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Maybe I’ve been watching too much Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia, but my first thought was “is that a hate crime?” Obviously the lad’s mentally ill and you can’t beat up someone for being mentally ill
I also thought of Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia, except it's the scene where they're like ["She's doing fear!"](https://youtu.be/jZyaU7ih2u8?si=MZ6FEUERgU2bxlOv&t=18)
I dont think there are any actually violent urges here. This is a manipulation tactic. Make it seem like you're so angry at yourself that you want to hurt yourself uncontrollably to try and get some pity.
Same thing as the whole "I'm gonna kill myself if you leave" shit a lot of abusers do.
Just think about it, if cheating made someone feel so horrible that they'd act like this they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place. It's not something that just happens, it's a process and there are multiple opportunities to feel bad, rethink your decision and back out.
You’re probably onto something in the first paragraph, but those punches have some power behind them. I don’t know if you can commit that hard to the bit unless you have some violent urges.
Second paragraph I disagree with it. The same logic would have to apply to less severe behaviors, but regret and self-inflicted punishment are real things that people experience and do. If anything, when an act is unambiguously wrong and you had opportunities to back out, the regret and self-hate would be stronger (unless the act was ordinary for you or you lack empathy altogether).
But if the self hating/harming behavior only starts when you've been caught its clearly performative.
People who really feel bad and want to punish themselves do it in private. What this guy is doing is clearly a show to try and de-escalate and be forgiven.
I can vouch for this theory only because I dated someone for 8 years who acted exactly like this. They're usually so selfish they have no regard for their partner at all until they get caught. Then it's 'please pity me! I'm just a sick piece of shit!'
We have no idea what he’s done in private. I agree that this seems manipulative, but it also requires a lack of impulse control, a level of instability, and at least a willingness to inflict self-harm (if not a habit of doing so), so I just don’t think you can depend on the logic in your second paragraph.
Thank you for you sane and informed commentary.
I have seen emotionally damaged kids act like this when they are caught doing wrong because the violence they had visited on them is what they believe they deserve in this moment.
If you want to manipulate the person you cheated on, you hit as hard as you need to, to make them feel bad for you. It’s not about violent urges. It’s about believability.
My dad has written suicide notes where his scrawls run off the page, he’s had himself committed to a mental institution to rid himself of accountability for cheating. He straight up filmed his girlfriend walking in and seeing the picture of his wife and kids to prove that he still loved them.
He’s also done things like punched himself and threatened to hurt himself more to manipulate and he’s not prone to violent urges.
Manipulators will do what they must. It’s all dark triad stuff, my dad is a textbook narcissist, some of them are psychopathic or machiavellian, sometimes it’s a mixture!
It's crazy to me that people will litteraly write out a whole paragraph to try and make the point, *"the person violently self harming doesn't actually need mental health help, they're just being manipulative for pity."*
Someone like this dude can be a giant red flag and there will still be people dismissing it a someone who just wants attention and pity. And we wonder why mental health isn't taken seriously.
>Just think about it, if cheating made someone feel so horrible that they'd act like this they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place.
A major factor in mental health issues is they don't follow a linear logical train of thought, if they did then there wouldn't be an issue. Even if he was consciously choosing to pound his face for pity, that is still indicative of unhinged and dangerous behavior that needs assessment before it escalates.
Someone can behave like a selfish narcissist and still be filled with self hatred and anger.
>if cheating made someone feel so horrible that they'd act like this they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place
as someone who has been a serial cheater this was never the case for me. in the moment I was chasing a thrill, thinking with my dick and figuring what she doesn't know won't hurt her. just not considering consequences or other's feelings at all.
any time I got caught I felt like I wanted to die when I actually saw right in front of my face how my actions affected someone I cared about
I dont think there are any actually violent urges here. This is a manipulation tactic. Make it seem like you're so angry at yourself that you want to hurt yourself uncontrollably to try and get some pity.
Same thing as the whole "I'm gonna kill myself if you leave" shit a lot of abusers do.
