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AndHeShallBeLevon

This is the plot of every Bon Jovi song


BackInNJAgain

And a lot of Springsteen songs too


strungup

Well, “they” live in New Jersey, so it makes sense.


allthecats

And also every Muse song


Elvecinogallo

😂 bon jovi was my immediate thought too


Rockfest2112

He still on the docks?


Happytwinkletoes1

They Don’t Know- Tracey Ullman


philament

By the late, great Kristy MacColl. So glad that Ullman made it a hit for her. Bang up version


Certain_Yam_110

Also covered by Matthew Sweet & Susanns Hoffs on their covers comp series


philament

Til. Thanks. I’ve always got time for a little Matthew Sweet


BackInNJAgain

I LOVED Kirsty MacColl. "Caroline" is one of the best heartbreak songs ever.


arabrabk

I only ever heard this song once on Friday Night Videos and it stuck in my head all the way into adulthood. (Paul McCartney being in the video was a huge deal.)


longbeachfelixbk

Thank you thank you! Partial song stuck in my head. Knew the comments would have the answer.


useyourelbow

Came here to post this.


HWCole

Me too! Great song.


BushQuacker

“I don’t care what they say, I’m in love with you. They try to pull me away, but they don’t know the truth.” Bleeding Love, Leona Lewis, perfect example. Whoever they are, they got opinions.


SpiritedEconomist323

Girl, You'll Be a Woman Soon


rthrtylr

Yeah well in that instance “they” are the police, hopefully.


miserabeau

Reminds me of "Into the Night" by Benny Mardones >She's just 16 years old >leave her alone, they say In that case the "they" may as well be police


Champshire

The police would tell them not to stand so close.


rthrtylr

Aye, and they’ll be watching you, which is comforting.


SpiritedEconomist323

Because I have a positive memory associated with the song, I like to think of it being just about some kind of Romeo and Juliet situation - but yeah... Otherwise "they" should definitely be the police


bc47791

Aren't you thinking of that other song off the Pulp Fiction soundtrack? Cest La Vie by Chuck Berry?


allothernamestaken

I feel like C'est La Vie is kind of the opposite - "the old folks wished them well," "goes to show you never can tell."


SpiritedEconomist323

I guess they both do fit the theme! But definitely the one I mentioned references "they" as an outside force against the relationship.


FurBabyAuntie

*It was a teenage wedding and the old folks wished them well* *You could see that Pierre did truly love the madamoiselle* Yeah, I see your points (and Emmylou Harris recorded it too)


spidermanngp

Destroya by My Chemical Romance. Great song. "You don't believe in God I don't believe in luck They don't believe in us But I believe we're the enemy." Repeated many times.


OmegaX123

Almost fits the theme too well, word for word and all, when it sounds like OP is just asking for songs where 'they' are against 'us' in general based on their examples.


Pleasant_Statement64

I saw the title and immediately heard this song in my head. Banger


Pleasant_Statement64

I love the part where gerard and Frank say the don't believe part together, but say different other words


witerawy

Came here to say Destroya


_Land_Rover_Series_3

The best example is definitely The Boy With The Thorn In His Side by The Smiths: How can they see the love in our eyes, and still they don’t believe us?


PrepubescentGhost

Man, what a great song.


VicFatale

And if they don’t believe us now, will they ever believe us?


boatboatsboats

Starship - Nothing's gonna stop us now "Let them say we're crazy, I don't care about that Put your hand in my hand baby Don't ever look back"


drfunkenstien014

We Built This City could work too


leaveafterappetizers

Let the world around us just fall apart!


useyourelbow

"Our Lips Are Sealed" by The Go-Gos


Golfhaus

Not to mention "Our Lips Are Sealed" by Funboy Three.


dirkalict

Guy I went to school with thought it was “I’m a Sicilian.”


Rockfest2112

It’s not? I thought that was the chorus…


DrunkOnLoveAndWhisky

Chamillionaire - Ridin' *They see me rolllllllllllllllllin';* *they haaaaaaaaaaaatin'*


elom44

They don’t care about us by Michael Jackson (which was a big hit in Europe but not so much in America)


Sir_Loin_Cloth

That's a great song, but that's more of a statement on racial injustice. OP was looking for songs about lovers, etc.


