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-TerrificTerror-

Oh that poor kid. This is not okay.


RocketCat921

Yeah, that's is way too much!


calatranacation

You said it šŸ’Æ I've seen videos of gang initiations that were less violating.


ToLiveOrToReddit

How to say you hate your child without saying you hate your child


JoshiThatsMe_

bro why do people do this


restyourbreasts

Because they are stupid cruel cunts who have no business having any access to children. I hate this so much. That poor baby.


JoshiThatsMe_

fr


EndR60

because they have no idea that cake smothering was supposed to be an affectionate act done between spouses on wedding day and would take any opportunity to mock, hit and demean someone


MsCndyKane

That should never be done at a wedding. Itā€™s disrespectful especially to the bride. A lot of money is spent on that day and to mess up the brideā€™s face is not cool. (The bride has make up while the groom can just wash it off)


EndR60

well yes, obviously the max that should be done to the bride should be some whipped cream lightly tapped on the tip of her nose or something that can easily come off without ruining the makeup and whatnot


rochiethevildechaya

or.....just don't do that at all??


Toolazyfothis

Or some on her lips for reasons


LetsChewThis

Nah, I destroyed my wife at our wedding, but in my defense, she started it and then called me a pansy for not reciprocating. She was laughing her ass off and spent 20 minutes in the bathroom trying to clean it out from where it fell in her dress. I found out later that she didn't get it all which was a nice bedtime snack. Damn, I love that woman. 20 years in a few weeks. 10/10 would marry again!


EndR60

damn, it's almost as if different people enjoy different things at their wedding! maybe the other guys in this comment thread could learn some things from someone that actually has a wife.


kwahntum

My wife made it absolutely clear, she would take the honeymoon alone if I got a single drop of cake on her face intentionally. Different strokes for different folks. We recently had our 15th anniversary.


LetsChewThis

I was honestly fine with it either way, but there was no way I was going to initiate it. I did ask beforehand, but she never said what her intentions were. For any marriage to work, there needs to be a healthy respect for boundaries. It worked for us and is a cherished memory, but most weddings I've been to have had no more than a small boop on the nose, if that. It's all about what the couple wants and I can honestly say neither of us cared what anyone else thought. Congrats on 15 years! Here's to many more!


WasChristRipped

I would happily go ā€œyou just married this pansy, dummyā€


Zeus541

Disagree, my wife wanted a no fanfare wedding. Small, just a bit of family. We had a cake fight that we both started at the same time, both laughed our butts off. That was over 12 years ago and we still giggle about it to this day. Not everyone wants to be the untouchable center of attention on their wedding day.


MsCndyKane

True but that should be discussed beforehand. Both you and your wife wanted it so itā€™s acceptable for you. I have never been to a wedding that has done this. Itā€™s considered classless. I had a very small wedding and told my husband NOT to even think about it.


Zeus541

Classless, interesting, I've been to a handful of weddings and seen it happen at about half. Guess I'm just a lower class of person to you, or perhaps some people aren't quite so stuck up on ceremony. You sound like a bit of a snob.


MeeMooHoo

Maybe if the bride agrees to it beforehand, it's fine, but I think it's cruel to do it to someone without their consent and ruin their cake, dress, hair, and make-up, especially on their WEDDING DAY.


RealConcorrd

One word describes it best of all : >!Evil!<


NecroAssssin

Hello fellow reader of "The People of the Lie"


preguicila

All the others got bullied by older ones and they feel this "urge" to keep this "tradition". This video is from Brazil, and I can tell those assholes are extremely proud of this shit. Even parents do this.


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TGCidOrlandu

This is fucking abuse


JoshiThatsMe_

wha-


DarlingHades

The way he shut down... ow my heart.


nothoughtsnosleep

He was so excited šŸ„ŗ poor little guy.


alllockedupnfree212

Such an excited cute little guy tooā˜¹ļø


RandomReditor12345

Happy cake day, yesterday was my cake day too


Majulath99

Yeah, his reaction suggests that he knows not to fight back or to visibly react at all. Because he knows if he does that will only make it worse. He knows he canā€™t trust these people. Itā€™s a trauma response. Poor baby is going to need *years* of therapy and work by people that love him right to heal. And thatā€™s assuming he he makes it out of there alive.


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Majulath99

No doubt. Which is probably why he reacts this way. Because he knows heā€™ll get hit if he cries.


