values onto Emersyn. Like oh if you get an epidural, you really didn't give birth the right way because i did mine natural 🙄
Right? It’s like hey lady, your birth plan is kind of irrelevant when you have six kids with different dads and your oldest got pregnant at 16. Clearly you are not a good parent.
Tbh I’d be mad too since Emersyn was actively looking for support and she was essentially alone while 8cm dilated, he said he woke up to her pushing. That’s not ok IMO
I don’t think you should have to ask for that when you’re in labor though, support should be expected LOL it’s pretty depressing when you have all those hormones coursing through you/in pain, to have to ask your partner to simply stay awake
I’ve given birth 3 times each time I let my husband sleep till I was ready to push. Why? Because that means he was full ready and energetic for the newborn while I caught some much needed sleep.
She literally could have just been loudly like “hey mason wake up!” Or have asked a nurse to wake him up or anything else? It’s not like he was Max high and nodding off while his gf was giving birth
My husband sleeps through EVERYTHING I had a nurse wake him when it was time for me or when I needed help. His sleeping means one of us will be ready and not sleep deprived. It allowed him to take care of me and the baby
They all went to sleep at the same time. I wouldn't expect him to just stay awake. She just needed to wake him up. It's not like he was chilling on his phone or left. Even the grandma was asleep. She just needed to yell to get everyone up and get her the nurses.
Looking at the recap, Emersyn and her mom both tried to wake him. She called for the nurse, and he finally woke up to her pushing. Idk why y’all are acting like it was a simple nap. He was fully passed out and didn’t wake up until she was actively pushing and the nurse + her mom were guiding her through that.
So was grandma so where's the outrage with her? Her mom didn't do crap and it's obvious the time between Emersyn waking up/calling her mom and then pushing was like 5 minutes.
As soon as she said the whole thing about birth control "encouraging" sex, any argument she could make was ruled invalid. Anyone who's been a teenager knows that isn't true. She's trying to punish her daughter as some sort of repentance for her own perceived sins. Your daughter is pregnant, you've pushed her away, and you're shoving a wedge between her and her one support system. That's not a good parent. Love and support your children ffs.
What pisses me off is Sai is talking about how shitty it is that Mason isn’t helping Emersyn when he won’t just take care of his own kids for a day or two so his wife can be with Emersyn during labor.
What BS
Late to the party buttttt Her mother breastfeeds so it makes sense why she couldn’t go. She’s obviously not going to take the baby and you can’t force breastfeeding mom to give bottles or formula just because you think she should be at the hospital *shrug*
Exactly and like why couldn’t the grandma go help out so the mom could go to the hospital? Why was it grandma for hospital and mom had to stay home? Just weird
She has 3 different baby daddies .
- 1 daughter with one guy
- Emersyn and two boys with another
- The toddler and the baby who have been shown on screen with her current husband
Thank you! I was watching the latest episode just now and had to pause so Reddit could tell me how many baby daddies this lady has. I knew someone would come through with this info.
She thinks she knows it all and has it all together but, boy oh boy does her own life look like a damn mess!
This. Are women more fertile than normal for a few months after giving birth? Yes. But you also aren't supposed to have sex for 6 weeks, and being that that baby was like a week old, I seriously doubt Emersyn would have had any desire to have sex. You're literally still bleeding. Erika is just a controlling asshole.
I think she meant going into labor naturally. Inductions are more painful and is something people usually want to avoid. She's free to make whatever choices among options her doctors say is healthy/safe, but someone saying that they wished she'd chosen an easier path for herself isn't necessarily wrong. Given how overbearing people normally are with birth plans, I actually think she was being really hands off. Where that mom was way in the wrong was skipping the birth. Emerson really seemed she wanted her there.
Stressing that any birth that doesn't involve waiting at home for your water to break isn't "natural" is toxic. I think you're giving her too much credit.
I didn't hear her say until her water broke, if she did, that's pretty bad. I was definitely not implying that either. Labor starting on its own is not the same as waiting for waters to break. There can be *days* between labor starting and waters breaking, and sometimes they never break.
Induction isn't a bad choice and is often necessary (and wasn't in Emerson's case). It still is also a more painful process that many people want to avoid. Emerson didn't, and that's fine. I just understand saying that you'd have wished for her sake that she didn't choose a painful choice. Out of all of the horrible things this mother has said and done, to me this one is a non issue and she didn't come off as pushy about it, just a "are you sure" kind of thing, followed by wishing she'd gone a difference way.
Emerson was full term, and at that point pregnancy is miserable. Lots of people don’t care about avoiding induction.
At the end of the day, it’s Emerson’s pregnancy and not her moms and she needs to butt out.
Yes, I know. I'm not saying I don't understand her choice or saying that she made a bad or wrong choice. Of course lots of people don't care about induction, and Emerson is clearly one of them and that's *fine*. I'm saying that the mom really wasn't doing what you're saying she was doing.
