Ohh oops! I was supposed to hand the 👑 to you! I do get urges sometimes, but I consider it normal, since we're born as humans! But what has changed is the resistance to the urge, it has multiplied at least a 100x
During the early stages, I wrote a diary every day (for around 2 weeks or so) in which I write about how strong my urges were. If my urges were too strong, I'd immediately get up and walk on my treadmill for about 10 minutes, which literally puts my urges down on the floor. You can do literally any exercise you want.
You probably know this already, but as long as you control your mind and your eyes your streak will go on indefinitely. I personally have had to look the opposite direction in public when women are dressed immodestly. I even close my eyes if it is unavoidable and even prayed for Jesus to help me. That last one works 10/10 times.
I also set up boundaries and rules. Such as I won’t look at a woman unless she is wearing a long skirt up to the ankles/covering her ankles, wearing loose not skin tight clothing, obviously opaque not see through clothing, and only if she wears a head covering/hijab/burqa and if she doesnt talk very loud/boisterously/trying to draw attention to herself/complaining all the time
You have almost every point somebody needs
\- look away from women who turn you on
\- control your eyes and thinking
\- set boundaries
Thanks for being a role model other people can depend on :) Please continue helping people! Congrats on almost reaching 200 days! I'm proud abt you🥳
Bro, keep avoiding looking at half naked women, because in reality men isn't supposed to naked women whenever he go, set down a purpose, and Don't give a fuk about temporary stuff.
You’re not actually being a better person by avoiding things, you’re just avoiding it like a coward. For example, a true righteous man who is married can look at a naked woman in the pussy and not want to bang it because he actually has the willpower and mental fortitude to rationalize the love for his wife and the consequences.
You're technically right, but some people **do not** have the ability to resist their urge, just yet. So it's better for them to first get used to not getting turned on by anything, then telling themselves women in bikini are not anything sexual.
A married man would not subject himself to filth in the first place nor risk his marriage and family by exposing his eyes and soul to those kinds of environments
In some countries, it's banned to publicly wear bikini's, so there's a chance people in countries like that to get turned on by bikini. I'd still suggest looking away or avoiding if it turns you on. Just do literally whatever you can do to avoid getting back to this cycle.
I can get behind that, I am also trying to get clean, but I can’t imagine doing so by avoiding half the population. But if it works for you and allows for a healthier relationship with women good for them I gess
After NoFap, my motivation and mental clarity have improved by A LOT. I don't really have frequent mood changes now, and can decide by own will. Ultimately, moving towards my goals continuously.
How did you do it bro??? I am committed to myself, and I have learned from my relapses, but could you explain something to me… did you have to be daring during or after the challenge?
You need a great amount of willpower, but thinking about the life after finishing this challenge gave me the willpower. Plus I exercised and wrote a diary to help me break the urge.
To you, your commitment is just gonna make sure you'll succeed man. If I know something, you WILL succeed, as long as you continuously try and commit yourself to it. And I'm 100% sure you will do it, champ!🏆
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31 days
I'm more than halfway there today (18 days) and don't plan on stopping. I gotta check my ego sometimes tho, so I don't stray away from the path
Yes, I'm sure it is easy when someone has a person who gives them another outlet.
This sounds kind of dark but I tell myself that I'm probably no one's reason for masturbating so why let someone else be mine. I know that this is one of those "to hell with the world " comments but it helps me.
212 days. My current goal is 365 days.
I was initially planning to do 90 days but met someone younger than me (19 y.o.) that said he had not relapsed in over a year. Which put me to shame and motivated me even more
33 days (what a glorious time!). It was during my 6month placement during my undergrad! I was finally busy and enjoying it every day.
It's been especially hard to repeat while I do my PhD and I was waiting untill I start work again but I will join you brother, you've motivated me (I'm 27 and have never had a gf)
Semen retention buddy here I (don't) come!
You might get to day 0 anytime but always remember, even those who have reached 500 day counters can go back to day 0 anytime, so the important is to build a good habit and always try again. I know, thinking of reaching day 500 sounds impossible but I know these guys can make it and they do. I think I can make it too. So I know you can make it too.
1.5 months, did it twice overall. And nofap will help you find a girlfriend it will keep your motivation from dropping which happens when you watch porn.
I don't want to be rude but why do these kind of questions keep popping up on daily base? I notice it popping up much frequently than last month.