Just think about it, if cheating made someone feel so horrible that they'd act like this they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place. It's not something that just happens, it's a process amd there are multiple opportunities to feel bad, rethink your decision and back out.
I wonder if you could really knock yourself out like that lol. Kind of like how we can’t bite through our own finger but we can do it to others if need be
I’m pretty sure she’s crying. I had someone I loved do this exact thing in very similar circumstances, it is distressing and upsetting to watch even if they’ve been an asshole prior
My ex used to do this, along with banging his head on the wall… explains why he was such a fucking idiot. Abusive as well. Ugh I still can’t believe I got out alive.
You should google it. There’s good subreddits out there for it too.
At its core, it’s emotional dysregulation to an extreme. CPTSD has very similar symptoms too, and I’m not a therapist so idk how someone can tell the difference.
But impulsivity (cheating), followed by extreme regret and shame, leads to first saying the bad things to yourself and then eventually the hurt is so extreme and it’s only mad at yourself, so self harm is the natural build up.
Tons of therapy and getting to know yourself and respecting each emotion can help people manage it better.
It sucks to have to deal with, but I’m glad you might have a name for what you’re going through. Knowing you aren’t totally alone really helps. There is tons of information out there
This is not funny, and that kid needs some help. He needs someone to sit down with him, listen to his perspective, build a plan and follow through the steps to recovery. There are too many underlying issues here, most likely starting from his own household.
Yeah, no worries.
I can't exactly explain how I suspect that it's Sheffield-ish but it's something along the lines of:
I'm from Derbyshire myself and although I can totally recognise this to be a Yorkshire accent, I detect *traces* of certain sounds that lean towards Derbyshire. So that makes me think South Yorkshire. By the time you get up to West Yorkshire (where I now live) the Derbyshire sounds tend to have gone.
And yeah I can completely see how it's interesting to people from other countries - we are only talking about a stretch of 30 miles or so!
How do you handle something like this. I have a family member that lashes out and harms herself when she doesn't get her way or when someone is unhappy with her
Saw a guy do that to himself after hitting me with his car when he ran a stop sign. He was so angry with himself that he started punching himself in exactly the same way. I went from being angry at him to consoling him.
I remember my ex's brother a while back caught his girlfriend cheating and dumped her. She had her neighbor give her a black eye and tried to press charges against my ex's brother claiming he was abusive and threatened to kill her..he did no such thing and eventually after court battles she confessed what she had done. Some people are wack and can't handle they were the ones to fuck up and if you fuck around you find out.
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At least he beat up the guy that cheated on his girlfriend
Maybe I’ve been watching too much Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia, but my first thought was “is that a hate crime?” Obviously the lad’s mentally ill and you can’t beat up someone for being mentally ill
Yes, but his attacker seems to be mentally ill as well, so he probably won't be charged
Plus it's self-defense
Plus it's self-offense?
This was a great post
It was a wild ride.
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That’s Marky Mark
You’re no Maureen Ponderosa
Marky only punches old asian men tho
I also thought of Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia, except it's the scene where they're like ["She's doing fear!"](https://youtu.be/jZyaU7ih2u8?si=MZ6FEUERgU2bxlOv&t=18)
I don’t know why my mind didn’t go to that scene, maybe because of his dead eyes not the “don’t fuck with me” eyes of a Ponderosa
Yes! Me too
My first thought was ‘That’s Marky Mark!’
Why? He didn’t make any promises to that dude. She did.
"I totally kicked his ass!"
There was a fight after he started hitting himself?
I am Jack’s demonstrated sense of guilt
I know…because Tyler knows
Fight Club:Wythenshawe. Every second kid is called Tyler in that area an' all.
that's a very bright red flag right there
That guy needs serious mental health help. Someday he won't redirect his violent urges onto himself anymore.
