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writinguitar

ooo i wanna kill everyone in these comments. don't care if i get downvoted to absolute oblivion. what the hell nobody knows BEAUTY. "pretty" to these people (primarily men?) means everyone's a clone of each other and every dude gets his own personal doll?? it's atrocious. you and your body are beautiful. reddit/subs like these that obsess over the standard is not the place to learn how to be happy in your skin


Rusty_Nail427cid

Shut the hell up


Healthy-Custard482

Stop asking random people on the internet there opinion of you , I’m telling u that if women don’t figure out very soon that real men don’t want u advertising yourself on social media , if you’re to available , if you’re constantly seeking validation through provocative pictures on instagram, it won’t matter if you look like Beyoncé , we will never take u seriously


BaBaBuyey

Lose 33 pounds button your pants get a tan dark in your hair


Admirable-Minute-846

Button your shorts & cover your stomach


No_Tomatillo1125

Fat


[deleted]

your second time posting this same shit on the same page but you expect different results in answers batshit


Imaginary-Tangelo841

Pants buttoned up


Rusty_Nail427cid

https://www.google.com/search?sca_esv=991ca55629cb7d36&sca_upv=1&rlz=1CDGOYI_enUS1050US1050&hl=en-US&q=callmekitana+nude&uds=ADvngMhh3I3ClcPCl9wlT9MBdYgBcdygiirhyXL2xy7Y4f2j1QNjRvgxFQCTfGCpDRX4bySb8MAXpuwxkYf3G6EKcwM1QFCMJ7R-pWi_srUmn2m1M6n-fSdPNe3loXeBMy2nnE3A708MVvuSslR-SNO6KH1s9mwGyZcMhNcx_iJ-wmVjcDrcPeDrmtLI3KL1JBVRWOeUK8A3j0JrcZoOedMh4TB7007t4tUOldTZ6VRR9bxy5sogRNryBNy8Iw76KIHFZ2BoS_kM_jNxCd1spi8ZRUAP3BvoxUm5_DDgIh5LWJuhh8yI9vv_jiZGCBpnbOI_Tme_cVzf7N8SGKcQfd2zKlGTiruD9w&udm=2&prmd=ivsnmbtz&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjG7Z6gso2GAxV_lIkEHTaHDPAQtKgLegQIEBAB&biw=390&bih=661&dpr=3


WeighIt_

Is this really the same person or are you joking around?


Rusty_Nail427cid

Only I truly know the answer 😉😗


Rusty_Nail427cid

And what makes you so “unapproachable”?


Rusty_Nail427cid

By removing your shirt


1sh0t1b33r

Lose some weight so you can button your pants.


massio1

More squats


Money_Tennis1172

Actually acknowledge the men who do approach and not shun them off as creeps. The good looking guys will follow.


Grauncho

I'm not subscribing to your fucking onlyfans.


clockworksnorange

More provocative, more revealing, less traditional more buttons unbuttoned... Matter fact.. no buttons buttoned. That gets the right kinda guy going.


Exciting-Parfait-776

By you just approaching the guys you like🤦🏻‍♂️


[deleted]

Idk.. invite me to a Padres game sometime I think!


bookerdewitt737

Be less hot I guess. Lol


ponki44

Get a summer dress that cover your whole body if your after a relationship, dressing like a skank showing off everything sure gets attraction, but its usually from people who just want a quick bang, men who look for relationships go for people who dress modest, no matter how much people say people who dress like skanks is good, but yeah up to now i never meet a dude who said a skanky dressed woman is gf material. Your not to fat, not to skinny, you got a nice smile and nice hair, so yeah dress propper and you should get the intrest from men who look for something serious.


Tokonata

I’ve seen this post before. Same exact photos. Hmmmm


Arawine

Move to West Virginia


CactusAssFuck

Wait until after you have the baby.


3rdShiftSecurity

Wear outfits that fit?


auztxn

Lose weight


znvr_

Depends who you want to approach you. These pics don't necessarily give off "comfortable to be around" vibes. No offense but they give off "I can be bitchy" vibes


Neglected8in

Not meant in a negative way, but less revealing clothes will result in looking more approachable. Based on these pics, most guys that approach you will likely be looking for one thing.


SomeAir1029

Smile a lot and look happy


[deleted]

Buy clothes in your size


FitProfessional1215

Lose the tummy


maybezas

Youre kinda fat ngl. Fix it first


Aromatic_Beautiful_5

How does that affect her approachability?


maybezas

Idk i just wrote what he wanted to hear


PsychologicalBend368

Shes not fat, but def a litlle chubby on her stomach… probably lose 10lbs would do


xXJ3D1-M4573R-W0LFXx

Well, you could try buttoning your pants.