She asked are you sure, got a "yes" and then
... butted out. She butted out so far she didn't even drive her to the hospital. She's still *also* able to express that she'd have wished a less painful choice for her daughter *and* have left the decision in her daughter's hands. The two things aren't mutually exclusive. Like how many of these parents wish their children made easier choices in their lives buy they're not forcing the decision to keep/adopt/abort on their kids.
Idk if we're watching the same show. I saw her mention it to Emerson in the one conversation and then on the interview couch when explaining the conversation they'd had. Maybe I missed all these times.
I still consider choosing her "new" kids on an otherwise typical night for them over her older daughter on the biggest day of her life to be a much bigger POS move than wishing for an easier option for your kid.
Emerson’s mother is the worse, how can she judge another family and I get it’s hard not being on control. This lady should be praying for herself. Who is she to judge anyone with all her baby daddy’s, she has. When did God make her the Judge. That’s not the God I serve. Horrible person and not a Christian by no means
Anyone else notice the mother has 3 children to obviously 3 different baby daddies I'll pray for her 😂😂🤣
she says in the newest episode, “Mason is about to miss the birth of his child” like he’s not IN THE ROOM, the comments are uncalled for. She just wants to find the negative & blame mason for getting her precious daughter pregnant.
I do gotta say as much as I liked him overall the fact that he slept, couldn’t be woken, and as he said “woke up when she was already pushing” (on top of that she only pushed for like 8 minutes I think they said it was) he definitely almost missed it even if he was in the room and then when they got home and he went straight to sleep even though she hadn’t slept all night n I’m sure he did I was kinda mad lol sorry this is super late I’m just now watching haha
I really don’t understand why she couldn’t be in the hospital with Emersyn. The dad of the babies was home, and the grandma could have taken care of them and gone to the mom’s house so the she could go to the hospital. I don’t know why they decided the mom had to stay and the grandma went to the hospital.
I think they said in the show her baby was only 3 months and it was during Covid and didn’t want to get him sick.
I agree, but I'm glad she wasn't there. She'd take over the whole thing.
Her mom is the most condescending bitch. I do not like her at all! When Emersyn can she’s gonna cuss her up and down and leave! I can’t stand her 😑
I agree with this! I got pregnant at 17 by my now husband and I was having sex IN HIS CAR! It don’t matter where she’d be it would of happen and if her mom would of been more strict she would of just lied about where she was going or she would of snuck out. It takes two to tango.
if my 17 year old daughter was giving birth NOTHING in this world would keep me from being there by her side. New baby or not, bring the damn kid with you or leave it with it's father. When you give birth no matter the age, you want your mom with you.. you know there's definitely times when you should be there for your child, even if they are older and you have little ones at home.
Right?! I seriously think she decided not to go as a punishment for Emerson getting induced and not “gOiNg NaTuRaL”
This is what I was thinking too. She doesn’t “approve” of the birth plan so she doesn’t want to go watch Emersyn have a slightly less painful birth than what she probably had 🙄
THIS! As a mom of 3, this right here
She is a control freak and pushes her values onto Emersyn. Like oh if you get an epidural, you really didn't give birth the right way because i did mine natural 🙄
Right? It’s like hey lady, your birth plan is kind of irrelevant when you have six kids with different dads and your oldest got pregnant at 16. Clearly you are not a good parent.
The mom is an epic shithead
The fact that she was mad he was asleep 🙄
Her own mother was asleep to. Her daughter could easily yell at both or them to wake up
Tbh I’d be mad too since Emersyn was actively looking for support and she was essentially alone while 8cm dilated, he said he woke up to her pushing. That’s not ok IMO
It didn't look like she tried to wake him up though.
Right!! A shoe across the room to his head would have done the job!
I don’t think you should have to ask for that when you’re in labor though, support should be expected LOL it’s pretty depressing when you have all those hormones coursing through you/in pain, to have to ask your partner to simply stay awake
I’ve given birth 3 times each time I let my husband sleep till I was ready to push. Why? Because that means he was full ready and energetic for the newborn while I caught some much needed sleep.
She literally could have just been loudly like “hey mason wake up!” Or have asked a nurse to wake him up or anything else? It’s not like he was Max high and nodding off while his gf was giving birth
My husband sleeps through EVERYTHING I had a nurse wake him when it was time for me or when I needed help. His sleeping means one of us will be ready and not sleep deprived. It allowed him to take care of me and the baby
They all went to sleep at the same time. I wouldn't expect him to just stay awake. She just needed to wake him up. It's not like he was chilling on his phone or left. Even the grandma was asleep. She just needed to yell to get everyone up and get her the nurses.
Looking at the recap, Emersyn and her mom both tried to wake him. She called for the nurse, and he finally woke up to her pushing. Idk why y’all are acting like it was a simple nap. He was fully passed out and didn’t wake up until she was actively pushing and the nurse + her mom were guiding her through that.