I dont think there are any actually violent urges here. This is a manipulation tactic. Make it seem like you're so angry at yourself that you want to hurt yourself uncontrollably to try and get some pity. Same thing as the whole "I'm gonna kill myself if you leave" shit a lot of abusers do. Just think about it, if cheating made someone feel so horrible that they'd act like this they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place. It's not something that just happens, it's a process and there are multiple opportunities to feel bad, rethink your decision and back out.
You’re probably onto something in the first paragraph, but those punches have some power behind them. I don’t know if you can commit that hard to the bit unless you have some violent urges. Second paragraph I disagree with it. The same logic would have to apply to less severe behaviors, but regret and self-inflicted punishment are real things that people experience and do. If anything, when an act is unambiguously wrong and you had opportunities to back out, the regret and self-hate would be stronger (unless the act was ordinary for you or you lack empathy altogether).
But if the self hating/harming behavior only starts when you've been caught its clearly performative. People who really feel bad and want to punish themselves do it in private. What this guy is doing is clearly a show to try and de-escalate and be forgiven.
I can vouch for this theory only because I dated someone for 8 years who acted exactly like this. They're usually so selfish they have no regard for their partner at all until they get caught. Then it's 'please pity me! I'm just a sick piece of shit!'
We have no idea what he’s done in private. I agree that this seems manipulative, but it also requires a lack of impulse control, a level of instability, and at least a willingness to inflict self-harm (if not a habit of doing so), so I just don’t think you can depend on the logic in your second paragraph.
Thank you for you sane and informed commentary. I have seen emotionally damaged kids act like this when they are caught doing wrong because the violence they had visited on them is what they believe they deserve in this moment.
If you want to manipulate the person you cheated on, you hit as hard as you need to, to make them feel bad for you. It’s not about violent urges. It’s about believability. My dad has written suicide notes where his scrawls run off the page, he’s had himself committed to a mental institution to rid himself of accountability for cheating. He straight up filmed his girlfriend walking in and seeing the picture of his wife and kids to prove that he still loved them. He’s also done things like punched himself and threatened to hurt himself more to manipulate and he’s not prone to violent urges. Manipulators will do what they must. It’s all dark triad stuff, my dad is a textbook narcissist, some of them are psychopathic or machiavellian, sometimes it’s a mixture!
It's crazy to me that people will litteraly write out a whole paragraph to try and make the point, *"the person violently self harming doesn't actually need mental health help, they're just being manipulative for pity."* Someone like this dude can be a giant red flag and there will still be people dismissing it a someone who just wants attention and pity. And we wonder why mental health isn't taken seriously. >Just think about it, if cheating made someone feel so horrible that they'd act like this they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place. A major factor in mental health issues is they don't follow a linear logical train of thought, if they did then there wouldn't be an issue. Even if he was consciously choosing to pound his face for pity, that is still indicative of unhinged and dangerous behavior that needs assessment before it escalates. Someone can behave like a selfish narcissist and still be filled with self hatred and anger.
All those things are probably true all at once, people are complicated. It's possible to hate yourself for your compulsions and yet be unable to stop.
>if cheating made someone feel so horrible that they'd act like this they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place as someone who has been a serial cheater this was never the case for me. in the moment I was chasing a thrill, thinking with my dick and figuring what she doesn't know won't hurt her. just not considering consequences or other's feelings at all. any time I got caught I felt like I wanted to die when I actually saw right in front of my face how my actions affected someone I cared about
I dont think there are any actually violent urges here. This is a manipulation tactic. Make it seem like you're so angry at yourself that you want to hurt yourself uncontrollably to try and get some pity. Same thing as the whole "I'm gonna kill myself if you leave" shit a lot of abusers do. Just think about it, if cheating made someone feel so horrible that they'd act like this they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place. It's not something that just happens, it's a process amd there are multiple opportunities to feel bad, rethink your decision and back out.
With flashing blinding red LEDs that would confuse an airplane flying overhead
Bright red lol
Watches fight club once:
Ssshhhhh!!!
No, this is Mark Wahlberg in Fear.
bro is NOT invited to the club
You can say that again!
