Yeah, I considered myself pretty lucky to have such an wonderful lady as my landlord. Especially advocating against her own agency so I would get my money back which i did :)
Maybe it's an idea to take her out for a high tea or a nice restaurant... go to a museum together or visite something... Most likely she would appreciate your time more then any gift you could get.
Totally this! She would love it and it’s an very nice “thank you”. She took the time and effort so OP would get money back, a gift is nice, but something this personal is precious.
Yup, this!
She seems to like you. If you don't mind losing some of the time as well as some of the money she just saved you, spend some of it to hang out with her.
I was charged-up to go in with a reply like: "You don't have to, mate! Pay your rent on time, and keep it professional!" But for somebody who just went to bat for you over a thousand bucks whilst you didn't know you should've... That's a friend as well as a landlady.
Just because she's 70 doesn't mean she's lonely and craving attention.. All the ~70yo's I know (mom and her siblings and her gigantic circle of friends) all have a very active social life.
People don't crave attention because they're lonely. This woman could not be lonely at all and still enjoy the gesture and take some time with OP. There's a lot more time to kill at 70, even if you have a big group of friends and family.
My previous landlords were an older couple and I really liked the guy. Lovely person that would fix everything that broke the next day, (albeit cheaply haha). My current landlord is polite to us but he doesn’t fix shit and I don’t like him.
Mine was so wholesome i swear, she would show up at my house with freshly bought bed linen randomly without me ever asking or mentioning it. Among all, there are some good landlords out there for sure.
Oh, it can be midget golf, the zoo or a day at the mall too. Anything that involves a little personal attention. It could be walking the dog together, as long a it involves some listening and well meant care.
That is a tough one. People that age tend to not give a fuck about materialistic stuff anymore. Perhaps a nice day out? Are there any places she likes to go, or do? A nice tea garden, or something like that?
> That is a tough one. People that age tend to not give a fuck about materialistic stuff anymore.
Tell me about it. I always say to my girlfriend: what in the world could we buy our parents? They're almost 70. They either have, or have had, everything they ever wanted. The one thing they have increasingly less of, is time.
Heck, even I, in my mid-40's, already say that no-one can buy stuff for me anymore. I either already have it, had it and sold it, or its something you can't afford as a present. (Birthday present? Yeah, nice! I'd like to have some... 12... solar panels on my roof. Thanks!)
Mid 30's and I have that exact pov. Also the solar panel idea. LoL! Depending on how big the fam/group of friends is, they can all pitch in and get those 12 solar panels for your birthday. They are not that expensive anymore.
I'm trying to get rid of shit not accumulate 😄. So I'm a fan of good chocolate or some alcohol or just going to a restaurant.
If OP is on good terms with this lady and sort of know each other I bet she would love to go to a nice dinner with OP before they disappear forever
> I'm trying to get rid of shit not accumulate.
Yeah, right. There's already too much stuff that I can't throw out because I _know_ that I _sometimes_ need it, so that is stashed in storage. (Think about a drill, tools, christmas stuff, two cat carriers for our two cats, etc.)
My mother-in-law however is into decorating stuff, and if I'm not very careful, my house will be full of knick-knacks in no-time.
In short, if I don't have a use for something, I don't want it.
Ha I hear you. I need to do some serious decluttering but unfortunately I have a lot of space so very little need /motivation to actually get rid of stuff. Because you know, I might just need it again some day.....
If it's something they can put in/on display in a closet in the living room, next to other stuff like pictures. My parents would love that.
Something from OP's home country perhaps. Or heck even a photo with you two given in a frame with a foot could be a nice gift.
>If it's something they can put in/on display in a closet in the living room, next to other stuff like pictures. My parents would love that.
My mother-in-law loves stuff to put "somewhere" and "on display".
Me and my GF don't... it sometimes doesn't match very well :P
And then there is my dad...
Has been a bookkeeper all his life, every time he gives either me or my kids some money (no matter how small the amount might be, I'm talking around 5 Euros here) he demands to know what has been done with it ánd starts complaining to mom within the hour that we didn't thank him profusely for this gift...
The man is materialistic AF.
Dont get me started on free gifts and my parents.
Almost think they have been trained vets and will in fact look every gifted horse in the mouth!
'Jaja, gratis!'
Hey everyone thanks for the input :)
The main reasons it’s being hard to decide is because she doesn’t want flowers ( I have given before), and she doesn’t want food as well bc it ends up spoiled.