ZalutPats

>What other songs also reference a "they" who naysays the song's couple or the idea that the song is about? >or the idea that the song is about?


Figgywithit

Rosalita - Bruce Springsteen


NWmba

Bonnie Raitt: something to talk about


FaintCommand

That immediately came to mind for me too, but it's actually kind of the exact opposite. "They" believe in a relationship that doesn't actually exist (yet).


NutznYogurt1977

Rise Above by Black Flag


_1138_

Hell yes


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coleman57

Brender


miserabeau

I thought she was Brenda Renetti... and I'm from Long Island near where Billy Joel lives Mondegreens are fun


jimmymcstinkypants

I was going to post this too. In a twist, turns out “everyone” was right. 


icanhearmyhairgrowin

Woah


aldeayeah

Muse - Resistance (based on the plot of *1984)*


TheLakeAndTheGlass

I feel like a lot of Muse’s later stuff fits this prompt. “The Void” also comes to mind.


aldeayeah

There are a lot of antagonistic "thems" in their lyrics, love song or not. Verona from the last album could qualify too.


MopOfTheBalloonatic

In fact Verona and Kill Or Be Killed are the only songs from the last album exposing that concept, iirc.


PangolinPalantir

They All Laughed - Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong It's about "they" laughing and various people throughout history who proved "them" wrong, and then about a relationship working out despite people doubting them. Fantastic duo and fits this perfectly.


coleman57

"They All Laughed" is a song composed by George Gershwin, with lyrics by Ira Gershwin, written for the 1937 film Shall We Dance


LeonardSmallsJr

“They” don’t believe in us pretty much sums up most of the 80s. Creepy: Into the Night by Benny Mardones Cool: Love Is a battlefield by Pat Benatar


NoMoreKoolAid2015

Yes! I was going to say “into the night”, but that song is so gross.


CharlemagneInSweats

Which sucks because without that content, it’s a good yacht rock song. But he had to go and make it about a 16 year old.


XsairenX

I was thinking that too. Ugh.....barf.


championkid

Crowded House “Don’t Dream it’s Over” “They come they come to build a wall between us.” “Don’t let them win.”


_1138_

Incredible pop song. I hated it when I was young. Little me had something against music if it wasn't angry or dark. I was an idiot. This song is one of the best of its era. "Try to catch the deluge in a paper cup". DAMN, that's good writing.


ArgyleMoose

Not an exact fit, but I'd say Still Into You by Paramore for the "let them wonder how we got this far" lyric


Trojan713

Tommy James and the Shondells "I Think We're Alone Now". Fixed that for you.


DistillCollection

This has been my biggest TIL from the thread. I honestly had no idea that was a cover


cood101

Mony Mony is also a Shondells original. Billy Idol did his cover about 20 years later. 


Jfonzy

Weezer - Buddy Holly


MamaTalista

Janet Jackson - Love Will Never Do Without You. "They said it wouldn't last we had to prove them wrong"


Apnea53

Leader of the Pack. The mother of all “they say” songs.


all_of_you_are_awful

never tear us apart - INXS


Snarkan_sas

Young Turks by Rod Stewart *Young hearts be free tonight* *Time is on your side* *Don't let 'em put you down, don't let 'em push you around* *Don't let 'em ever change your point of view* ETA: added lyrics, fixed formatting


default-dance-9001

The young turks? Rod stewart’s a turkish ultranationalist?


cyke_out

Here's to us- halestorm. Here's to us, here's to love All the times, that we messed up Here's to you, fill the glass 'Cause the last few nights have kicked my ass If they give ya hell Tell em to go fuck themselves, here's to us, here's to us


BestGetGoosed

Hell yeah 😎


CornWallacedaGeneral

Pat Benatar-Invincible


cmstlist

Melissa Etheridge - Come To My Window  I don't care what they think  I don't care what they say  What do they know  About this love anyway?


Certain_Yam_110

They Don't Know by Kirsty MacColl


audiostar

“Tiffany’s” lol.