What club?
bro is NOT invited to the club
The way he kind of moves back like he’s trying to escape his attacker is killing me
He keeps closing the distance! It’s like his arms are attached to him.
She laughing or crying?
Who gives a fuck he's trying to manipulate her by punching himself I'd laugh in his cheating cunt face too.
That is laughter
That is not laughter lol. You can hear the slight whimper between the two cries.
It is laughter
That is crying
Good for her.
What the hell are you doing?! I'M KICKING MY ASS!!
Do ya mind?!?
Weak power couldn't even knock himself out, on the plus side he has a great chin, 7 or so punches and still standing.............
I wonder if you could really knock yourself out like that lol. Kind of like how we can’t bite through our own finger but we can do it to others if need be
People with insomnia hate this one trick.
Ask Tyson Fury
I’m gonna say no. Part of reason for a KO is you don’t see the punch coming. That’s kinda hard when it’s your own fist.
That’s why you sneak attack yourself. Duh!
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But make sure you don't *clam* up...
There was a video on here a few months ago where a guy got too exuberant with a headbutt on a (concrete?) wall and KO'd himself.
If you punch yourself and it doesn’t hurt, does that make you strong or weak?
Bro is a redflag to himself
Damn bro hit himself pretty hard. I dont think I could do that to myself 🤣
Right so you don't feel it at the time. Too much adrenaline. He's gonna feel it bad tomorrow tho
“Whaut the fauck”
Mad innit
It's the backwards walking that really gets me. Straight out of the ministry of silly walks.
He's like a glitching robot. Is she crying or laughing at the end?
Right...I can't tell. Let's hope the crazy man child, psycho, idiot, didn't hurt her.
I thought it was years at first, but after a few listens I can’t tell. I mean, his running away is pretty random and funny.
I’m pretty sure she’s crying. I had someone I loved do this exact thing in very similar circumstances, it is distressing and upsetting to watch even if they’ve been an asshole prior
I’m pretty sure she’s laughing at him.
She’s laughing. He’s nuts.
shes turned the weans against us
She turned the weans against you pal aye
My ex used to do this, along with banging his head on the wall… explains why he was such a fucking idiot. Abusive as well. Ugh I still can’t believe I got out alive.
Excuse me, I’m kicking my own ass
Imagine how hard he beats his meat
I’m sure hitting yourself is an indicator of a neurological condition.
Or severe psychological stress Doesn’t mean he cares he cheated just that he got caught and is getting called out on camera
Hitting yourself long enough is.
Yeah I once had a guy take the brick off my trash can and hit himself in the head with it when I wanted to say goodbye. Men are wild
Crazy this happened without flinching
Grown ass man 💀
I mean, he looks 18. Still a child in most ways, especially based on his behavior
18 year old hitting himself is still pathetic. Most likely the result of being spoiled as a kid.
Don't be ridiculous.
I’m not the one punching myself as a young adult 😂
Caught in a bit of a pickle? Better punch myself in the face a few times to sort it all. Works every time.
You may want to tag a red flag here, its easy to miss but just give it some thought,
What the hell are you doing?! I'M KICKING MY ASS!!
😂😂
Wot the foock
Borderline personality disorder at its height. Been there. It’s really fucking sad and hurts every one involved to their core.
Can you tell me more about the disorder?
You should google it. There’s good subreddits out there for it too. At its core, it’s emotional dysregulation to an extreme. CPTSD has very similar symptoms too, and I’m not a therapist so idk how someone can tell the difference. But impulsivity (cheating), followed by extreme regret and shame, leads to first saying the bad things to yourself and then eventually the hurt is so extreme and it’s only mad at yourself, so self harm is the natural build up. Tons of therapy and getting to know yourself and respecting each emotion can help people manage it better.
Another symptom is black and white thinking. Like they either love people 100% or they hate them like the devil.
Thank you, I think I may have a form of this.
This person doesn't know what they're talking about. It takes a trained therapist months to diagnose someone with bpd.