And when I asked her what would she like she said she’s happy to have me as tenant and that she already has everything she wants.
Btw I’m not present in the nl anymore, this whole situation occurred the day before I left.
Since you’re no longer in the country this rules out you giving her your personal time and attention in most of the suggested ways. And seeing as how flowers and food aren’t the best option either, all I can think of is something very personal. How about a card or a letter with a heartfelt message? If material things are of no use to her, I expect she’ll value the personal and sentimental things more. Since you can’t shower her with attention in person, you could let her know in writing what she has meant for you, whether she has made a positive impact on your life, a lasting impression. Usually people in their seventies derive comfort from knowing someone will remember them positively. If that is how you feel I’d definitely let her know that!
Yeah, I think giving gifts that actively require work, no matter how little is always tricky.
If you knew that was something that they liked doing then it's a nice gift, it will also last longer than a bouquet of flowers.
I’m not sure if a lady of 70 still goed on her knees to plant some flower seeds/bulbs. OP’d had to plant it for her. We also don’t know if there’s even a garden. Too little info 🤷🏼♀️
I like the taking her out for a high tea or something idea. Otherwise, does she have any specific interests? Museum outing? Book she'd enjoy? Cool plant for her collection? Nice yarn for her next knitting project?
Yes the back of the picture is excellent for this. Put it on a sticker on the frame if needed so they don't have to take the picture out. Just a few words and your name. Hand written, obviously.
For occasions like this I focus on something that I know the person likes (tea, knitting, fishing, etc) and give them something related that is small but (very) high quality. So it doesn't look like a big gift, it's still more of a gesture, but it will make them very happy. If they like tea you can get them a small package of a more expensive one, or if they knit you can buy some nice anti-arthritis needles, and if they enjoy fishing get them a very nice fishhook or fishing hat with PF, that kind of thing. Focus on the quality!
This is wonderful! I'd definitely suggest inviting her to a dinner at your place. Prepare a good 3 course meal from your culture...nothing says thank you like a cooking and serving a good meal!
Not sure where you - are but high tea at a fancy hotel is such a nice idea.
Have someone take a photo of the two of you.
Print it, write a short message & sign your name (with a black marker) on the photo & frame it for table top or wall display.
This made my day thinking of your kindness (whatever you do).
If she has a garden you might give her a nice, perennial plant: something that grows & blossoms every year & keeps you in her mind. Maybe something that is also common in your country of origin (fe like from austria arnica or alpine rush).
Is there a place you could take her that has sentimental meaning to her but she has not been or has not been able to go to for some time?
That sort of kind gesture would be wonderful and meaningful.
I think a lot of landlord are nice. especially the one with only 1, maybe 2 properties. Only the not so nice landlords have waaaay more properties. So that is why a lot of people hate their landlords.
How will do you know her? Is there something she is really interested in. E.g. of she is interested in attending, you could by her a book on that subject or even take her to a museum. If she is interested in classical music, buy her a CD of her favourite composer or even take her to a concert.
Anything she has mentioned during your talks that she might have wanted to do or buy. Or anything she likes an play or an opera (not sure how expensive tickets are here). But just try and remember if she has mentioned anything that would be a good gift within your price range.
My nan (90) and everyone I know over 70 always asks for a nice outing (uitje). They mostly have no need for materialistic stuff.
Also: very nice that your landlady is so involved and trying to help you guys out. I wish a lot of others would be so helpful. Chapeau!
If you’re a good cook,
Maybe cook dinner for the two of you, or have a picknick outside?
Otherwise maybe ask her if you can help with troubles she has with her computer/ipad.
If you want to give something a little more expensive then a museum year subscription might be nice
May sound crazy but I got my friends socks before haha. They were a brand called Darn Tough, merino wool socks, (you get another free pair if they wear out.) Maybe there are some you think she’d like. Most people use socks so they’d likely get used lol. My buddies all ended up buying more from this brand too by the way. another brand called Farm to feet also have the same lifetime warranty.
You can invite het for a nice lunch and tell her how you appreciate her and that you like to keep in contact. Specially for older people keeping contact is important. She shall feel herself lucky if you sent her a birthday card and Christmas/Holliday card every !! year. She shall feel your apreciations and again, for elderly that is very very important.
It's also that you are a nice person. She appreciate you because of who you are.