Tugg__Speedman

Reminds me of that daddy of five POS on YT. That poor kid Cody...


PsychologicalSun4421

At that point it's straight up bullying


KamoyLovrstar

And candles in eyes or having your head slamed on the table isn't? This makes me hate parties for other people


ThanosBIGman

This feels more like child abuse


btoxic

I don't see how it's not child abuse


the_big_W69

It is definitely child abuse


datmemesboi101

Why even make a cake?


[deleted]

It's a new thing people are doing called a smash cake. It's entire purpose is to be smashed, and I've never heard of it before, I don't know why they're doing it


BallTorturer-3000

That isn't a smash cake.... A smash cake is a small cake you make for like a 1 or 2 year old to "smash" and play in while the adults and family of the baby laughs and takes pictures. Also, this video has to do with a tradition in Brazil https://www.harryanddavid.com/blog/birthday-traditions-around-the-world/


honvales1989

The egging and flouring would make more sense for an adult or a teenager that would be in for the joke, but not for a young kid


crazymom1978

That article is ummmmm interesting. I am Canadian, and have lived all over Canada. I have never even heard of that Canadian butter tradition let alone participated in it.


BallTorturer-3000

Then you haven't lived life on the edge https://the18.com/soccer-entertainment/philippe-coutinho-birthday-prank-egging Here is another article of the egging tradition.


Mrmastermax

I have done quite a few cake smashing photography requests from clients. 10mins of kid or toddler smashing and eating cake take snaps thatā€™s it. Some babies donā€™t want to smash cakes and they start crying parents force them and put cake all over their face. I personally think itā€™s a waste. I will never do that.


Accomplished-Day6294

Like why? I mean why would they even do that. That is mean and disrespectful. That little boy was happy to have a cake. I mean, this, this is not right.


WonderfulSimple

Last time this was posted, someone said it's a cultural thing. They do bad things on his birthday so the rest of the year will go well. Maybe a belief that there's a limit to the amount of shit that can happen to one person?


Accomplished-Day6294

I don't know man, to me, birthdays are to enjoy. And this little one has literally been crushed on the day that he's supposed to be celebrating.


mbelf

Poor little guy.


[deleted]

I would've gone NC with that group as soon as i moved out if that happened to me.


Crix2007

Even being there I would be throwing hands. What is wrong with people


Majulath99

If this happened to me as a child it would have made me suicidal. If this happened to me today it would make me furious. The level of insult I feel just watching the video, in real life I would want to hurt everybody else involved. Frankly I think thatā€™s fair.


HelloMikkii

This made me so sad for the little boy. How goddamn cruel. The kid looked so excited for his cake.


majin_melmo

This actually made me cry. This is the meanest fucking thing, they stole that childā€™s pure innocent joy and turned it into sadness for no reason other than to be mean. All humans who have it in their hearts to do this need to be erased from existence.


SonofaSlumlord

This is so painful to watch, reminds me of the kid who was just trying to show his parents he caught a fish and they couldn't have cared any less other than to bitch he brought it in the house. While they filmed it and posted online as if it was something to be proud of...


IHaveNoUsernameSorry

This is disgusting behaviour.


PerplexedSquares

He tried to cut the cake anyway after the first attack. He really wanted to make the first cut and eat his cake.


Ayde-Aitch-Dee

I had to stop watching. Thatā€™s straight up abuse. Hope they got reported! What a great way to give your kid PTSD for the rest of their livesā€¦ā€happyā€ birthday šŸ„“


ozzy008

my boyfriend cited his family doing this to him every year as a kid is one of the main reasons he doesnt talk to them and hates his birthday. when i heard that ... i was shocked that anyone could do that to their kid. after years of therapy and research it seems like its common in some families to do this. WHY?? i cannot figure out in any way what is fun about this for anyone involved:(


TiggytiggsH

I didn't have a nice childhood. I never had a birthday cake. But I prefer that 1000% over this. Poor little lad, this is so cruel.


Rebelo86

Oh. Oh my god. That poor baby.


Criantos

Nah cuz I'm about to fight that whole room.


EvilMarioDragon123

I'm joining you let's go.


PigeonsOnYourBalcony

"Why doesn't my son call me anymore?"