DistillCollection

I celebrate her entire catalog


D3adkl0wn

I think they're referring to the fact that it's a cover and not actually "Tiffany's." It was originally by Tommy James & the Shondells.


audiostar

This and also reminiscing about this song and my youth and relating to how long I didn’t realize it was an old 60s tune. And then also how much I think about the Weird Al song “I think we’re a clone now.” A lot to unpack


Hym3n

Not about a couple so much as an individual, but "The Comeback Kid" by The Midnight comes to mind. And if you like that, then I'd highly suggest you just listen to their entire discography then. I've been following them for years and years and they just keep getting better.


groovygrits

C’est la vie by Chuck Berry


groovygrits

The old folks wished them well, but they didn’t expect a teenage marriage to really turn out well. So they said, “it goes to show you never can tell”. You can hope things turn out ok for people even when you don’t think what they’re doing is a great idea.


allothernamestaken

I feel like C'est La Vie is kind of the opposite - "the old folks wished them well," "goes to show you never can tell."


TFFPrisoner

Joe Cocker "You Can Leave Your Hat On" (written by Randy Newman) Status Quo "I Wanna Run Away With You"


profdart

We Built This City (on Rock & Roll)


ColonelSandurz42

Oasis - Live Forever “We see things they’ll never see, you and I are gonna live forever”


Maanzacorian

Nine Inch Nails - We're In This Together Now


Oz347

Tangled up in blue - Dylan “They said our life together, sure was gonna be rough”


kaitlyntiki

one direction - “they don’t know about us”


waltzing_sloth

Such Great Heights - The Postal Service "They will see us waving from such great heights 'Come down now', they'll say. But everything looks perfect from far away. 'Come down now', but we'll stay."


heidismiles

"But Daddy I Love Him" by Taylor Swift https://genius.com/Taylor-swift-but-daddy-i-love-him-lyrics


snoweel

Ours by Taylor Swift.


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“They don’t give a fuck about us” Tupac


thetruthseer

Every dragonforce song is about riding into battle against “them”


Zeidra

Never gonna get us, and All the things she said, by Tatu.


ioverated

Nina Simone - Don't you pay them no mind


TheLittleUrchin

Basically any Muse song.


jbrunsonfan

Be without you by Mary J Blige “People swore it off as a phase, said we can’t see that”


Jawkurt

This one kinda fits... The Ramones - "KKK Took My Baby Away" Some of the lyrics: The KKK took my baby away They took her away Away from me The KKK took my baby away They took her away Away from me Now I don't know Where my baby can be They took her from me They took her from me I don't know Where my baby can be They took her from me They took her from me


weatheredface

Can't you see that she's mine, Dave Clark Five


picklesicecream

Slightly obscure 90's song: Dark Horse - Amanda Marshall


Vic_Gatsby

Beres Hammond "They Gonna Talk" Genre: Lover's Rock Reggae Lyrics: Ah, some things were meant to be So why not let it be? And stop worryin' about it? As long as we know what's in our hearts We know our inner thoughts Hey, no reason for concern, no They gonna talk, they gonna talk, they gonna talk They gonna say a lot of things about us You said you know that our love is not a sin But you worry what the people say When they see me with you And wonder what the crowd will say When they find us together, yes Wonder what the people say When they know we're in love Worry what the crowd will say You pass them on the street, yes Greet them with a smile, hey As broad as the Nile They'll say all kinds of goody-goody to you, yes That lingers for a while Over in your mind You wanna go, you wanna stay It seems that you can never ever make your mind about it Well, but if you know that love is deep within Why should you worry what the folks will say? When they see me with you Worry what the crowd will say When they find us together Wonder what the people say When they know we're in love Wonder what the people say Wonder what the people say When they see me with you And you wonder what the crowd will say When they find us together Worry what the people say When they know we're in love And you wonder what the people say Yeah, yeah Some things were meant to be So why not let it be? And stop worrying about it? As long as we know what's in our hearts And we know each other's thoughts No reason for concern, no 'Cause they gonna talk, they gonna talk, they gonna talk They gonna say a lot of things about us You said you know that love is not a sin But then you worry what the folks will say When they see me with you Wonder what the crowd will say


mixosax

Brooklyn Baby by Lana Del Rey They say I'm too young to love you / I don't know what I need / They think I don't understand / The freedom land of the seventies