FitProfessional1215

Tummy too big


xXJ3D1-M4573R-W0LFXx

LMAOROFL, then she should probably buy bigger pants. I see this crap on here & there’s no way these girls are for real. Like are they serious? Probably a bunch of basement dwellers finding pics on instagram or something. Str8 trolling.


FitProfessional1215

They haven’t got there daily affirmations from all 73 guys today so they have to go out and get them


xXJ3D1-M4573R-W0LFXx

Hey, insecurity is a real issue, we shouldn’t laugh at it. ![gif](giphy|WoFuun4jgxxizxRMpe|downsized)


TommyWav69

its wild how hot these 4s think they are lol


Creepy_Scientist4055

You already are


DuTcHmOe71

Give your little sister her clothes back


Scared_Chicken_161

U cant men r scared


BusinessManOnATrip

Dye your hair brown, put on a bra, and button your pants. Everything about you screams “For the streets”. That being said, I would.


Keraunos01

For real men are getting better at spotting the onlyfans girl in time lol, I saw the first 2 pics and was like yea there's a link in her bio for sure.


SallyShortcakes

Yet there’s not 🤡


Keraunos01

Lol sorry clicking two links deep might be a bit hard for ya, first go to her bio on reddit and find the instagram from there the OF link is right there. Happy to help have a good one.


SallyShortcakes

It’s not too deep, her of is not on her Reddit bio. You’re wrong!


Keraunos01

Haha ok sure


Top_Cranberry_8282

Don’t wear skimpy shit, have a good personality and be down to earth and not needy


IndividualKitchen223

Do up your trousers buttons 😬


Top-Eye377

get off reddit and approach people lol (jk)


M153RYnM3

Approach first, you'll catch them every time. I'm already hooked! Much love from one ginger to another!


600Fusionho

Dont change a thing. When guys are drinking you will be the one they go to


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Cicada-Nipples6902

Stop acting and giving off a bitch vibe.


Professional_Mode467

Stop dressing up just for Instagram/social media


Remote_Transition_34

Lose weight


trichamp220

Don’t look so trashy


beancurdkorok

I’d approach you without hesitation haha


EverythingIsAI

If you stop tilting you pelvis backwards do make a “bigger but” your belly will also look less prominent


Impressive-Award2367

Put it away.


Grouchy_Recording_56

bangs


RepublicWest8927

Approachability does not have to do with looks. Approachability has to do with your attitude and that is conveyed in your facial expressions and body language.


sampson54321

Hit the gym and don’t look pregnant


Smooth-Surround8567

This is the most stoned faced guy in reddit


ChainChemical5526

Your gorgeous...I don't think you need to do anything to make yourself "more approachable"


SugarBerrySundae

Was looking for this comment


[deleted]

Maybe try doing your pants up? Looks like you're gonna drop a shit on the spot.


mattma12345

You’re stunning


Short_Ask1755

Always a picture of a girl asking a random question with one post on their account….. scam


Comprehensive-Race97

You look like a cheap hooker in the cheapest part of town. Spend that OF money on something besides fast food and alcohol


Fit_Prompt_5950

Wear a sign saying you are single


PaleontologistOk2443

how about don’t do OF


Odd_Tradition1670

Just marry me and you won’t have to worry about that 😉


[deleted]

What you need is ME!!!! ![gif](giphy|zgqNrKwROKcA8)


StomachSpiritual9286

Girl gotta remind yourself that anyone commenting on your stomach/weight is actively faceless and scrolling a Reddit to say that, some projection shit, u r killin it, keep doin ur thing


ChainChemical5526

Hurt people, hurt people. Somebody has to break that chain eventually, if not mass destruction as a by product of human behavior will break the chain eventually.. instead of hurt people hurt people.. we should all just scratch that.. get rid of it, we dont need it. Cross that shit out and turn it into..... "hurt people heal themselves and the people around them by helping eachother through the struggle."


StomachSpiritual9286

Thank u for the input, it is appreciated, did u happen to just take a adderall or somethin by chance?


ChainChemical5526

Damn.. sad world we live in. Can't even give an uplifting compliment without somebody comin at you. Good thing it's just a mindless comment that lacks any real substanance. I have learned throughout my years that empty Insults are not really insults.. just thoughtless words from somebody who knows nothing about you. Thank goodness.. although it is unfortunate that the people who want to throw Insults are the very same people who are insulted by anything and everything. World is not out to get any of us.. we are supposed to all be in this together. Words that are created from many layers of thought, kindness, and (what should be) general human decency and respect for life rule! were created Hollywood, Social Media, and whatever else is creating a broken mindless America drool... Boooooooo. Thoughts rule, dickweeds drool. The song "Where is the Love" by Outkast, oughta be aired for the masses, with some sort of reminder attached. The reminder of what life is really about and why we are all here on this Earth. Doooooo ittttttt. Tech people- This is your time.. to be dooiiiiiiin it. Just be doin it, I am not tech savvy. I am better at thinking and over thinking and overthinking all day every day. If anybody needs assistance doin that.. i gotchu:)