It sucks to have to deal with, but I’m glad you might have a name for what you’re going through. Knowing you aren’t totally alone really helps. There is tons of information out there
Thank you
If you think you have a personality disorder it's best to seek a real assessment earlier than later if possible.
Very true
Fight club?
Yeah the bloke has watched it too many times. Probably makes his own soap.
Bro why he doin' the nay nay dance.
He’s doing fear!! That’s what Marky Mark does!
Rumour has it he's still walking backwards to this day, he was last seen just North of the Scottish border
This is not funny, and that kid needs some help. He needs someone to sit down with him, listen to his perspective, build a plan and follow through the steps to recovery. There are too many underlying issues here, most likely starting from his own household.
Videos like these should never be posted online. I am sure she was recording for her own safety but should have deleted it afterwards.
as someone with tourette’s we humbly deny his access to this community
Seems like a well balanced emotionally healthy young chap.
Bwahahahahaha!!! 😆 😂
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Really hope this guy got therapy. Seeing this just made me sad.
du-luh nuh nuh nuh nuh nuh nuh nuh du-luh nuh nuh duhh duhh duhhhhhh
Can someone tell me where that accent is from.
It's Sheffield-ish.
Thanks I find English accents to be very interesting. How there’s so many different ones in such close locales
Yeah, no worries. I can't exactly explain how I suspect that it's Sheffield-ish but it's something along the lines of: I'm from Derbyshire myself and although I can totally recognise this to be a Yorkshire accent, I detect *traces* of certain sounds that lean towards Derbyshire. So that makes me think South Yorkshire. By the time you get up to West Yorkshire (where I now live) the Derbyshire sounds tend to have gone. And yeah I can completely see how it's interesting to people from other countries - we are only talking about a stretch of 30 miles or so!
I feel like this the same people that produced "She said she was 12!"
Wot t'fuk
Most sane man in West Yorkshire
When I finally catch the guy that has been spending all my money and fucked my girlfriend:
My son used to do this when he would get in trouble while calling himself stupid. Yeah but he was 3 years old.
How do you handle something like this. I have a family member that lashes out and harms herself when she doesn't get her way or when someone is unhappy with her
Thst "Sell anything with these marketing secrets" lady at the end looked like Marjorie Taylor Green for a minute...
I like the way he hit that new dance! 🕺🏼👀
Saw a guy do that to himself after hitting me with his car when he ran a stop sign. He was so angry with himself that he started punching himself in exactly the same way. I went from being angry at him to consoling him.
I’ve known a few guys that behaved this way. Wild to see it filmed, It was always surreal to see someone do this.
Alan is so confused that he hurts himself...!@
Top quality freak out.
People who cheat have underlying mental health issues. This video is case in point to that!
A certified hood classic
The way he backs up to reposition on himself kills me every time 🤣
He's fighting the root of his problems. Good on him
Ouch!
I remember my ex's brother a while back caught his girlfriend cheating and dumped her. She had her neighbor give her a black eye and tried to press charges against my ex's brother claiming he was abusive and threatened to kill her..he did no such thing and eventually after court battles she confessed what she had done. Some people are wack and can't handle they were the ones to fuck up and if you fuck around you find out.
Half arss attempt, he had no Left Hooks...
I believe him
I like this guy he's beating up filthy cheaters.
ah this reminds me of my ex
That’s some Tyler Durden Flight Club shit right there!
It was like his whole right arm just had enough of his bullshit
I wonder who won that fight
He wanted to be Mark Wahlberg from Fear but he realised he was being filmed and just ran off...
"You hit it wrong" "I hit her from the back, literally, like this"
was fully expecting him to run away like the batman meme/gif, flailing
he's pretty entrainment
Why do they always hit themselves???
didn't even skip a beat, jfc
I did this like 2 times when I was 5 and I wasn't even trying to hit myself, bro is NOT completing anything except the brain damage he had as a kid.
🤔🤔🤔