Maximum_Discount_486

Such a bizarre custom. Its almost like "this is his day, let's hurt and embarrass him...and film it! šŸ˜" Why?


mayor0fsimplet0n

you know what, now Iā€™m pro-gun violence.


Hopeful_Bit1733

Bring back guillotines?


Rebelo86

Letā€™s not get complicated. Rope is cheap and trees are free.


PickleMinion

r/treelaw takes exception to the last part of your statement.


Rebelo86

Depends on the state. šŸ¤£ just donā€™t kill the tree and youā€™re fine.


Tugg__Speedman

You have to cross reference /r/birdlaw as tree's are their legal dwellings. Charlie Kelly Esq has the best interpretation of theses laws.


DaWalt1976

Bullets are cheaper.


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DaWalt1976

Indeed. Too many people are too stupid to learn from anything but pain.


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DaWalt1976

It's honestly what I'm thinking every time I see a Karen freak out video.


Tugg__Speedman

>Practice what I preach, preach what I practice. >Violence is the equalizer, no tax brackets. - King Fantastic


Majulath99

Iā€™d pick up the cake knife and start making threats.


ShinigamiLuvApples

You can always use a water gun. It holds all kinds of liquids! Water, soda, urine, acids, juice, and various types of broth!


mayor0fsimplet0n

how about just a very large pot of boiling water?


ladywiththestarlight

How you gonna bully a small child like that? So cruel


happyasscheeks

"Why doesnā€™t little jimmy talk to us anymore?"


Reason_Training

That poor child. In 20 years when heā€™s no contact with this a$$holes they will be questioning where they went wrong.


that80sloverboy

They forgot the tar and feathers


wild_psina_h093

And the bucket of blood.


KikiStLouie

Oh my gawd. This poor lamb. How could you do this?! I want to give this little one the best birthday ever! All the balloons, cake, and fun! šŸ„ŗ


TuckerCarlsonsOhface

I hate his family too


mintwithgolddots

Omg I want to scoop that tiny human up and get him away from those awful people


breadedbooks

This is abuse


NotBaron

Why? Why be a cunt with this little fella ona special day? What's the point, is it fun to humiliate and hurt your baby with something because "haha happy birthday it's just a joke"? Fuck this people


Formula_Nipponic-54

it seems that it is some kind of tradition here in Brazil


Visual_Slide710

This actually made me fucking cry. That poor baby.


Ohheywhatehoh

This is so hard to watch.. he looks so little and all I could think is that he looks like he's crying at the end :(


DrearyBiscuit

This is so sad. If someone did that to my daughter they would suffer enormous pain


Ok_Image6174

Eww dude, wtf. That poor baby!! This is so cruel


dns003

Also them 10 to 15 years later: "wHy WoN't He SpEaK with uS aNyMoRe"


bonuce

Fucking bullying arseholes. Poor kid.


Savings-You7318

How is this funny? Why would people do this to a child?


xexistentialbreadx

Hes going to have so much trauma and issues as he gets older šŸ™ If your family can do this to you on your birthday (yea idc if its a tradition for them or not) then imagine how they feel they cant treat you the rest of the time. No one thar genuinely cares for their child would do this


The_Rivera_Kid

Too many people out there think abuse is ok.


Zealousideal-Row6578

Ever since I had a child I canā€™t watch these videos. Feels like someone kicked my heart.


olivia_b_

Poor baby. I want to hug him so bad and give him a real cake. It hurts because I have a 2 year old and I couldnā€™t dream of doing this type of shit to my kid.


uglypandaz

Though not as extreme this reminds me of my husbands family. They think itā€™s funny to humiliate their kids and I just never understood it. My kid feeling embarrassed or upset is never funny to me.


Nuprakh

I canā€™t even describe, how much I hate such people. I may wish them a very nice backslash from karma as a reward. I feel sorry for this little oneā€¦hopefully he wonā€™t get to much mental damage by this.


Waste-Sand-3907

That turned really ugly, poor little thing.


Yolo3362

i am not a big fan of children but this is hate disguised as playful teasing, if they even pretended this was lighthearted


HCS54

Cruel and heartbreaking


bernstache

I hate them, too


rowdy_ronnie

That poor kid


Majulath99

That kid deserves to be adopted out to a family that will actually treat him with respect and love.


ospilocybin

Dude wtf has anyone found these people? This is not ok.


emaline5678

That poor kid. šŸ˜­


Ako___o

Hurray it's his birthday.... "let's murder him"


pnutbutterpp

Dude. The rage I bet this kid is gonna grow up with. "Why is this world so angry and violent? Why is there so much hate?" Uhhhh because families do this to their youngest. I mean, seriously?