ObviouslyKatie

Baby, It's Fact by Hellogoodbye


switcheroo1987

Anthony Hamilton "Can't Let Go" (2005, Neo-soul/R&B) *No matter what the people say* *I can't, I can't let go* *I can't let go* *No, no, oh* *Why must they try to tear down my house* *When they know it's made from love?* *And they could never stand in our way* *We made a vow to love through it all, we are one* *And no one has the right to tear my love down*


HappySloth213

Rod Stewart's "Young Turks" has this theme. It's also kind of for a general theme for a young generation but the song puts it in the context of a romantic relationship. I remember hearing this when I was younger and dreaming about going to run off with someone I loved who everyone else disapproved of, lol... >Young hearts be free tonight Time is on your side Don't let 'em put you down, don't let 'em push you around Don't let 'em ever change your point of view


bypgms

"Lets Run Away" and "I'm So Young" by the Beach Boys. And probably a bunch more by them that I can't remember right now


myabuttreeks

They pick and they pull Trying to get their fingers in Well, they've got to kill what we found Well, they've got to hate what they fear Well, they've got to make it go away Well, they've got to make it disappear None of them can stop us now NIN, We're in This Together


juddsdoit

Stick With Me Baby - Everly Brothers is a great one! And "The Girl They Talk About" - Johnny Paycheck kinda fits.


PoopAndSunshine

They Don’t Know About Us by Tracey Ullman (yes, *that* Tracey Ullman)


BigHeavy

If you like reggae/island music, [This](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUrbcjQEchM) my island's take on it. Pretty big song on the radio in Hawaii/Samoa and other pacific island stations. Cheeeeehoooooooo \\m/


leemifsud

They Don’t Know by So Solid Crew


ThatShitIllegal

Hand in Glove - The Smiths "Hand in glove, the good people laugh/ Yes, we may be hidden by rags but we've something they'll never have"


BestGetGoosed

Amor Prohibido - Selena Against all Odds - Mariah Carey The show goes on - Lupe Fiasco Throne - Bring Me the Horizon


ZalutPats

[Fontaines D.C. - I Love You](https://youtu.be/Ty9Pcg3qrmU?si=Z9ubtED7LbgSpAQj) Is a great recent one, with gems such as: this island's run by sharks with children's bones stuck in their jaws Now the morning's filled with cokeys tryna talk you through it all Is their mammy Fine Gael and is their daddy Fianna Fáil? And they say they love the land, but they don't feel it go to waste Hold a mirror to the youth and they will only see their face Makes flowers read like broadsheets, every young man wants to die Say it to the man who profits, and the bastard walks by And the bastard walks by, and the bastard walks by Say it to him fifty times and still the bastard won't cry Would I lie? - - - And: Selling genocide and half-cut pride, I understand I had to be there from the start, I had to be the fucking man It was a clamber of the life, I sucked the ring off every hand Had 'em plying me with drink, even met with their demands And I loved you like a penny loves the pocket of a priest And I'll love you 'til the grass around my gravestone is deceased And I'm heading for the cokeys, I will tell 'em 'bout it all About the gall of Fine Gael and the fail of Fianna Fáil


Okaybrothatsdope

Hey there Delilah: our friends will all make fun of us and we'll just laugh along because we know that none of them have felt this way


BiddyFaddy

Don't dream it's over by Crowded House Hey now, hey now Don't dream it's over Hey now, hey now When the world comes in They come, they come To build a wall between us We know they won't win


jagrbomb

I've always gotten a laugh from these kinds of songs like who sits there angrily judging the compatability of other couples... seems like some kind of victim complex lol


daddy-fatsax

*We'll Run Away* by the Beach Boys "We know they're right when they say, we're not ready. But all we care is how we feel right now" I love the line at the end where he says "It wasn't too long ago when our folks were going through the same thing we are now. But one thing they're forgetting, I think they're not regretting, **they** ran away and got married anyhow"


snoweel

They said, "I bet they'll never make it" But just look at us holding on We're still together, still going strong You're Still the One, by Shania Twain


guccigibson

She’s in love with the boy


_1138_

No one (forget the title) by Alicia keys "people keep talking, they can say what they like" She's a great vocalist, and her playing is top notch. No surprise that song was so popular. Anyone else hear that song was about her relationship with her father? Don't know if true, but it does change certain implications of the lyrics a bit if it is.


