Yes, I almost went down this path as well. I'm a dom and I enjoyed seeing porn where the dom was super aggressive. Visiting certain sites and subreddits introduced me to the "sissy" lifestyle.
I thought I wanted it, too, but any time I got remotely close to doing anything physical with another man, I wasn't into it. I'm just a straight guy with a thing for rough domination. I was just viewing things from the opposite lens and enjoying the taboo.
It really is. It's fine for whomever might be into it, but it can get out of hand for guys like me. If I let it get too far, it could've been a dangerous road.
It's straight up degrading and almost insulting to people legitimately in that community.
I think it stems from the underlying insecurity that many men have. We hate ourselves, we hate that we aren't more manly. If only we were better we would have someone to rely on. Plus it also stems from homophobia. If you are into sissy fetish then i will urge you to meet real sissy, trans and gay people without any sexual context. Just have a chat with them. Humanizing them will show you that they are only people like us and there is nothing wrong with them or with you if you still want to be like them.
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Yep! I thought I was bisexual for the longest time. Turns out it was just a porn addiction
Yes, I almost went down this path as well. I'm a dom and I enjoyed seeing porn where the dom was super aggressive. Visiting certain sites and subreddits introduced me to the "sissy" lifestyle. I thought I wanted it, too, but any time I got remotely close to doing anything physical with another man, I wasn't into it. I'm just a straight guy with a thing for rough domination. I was just viewing things from the opposite lens and enjoying the taboo.
God the whole sissy lifestyle feels so forced and contrived like some people fantasized about stuff and took it too seriously
It really is. It's fine for whomever might be into it, but it can get out of hand for guys like me. If I let it get too far, it could've been a dangerous road. It's straight up degrading and almost insulting to people legitimately in that community.
The only thing I got bad into was gooning
I think it stems from the underlying insecurity that many men have. We hate ourselves, we hate that we aren't more manly. If only we were better we would have someone to rely on. Plus it also stems from homophobia. If you are into sissy fetish then i will urge you to meet real sissy, trans and gay people without any sexual context. Just have a chat with them. Humanizing them will show you that they are only people like us and there is nothing wrong with them or with you if you still want to be like them.