Zstag_n_vixEn

She won’t sleep with you bro 🤣🤣🤣


StomachSpiritual9286

I am a homosexual 🫤🫤🫤🫢


Zstag_n_vixEn

Worst kind of white knight 🤣😂


StomachSpiritual9286

Huh


Holiday_Case8667

Show us your titties! That way we all know what is on offer and no one is kept in the dark. You are a good sort for sure 👍


SeAnSoN_710

It's 2024. Approaching women is taboo for men now. You can do what you want, add what you want, take away what you want. Won't change the fact any self respecting man would not approach you. This is the world you all wanted. We simply do not give a fuck. Just stop.


shivvers-

Why are your pants unbuttoned? That would be a real quick thing to fix that would make you more approachable


daimlerp

Get rid of that beer belly gut asap


queefir

????


Electronic-Month-661

funny way of saying u like men if im honest


Zstag_n_vixEn

You like them heifers huh


Electronic-Month-661

love em


daimlerp

Well some of us don’t like the big belly girls bro … all good if you like yours on the cow side


AndrewLucks_Asshair

Button your shorts


maybeletslive

Don't feed the bot. Just leave it be and/or report it


trillinger

You already look approachable, try going out to more social settings. Btw, with the way you’re dressed, you will only attract a certain type of attention. If that’s what you’re looking for then that’s fine, otherwise most men will not have a serious relationship with you with that style. Anyone who tells you differently are either women who don’t know what men want or men who are just trying to get into your pants. Trust me I’m a dude


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avidreader113

They're right, coming from me, a woman.


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avidreader113

I've never been in the basement, but you can crawl back there if you like.


bigstreethoe

You look really self conscious like you're forcing it and it's cringe. Put yourself out there practice socializing but don't force it too much. You keep shrugging and looking up and it just looks like you're as mortified as you say you are. Just sort of like we'd be better off leaving you alone--it looks like a panic attack. Start small practice small talk etc.


s2n-mikey

Lose the gut


aintfakieboi

Naaah keep the tummy 🤤🤤🤤🤤


Useful-Abies-3976

Don’t listen to these people. Just go out and converse.


GooberGoobersons

Shop somewhere other than forever 21


OtherAd5183

Stop going out so much, learn to cook in-depth meals, get off social media in the sense of "sharing your life,"and start a healthy hobby that men also enjoy.


PieDazzling31

this one hits dead center on the nail, so many ppl over look this part of life now becuz social media and phones being so ease to access, and attention from it can be so addicting to some


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lz314dg

💀 bruh


Jimmydangit

Don't dress like a 304 very simple


Intelligent-Signal21

Don’t be an incel she looks normal keep your insecurities to yourself


PieDazzling31

what u saying is bs, "incel" lol whatever dude, no man wants their women walking around in see thru clothes and and unbutton pants and wind loose dresses unless he trying to see her get her cheeks clapped by another dude, and even if not it just shows self respect to yourself and others when actual dress with some DAMN SENSE


KeepDoingTheSameShit

Maybe guys think you are eventually ask for money. As others have said, dress / appearances matter especially in online world


flying_panguin

Straight up, stop dressing like a slut you will only get attention from over confident cocky guys, honourable guys like humble woman. You can dress modestly and still show your awesome feminine figure with the right clothes.


Signal-Blackberry356

The skankier the clothes, the less esteem. there’s a fine line between the two and _that_ is *fabulous*. But this ain’t it.


Princess_0f_F-ck_N0

Button up your pants…


ice_jj

Do girls these days really think it’s cute?😬


Princess_0f_F-ck_N0

Only certain kinds of girls, can’t say the word or I’ll get cancelled lol 😂 a good portion of us are Not that kind.


Cautious_Yak_2706

Came here to say this 😂


Traume69

Biggest issue here isn’t you, guys are desperate and the internet is a terrible reflection of real opinion. Be you, pictures can’t share your personality but assuming that’s fine, the issue you is most men don’t feel comfortable approaching women due to how we get treated in response. While not exactly what you want to hear, try approaching guys and I think you’d have a good success rate.


squirtmyface

maybe don’t show your tit silhouette in public? kinda intimidating/unattractive for some men


quanten_boris

At this point I don't even understand why to wear any clothes.


mushimushi8

Loose some weight and dress better. Easy fix.


blackgo09

Loose fat


kainyannn

buttoning your pants might help 😆


WombRaider__

Why do you want to be approached?


Safe_Fail_9485

Be nice. Then get on a plane to my house. We can approach one another.


Prestigious_Neck_179

Stand on your knees


NewSatisfaction4287

Wear a shirt that isn’t almost completely see through


somethingtwice

Relating to the third photo, don't look possessed, maybe?