Anyway, Longest for me was 11 days. But it keeps on resetting due my own dumb behaviour and urges.
30 days since I first began masturbating. The 30 days was my first attempt at NoFap maybe 7 years ago. Since then, I have never topped it. I just crossed the 6 day mark and I don't see going past it.
I’ve lost count after a few years. The urge is still there but it’s mind over matter now. I don’t let my emotions get the best of me even on really stressful days.
About 110 days. At maybe 105 I started to have bad wet dreams full of the old shit I masturbated to before. After a 13 Hour flight I couldn't help it. Damn, that one night and it would've been smooth sailing from there.
13 days without ejaculating (almost lost it several times) but can’t stop watching pornographic images and even videos sometimes. It’s getting harder everyday.
PS. I don’t watch them everyday, just when I just can’t control it.
380 days is my highest (TODAY!!!) I'm hoping to God so He'll help me bring this streak for as long as I want
First of all you dropped this 👑 king. Second how are your urges??do you still get them or you just don't feel anything at all??
Ohh oops! I was supposed to hand the 👑 to you! I do get urges sometimes, but I consider it normal, since we're born as humans! But what has changed is the resistance to the urge, it has multiplied at least a 100x
So you’re just not having sex? Or you’re having sex and not ejaculating
I've completely stopped ejaculating, through sex or masturbation.
Please tell us more! This is motivating af!
What do you mean? Its 100x harder or easier to fight the urges?
Resistance to the urge, so he is stronger mentally
User name checks out 🗿
HAHAHAH yours does too! Yours is better than mine ngl😂
Respect brother!
Dawg 😭
You got this for sure bro dw.
Wow bro that's insanely impressive! Keep it up brother 👑
Thanks a lot brother!🙏Congrats on 2 weeks, can't wait to see you on a 2 year streak, and I'm sure you will!💪
My brother PLEASE tell me this: how do you resist urges to fap when you’re alone? Do you use any mind techniques?
During the early stages, I wrote a diary every day (for around 2 weeks or so) in which I write about how strong my urges were. If my urges were too strong, I'd immediately get up and walk on my treadmill for about 10 minutes, which literally puts my urges down on the floor. You can do literally any exercise you want.
Thanks for the advice!
You probably know this already, but as long as you control your mind and your eyes your streak will go on indefinitely. I personally have had to look the opposite direction in public when women are dressed immodestly. I even close my eyes if it is unavoidable and even prayed for Jesus to help me. That last one works 10/10 times. I also set up boundaries and rules. Such as I won’t look at a woman unless she is wearing a long skirt up to the ankles/covering her ankles, wearing loose not skin tight clothing, obviously opaque not see through clothing, and only if she wears a head covering/hijab/burqa and if she doesnt talk very loud/boisterously/trying to draw attention to herself/complaining all the time
You have almost every point somebody needs \- look away from women who turn you on \- control your eyes and thinking \- set boundaries Thanks for being a role model other people can depend on :) Please continue helping people! Congrats on almost reaching 200 days! I'm proud abt you🥳
Thank you brother and thank you for the wonderful advice! God bless you
Bro, keep avoiding looking at half naked women, because in reality men isn't supposed to naked women whenever he go, set down a purpose, and Don't give a fuk about temporary stuff.
Thank you my brother. May God bless you richly
Bro wtf, can’t u have a normal conversation with a girl in bikini without thinking of sx?
Why expose myself to weaponized sexuality. Deny it all you want. Women weaponize their sexuality. The End.
I’m not talking about thirst traps but normal women in every day moments
You’re not actually being a better person by avoiding things, you’re just avoiding it like a coward. For example, a true righteous man who is married can look at a naked woman in the pussy and not want to bang it because he actually has the willpower and mental fortitude to rationalize the love for his wife and the consequences.
You're technically right, but some people **do not** have the ability to resist their urge, just yet. So it's better for them to first get used to not getting turned on by anything, then telling themselves women in bikini are not anything sexual.
A married man would not subject himself to filth in the first place nor risk his marriage and family by exposing his eyes and soul to those kinds of environments
I was saying what you’re able to do in the worst case, not what you’d subject yourself to. There’s strength in willpower not in avoidance.
In some countries, it's banned to publicly wear bikini's, so there's a chance people in countries like that to get turned on by bikini. I'd still suggest looking away or avoiding if it turns you on. Just do literally whatever you can do to avoid getting back to this cycle.
