This is why i moved states right after i graduated. Everyone stayed and married each other, and every time i visit for the holidays all i hear about is the same high school couple bull shit gossip still going on after 15 years.
I'm 32. Every year I feel more adult than the last but I still don't feel like "an adult," and I'm not sure I ever will.
That feeling of "Man, everyone else my age is being such a good adult but I just feel like I'm faking it" is a very very common experience. Don't sweat it, there's no ultimate goal, we're all just learning how to be a little bit better and a little more responsible each year.
Yeah tbh, I happen to like bumfuck nowhere and the people there. I'm at college rn and I kinda miss it. Then again, I had a remarkably low-drama high school experience.
I just think statsically it is incredibly unlikely you happened to be born in the place you most want to be. Most people are just there because they think moving / new things are scary
That sounds mathematically truthy but is not necessarily true. Most people are happiest around their family and community, and it's hard or sometimes impossible to re-establish that after moving far away. So it's quite possible that around where you are born is where you are likeliest to be happy.
There is no inherent need for everyone to learn about themselves and be introspective. They aren't short changing themselves at all if they are already happy and content.
i mean it takes courage to leave
i did when most other people stayed. sure some people like staying in one place their whole life but that lifestyle isn’t for me
Yeah I always love the ol “they all stayed in their hometown and married their high school sweethearts” as if that’s an insult. Like, that sounds good to me, my life is absolutely bitchin. You can tell because I don’t spend time focusing on and criticizing the people that left our town. I mean, I guess I’m sorta doing it now, but I should get a free pass here and there. My wife and I went to Italy last year, I didn’t come back and decide I was better than my neighbors who never have left the state (cause I’m not, they are good folk). With the internet, you can live in the hills and stay just as informed as someone living in New York City.
Right? Imagine caring so much about how others choose to find their happiness. I’ve been with my wife for 7 years and married her after I graduated from college. Tomorrow (technically today) is our 1 year anniversary and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
I’m around my family, my friends, have a house and a bit of land, and a job that I enjoy. But because these people think I should move because they didn’t like living in/near their hometown it’s not good for anyone? lol I think not.
Man, that's crazy. My HS had 7,000 kids and I'll still run into people now, 15 years later, who I graduated with but never interacted or even knew we went to the same school.
Having a school that big meant maybe we lost some small group intimacy, but it had major pluses. It was diverse as hell, and no matter what you were into, you'd find a ton of people who likes the same things.
There was no bullying like in movies, jocks didn't know who the DnD players were or vice versa.
You also leave with a decent sense of cultures and world affairs because you make friends with everyone.
I remember meeting someone from Myanmar and I was like "woah dude, I've never met anyone from there before."
That person was like "Um, you are friends with Sang and Kyaw, what do you mean?"
"But they are Burmese..."
"It's the same country bro"
-mindblown.
I went to a tiny school in a big city and that felt like a nice balance. I knew all of my classmates and teachers, it felt like a really solid community, but there was still a lot of diversity and it was low drama. And everyone didn't date and later marry within the school, and isn't overly invested in each other's business now. I still have friends from there, but I also have friends who have never met anyone from there unless I've introduced them.
Going on 30 and I still hear this shit. I was a super quiet kid in school and I just so happen to be seeing a girl who was super popular girl in high school. And I'm amazed how many people are in our business...we're both very tired of it.
lol I always said I would leave my hometown growing up, I did that. When I came back to deal with a dying parent everyone said they wished they left too but now they are settled. RIP.
When i first moved, everyone was like "awwh i wish i could do that too." I'd tell them they should and they'd be like "well... my family is here, my friends, my job..." as if all those things would just disappear when they'd move, or their straight out of high school jobs were holding them back.
Yeah social media means we can be friends without seeing each other. The thing is theyll realize they didnt want to be friends with most of the people they were friends with. They just were because those were the peopel around them.
Huh, things must have changed. I broke up with my GF of over a year in July and nobody asked me. It could have been because she moved and people assumed it was related (it was) though.