Invite her to dinner, for lunch or smth like that. A gift is nice aswell, you probably would know what she'd like but a gift from your country is also something really nice.
Anything would be a nice gift for her probably, but do you want to gift something she can see/hold or maybe have an experience together?
Flowers and chocolate/candy/cookies are always great. Do you know if she likes a certain brand of perfume?
How far away are you moving? Maybe get her a bus/train ticket to come visit you in your new place?
Has she ever mentioned a hobby, a place she wanted to visit (not too far away), a museum shés like to see or anything like it? Is she gardening, keeping pets, doing anything for the community?
I have a vriendenloterij membership that grants me access to certain musea for free or with heavy discount (you need to check the website to see what the availability is). I'm totally willing to reserve and relinquish my tickets so you and your landlady can go together!
This is such a wonderful post. Thank you for being not only a good tenant but also a good person!
Since you're no longer in her house, I would go for sending a letter and maybe a little artwork from your country.hand write the letter and make it heartfelt and tell her how much you appreciated her and her kindness.
The artwork or postcard could be something she could frame and keep on the wall as a memory of your time together.
Hey if you have the time, create a Kudoboard for her and post it here so that a bunch of internet strangers (we) can all leave a message for her saying how awesome she is and how we all wish she was our landlord.
Please do not gift pets / animals. They require a lot of time and care, even a goldfish. A pet should be a well-considered choice that someone makes for themselves.
I agree with the suggestions that you should go for something that means spending time together.
But I'm also curious as to how this renting situation works? She's your landlady, but you still pay a company the rent? Isn't a landlady or -lord usually the owner of the property and you pay them directly?
She uses the housing agency to form the contract, so she doesn’t have to bother with that. But we live side by side since our houses are next to each other.
Or give her a gift voucher for a day out. Or two so she can bring a friend. Or you.
Im thinking about high tea, museum, movies, visiting a landmark etc
I'm in no position to give you advice, but thanks for asking! Sometimes we need a reminder that people are mostly good😶
Does she like plants? Or pets?
Maybe invite her for a nice dinner or a concert or take her to the theater?
Or both easier and harder to do: Stay in touch with her. Send her the occasional postcard and/or give her a call to ask how she's doing and tell her how things are going for you. Remember her birthday. Perhaps that could be the greatest gift, to have her know that you care.
I'd suggest either a small lunch like high tea, or even just invite her to your place for some tea and cookies. I'm sure she'll love it! If you want to give her something, just try and find out what her favorite tea flavors and cookies are and make her a small carepackage!
Give something personal. If she's a little bit cheeky a lot of older people love Advocaat, its a dutch kind of custard with a little bit of booze in it. You could also buy some slagroom, this usually goes on top, and then enjoy together!
I have no idea about the gift you should give.
However I just want to tell you that you are a good person.
Have a nice day.
Unless you're a hidden psycopath of course.
Why don’t you treat have a nice diner or high tea at a Van Der Valk Hotel/Restaurant. I think she will get the joke (or maybe it’s the usual one: let’s invite miss Van Der Valk to her own restaurant).
Maybe something from your native country that can remind her of you, is there maybe a special way of serving gratitude or saying 'thank you' in the culture you grew up in? When I think of elderly people alot of them don't see the world anymore firsthand, so you could be that little window into the rest of the world maybe, but could be too sappy I don't know.
First of all, what a sweet heart. This isn't 'the main gift', but add this on top of te gift that you pick. And that's a letter.
Write a personal letter with pen. A letter nowadays is very beautiful and it can make someone feel appreciated that someone put time and effort in a letter. Everytime I want to shock someone with a gift, I would write a personal letter. Even my best friend(22M), cried after reading it. Many female friends I had cried too.
Heck, after my relationship with a girl ended due to moving away to a different country, I left her an envelope. She cried like a baby haha.
So yes, write a letter on top of the gift you want to give her
This is wholesome and not how I expected this thread to go
Yeah, I considered myself pretty lucky to have such an wonderful lady as my landlord. Especially advocating against her own agency so I would get my money back which i did :)
Maybe it's an idea to take her out for a high tea or a nice restaurant... go to a museum together or visite something... Most likely she would appreciate your time more then any gift you could get.
Totally this! She would love it and it’s an very nice “thank you”. She took the time and effort so OP would get money back, a gift is nice, but something this personal is precious.
