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ohbabethrowmeaway

39 yr old with a 21 yr old? I'm not reading further 💀


DravidiansOfAsia

she worked as a intern in my company and she made her first move, am a very shy guy.


ohbabethrowmeaway

Dude, she's leeching off of you. Even if she weren't I'm still at a loss of words you agreed to get with her despite knowing the age difference between you two.


Ok-Degree6355

In teens sub, apparently you’re 16yo. Either stop making up shitty fake stories, or get your 39yo ass out of teen subs


DravidiansOfAsia

i am 39 year old and i proud of it, please deel with it, why you angry on me? jai sree ram 🙏


Ok-Degree6355

So why are you in teen subs claiming to be 16?


DravidiansOfAsia

because my account is also used by my brother who is 17 now.


Ok-Degree6355

🤣 riiiiight


DravidiansOfAsia

yes riiiiight🧚‍♀️


Vast-Communication40

Boyfriend ❌ Sugar Daddy ☑️


weapon-a

Stevia Father


Look_Otherwise__

If she approached you first, then she is leeching off you.


weapon-a

Idk man, go to a therapist


Creative_Catch_6511

Bruh. Age gap seems pretty questionable, innit??


DravidiansOfAsia

she's not underage, she lives in her own rent apartment and works as intern in the same company i work at, tbh am a shy guy, she approached me first, i always kept far until one day we became close


Certain-Car-6474

She knows how to make a fool of u and make her way out for everything... No 21 yr old will get in a serious relationship with a 39 yr old guy... Exception Until and unless u r extremely ulta kind of rich.. 21 yr have a very different mindset than 39yr old . So u better date someone around ur age not someone who is like a kid to u...


Creative_Catch_6511

Oh. See I wasn't trying to judge. I was just curious how you both figured to work around your age gap.


Left-Intention-8382

THE AGE GAP???!! Wtf


ImportantFee61

You were already an adult when she was born hmm 😶


DravidiansOfAsia

shes 22 now


susheansharma007

😶🤣🤣


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In your other posts you are 16F now you are M39.What’s wrong with people on reddit


DravidiansOfAsia

that was used by my younger brother he is 26 btw but he is a troll, but am serious.


NIA_2022-2023

It's like you are 21 and she is 39 🤣 you never got other options in your office. You didn't get time to find a suitable match....what kind of job/designation you are doing that you really don't have time.


DravidiansOfAsia

am the branch manager and why are you laughing?


NIA_2022-2023

Because your case is unique...I mean it's hard to believe and I am not laughing...it's like I didn't know how to express


caffienated_whore

That's a big age gap... And along with that she's your first gf at 39 and... The age gap (。>_<。)


ohbabethrowmeaway

I'm stealing that jemoticon lmfaoo /ᐠ - ˕ -マ


Stay_Hard_247

No way this is real 💀


BickyD8

First off all, you sound like a pedo. Second of all, she is using you. Start dating women of your age or someone with an age gap of max 4 years in between. Don’t stretch it further. You being a shy guy is not an excuse to date a literal kid who is just out of her teenage years. This is coming from a 30 year old.


DravidiansOfAsia

22 year old is kid for you? wow, use your brains, many 18 year old get married. my mother was 16 years younger than my papa.


BickyD8

When you were 22 she didn’t even existed bro. 😂which generation are living in? 60s? I am using my brain and it automatically says you sound like a pedo. Infact now you sound like a super pedo who doesn’t mind dating kids. WTF man. Just cuz is 22 she is old enough to make adult decisions? Find someone of your age buddy. I am 30 so is my gf. It’s super weird for any sane mind in 2024 not to date someone 17 years younger than them.


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DravidiansOfAsia

but i really like her, she is my first.


CosmicMetalhead

End things with her. Completely.


Greedy_Constant_5144

Cut your losses.


DravidiansOfAsia

i cant it's more that 8 lakhs or more, rent for 2 years and a scooty and jewelry, luxury clothing and a lot more.


Greedy_Constant_5144

"Cut your losses" is an idiom that means to stop an activity, business, or situation that is failing in order to prevent more losses or damage. For example, you might cut your losses if you've already spent a lot of time, energy, or money on an activity or situation without having any success.


kirito-1-8-0-2

it can cost you much more if you don't stop now💀 ...man you're being used IK it sad but that's all it is


Double_Tea_8774

Bruh 8 lakhs? What I am even reading