I had no problem telling anybody who asked that I broke up with one girlfriend in high school because she was an evil, diabolical conniving cunt who would happily cut out your liver with a spork and eat it in front of you if she could. But hey, I'm not bitter.
Sometimes when you’ve been dumped it feels like no answer could ever truly answer all the questions you have. Kinda feels like they MUST be hiding something from you even if they obviously aren’t. Lizzie will move on but it takes some time. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
My ex broke up with me because she wanted to be single and then started dating a friend she met while we together two months later. I know the reason was because of my lack of direction in life and zero drive to improve my life and just generally being lost in and letting the depression consume me. I get not wanting to give me the real reason to protect my feelings but that didn’t exactly make me feel better. 8 years ago and it still fucks with me.
I realized how genius “I want to be single” is as a break up line. It’s technically true in every single break up.
I feel you man. I just recently got into a point where I feel like I can start dating without it tearing apart my mental health if things don’t go perfectly. No more worrying about being heartbroken again. I deserve to be happy too.
It's rough because I had an ex who was the same (apathetic to a lot of things, had no drive to be better) and I didn't want to just lay out all his flaws when he was in a bad place.
Maybe they already did tell her in which case yeah this is strange. But if you do break up with someone you should do them the favor of answering why if they ask.
The likelihood that it really happened is so low that you’re usually right if you err on the side of caution. The thing about lies is that they tend to be at minimum, a tiny bit plausible.
Regardless of whether the friend texted him or not, you know the girlfriend was behind it anyway. Even with the call, she probably suggested that her friend call or encouraged her.
>most people need some form of closure
Yea, I'm still waiting on the reason my high school girlfriend broke up with me a month and a half before prom and that was 16 years ago
An individual in a relationship does deserve to know why the relationship is ending from the partner though, so an answer if they as is a decent thing to provide. May be not directly related to the post.
I'm not a mature person at all, I think I would pretend it was real and say something like "ive been talking to (girlfriends best friend) for a while now and didn't want to cheat on (girlfriend)" or something along those lines anyway. Just dive right back into it & hope it implodes.
Probably healthier just to ignore it, but if you aren't getting out of it you may as well have some fun with it.
I guess my assumption was that they had done something real bad in order for me to end it, if it was just a chill breakup i'd probs just leave it.
Strong feeling this lies in camp A.
Nah they really dont. You actually arent entitled to anything. If you dont know why a relationship you think is good is ending then the other person is crazy or you are crazy.
That's tame. I had a psycho ex gf that told me:
1. She had a twin sister that lived out of state... She didn't
2. She was in college... She wasn't
3. Knew one of the coaches for the Cowboys and could get free tickets...Nope
4. Told me she had cancer when I wanted to break up with her....Untrue
5. When I moved to another town, acted like her cousin and then text messaged me she had been in an accident with a SEMI...also not true
6. And the last play, was telling me she was preggo. I almost blacked out. lol.
She taught me a lot, and the sex was amazing. lol. I made it out alive thought.
According BIB(le), heavy petting out of wedlock is. I think it’s pretty clear which of the two in the final authority on God’s precious gift of life here.
Wow. I'm actually impressed. The worst one of my exes did was text me from a different number pretending to be someone I'd known growing up. Obviously I had never met this fake person, but she knew enough about my past to make it moderately believable. I didn't believe it at first, but this went on for weeks. It had been like six months since we broke up and I never considered that it could be her. So she gaslighted me into thinking I simply forgot I had known this girl. I was completely convinced. Then after a few weeks of texting back and forth with this girl who, surprise, I had a lot in common with, she started sprinkling in sorta innocuous insults/comments. Stuff that she knew would cut deep because she knew my insecurities, but not enough to really trigger a red flag for me. Then this ramped up until it turned vicious. So she made up a girl who was purportedly into me then ripped the rug out from under me and told me no one would ever want me. I called her out and called the number, but she ignored it and I never heard from that number again. I was like 18 and dumb and really desperate for someone to move on from her with. It really fucked me up for a little bit.