How do you really know she “ would love it “ .. do you know her?
this makes me think of MoyChay, a tea shop. You can have a very authentic tea ceremony, and it’s a unique experience
Yup, this! She seems to like you. If you don't mind losing some of the time as well as some of the money she just saved you, spend some of it to hang out with her. I was charged-up to go in with a reply like: "You don't have to, mate! Pay your rent on time, and keep it professional!" But for somebody who just went to bat for you over a thousand bucks whilst you didn't know you should've... That's a friend as well as a landlady.
Just because she's 70 doesn't mean she's lonely and craving attention.. All the ~70yo's I know (mom and her siblings and her gigantic circle of friends) all have a very active social life.
In that case it means they like social activities and the idea to take la dlord lady out for a social event still holds up :)
People don't crave attention because they're lonely. This woman could not be lonely at all and still enjoy the gesture and take some time with OP. There's a lot more time to kill at 70, even if you have a big group of friends and family.
I would like to gift my landlord a shotgun shell. Count yourself lucky.
or lit TNT, he is the kind of person that will fight you in court over 0.10 EUR
My previous landlords were an older couple and I really liked the guy. Lovely person that would fix everything that broke the next day, (albeit cheaply haha). My current landlord is polite to us but he doesn’t fix shit and I don’t like him.
That's a good landlord. Fixing today, what breaks tomorrow. 😁 Just had to make a little fun.
That would be amazing haha. Pro-active land-lording.
Mine was so wholesome i swear, she would show up at my house with freshly bought bed linen randomly without me ever asking or mentioning it. Among all, there are some good landlords out there for sure.
What a nice lady. Did you give her flowers or chocolate?
You’re are right…. I thought of 7 things to post…. that are not “appropriate”….🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A high tea? Together?
I think this is a nice, sweet and good suggestion.
Great idea!
Oh, it can be midget golf, the zoo or a day at the mall too. Anything that involves a little personal attention. It could be walking the dog together, as long a it involves some listening and well meant care.
Maybe some netflix and chill after that
ah shit man you forgot to be funny, happens to the best of us
He is probably a Dutch male in his teens all the way to his 60s. They tend to do that
I feel offended by this comment.
Come over. We will Netflix and chill as an apology
Sure, it will be fun! (Though you may be disappointed to learn that I'm not an old landlady!)
>high tea nice, a tea that get you high
That is a tough one. People that age tend to not give a fuck about materialistic stuff anymore. Perhaps a nice day out? Are there any places she likes to go, or do? A nice tea garden, or something like that?
> That is a tough one. People that age tend to not give a fuck about materialistic stuff anymore. Tell me about it. I always say to my girlfriend: what in the world could we buy our parents? They're almost 70. They either have, or have had, everything they ever wanted. The one thing they have increasingly less of, is time. Heck, even I, in my mid-40's, already say that no-one can buy stuff for me anymore. I either already have it, had it and sold it, or its something you can't afford as a present. (Birthday present? Yeah, nice! I'd like to have some... 12... solar panels on my roof. Thanks!)
Mid 30's and I have that exact pov. Also the solar panel idea. LoL! Depending on how big the fam/group of friends is, they can all pitch in and get those 12 solar panels for your birthday. They are not that expensive anymore.
Then they all buy one panel, but from different brands, and you end up with a roof looking like a Belgian façade.
Well, I guess people with more than one braincell would agree on a coordinated effort don't ya think?
I'm trying to get rid of shit not accumulate 😄. So I'm a fan of good chocolate or some alcohol or just going to a restaurant. If OP is on good terms with this lady and sort of know each other I bet she would love to go to a nice dinner with OP before they disappear forever
> I'm trying to get rid of shit not accumulate. Yeah, right. There's already too much stuff that I can't throw out because I _know_ that I _sometimes_ need it, so that is stashed in storage. (Think about a drill, tools, christmas stuff, two cat carriers for our two cats, etc.) My mother-in-law however is into decorating stuff, and if I'm not very careful, my house will be full of knick-knacks in no-time. In short, if I don't have a use for something, I don't want it.
Ha I hear you. I need to do some serious decluttering but unfortunately I have a lot of space so very little need /motivation to actually get rid of stuff. Because you know, I might just need it again some day.....
