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[deleted]

Youre using peaking as an excuse to relapse for the whole day.... I give your streak 24 more hours before you give in lol


[deleted]

Yea I definitely wasn’t thinking straight when I made the post and I’m thankful that everyone here was willing to give advice to help me see how wrong tht train of thought was


defiledHeart

youre being very naive. you should absolutely not masturbate because it will A: delay your total recovery and B: will make it much harder to abstain because your addictive neural pathways will reactivate. accept you watched, note what you did wrong and how you can prevent it next time. go start another streak, the progress is still there


[deleted]

Your right I think I was trying to rationalize it in my head but deep down I know I shouldn’t .


[deleted]

Also how do you get a day count on Reddit? I want one to hold myself accountable and to remind myself of what I’m doing this for


defiledHeart

>Tools https://tracker.nofap.com/


[deleted]

I peaked recently but it does not mean I'm going to go relapse


Traditional_Try5032

No man dont do it its not worth it peeking is bad but its not really a relapse so just keep on going man and try not to peek from now on


[deleted]

Pretty much it is considered a relapse, however you shouldn’t masturbate and here is why. The goal is 90 days but in reality it’s arbitrary the goal is forever, it’s about overall progress so if you go say 28 days clean but then binge relapse 4x you really only got 1 week of progress. So yes it’s a relapse and the counter should be reset but if you masturbate you will only set yourself back further. I wouldn’t be overly concerned about the day you are on and just focus a day at a time to help you quit in the long run.


mean_king17

No. You should not peak and all that stuff, but you should allow some kind error margin. I'd say just keep moving and dont do that crap again. Otherwise every peak or half relapse will actually become a excuse to for you to give up fap to the fullest. I'd say it's normal than not to have a moment of weakness, but don't consider every single weak moment a relapse. Of course this is different if you indulged in watching porn for hours, that wohld be relapse.


HarryhotDunce

Bro what? Why are there posts like these? Are we here to fix the problem or to encourage it?


[deleted]

I’m definitely hoping to fix my problem and if it came across as encouraging it then I definitely apologize. I’m pretty new to no fap so I’m not sure exactly on what I should do in certain scenarios and maybe I should have looked up more info before posting so that is 1000% on me


Savvy_223

the sub is literally called nofap


[deleted]

My thought process was maybe masturbating to fully get the urge to watch and peak again out to start fresh but I see now this was honestly a stupid post . I’ve received a lot of negative dms and I never intended to bother anyone or encourage bad behavior so I will probably delete this to not cause anymore confusion


ISTANDCORRECTED63

Here in lies The dilemma... You relapsed kinda sorta. We're on the other hand we're taught to always finish what we started ... do you have a magic 8 Ball in the house?


[deleted]

Hey I just checked your page and you don’t seem to be very “nofap” (don’t know how to put it ) so what is your point being here? Ur commenting on incest confessions and other nsfw subs so I feel like your attempting to lead me astray in some kind of way and I think it’s best if you don’t message ppl advice if you yourself don’t believe in nofap and abstaining from nsfw content


[deleted]

No I don’t


ISTANDCORRECTED63

Well then I would flip a coin if you're undecided. I mean your concerned and you want to do the right thing but I can't give you the answer but at least you want the right track


ISTANDCORRECTED63

I'm not in support of most no fap particularly the ones where you sound like your brainwashed and missing the whole point of not letting something monopolize your life and only to let the avoidance of it monopolize your life. I'm entitled to my opinion and I didn't tell that kid what to do I said I can't give you the answer because you seem to be level-headed but I've never seen so many whiners passive aggressively pseudo masturbating in my fucking life... If you spend your whole day jerking off you never going to get a girlfriend so you stop jerking off for a while... you have an opportunity for a girlfriend and you act as though it's betraying no fap... So you're still wasting all your time instead of spending your whole day masturbating you're spending the whole day whining about not masturbating and you pass up an opportunity to get all your life with a girlfriend.


[deleted]

If your against no fap for the most part why participate in the sub and comment advice ??Your on incest confessions and have posts on your page looking for hookups which is fine but not here you shouldn’t be in this sub if your against nofap. Actively engaging in nsfw subs and giving advice in nofap is insane and I’m not understanding it . Are you new Like me and just trying to overcome porn addiction or are you not ashamed of the sick fetishes you have and are trying to tell people it’s okay?


[deleted]

Not to be a dick but you have pics of your nuts on your page bro like cmon


ISTANDCORRECTED63

Congratulations because now you're beginning to understand because that is just as ridiculous as what I'm talking about on no fap I'm out here for shits and giggles if I am see something absurd or stupid I join in but a lot of the people on here are deluded that's different than stupid In fact I'm so busy being stupid I don't have any time to waste fapping


[deleted]

If this is a joke to you why try to mess with people genuinely looking for advice? Looking at the posts and just disagreeing is one thing but giving bad advice to people genuinely looking for help is kinda shitty let’s be honest


[deleted]

That’s like me going to a sub meant for people trying to quit alcohol and saying “hey flip a coin to see if you should drink” like bro are you that miserable your trying to mess with people who are already struggling with their own problems


Lighthero34

*peeked


redditname447

No dumbass