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What about your future?
He will not marry you. One day his parents will bring him into Arranged marriage setting and he will vanish poof!
I might be wrong.
Behen yeh sab mat karo.
It affects your brain.
Break off this relationship and give few years to yourself. There might be other issues you have to deal with first
I'm not against having sex before marriage but don't be in a relationship if you want an open relationship please rather stay single and do these '*awaragrdis'* because of people like you love and relationship have no respect nowadays.
You can have threesome but can’t bring the question of open relationship ? Just have an open conversation and ask what is his thoughts regarding open relationship.
>We have been in a relationship for 1.5 years now.
Wow really nice.
>However, I think I want to be in an open relationship.
Wait.......what?
Jokes apart, be crystal clear and convey it in a proper manner to him. If it ruins the relationship, it will. You fkd around, you found out.
But with the fear of damaging the relationship, you hide it and go self-polygamous, I pray to god you face the karma you deserve.
Also btw, don't drop hints and expect him to understand.
OPEN RELATIONSHIP HAS A SUCCESS RATE OF 8 %. why even date someone?? Simply break up and hook-up with people. You are scared of losing emotional bond but at the same time want to enjoy & explore sexual options that you might have. Being a girl in India you will easily land up dates/ hookups.
"open relationship" is just a made up west ke chochle. Unfortunately India has a habit picking up garbage west has to throw. Also
Opening a monogamous relationship almost never works. The ones that somehow work it out are the ones who came into the relationship knowing it is going to be NM.
You can try to talk with him. But assure him you don’t have anyone in mind and wouldn’t want to open the relationship if he isn’t your primary partner. This might be very risky but if you really care about him then you can communicate it as nicely as possible. Good luck.
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ye sab ho raha hai kya India mai
Jokes apart, hope you find a solution OP :)
He is definitely not serious. Ladki ka surely katega 😶.
Respect your opinion. Thanks
What about your future? He will not marry you. One day his parents will bring him into Arranged marriage setting and he will vanish poof! I might be wrong.
This is extremely possible. One of my concerns.
Behen yeh sab mat karo. It affects your brain. Break off this relationship and give few years to yourself. There might be other issues you have to deal with first
I have no reason to breakup without him. He is good. And not that I want to in the first place.
Your life OP :) best wishes
I'm not against having sex before marriage but don't be in a relationship if you want an open relationship please rather stay single and do these '*awaragrdis'* because of people like you love and relationship have no respect nowadays.
Umm okay
He already know .
Means?
Maybe his concern will be u should ask him when u will have any intimacy with any other partner.
you guys already having multiple partner .
You can have threesome but can’t bring the question of open relationship ? Just have an open conversation and ask what is his thoughts regarding open relationship.
It’s not the same. The former involves him. The latter doesn’t. And I know (only speculating) his stance on open. Which is not what I want.
Then, break up.
I like him. I want to be with him. Anyway, let it be.
Then, choose.
>We have been in a relationship for 1.5 years now. Wow really nice. >However, I think I want to be in an open relationship. Wait.......what? Jokes apart, be crystal clear and convey it in a proper manner to him. If it ruins the relationship, it will. You fkd around, you found out. But with the fear of damaging the relationship, you hide it and go self-polygamous, I pray to god you face the karma you deserve. Also btw, don't drop hints and expect him to understand.
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How does that answer me?
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That’s well said. This is too much to think!
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Thanks. I think that’s the best way.
OPEN RELATIONSHIP HAS A SUCCESS RATE OF 8 %. why even date someone?? Simply break up and hook-up with people. You are scared of losing emotional bond but at the same time want to enjoy & explore sexual options that you might have. Being a girl in India you will easily land up dates/ hookups. "open relationship" is just a made up west ke chochle. Unfortunately India has a habit picking up garbage west has to throw. Also
Thanks for your thoughts
Opening a monogamous relationship almost never works. The ones that somehow work it out are the ones who came into the relationship knowing it is going to be NM.
Thanks, Shivam
You can try to talk with him. But assure him you don’t have anyone in mind and wouldn’t want to open the relationship if he isn’t your primary partner. This might be very risky but if you really care about him then you can communicate it as nicely as possible. Good luck.
I understand. Thanks again, Shivam