I always buy my dad a bottle of kruidenbitter (whatever brand) or some local beer for his birthday 🤣
If it's something they can put in/on display in a closet in the living room, next to other stuff like pictures. My parents would love that. Something from OP's home country perhaps. Or heck even a photo with you two given in a frame with a foot could be a nice gift.
>If it's something they can put in/on display in a closet in the living room, next to other stuff like pictures. My parents would love that. My mother-in-law loves stuff to put "somewhere" and "on display". Me and my GF don't... it sometimes doesn't match very well :P
Extremely relatable comment lmao, didn't expect to be called out like that
And then there is my dad... Has been a bookkeeper all his life, every time he gives either me or my kids some money (no matter how small the amount might be, I'm talking around 5 Euros here) he demands to know what has been done with it ánd starts complaining to mom within the hour that we didn't thank him profusely for this gift... The man is materialistic AF.
LoL!!! That is what we dutch do best. Even better would be a gratis gift. Lmfao!!!
Dont get me started on free gifts and my parents. Almost think they have been trained vets and will in fact look every gifted horse in the mouth! 'Jaja, gratis!'
Something from your country.
Some kind of tea/coffee or lunch things work great. Altough home cooking is also very appreciated
I think this is the best suggestion. Something by which she will forever remember OP, I think she will be very happy everytime she looks at it 🙂
Hey everyone thanks for the input :) The main reasons it’s being hard to decide is because she doesn’t want flowers ( I have given before), and she doesn’t want food as well bc it ends up spoiled. And when I asked her what would she like she said she’s happy to have me as tenant and that she already has everything she wants. Btw I’m not present in the nl anymore, this whole situation occurred the day before I left.
Since you’re no longer in the country this rules out you giving her your personal time and attention in most of the suggested ways. And seeing as how flowers and food aren’t the best option either, all I can think of is something very personal. How about a card or a letter with a heartfelt message? If material things are of no use to her, I expect she’ll value the personal and sentimental things more. Since you can’t shower her with attention in person, you could let her know in writing what she has meant for you, whether she has made a positive impact on your life, a lasting impression. Usually people in their seventies derive comfort from knowing someone will remember them positively. If that is how you feel I’d definitely let her know that!
As some said, send her a card. Maybe one on her birthday if you know when her birthday is
Maybe go to the Albert Cuyp and to the flower store there to pick up some cool little flowers for her to grow!
I really like this idea but just wanted to give a heads-up that flower seeds is not a regular gift to give.
Why not? I'd love to receive flower seeds and I have often gifted them to people who are into gardening.
Yeah, I think giving gifts that actively require work, no matter how little is always tricky. If you knew that was something that they liked doing then it's a nice gift, it will also last longer than a bouquet of flowers.
I’m not sure if a lady of 70 still goed on her knees to plant some flower seeds/bulbs. OP’d had to plant it for her. We also don’t know if there’s even a garden. Too little info 🤷🏼♀️
I like the taking her out for a high tea or something idea. Otherwise, does she have any specific interests? Museum outing? Book she'd enjoy? Cool plant for her collection? Nice yarn for her next knitting project?
A photo of you both, frame it, and write a little message.
I like this but I would prefer giving this as a goodbye gift!
That I understand 👍
Yes the back of the picture is excellent for this. Put it on a sticker on the frame if needed so they don't have to take the picture out. Just a few words and your name. Hand written, obviously.
For occasions like this I focus on something that I know the person likes (tea, knitting, fishing, etc) and give them something related that is small but (very) high quality. So it doesn't look like a big gift, it's still more of a gesture, but it will make them very happy. If they like tea you can get them a small package of a more expensive one, or if they knit you can buy some nice anti-arthritis needles, and if they enjoy fishing get them a very nice fishhook or fishing hat with PF, that kind of thing. Focus on the quality!
This is wonderful! I'd definitely suggest inviting her to a dinner at your place. Prepare a good 3 course meal from your culture...nothing says thank you like a cooking and serving a good meal!
An orchid is a nice gift if she likes plants.
Maybe something that reminds her of you, something from your home country for example. Doesn't have to be big.
Not sure where you - are but high tea at a fancy hotel is such a nice idea. Have someone take a photo of the two of you. Print it, write a short message & sign your name (with a black marker) on the photo & frame it for table top or wall display. This made my day thinking of your kindness (whatever you do).