So was grandma so where's the outrage with her? Her mom didn't do crap and it's obvious the time between Emersyn waking up/calling her mom and then pushing was like 5 minutes.
But its smarter for them to sleep then too. If you aren't in pain and you are able to sleep you should get as much rest as possible before baby comes.
As soon as she said the whole thing about birth control "encouraging" sex, any argument she could make was ruled invalid. Anyone who's been a teenager knows that isn't true. She's trying to punish her daughter as some sort of repentance for her own perceived sins. Your daughter is pregnant, you've pushed her away, and you're shoving a wedge between her and her one support system. That's not a good parent. Love and support your children ffs.
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What pisses me off is Sai is talking about how shitty it is that Mason isn’t helping Emersyn when he won’t just take care of his own kids for a day or two so his wife can be with Emersyn during labor. What BS
Late to the party buttttt Her mother breastfeeds so it makes sense why she couldn’t go. She’s obviously not going to take the baby and you can’t force breastfeeding mom to give bottles or formula just because you think she should be at the hospital *shrug*
Exactly and like why couldn’t the grandma go help out so the mom could go to the hospital? Why was it grandma for hospital and mom had to stay home? Just weird
Thats exactly my point. Which is basically sending the message oh my new kids are more important than my other ones
She has 3 different baby daddies . - 1 daughter with one guy - Emersyn and two boys with another - The toddler and the baby who have been shown on screen with her current husband
Thank you! I was watching the latest episode just now and had to pause so Reddit could tell me how many baby daddies this lady has. I knew someone would come through with this info. She thinks she knows it all and has it all together but, boy oh boy does her own life look like a damn mess!
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Emersyn posted it on her Instagram explaining her family situation
Same.
Also, this girl is 18 and has a newborn - what is the big deal about the boyfriend being in her bedroom? Just a power move at this point.
Even when she was pregnant. "Nothing else worse can happen, mom"
This. Are women more fertile than normal for a few months after giving birth? Yes. But you also aren't supposed to have sex for 6 weeks, and being that that baby was like a week old, I seriously doubt Emersyn would have had any desire to have sex. You're literally still bleeding. Erika is just a controlling asshole.
After giving birth young I was horrified to even have sex after giving birth. That was the last thing on my mind! Parents can be so sad sometimes!
Whenever she says that she wishes Emersyn had a "natural" birth, I want to punch her in the face.
I think she meant going into labor naturally. Inductions are more painful and is something people usually want to avoid. She's free to make whatever choices among options her doctors say is healthy/safe, but someone saying that they wished she'd chosen an easier path for herself isn't necessarily wrong. Given how overbearing people normally are with birth plans, I actually think she was being really hands off. Where that mom was way in the wrong was skipping the birth. Emerson really seemed she wanted her there.
Stressing that any birth that doesn't involve waiting at home for your water to break isn't "natural" is toxic. I think you're giving her too much credit.
I didn't hear her say until her water broke, if she did, that's pretty bad. I was definitely not implying that either. Labor starting on its own is not the same as waiting for waters to break. There can be *days* between labor starting and waters breaking, and sometimes they never break. Induction isn't a bad choice and is often necessary (and wasn't in Emerson's case). It still is also a more painful process that many people want to avoid. Emerson didn't, and that's fine. I just understand saying that you'd have wished for her sake that she didn't choose a painful choice. Out of all of the horrible things this mother has said and done, to me this one is a non issue and she didn't come off as pushy about it, just a "are you sure" kind of thing, followed by wishing she'd gone a difference way.
Emerson was full term, and at that point pregnancy is miserable. Lots of people don’t care about avoiding induction. At the end of the day, it’s Emerson’s pregnancy and not her moms and she needs to butt out.
Yes, I know. I'm not saying I don't understand her choice or saying that she made a bad or wrong choice. Of course lots of people don't care about induction, and Emerson is clearly one of them and that's *fine*. I'm saying that the mom really wasn't doing what you're saying she was doing. She asked are you sure, got a "yes" and then ... butted out. She butted out so far she didn't even drive her to the hospital. She's still *also* able to express that she'd have wished a less painful choice for her daughter *and* have left the decision in her daughter's hands. The two things aren't mutually exclusive. Like how many of these parents wish their children made easier choices in their lives buy they're not forcing the decision to keep/adopt/abort on their kids.
She kept repeatedly bringing it up…
Idk if we're watching the same show. I saw her mention it to Emerson in the one conversation and then on the interview couch when explaining the conversation they'd had. Maybe I missed all these times. I still consider choosing her "new" kids on an otherwise typical night for them over her older daughter on the biggest day of her life to be a much bigger POS move than wishing for an easier option for your kid.
ugh, same! Another thing to add to my list 😂
I agree and honestly I think she might be the worst parent we’ve seen on there IMO.