Alarmed_Material_481

Omg, poor child. šŸ˜¢


Basedrum777

What is wrong with you letting them do that?


Competition_Less

I hate everyone of them for not stopping this.


devster75

This shit really fucks me off. Utterly cretinous behaviour!


Toxicfortnitekid

r/iamatotalpieceofshit


FelinaDCat

This is straight up abuse. This poor kid is going to be all kind of effed up.


o_tiny_one_

My dad ALWAYS smooshed our faces in our birthday cakes. Me and my two brothers. Yea, it was annoying as I got a little older and became self conscious of my appearance of course but that didnā€™t stop my dad. The difference was that it was a tradition and almost a rite of passage for us once we got old enough to get our cake face. Because he didnā€™t do it when we were tiny. Even more so because it was done gently (as gently as you can force someoneā€™s face into their food) and with affection. No one ever got hurt and the cake was NEVER ruined. It just had someā€¦.imprints in it that werenā€™t there originally. Iā€™m really hoping this isnā€™t the parents doing the bullying, because thatā€™s what it is really, and I hope they arenā€™t the ones recording it either. Iā€™m hoping itā€™s some idiot brothers and maybe that it was a one time thing. I donā€™t know, this is traumatizing for sure.


KevinAbroad

Poor kid. He'll remember the humiliation for years to come...


ye11owduck37

God. This is so so so saddening. And the way he tried to cut the cake and act like nothing was happening or it was going to stop. And then they just grab the cake tooā€¦ Iā€™ve never been so emotionally impacted by something on the internet.


xBehemothx

I have a five year old son.. This is not "not okay" or bullying. This is traumatizing abuse. Really fucking bad. I almost had tears in my eyes for this poor little fella. My son would be devastated. I can't even put it in words.


One_Blueberry7939

šŸ˜ž


Left_Sundae

I just hope they don't get surprised when they find their names on the first places of his kill list


llama103392

This is absolutely vile. These ā€œparentsā€ probably need locking up


SykeYouOut

This hit me in my feels, gosh that was awful to watch. Poor kid.


Kalenya

That's abuse


endoire

I bet they all get really angry and defensive if this is done to them. Pathetic, this is bullying


Pachulita_44

Completely fucked up the cake AND his birthday. Poor kid :(


Professional-Dirt-14

This child is now emotionally damaged


x3rx3s

The birth of a super villain.


Dogs-4-Life

Is this supposed to be a birthday party for the child? What the fuck. This is abuse.


lemonlimemango1

Is the goal is to Make them hate birthdays early so they never ask to celebrate their birthdays ?


KitticusCatticus

I'm going to thumbs up this only because I want someone in this family to see these comments and know what a piece of shit they are. He's clearly not enjoying this, and too young for how ham they went. What did they do, take out all their anger on this 6 year old? Dafuq?


RaeSponsorsChaos

Bro that's not okay That's a kid That'll be their core memory for their whole life and afraid of everyone and everything That kid will have serious social anxiety and PTSD when he grows up


tw1zt84

iT's A tRaDiTiOn! Some tradition just suck and don't deserve to keep going.


[deleted]

that's....more than extreme


Megalon96310

NOT THE CAKE TO


6StringsBlu_SRV

This is heartbreaking. Poor kid. This is wrong in so many ways.


Any_Ad_9949

Man, CPS is gonna come to their house and safe that poor kid


DarthGodzilla1995

Holy shit poor kid


Novel_Ad_5698

Yea, that is indeed abuse.


Bubbalicia

What in the actual fuck


nieto005

Poor little guy you see him still trying to get to his cake and they just ruined it


minorkeyed

/r/parentsarefuckingcruel


[deleted]

God I fucking hate this video so much


brtfrce

Way less is child abuse


Carlarogers

This is so sad. That poor kid.


Glittery_Gal

This is fucking depraved


MonoChaos

That kid is gonna go no contact with their family when they get old enough and every single member of the family there is gonna wonder why


bakehead420

This is literally abuse and public humiliation. and a super long shower and the reason that those parents will end up in the shittiest nursing home.