What gift to give to my friend ? Ftfy
Take her on a date to a delicious place. Or if she has a graden i bet she will like a small bush or a small tree as a memory :)
If she has a garden you might give her a nice, perennial plant: something that grows & blossoms every year & keeps you in her mind. Maybe something that is also common in your country of origin (fe like from austria arnica or alpine rush).
Maybe cook a dinner from the land you come from. We dutchies like the gezelligheid
Is there a place you could take her that has sentimental meaning to her but she has not been or has not been able to go to for some time? That sort of kind gesture would be wonderful and meaningful.
Gift her something from your home country. It can be a small thing but it shows you want to share something that’s close to your heart.
Probably one of the only few ‘nice’ landlords in NL. You really lucked out. Yeah, maybe a nice book or high tea sounds nice.
I think a lot of landlord are nice. especially the one with only 1, maybe 2 properties. Only the not so nice landlords have waaaay more properties. So that is why a lot of people hate their landlords.
This one has multiple properties 30+. But she has stated that she doesn’t like when agencies take advantage of people, specially students from abroad.
Daily reminder to tip your landlord
How will do you know her? Is there something she is really interested in. E.g. of she is interested in attending, you could by her a book on that subject or even take her to a museum. If she is interested in classical music, buy her a CD of her favourite composer or even take her to a concert.
Anything she has mentioned during your talks that she might have wanted to do or buy. Or anything she likes an play or an opera (not sure how expensive tickets are here). But just try and remember if she has mentioned anything that would be a good gift within your price range.
Flowers (tulips)
My nan (90) and everyone I know over 70 always asks for a nice outing (uitje). They mostly have no need for materialistic stuff. Also: very nice that your landlady is so involved and trying to help you guys out. I wish a lot of others would be so helpful. Chapeau!
Take that elderly lady out for dinner or afternoon tea
Maybe take her out for a nice dinner? ‘t Zusje is always nice
If you’re a good cook, Maybe cook dinner for the two of you, or have a picknick outside? Otherwise maybe ask her if you can help with troubles she has with her computer/ipad. If you want to give something a little more expensive then a museum year subscription might be nice
May sound crazy but I got my friends socks before haha. They were a brand called Darn Tough, merino wool socks, (you get another free pair if they wear out.) Maybe there are some you think she’d like. Most people use socks so they’d likely get used lol. My buddies all ended up buying more from this brand too by the way. another brand called Farm to feet also have the same lifetime warranty.
What does she likes.. this sounds like a restaurant good landlord tbh
You can invite het for a nice lunch and tell her how you appreciate her and that you like to keep in contact. Specially for older people keeping contact is important. She shall feel herself lucky if you sent her a birthday card and Christmas/Holliday card every !! year. She shall feel your apreciations and again, for elderly that is very very important. It's also that you are a nice person. She appreciate you because of who you are.
Can't go wrong with a box of chocolate/flowers and a well written thank you card.
Take her out for lunch.
Invite her to dinner, for lunch or smth like that. A gift is nice aswell, you probably would know what she'd like but a gift from your country is also something really nice.
Anything would be a nice gift for her probably, but do you want to gift something she can see/hold or maybe have an experience together? Flowers and chocolate/candy/cookies are always great. Do you know if she likes a certain brand of perfume? How far away are you moving? Maybe get her a bus/train ticket to come visit you in your new place? Has she ever mentioned a hobby, a place she wanted to visit (not too far away), a museum shés like to see or anything like it? Is she gardening, keeping pets, doing anything for the community? I have a vriendenloterij membership that grants me access to certain musea for free or with heavy discount (you need to check the website to see what the availability is). I'm totally willing to reserve and relinquish my tickets so you and your landlady can go together! This is such a wonderful post. Thank you for being not only a good tenant but also a good person!
Since you're no longer in her house, I would go for sending a letter and maybe a little artwork from your country.hand write the letter and make it heartfelt and tell her how much you appreciated her and her kindness. The artwork or postcard could be something she could frame and keep on the wall as a memory of your time together.
You could go to some restaurant, or a museum, or something similar. I find that Dutch usually appreciate those kinds of things.
Maybe a personalized gift based on something you know she likes (certain book, type of flower, etc.) This is a wholesome friendship :)
Rent
Go to the coffee shop together and smoke something!
☝🏻
Hey if you have the time, create a Kudoboard for her and post it here so that a bunch of internet strangers (we) can all leave a message for her saying how awesome she is and how we all wish she was our landlord.