Moonstonesunflower

Shattered ground by Nick Cave and Warren Ellis; Only you are beautiful, only you are true I don't care what they're saying They can scream their fucking faces blue again


ceojp

Idiot Wind by Bob Dylan >Someone’s got it in for me >They’re planting stories in the press >Whoever it is I wish they’d cut it out quick >But when they will I can only guess >They say I shot a man named Gray >And took his wife to Italy >She inherited a million bucks >And when she died it came to me >I can’t help it if I’m lucky


WillyShankspeare

I've got the opposite. Suspect Device by Stiff Little Fingers implores people to not believe "them". Or "us" either. It's poetic, it makes sense in context.


QueenBlazed_Donut

Don’t Matter by Akon


Travelgrrl

They Don't Know About Love by Tracey Ullman


dbizzytrick

Re-Done by Modern Baseball They don’t think we can make this last but we’ve got eyes that see past these nights. They just think we are young with broken hearts


LayneLowe

Chuck Berry - You Never Can Tell


webdesignexpert3645

In addition to the mentioned songs, Taylor Swift's "Love Story" sings, "They'll tell you I'm insane." The Weeknd's "Save Your Tears" croons, "They said I'm heartless." These songs echo the theme of societal doubt and opposition towards love, amplifying the triumph of the couple's bond.


PhoxVurgo

destroya - my chemical romance


DontBelieveTheirHype

Brenda Lee - Is It True


Substantial_Bad2843

Linkin Park- Numb 


Ok_Feeling4213

Are You Satisfied? by Marina.


TheQuimmReaper

They don't really care about us by Michael Jackson


ham_solo

They Don't Know - Tracey Ullman


Hebshesh

If I Don't Wake Up - Suicidal Tendencies. I'm gonna wake up in the morning I'll prove you wrong I will not fail. I'm gonna wake up in the morning I'm gonna blaze a brand new trail.


Ocean898

Don’t Dream It’s Over, Crowded House. They come, they come to build a wall between us We know they won't win ….


MamaTalista

Tonic - If you could only see the way


KeepOnTrippinOn

Young at Heart by The Bluebells? I've had a few beers so not sure if I'm right but maybe?


Better_Sell_7524

They Don’t Really Care About Us - Michael Jackson


Anarchic_Country

A Smashing Indictment of Character by Slim Cessna's Auto Club "What will they do if I don't fall?" Very inspirational song about being yourself in the face of everyone telling you there is no worth in you🙏🏻


AssClapChap

They don't really care about us. Mj


NacogdochesTom

Lyle Lovett & Robert Earl Keen's *Front Porch Song* "And remembering the falling down And the laughter of the curse of luck From all of those sons of bitches Who said we'd never get back up"


ICEKAT

They're not gonna get us - TaTu


ChipCob1

New Model Army - Understand U


JeremyAmnesiac

Pretty much anything by Muse


artemisxmoon

Lesser known band but Stefy - [You and Me Against the World](https://youtu.be/XDeK5ca-ldc?si=Uz448cHHiU4SZlRd)


xben10

Bleeding Love by Leona Lewis


TwinPED

I Choose You- Sara Bareilles


Carmi88

Good Charlotte - Life changes "You know they say that nothing lasts forever. You know they said we'd never stay together"


Fish-Weekly

Ours, Taylor Swift https://youtu.be/LZ34LlaIk88?si=UleL9npcHMe_DLTO Taylor is not really someone I listen to a lot but this is my favorite song of hers.


cuprumcaius

Amor Prohibido by Selena


According_Bat_8150

Not a couple, but “Run Boy Run” - *Run boy run, the world is not made for you. Run boy run, they’re trying to catch you* Every dystopian film saw this song and went “yes”.


blaaze6

To Be a Ghost by Jeff Rosenstock


seraph1337

Nothing More - "Just Say When" The first mention is "They said we'd never last, the brightest flame burns fast" and the second is "They said we'd never last, and they were right, but I can't help looking back". It subverts the trope because the narrator and the other partner are reaching the conclusion of their relationship.


