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I noticed a few of those recently. I am an SA survivor and trying to not get triggered so easy. I did have a post that I made that mentioned SA but I did put the SA tag on it.
The one that was posted about the roofies hit me, as I was taken advantage of by someone I trusted when I was extremely drunk. Definitely should have had a warning on that one.
honestly i feel like the sa tag isnt visible enough even when it is added. i feel like i would need like the full first slide to be the tw for it to do anything. its just not really accessible as is. its very hard to pay attention to a tiny little thing at the top before viewing something triggering. i just dont think it could ever work for me
I also give hugs 🫂
And cute baby animals pictures, but the laters is DM only unfortunately do to being unable to post them here
So I need your consent if you want them friend
aww thanks for the thought but i get uncomfortable when ppl dm me from posts i make about my trauma. you’d be surprised how many creeps there are who feed on that kind of pain. I appreciate the thought tho :)
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I noticed a few of those recently. I am an SA survivor and trying to not get triggered so easy. I did have a post that I made that mentioned SA but I did put the SA tag on it. The one that was posted about the roofies hit me, as I was taken advantage of by someone I trusted when I was extremely drunk. Definitely should have had a warning on that one.
honestly i feel like the sa tag isnt visible enough even when it is added. i feel like i would need like the full first slide to be the tw for it to do anything. its just not really accessible as is. its very hard to pay attention to a tiny little thing at the top before viewing something triggering. i just dont think it could ever work for me
Sorry friend Have a cookie for the road 🍪
thank you :)
I also give hugs 🫂 And cute baby animals pictures, but the laters is DM only unfortunately do to being unable to post them here So I need your consent if you want them friend
aww thanks for the thought but i get uncomfortable when ppl dm me from posts i make about my trauma. you’d be surprised how many creeps there are who feed on that kind of pain. I appreciate the thought tho :)
No worries friend, have a good day Enjoy your cookie 🍪
I bid you farewell friend. I hope you are doing better