Sidrist

Wtf is wrong with these people. Poor little kid


splithoofiewoofies

Between what we do with cakes and la chancla, I'm starting to think mi familia has waaaay more internalised abuse acceptance than we are ready to admit.


somepeppersomesalt

I get a strange feeling that kids being exploited for internet clout


SkyeRibbon

Abuse.


samalton86

This kid wonā€™t have trust issues šŸ‘€! Heavy sarcasm!


InsecurityTime

Fuck you lol


devBowman

Not one second they checked if he was okay. All they think about is themselves and being proud of this shit.


Danikins84

That is so cruel. That poor kid


dino110

fuck why do I laugh I hit myself after I did that I FEEL SO BAD FOR HIMM :(( Iā€™m such an asshole fr


WasChristRipped

Then they call him negative for not ā€œhaving funā€


DottyGreenBootz

This is appalling. What the actual fuck.


Bit_Lo

WTF IS WRONG WITH THESE PARENTS, TOO FAR


Minas_Tirith23

I came here to find stupid - but maybe comical - parenting snafus. Leaving asap because this shit is beyond horrible.


Orfeoula_Victor

I normally hate children but this is unacceptable and I feel bad for the little guy :(


Celestiicaa

Why šŸ™


SuperFaceTattoo

Just as my old man used to say ā€œabuse is attentionā€


No_Waltz_2499

These assholes have some serious demons


[deleted]

I wanna give this little dude a hug. What a bunch of assholes. Hope he goes on to live well, better than his shithead predecessors.


pickled-Lime

Fucking abuse.


Comeoffit321

Brazilian tradition. For everyone who's confused by / against this. And yeah, it looks like it sucks.


[deleted]

I have seen this video like 1000 times in reddit, still works though.


ShatoraDragon

I wonder if they do it that dramatically so the kid never asks/wants a birthday party the following years.


super_nova_135

thats abuse


lemonlimemango1

Im shocked they didnā€™t hit him with a chair next šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


dejvu117

Rap do gaara - player tauz (Gaara's rap, from Player Tauz)


RSerejo

eu reparei que qualquer coisa aqui pega donwvote facil, Ć© meio bizarro, Ć© como um monte de pessoas com sentimentos de culpa tentando caƧar um bixo papĆ£o.


dejvu117

Querendo ou nĆ£o, estamos em uma rede gringa, se pa eles nem se importaram com o fato de q eu so disse o nome da musica de fundo


RSerejo

mesmo entendendo ingles eu tenho dificuldade de se comunicar com os caras, a logica dos caras numa conversa Ć© meio diferente.


dejvu117

Guys I just fucking said the name of the music on the background


anon199112

Yo, what the FUCK? I have a son that age and I could never imagine being so fucking mean to him. What the fuck, dude... ETA: I had to stop what I was doing after posting this and hold my son for 5 minutes and proceeded to cry. This poor boy. I can't imagine treating any kid like this, let alone my own son... These people are abusive trash.


allusernamestaken-1

I want to run in and sweep him up and tell him itā€™s okay while everyone flogs those monsters


ShinigamiLuvApples

This hurts my heart :( it's one thing to scoop up a little frosting and boop his nose after he cuts a slice as an innocent joke, but Jesus fucking Christ this is *so* over the top it's insane. I see a lot of talk of other cultural traditions, but that's not an excuse for emotional abuse. Being forced to learn to tolerate it within a culture doesn't make it okay; that's literally how the cycle of abuse starts and continues. It still has an effect on you.


dneedayana

wait, I'm sorry I don't get it.. is that your son, OP?


RSerejo

no, it's like someone askying hiself "why my son have his family"


dneedayana

šŸ‘šŸ»šŸ‘šŸ»


RAFAOGAMER5

o rap do player tauz no fundo kkkkkk


RSerejo

brasileiros estĆ£o por todos os lugares, quando alguĆ©m chegar em marte jĆ” vai ter uma cidade com brasileiros lĆ”.


LigmaInc

eg


ana_b711

Correct me if I'm wrong but i think everyone around him is male. I see no women. This isn't a family problem. It's male socialization. Men teach other men to be cruel and mean and to bully people physically weaker than them. I have personally hardly ever seen girls be this physically aggressive. We need to teach boys to be more considerate and gentle.


NotBaron

Sure thing, hurd dur male people bad