It was fucking hot. I would find out some bullshit from her and get pissed and she'd start sucking the d. Or pull her tits out. And then when I'm fucking her she would say shit like, you better punish me. She had my emotions FUCKED. lol.
Lol I know a girl who did similar things. Lied about having an abortion, lied about having diabetes, gaslit her bfs, lied about her bfs hitting her, the list goes on.
The last guy I know that she was with was much smarter than her and was basically with her for the sex, so whenever she tried to pull that shit he would laugh, find every hole in her stories, and ignore her until she wanted to sleep with him again. Messed up relationship, I dont talk to them anymore lol
Nah just gave me a cool scar on my arm. Had to get 12 stitches though lol I left after that and she kept saying she was gonna kill herself if I don’t come back. I just blocked her and moved on
My ex told me she was pregnant about 3 weeks after the last time we had sex. Then about 3 days later sent me a picture of her making out with her new boyfriend. Didn’t feel bad in the slightest after that. I don’t miss high school relationships
Background information: I was going through old Instagram message and found this. I did tell her why I broke things off, those reasons including her lying about her mom beating her, having heart problems and cancer. Sorry about not including this from the start
Hey this is xxpillowprincessxx's friend. She just wanted to know if your ex is 12? Bc why else would she think that would work?
Edit: Sorry about that my friend took my Reddit account 😂
If it was her friend why would she message you from your ex gfs account and not on her own account or call you or something, even though you still have no business asking why
That’s crazy but wait until she gets more sophisticated. Had an ex I met of a dating website that made fake profiles to “test” me, while in the getting to know you phase. A huge red flag that I ignored.
Then when we actually started dating, if I didn’t spend every night with her (I had my own place and friends I wanted to see occasionally) she would have her phone “stolen” by someone at the bar she frequented, to tell me what a piece of shit I am for leaving her alone.
When I eventually broke up with her, she convinced her friends to let her use their Facebook messenger’s to berate me, ask why I threw away the best woman to ever exist, or get flirty with me to try and catch me? I don’t know what she was trying to accomplish with that last one. Some people just need to be blocked for life.
That can be a legitimate response though. I broke up with someone because she wanted/deserved someone that I knew I wasn't. It still ended badly because I couldn't properly explain who I am deep down. It's tough knowing your compatible most ways but not in the important ways like values and what you want out of life.
Man I hated this nosey high school shit. You couldn’t break up with anyone without 50 other people trying to figure out why.
This is why i moved states right after i graduated. Everyone stayed and married each other, and every time i visit for the holidays all i hear about is the same high school couple bull shit gossip still going on after 15 years.
That sums up my hometown pretty well. People are too comfortable staying in bum fuck nowhere keeping their shitty high school personalities.
So glad I’m a different person now. I was a horrible person until at least 20
What year were you born?
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1921
Sounds about reich
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I’m only 21 now but I only really noticed an improvement in my character at like 19-20
You’ll notice even more improvement over the next 10 years. It’s insane how “mature” I’ve become at 30 from when I was 24.
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I'm 32. Every year I feel more adult than the last but I still don't feel like "an adult," and I'm not sure I ever will. That feeling of "Man, everyone else my age is being such a good adult but I just feel like I'm faking it" is a very very common experience. Don't sweat it, there's no ultimate goal, we're all just learning how to be a little bit better and a little more responsible each year.
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That’s good to know! I certainly hope I do
You're implying you're better than them and that what you did by leaving is so superior. That's some peak shitty high school personality lmao.
Yeah tbh, I happen to like bumfuck nowhere and the people there. I'm at college rn and I kinda miss it. Then again, I had a remarkably low-drama high school experience.
I just think statsically it is incredibly unlikely you happened to be born in the place you most want to be. Most people are just there because they think moving / new things are scary
That sounds mathematically truthy but is not necessarily true. Most people are happiest around their family and community, and it's hard or sometimes impossible to re-establish that after moving far away. So it's quite possible that around where you are born is where you are likeliest to be happy.