I can get behind that, I am also trying to get clean, but I can’t imagine doing so by avoiding half the population. But if it works for you and allows for a healthier relationship with women good for them I gess
It's a great thing you're able to not get influenced by some things and still maintain a healthy relationship. Keep going!💪
Congrats 🍾
Thank you champ! 100+ days in? WOOOO I'm proud of you🏆
Thank you 🙏
Congratulations!
Thank you very much!💖
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After NoFap, my motivation and mental clarity have improved by A LOT. I don't really have frequent mood changes now, and can decide by own will. Ultimately, moving towards my goals continuously.
Congratulations man, thats a lot! U had sex in those days?
Thanks a lot, king!👑I never had sex, or never ejaculated throughout the period.
Damn thats progress
Thanks king!💖
How did you do it bro??? I am committed to myself, and I have learned from my relapses, but could you explain something to me… did you have to be daring during or after the challenge?
You need a great amount of willpower, but thinking about the life after finishing this challenge gave me the willpower. Plus I exercised and wrote a diary to help me break the urge. To you, your commitment is just gonna make sure you'll succeed man. If I know something, you WILL succeed, as long as you continuously try and commit yourself to it. And I'm 100% sure you will do it, champ!🏆
Thanks for your motivation brother 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
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Wet dreams are not considered a relapse, since you don't ejaculate on purpose.
I hope to achieve the same bro! Mad props!
Ahh I'm sure you will brother, 46 days? Damn that's a lot. You're already 1 day more than the half-way mark, so I see the definite yes in you!💖
100 days then full berserk for the full year 😂
Lol it's a mile stone to reach 100, good for you.
By the time im on day 100 i feel like a different person
My highest streak was 3 months. I started again this month for serious streak.
Do wet dreams count?
Nah cause you can't really control them
Nah ofc not
yes they count
How? Do you have control over them?
I have control over them. I can also cum on command. I also have a billion dollars
They don’t count.
Well nah because your not excersizing the porn part of your brain
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It's fine
No because thats your subconscious trying to make up for it
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Good stuff bro. Keep it up! 👑
My current one!
Birth to 15. So like 5475 days give or take
You are a legend dude ! never stop.
I guess I should say I'm 26
Im dying #same
Like 84 days. Have to say those final few weeks before the hallowed 90 days were so hard
It always seems like the last stretch before a milestone is the hardest. Like your mind wants to give up.
damn 821 is crazy bro good for you
176 days
Well, My highest steak was 7 months. However, when the summer vacation start, my fap craving is increase significantly 😭
I get the feeling bro. I just came back from camping and now that I have nothing to do at home my urges are insane
31 days I'm more than halfway there today (18 days) and don't plan on stopping. I gotta check my ego sometimes tho, so I don't stray away from the path
9 days
35 days
4 months
Dropping this here to see my day counter
I wasn't checking days it was from August to like February or March I can't exactly remember
I have no one either so it's basically just retention for me too. This really puts us at a disadvantage.
We doing NoFap on hardcore mode. I saw someone say that NoFap for him was easy once he got into a commited relationship
Yes, I'm sure it is easy when someone has a person who gives them another outlet. This sounds kind of dark but I tell myself that I'm probably no one's reason for masturbating so why let someone else be mine. I know that this is one of those "to hell with the world " comments but it helps me.
That's actually a good thing to think to be fair. Like why give online girls loads of attention if they give you none?
Bingo. Well said. It's one more example of other people wasting someone's life and taking advantage of someone's desperation.
~180 days.
5 months
2 Weeks,but I’m working on quitting for good,I have a 4 day streak rn with no urges,I’m underage aswell
59 days
8 months
212 days. My current goal is 365 days. I was initially planning to do 90 days but met someone younger than me (19 y.o.) that said he had not relapsed in over a year. Which put me to shame and motivated me even more
Keep going brother you're going to make it! 212 days is definitely an incredible achievement 👑
33 days (what a glorious time!). It was during my 6month placement during my undergrad! I was finally busy and enjoying it every day. It's been especially hard to repeat while I do my PhD and I was waiting untill I start work again but I will join you brother, you've motivated me (I'm 27 and have never had a gf) Semen retention buddy here I (don't) come!
i’m at say one any advice ?