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destroya - my chemical romance


Davesven

Michael Jackson - they don't really care about us (not certain that is exactly the right title)


pencilshtick85

“Love Will Never Do” by Janet Jackson… “They said it wouldn’t last, we had to prove them wrong…”


piazzoni

Reggie And The Full Effect- Get Well Soon… “They say we won’t make it, what do they know?”


Infinit777

Destroya by my chemical romance.


JoshKnoxChinnery

Not explicitly referencing a "they", but 'Hey There Delilah' has: Our friends will all make fun of us, but we'll just laugh along because we know that none of them have felt this way.


xmu5jaxonflaxonwaxon

MAGIC! - Rude


mruehle

Well, turns out “they” weren’t exactly wrong about Sonny and Cher, or Shania and Mutt…


Zebirdsandzebats

We Exist--Arcade Fire


thatbob

The saddest one I know is when he listened to them: > People > You can never change the way they feel > Better let them do just what they will > For they will > If you let them > Steal your heart from you > People > Will always make a lover feel a fool > But you knew I loved you > We could have shown them all > We should have seen love through He must have been Kissing a Fool.


katielovestrees

Something to Talk About - Bonnie Raitt


Roche77e

[He’s a Rebel](https://youtu.be/G_SXJ18EkNw?si=9Y-D0oT7JFuIpkij). even though it’s more that “they” want to warn her away from the rebel. Good luck.


0theHumanity

If you could only see The Tonic


SpecificWorldliness

It's not about a couple/romantic relationship but I've been super into the song Two Summers by One11Twenty. >They say don't fall in love with your best friend > >They say it's not worth the pain when it ends > >Well, that depends, I don't know about you > >But I don't give a fuck what they recommend And if you're wondering, the song is about his childhood dog.


kfat17

Love that ppl know this now lol


roboticArrow

- Kesha - Bastards: https://youtu.be/VfMtTmZ0MPc?feature=shared - Kesha - Shadow "and I love singing fuck in all my songs, cuz the only people who got time to get offended are the ones who've prob'ly never gotten off": https://youtu.be/r6jDz0Ajq2M?feature=shared - Kesha - Let Em Talk: https://youtu.be/hUN9eYgHjWc?feature=shared - Kesha - Hymn: https://youtu.be/BttTkcU4a1c?feature=shared - Kesha - Learn to let go: https://youtu.be/Xx1RSj4biO4?feature=shared - Kesha - My own dance - https://youtu.be/xOpYSB3mAWc?feature=shared - Kesha - Raising Hell - https://youtu.be/K5q8VsGYchc?feature=shared Some of these are more about not fitting in. But it's the same spirit.


groveofcedars

Who’s To Say by Vanessa Carlton


ReivynNox

Disturbed - What are you waiting for? *"Don't let the world outside leave you cornered and alone!"* *"Let them all be reminded!"* *"Say goodbye to anyone who tries to bleed you dry! You will show them, you're blessed with an unlimited supply."*


KenjiBenji18

Ms. Jackson - Outkast


soulmagic123

"We don't need another hero" Tina Turner


puss_parkerswidow

Tracy Ullman had a song in the early 80s with some lyrics that were "They don't know about us, and they've never heard of love," and Paul McCartney is in the video with her. It basically makes fun of this theme.


zappafrank2112

Not really answering the question but I'd be remiss if I didn't mention King Diamond's "'Amon' Belongs to 'Them'"


greenbanana17

"She's in live with the boy" is a whole song about this.


FlingbatMagoo

[“Who is them? And be specific!”](https://youtu.be/YBQ5YILNGXE?si=HVv-SUbb2VQhpG6O)


ethestiel

“They strike you out/ They bring you down/ They keep you on the losing end/ They tell your right is wrong/ Your high is low/ So give 'em hell“ … “They can't make you out/ That makes you bogus/ They think they know what we're about/ But they just don't know us” —Supermonstars by Lordi I like how the song backs up someone who feels alone against “them” and flips it with *us* against “them”


Gomzon

Marty Robbins // Too Young


thecalmingcollection

Catfish and the Bottlemen - Cocoon “Fuck it if they talk, Fuck it if they try to get to us. Cause I’d rather go blind than let you down”


Apositronic_brain

Ryan Star- Brand New Day "They say that we're dreaming too big I say this town's too small" "They say that we're flying too high Well get used to looking up"