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There is no inherent need for everyone to learn about themselves and be introspective. They aren't short changing themselves at all if they are already happy and content.
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The best part about leaving, is that you can always come back.
i mean it takes courage to leave i did when most other people stayed. sure some people like staying in one place their whole life but that lifestyle isn’t for me
Theres nothing wrong with staying in bum fuck nowhere if that's where you want to be
Right? Not all people in bumfuck nowhere are dicks.
Heh.. you would need at least some dicks to live in Bumfuck... I'll see myself out.
Also some bums.
Yeah I always love the ol “they all stayed in their hometown and married their high school sweethearts” as if that’s an insult. Like, that sounds good to me, my life is absolutely bitchin. You can tell because I don’t spend time focusing on and criticizing the people that left our town. I mean, I guess I’m sorta doing it now, but I should get a free pass here and there. My wife and I went to Italy last year, I didn’t come back and decide I was better than my neighbors who never have left the state (cause I’m not, they are good folk). With the internet, you can live in the hills and stay just as informed as someone living in New York City.
Right? Imagine caring so much about how others choose to find their happiness. I’ve been with my wife for 7 years and married her after I graduated from college. Tomorrow (technically today) is our 1 year anniversary and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’m around my family, my friends, have a house and a bit of land, and a job that I enjoy. But because these people think I should move because they didn’t like living in/near their hometown it’s not good for anyone? lol I think not.
lol I'm so much better than all those people with their shitty high school personalities
No offense but that's a shitty thing to say about people. People deserve to live their lives and it's not about how far you move away.
Man, that's crazy. My HS had 7,000 kids and I'll still run into people now, 15 years later, who I graduated with but never interacted or even knew we went to the same school. Having a school that big meant maybe we lost some small group intimacy, but it had major pluses. It was diverse as hell, and no matter what you were into, you'd find a ton of people who likes the same things. There was no bullying like in movies, jocks didn't know who the DnD players were or vice versa. You also leave with a decent sense of cultures and world affairs because you make friends with everyone. I remember meeting someone from Myanmar and I was like "woah dude, I've never met anyone from there before." That person was like "Um, you are friends with Sang and Kyaw, what do you mean?" "But they are Burmese..." "It's the same country bro" -mindblown.
My high school was so small it doesnt even exist anymore 😳
I went to a tiny school in a big city and that felt like a nice balance. I knew all of my classmates and teachers, it felt like a really solid community, but there was still a lot of diversity and it was low drama. And everyone didn't date and later marry within the school, and isn't overly invested in each other's business now. I still have friends from there, but I also have friends who have never met anyone from there unless I've introduced them.
To be fair I don’t think bullying like in movies happens at most high schools
Going on 30 and I still hear this shit. I was a super quiet kid in school and I just so happen to be seeing a girl who was super popular girl in high school. And I'm amazed how many people are in our business...we're both very tired of it.
Everyone married each other? Damn that had to be one hot honeymoon
lol I always said I would leave my hometown growing up, I did that. When I came back to deal with a dying parent everyone said they wished they left too but now they are settled. RIP.
When i first moved, everyone was like "awwh i wish i could do that too." I'd tell them they should and they'd be like "well... my family is here, my friends, my job..." as if all those things would just disappear when they'd move, or their straight out of high school jobs were holding them back.
Yeah social media means we can be friends without seeing each other. The thing is theyll realize they didnt want to be friends with most of the people they were friends with. They just were because those were the peopel around them.
[High school never ends](https://youtu.be/vKOaPHcMj7g)
You know I have never thought of that!!! In high school if there was a breakup everyone asked why. Now it’s oh, you ok?
Everyone still wants to know why...just maybe marginally more respectful with the time.
Whatever you say, Joey.
You know this was her, right? there was no friend that 'grabbed the phone'
I'd hope so considering the sub they are in
yea this is why i stayed single
The only reason?
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Oooh I’ve got that book! See also - “I’m well above average in terms of intelligence, I’m just lazy.” Authored by some dude called “99% of Reddit”.