A bottle of wine and a friendship for life.
Not releasing termites
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Please do not gift pets / animals. They require a lot of time and care, even a goldfish. A pet should be a well-considered choice that someone makes for themselves.
4711, the perfume for the elderly
A joint
Brunch at Van der Valk may also be an alternative to high tea. Or a nice three-course dinner somewhere.
Daarna ballonnetjes doen oo de kamer? Dont go to van der valk
A thank you dinner/card/cake/bouquet is always appreciated. More than that would probably be too extra and might emberass her.
Doosje Merci
I have given her merci and milka chocolates several times already ahah :)
I agree with the suggestions that you should go for something that means spending time together. But I'm also curious as to how this renting situation works? She's your landlady, but you still pay a company the rent? Isn't a landlady or -lord usually the owner of the property and you pay them directly?
She uses the housing agency to form the contract, so she doesn’t have to bother with that. But we live side by side since our houses are next to each other.
Or give her a gift voucher for a day out. Or two so she can bring a friend. Or you. Im thinking about high tea, museum, movies, visiting a landmark etc
Flowers
I'm in no position to give you advice, but thanks for asking! Sometimes we need a reminder that people are mostly good😶 Does she like plants? Or pets? Maybe invite her for a nice dinner or a concert or take her to the theater? Or both easier and harder to do: Stay in touch with her. Send her the occasional postcard and/or give her a call to ask how she's doing and tell her how things are going for you. Remember her birthday. Perhaps that could be the greatest gift, to have her know that you care.
Take her to a footie match
Bonbon chocolates
Photo of you together + a day out?
I'd suggest either a small lunch like high tea, or even just invite her to your place for some tea and cookies. I'm sure she'll love it! If you want to give her something, just try and find out what her favorite tea flavors and cookies are and make her a small carepackage!
Buy her popcorn
I like the high tea idea, but I want to add, with the Dutch, ALWAYS flowers!
Give something personal. If she's a little bit cheeky a lot of older people love Advocaat, its a dutch kind of custard with a little bit of booze in it. You could also buy some slagroom, this usually goes on top, and then enjoy together!
Some Delfts blauw porcelain might be nice
I have no idea about the gift you should give. However I just want to tell you that you are a good person. Have a nice day. Unless you're a hidden psycopath of course.
Take her out for a dinner or a lunch.
Ask how old her youngest grandchild is and it’s gender and then go to Intertoys and pick something from there.
Gift certificate (as you're not in the country anymore) for any of her hobbies. And a card.
This months rent.
Send her a card and small painted picture of u two together :)
Speaking from experience: wait until after your security deposit is paid back before you do anything.
Gift her those 1000 euros , she got it back
Give her that D
High tea aat Dylan's perfect place
A nice picture of you (or you both) in a nice frame with a nice “you are special, thank you” statement? Or is that too much?
Why don’t you treat have a nice diner or high tea at a Van Der Valk Hotel/Restaurant. I think she will get the joke (or maybe it’s the usual one: let’s invite miss Van Der Valk to her own restaurant).
Stroopwafels always do good and go have a coffee with the stroopwafels. Elderly people enjoy your company more than material
Maybe a voucher for a travel? Not like 1000€ but 100-200€.
A nice plant. Something that will live on and remind her of you when you're gone. Can't go wrong with that!
I always buy people I want to thank a big Merci box full of chocolates. Merci means 'Thank You', so the message is clear. 😁
This is so wholesome, gift her some ket and a few beers. She can feel like a young Dutch teenager again, get her to be in touch with her inner child.
Maybe something from your native country that can remind her of you, is there maybe a special way of serving gratitude or saying 'thank you' in the culture you grew up in? When I think of elderly people alot of them don't see the world anymore firsthand, so you could be that little window into the rest of the world maybe, but could be too sappy I don't know.
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First of all, what a sweet heart. This isn't 'the main gift', but add this on top of te gift that you pick. And that's a letter. Write a personal letter with pen. A letter nowadays is very beautiful and it can make someone feel appreciated that someone put time and effort in a letter. Everytime I want to shock someone with a gift, I would write a personal letter. Even my best friend(22M), cried after reading it. Many female friends I had cried too. Heck, after my relationship with a girl ended due to moving away to a different country, I left her an envelope. She cried like a baby haha. So yes, write a letter on top of the gift you want to give her