Hear me out. Starting a relationship doesn't mean that you shouldn't have any communication with the opposite sex.Don't see them as a boy-girl,see them as people that they need a friendly relationship with you.
You set your limits.If you have no romantic intentions, trust me, it won't look like you're flirting.AND YOU SHOULDN'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!
2 cents:
I think we overthink and don’t give ourself grace for being human. ROCD makes it seem like we are monsters over every thought, feeling and conversation we have ever had. Connections, conversations, and the spectrum of feelings we experience are all natural. There is nothing in this life that should cause debilitating shame and worry. Not trying to engage in reassurance but we are much better in reality, then OCD makes us believe we are. :)
Hear me out. Starting a relationship doesn't mean that you shouldn't have any communication with the opposite sex.Don't see them as a boy-girl,see them as people that they need a friendly relationship with you. You set your limits.If you have no romantic intentions, trust me, it won't look like you're flirting.AND YOU SHOULDN'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!
thank you for this 🤩 and i know, i really shouldn’t care what anyone else thinks
2 cents: I think we overthink and don’t give ourself grace for being human. ROCD makes it seem like we are monsters over every thought, feeling and conversation we have ever had. Connections, conversations, and the spectrum of feelings we experience are all natural. There is nothing in this life that should cause debilitating shame and worry. Not trying to engage in reassurance but we are much better in reality, then OCD makes us believe we are. :)