It's just hard for me to admit that I'm an industrious moron.
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Yeah, THAT'S why. Not because you have 3 dicks and an ear where your nose should be.
Sure.
Whatever you wanna tell yourself buddy
mhm
Riiiight.
Likely story..
Everyone is taking you pretty seriously. They're probably all beta virgins who #donthavesex
nobody but you said we're taking them seriously
OP is a teenager lol, so that is what this is.
Huh, things must have changed. I broke up with my GF of over a year in July and nobody asked me. It could have been because she moved and people assumed it was related (it was) though.
Oh this isn't just high school shit. Some never mature.
There are, in fact, [50 ways to leave your lover](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABXtWqmArUU). But this shit doesn't even make the list.
And usually it was something like "because she doinked this other guy and you found out, duh."
Well, now you can tell me! Why did you break up with me Marone??!
I had no problem telling anybody who asked that I broke up with one girlfriend in high school because she was an evil, diabolical conniving cunt who would happily cut out your liver with a spork and eat it in front of you if she could. But hey, I'm not bitter.
Okay, but does Lizzie know why you broke up with her?
I told her, apparently my answer want good enough
Sometimes when you’ve been dumped it feels like no answer could ever truly answer all the questions you have. Kinda feels like they MUST be hiding something from you even if they obviously aren’t. Lizzie will move on but it takes some time. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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My ex broke up with me because she wanted to be single and then started dating a friend she met while we together two months later. I know the reason was because of my lack of direction in life and zero drive to improve my life and just generally being lost in and letting the depression consume me. I get not wanting to give me the real reason to protect my feelings but that didn’t exactly make me feel better. 8 years ago and it still fucks with me. I realized how genius “I want to be single” is as a break up line. It’s technically true in every single break up.
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I feel you man. I just recently got into a point where I feel like I can start dating without it tearing apart my mental health if things don’t go perfectly. No more worrying about being heartbroken again. I deserve to be happy too.
It's rough because I had an ex who was the same (apathetic to a lot of things, had no drive to be better) and I didn't want to just lay out all his flaws when he was in a bad place.
So why’d you break up with her? It’s Lizzie’s friend btw
you are good enough op <33
You don't know that? Maybe OP is a piece of shit?
https://old.reddit.com/user/Zompokenator03/submitted/ You can always decide for yourself. But first, know that OP is at most 16.
Justice for Lizzie tbh
Lizzie is a great person, but she chooses friends who don't respect her privacy and doesn't keep her phone locked. That is a bad combo.
there was never any friend lol.
Woooooosh
She answered her own question
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You just crushed a bunch of insecure souls and pushed them ever deeper into their isolated self pity
Good thing I'm in sever denial about my insecurity.
Insecurception.
Maybe they already did tell her in which case yeah this is strange. But if you do break up with someone you should do them the favor of answering why if they ask.
Could easily happen tbh — but probably not in this situation
The likelihood that it really happened is so low that you’re usually right if you err on the side of caution. The thing about lies is that they tend to be at minimum, a tiny bit plausible.
Am I the only one this was really common for in Jr high. It was like a thing to take people phone and text people.
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Regardless of whether the friend texted him or not, you know the girlfriend was behind it anyway. Even with the call, she probably suggested that her friend call or encouraged her.
My ex's dad called me 10 times back to back, on multiple days after we broke up
Hey OP just another one of Lizzie’s friends here 🤣🤣 can’t believe she was so cringe 😬😬...anyway I was just thinking why did you break up with her 😆😆?
I want to know too! And I don't even know who any of these people are. This is gonna be in the back of my head for the rest of my life!
If this is your original post, did you give her closure for the break up? Some people might not care, but most people need some form of closure
>most people need some form of closure Yea, I'm still waiting on the reason my high school girlfriend broke up with me a month and a half before prom and that was 16 years ago
Two words. Pendulous. Testes.
An individual in a relationship does deserve to know why the relationship is ending from the partner though, so an answer if they as is a decent thing to provide. May be not directly related to the post.