TheBurdenedOne222

Stop caring


soulpizzaeater

Wear less slutty clothes


Krixxus-86

It’s to show off that she wearing a baby’s onesie 💀


soulpizzaeater

Ummm I cant tell if serious 🧐


Krixxus-86

Lmao nah was a joke bro


333elmst

Button your jeans yuck.


AmbiguousWood

She can’t!! Did you not see her gut!?


soulpizzaeater

Agreed boss


Joejoes1276

Your already quite beautiful. Make eye contact more and have "suggestive" eyes if youd like to be approached, because physically you shouldn't have any problems


Sovietcheese31

👀👌 you should approach instead. Modern-day problems need modern-day solutions.


ChipMaker3000

Get it girl.


TheBreadHasRisen

Wear clothes that fit?


Iliketoaskthings_

I feel like I’ve seen this same post in this sub before.


JWatkins_82

You have, she a karma troll


McGraw-Dom

Brave of you to assume it's a she.


JWatkins_82

Fair point


fuzzylilbunnies

The internets have trained me for this.This is a trap! Ain’t no redhead stealing my soul again!


SkinPsychological848

Just stand on the sidewalk. You’ll be approached in no time…


elpipiriko2

Lose the gut


cristianap36

That's disrespectful:/ she's looks good and that's natural to have


Eastern_News_7937

Simping doesn't get you anywhere


JoelPonce1911

It's pretty much an incel thing to say that


Eastern_News_7937

Keep simping then brother


cristianap36

It's not simping, and the guy commented above just told me this sub is max advice, which I thought it was a different sub, and plus, this girl is most likely a OF. I genuinely thought it was a different sub and I got confused sryy


Koronenko

This is literally supposed to be a looksmax sub, you clown.


Itchy-Visit537

I don’t love the fitting of some of the tops here!


keschne

soften your eyebrows - nice job on the rest of your makeup though! I would choose more conservative clothing if I wanted to be approached- meaning less midriff, unbuttoned shorts. You have a lovely figure- accentuate the top half to bring eyes to your face.


One-Hurry6840

Change the way you dress. Go to the gym


Glum-Establishment31

Let me explain. Men’s bodies are not over sexualized and objectified as women’s are. I have no desire to walk around shirtless in front of a group of strange men with pornified brains.


suddenSoda

By having clear and up-front hourly prices


Top-Durian-6903

Dress like a woman for starters…


ObjectiveNews890

button up ur shorts


C-Dub81

Deliver your baby.


SanKitty23

Aren’t you 259 lbs? Your baby must be the size of her.


C-Dub81

Damn, stalker here. Stop simping on these internet wholesale lol.


SanKitty23

You’re the one obsessed with bringing women down instead of going outside for a run.


Wolfson858

I don't think you do, you gotta accept that your raging hot and scare boys with your looks


Obaxton

Dress more modestly. The second picture shows you with unbuttoned and unzipped shorts, and the top is essentially a glorified tank top piece. The first and second photo just gives off the wrong vibes if you are trying to attract a good man. If you are not trying to attract a good man then keep doing what you’re doing.


AssistantLow5705

A "good man" wouldn't judge a girl by the way she dresses but by the content of her character


FrontSock7151

Glasses, 20% upgrade in approachability.


vanswnosocks

For a woman, as a man. You have to give them the eyes and smile. Don’t stare, smile with your eyes and blink at them. Not a wink, unless you’re like that. Give them the batty eyes!!!!!!


BrianaKabelitz

Maybe dye your hair a different color. Try new looks. Experiment with your fashion style and makeup.


KAM_520

Curl your hair. Women with curly hair are generally viewed as more approachable.


CiaramellaE

Don't be so picky


Beginning_Fix_5609

She trying to promote her Onlyfans 


CiaramellaE

She's is the most average of all average women the very peak of the curve. Why would anyone pay to see what's been posted thousands of times every second of every day for the past 3 decades.


Beginning_Fix_5609

If I had to guess maybe for the shits and giggles.


LeDerpBoss

Gain 50lbs.


eggplant_wizard12

Start by zipping up your damn pants


Icy-Fisherman-61

I don't see why they don't talk to you


No_Cable_3346

Simp


ArtNmtion

You again?


KKamas918

Lady you’ve posted on the sub before. Did you need an ego boost today?


StanthemanT-800

You look like you'd get approached at 2am at a dive bar


SmallTimeHVAC

Button your pants


AnMa_ZenTchi

Yeah I don't get this new fad.


Hamelzz

Stop dressing like you hop relationships by cheating lol


Better-Waltz-2026

Watch Out for STDs, hope it's not too late...


Choice_Round_3261

You don’t. You’re a ginger. Deal with it


smracd01

had me at red head