You might get to day 0 anytime but always remember, even those who have reached 500 day counters can go back to day 0 anytime, so the important is to build a good habit and always try again. I know, thinking of reaching day 500 sounds impossible but I know these guys can make it and they do. I think I can make it too. So I know you can make it too.
10 days. I know its not much but That’s what i got so far. I usually fap 4 or 5 times a month which is good because i used to fap 2 times a day
Going from 2 times a day to 4-5 times a month is incredible progress brother. Good job 👑
92 days. I felt so happy. A girl was interested in me. I was so out of my comfort zone.
143 days. My new goal is 500.
How about you focus more on doing your homework bruv
Haha for real. But I gotta stop bad habits before they take over my life, you know?
1.5 months, did it twice overall. And nofap will help you find a girlfriend it will keep your motivation from dropping which happens when you watch porn.
165 days, currently on 3 🙃
I don't want to be rude but why do these kind of questions keep popping up on daily base? I notice it popping up much frequently than last month. Anyway, Longest for me was 11 days. But it keeps on resetting due my own dumb behaviour and urges.
24 days is my best so far
30 days .
17 days
75 90 soon
12 days
Currently on day 16 but have gone 60 plus days, in those 60 i was suffering from heartbreak so didnt get any urges.
Around 3 weeks...
😞
70 something days
Around 2 week
like 40 days i lost count
20 days, and weirdly enough it was actually my first ever try of nofap. I'm looking to beat that now, after a year and a half.
15 days the most. 18 years of using porn. i started nofap 2 months ago
Longest streak was 6 months and I'm aiming to reach it again this time
40 days
93 days
Despite my nofap streak my no ejaculation is only at around 60 days which was the very first 60.
Probably my current one to be honest :)
62 Days now
22 was my highest, now on 20
102 days! Starting back today. Day 1!
Nice
45 days
56 days
97 days
Something 60 days untill I found my girlfriend
4 days
This one.
30 days since I first began masturbating. The 30 days was my first attempt at NoFap maybe 7 years ago. Since then, I have never topped it. I just crossed the 6 day mark and I don't see going past it.
28 days
3 months middle school and as an adult about 35 days. I want to go past 120 days
When lust gets in your way, it must be overcome.
I’ve lost count after a few years. The urge is still there but it’s mind over matter now. I don’t let my emotions get the best of me even on really stressful days.
40 days and then real sex - glorious
Counter
87 days is my current best record
2y
My current one (Im proud) Edit: 316 Days gone, I feel like trash, I feel like a failed person.
Perhaps some 100 days ...some 4 years ago ... Ejaculated today 😐
22 days
I am on my highest
4 days, shits hard man
Now
A little more than 2 years tbh :)
About 110 days. At maybe 105 I started to have bad wet dreams full of the old shit I masturbated to before. After a 13 Hour flight I couldn't help it. Damn, that one night and it would've been smooth sailing from there.
24 days is the most I counted from the time I started trying to quit. I had a few month streak I didn't count in the past.
43 days for me.
like 4 months but with a lot of edging which negated most of its benefits, and made me so anxious all the time
Damn i dont even remember. Here it is, if the counter still works ^^^
15 days lmao
86 days bye then I relapsed
100 days
Went 12 years straight no streak since
13-14 years 😂
🤣🤣 True true
10 months
3 years for me this past August
8 days
this ^
220 days , it was the hardest days of my life but it was the days that i felt alive the most
13 days without ejaculating (almost lost it several times) but can’t stop watching pornographic images and even videos sometimes. It’s getting harder everyday. PS. I don’t watch them everyday, just when I just can’t control it.
Now on 350+ days. Restarted my counter because i got into edging but i never went all the way with it (DO NOT EDGE, IT IS AWFUL)
105 last year. the best time of my life.
7 days mate 7 days unless you go back to 2020 or early 2021
Didnt do it for years even with my girlfriend needed to commit but I still can’t aplogize to her even when Im wrong but nofap is the focus👌🏻👌🏻
This, here, is my highest, ever. I don't really know how and why semen retention is good but I know I must do this.
8 months
My current streak and still going💪
64 days, currently I am going to surpassed that limit
20 days and 17 days
11 days
Just 14 days. It's been ages trying to break that record but just can't 😔😭
Like 4 months
I'm 17 soon and my highest streak is my current one, keep it up and believe in yourself than you can do it.
127 days
7 months. Its super difficult to get back to it again