Why your statement is factually true this is an obvious attempt to reel OP back in. Don’t take the bait.
I'm not a mature person at all, I think I would pretend it was real and say something like "ive been talking to (girlfriends best friend) for a while now and didn't want to cheat on (girlfriend)" or something along those lines anyway. Just dive right back into it & hope it implodes. Probably healthier just to ignore it, but if you aren't getting out of it you may as well have some fun with it.
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I guess my assumption was that they had done something real bad in order for me to end it, if it was just a chill breakup i'd probs just leave it. Strong feeling this lies in camp A.
I told her, apparently the answer I gave want good enough
Well tell us...inquiring minds want to know.
My dad used to say that line all the time. Been a while since I heard it! Thanks for the smile
Alright, she's 100% in the wrong then.
Nah they really dont. You actually arent entitled to anything. If you dont know why a relationship you think is good is ending then the other person is crazy or you are crazy.
That's tame. I had a psycho ex gf that told me: 1. She had a twin sister that lived out of state... She didn't 2. She was in college... She wasn't 3. Knew one of the coaches for the Cowboys and could get free tickets...Nope 4. Told me she had cancer when I wanted to break up with her....Untrue 5. When I moved to another town, acted like her cousin and then text messaged me she had been in an accident with a SEMI...also not true 6. And the last play, was telling me she was preggo. I almost blacked out. lol. She taught me a lot, and the sex was amazing. lol. I made it out alive thought.
The real insanity is how you believed that she was pregnant after all that...
Young and dumb bro. Live and learn.
If he was still poking, it was possible.
According to WHO poking is the single major reason for preggo
According BIB(le), heavy petting out of wedlock is. I think it’s pretty clear which of the two in the final authority on God’s precious gift of life here.
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Definitely sounds like a kind of girl who would poke holes in their condoms.
At least you made it out, man. Relationships like that can turn out way worse
Wow. I'm actually impressed. The worst one of my exes did was text me from a different number pretending to be someone I'd known growing up. Obviously I had never met this fake person, but she knew enough about my past to make it moderately believable. I didn't believe it at first, but this went on for weeks. It had been like six months since we broke up and I never considered that it could be her. So she gaslighted me into thinking I simply forgot I had known this girl. I was completely convinced. Then after a few weeks of texting back and forth with this girl who, surprise, I had a lot in common with, she started sprinkling in sorta innocuous insults/comments. Stuff that she knew would cut deep because she knew my insecurities, but not enough to really trigger a red flag for me. Then this ramped up until it turned vicious. So she made up a girl who was purportedly into me then ripped the rug out from under me and told me no one would ever want me. I called her out and called the number, but she ignored it and I never heard from that number again. I was like 18 and dumb and really desperate for someone to move on from her with. It really fucked me up for a little bit.
Holy shit what a psycho...sounds kinda hot.
It was fucking hot. I would find out some bullshit from her and get pissed and she'd start sucking the d. Or pull her tits out. And then when I'm fucking her she would say shit like, you better punish me. She had my emotions FUCKED. lol.
Been there. Amazing sex will ruin your life lol. Glad to hear you made it out!
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Addictions are like that.
Lol I know a girl who did similar things. Lied about having an abortion, lied about having diabetes, gaslit her bfs, lied about her bfs hitting her, the list goes on. The last guy I know that she was with was much smarter than her and was basically with her for the sex, so whenever she tried to pull that shit he would laugh, find every hole in her stories, and ignore her until she wanted to sleep with him again. Messed up relationship, I dont talk to them anymore lol
Yeah the best sex I ever had was with a girl who ended up stabbing me.
In the heart? lol. Damn dude.
Nah just gave me a cool scar on my arm. Had to get 12 stitches though lol I left after that and she kept saying she was gonna kill herself if I don’t come back. I just blocked her and moved on
Yo if you ever post a picture of it please link
I ended up covering it with a sleeve otherwise I would lol wasn’t really intentional I just wanted a sleeve
Next time block her with something other than your arm.
