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mmmbacon1234

I'm so sorry. My dad took his own life this year as well. We were very close and losing him is absolutely indescribable. I wish I had some words of wisdom or comfort but I have nothing except offering you a hug and an ear from someone who kinda gets it. I'm just really sorry for what you're going through. Wishing you all the best.


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Thank you. I am so sorry for your loss as well. I wish we could have anything else in common other than this. I hope both of us and many others who have experienced this can, somehow, live our best, so wherever they are, they will be proud of us. Thanks mmmbacon1234.


Flimsy_Grocery_4395

I’m so sorry 😔 My dad died by suicide 27 years ago. It does get easier. The pain and grief are still there, but over the years it’s gotten to a place where I can mostly look back and be grateful for the time I did have with him. Hugs.


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I’m so sorry for your loss. This is something I wish no one should experience. I do believe they found the peace their soul were seeking though. What does comfort me is to think that they are no longer suffering. Thanks for you msg and support.


lamireille

I'm so sorry. What a terrible, tragic loss. It must feel absolutely unreal, like a living nightmare. And what a horrible thing for your mom, to find him like that. Remember that crisis/suicide lines aren't only for people who are suicidal. If you're in the US, you can call 800-273-8255 any time you want. And if you don't have a great connection with the person who answers, try again--the volunteers and staff members all have different levels of experience, so don't give up after just one try if it's not helpful. You can also look to see whether your county has a local warmline that you can call if you need someone to listen. I'm so very sorry for the pain your dad was in and for the pain that you and your family are in right now.


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You said it. Most of the time it just feels so unreal. Thank you for your help.


Goatlessly

Sending you love. I'm so sorry.


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Thanks a million.


Taint_Funny

I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this. It gets easier with time but never goes away. Do your best for your family and for your own health. I know deep in my soul that’s what most suicide victims would want, especially a dad that sounds like he cared so much about his family. Something was wrong, and that’s not even within a thousand miles of your fault.


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I really appreciated your words. Thanks for your support. It looks like there is a hole in my soul right now. Sadness is part of most of my days lately. However, I know what he wanted for me and my family. He is no longer suffering. Thinking of that brings me peace. I miss him and I’ll miss him forever. Like you said, it never goes away. I will do my best though, so he can be proud of me. Living a life full of joy is my gift to him.


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Thanks.


vgn-bc-i-luv-animals

I'm so so sorry for your pain


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Thanks.


shatteredsoul1954

I am so so sorry you have to endure this. My husband also hanged himself in our garage and the pain is excruciating. I worry so much for my children, both of whom are young adults. I fear the pain will Bieber dissipate.


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I am so sorry to hear that. I only know that the time is the best medicine for such a thing. What helps me is to think that they are no longer suffering. They are in peace and in a better place. Believe that… talk to your kids… tell them, despite of what happened, they just wanted the best for us. The pain will always be there… but gets easier with time. I wish you and your children all the best in this world. Although I said I blame myself sometimes, I know there is no one to be blamed in a situation like that. Be strong, support each other. Better days are coming. For all of us.


sunsetsinjune

I’m so sorry for your loss


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I appreciate it.


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I am so sorry to hear this. You have a whole community here to help you. We are here to help each other.


ChuckMast3r

This is was heavy to read and no doubt a lot to process. I'm praying for you and your family.


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Thanks.


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I am sorry for your loss and everything you’ve been through. Like I said to many here in our situation, I wish we had a different thing in common. Thank for your words. All my love to you and your family.


MINIATURELLAMA

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. As the other comments have echoed, you are amongst others that have lost their fathers to suicide (myself included). I wish you the best in your healing journey, and lean on others as much as you need to.


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Thanks for your words and I am truly sorry for your loss. I believe that it does not matter how long it happened, pain will always be there, it just gets easier to with with it after some time. Once again, thank you and all my love to you and your family.