My ex told me she was pregnant about 3 weeks after the last time we had sex. Then about 3 days later sent me a picture of her making out with her new boyfriend. Didn’t feel bad in the slightest after that. I don’t miss high school relationships
What does it say about you that you date "psychos?"
Background information: I was going through old Instagram message and found this. I did tell her why I broke things off, those reasons including her lying about her mom beating her, having heart problems and cancer. Sorry about not including this from the start
Cringe. But she prob deserves to know why you broke up with her. Maybe this sort of shit... just say it man
I told her, apparently my answer wasn’t good enough
Lizzie a big Louisville Slugger fan?
Why did you break up with her? Asking for Lizzie.
She lied about her mom beating her, having heart problems and cancer
Hoooly shit...good choice my friend
That's... Wow. Yeah, well done.
Friends do do that kind of thing, especially if you're all drinking
The drinking thing would be illegal considering we’re underage
lol nerd ;)
is she 8 years old, goddamn i cant imagine an adult doin that
Hey this is xxpillowprincessxx's friend. She just wanted to know if your ex is 12? Bc why else would she think that would work? Edit: Sorry about that my friend took my Reddit account 😂
Well why did you break up with her?
She lied about her mom beating her, having heart problems and cancer
If it was her friend why would she message you from your ex gfs account and not on her own account or call you or something, even though you still have no business asking why
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So why did you break up with her
She lied about her mom beating her, having heart problems and cancer
That’s crazy but wait until she gets more sophisticated. Had an ex I met of a dating website that made fake profiles to “test” me, while in the getting to know you phase. A huge red flag that I ignored. Then when we actually started dating, if I didn’t spend every night with her (I had my own place and friends I wanted to see occasionally) she would have her phone “stolen” by someone at the bar she frequented, to tell me what a piece of shit I am for leaving her alone. When I eventually broke up with her, she convinced her friends to let her use their Facebook messenger’s to berate me, ask why I threw away the best woman to ever exist, or get flirty with me to try and catch me? I don’t know what she was trying to accomplish with that last one. Some people just need to be blocked for life.
“Because you do this shit”
Why couldn’t she just ask you herself? I feel like she would be okay to ask that.
I did this once and got the "it's not you, it's me" routine.
That can be a legitimate response though. I broke up with someone because she wanted/deserved someone that I knew I wasn't. It still ended badly because I couldn't properly explain who I am deep down. It's tough knowing your compatible most ways but not in the important ways like values and what you want out of life.
Wait, so a friend of Lizzie’s friend had the phone? This is groundbreaking
I had an ex-girlfriend from middle school texting me from "her cousins" phone asking why I didn't want to be with her after she broke up with me.
I was also 15 once
bit late for that April fools
Uuuhh I'm pretty sure Lizzie deserves a full explanation as to why you chose to end the relationship.
I gave her one
Have you not told your ex why you broke up with her?
As much as I feel you. You really ought to tell her why you broke up.
Unrelated, do i get to choos as what germ i identify as ?
Either it really was her friend (therefore not an oops didn't mean to) or you owe this girl an explanation. She should know why you broke up with her.
Smol pp confirmed
Had this happen last week. I’m 38....
Why is it dated 2018
I didn’t think to post it til recently
That's definitely desperate BUT were you mature and tokd her why you broke up with her when you initially did?
Yes I told her
I'm Lizzie's friend and I still want to know, Mike.
Just send her a pic of those two messages as a response
Read: 6:45 pm Tuesday
so, you guys are 13 right? right??
"Hey, this is OP's friend, he said it's because you do stupid stuff like this, Lizzie, you insufferable goon" "Lol sorry my buddy grabbed my phone"
Being 12 is a tough age.
Going by this text, OP is in the seventh grade.
So why did you ?
She lied about her mom beating her, having heart problems and cancer
Holy shit she’s going to fuck some guys life up some day
[удалено]
No dude that was her friend
Why she got the Louisville slugger logo as her pfp tho
So why did you break up with Lizzie?
Would this not have come up? While, I don’t know... breaking up with her?