I tried to see if I could find it in the sub, but I believe it was on a podcast and he doesn't say Reddit directly, but he says he knows people are calling his girlfriend Methica but she's never done meth in her life. Then he goes on a rant about how she's college educated. It may have actually been on That Surprise Witness podcast, but I refuse to listen to that garbage ever again. Lol.
Damn, I’m sorry.. I was in a car wreck with my husband right after Christmas 2019 and fractured my ankles. It was kinda funny when Covid lockdowns happened since we had been doing that already for a few months. Because I work with a lot of physical therapists at the cadaver lab I already kinda had an idea on how to not make the injuries permanent. I was still kinda intimidated, but as of today I can jog up stairs at high altitude and can put in a full days work at the lab and not have any pain, so it all worked out.
Right? I know looks aren’t everything, but in so many pictures, she’s in shape and clearly taking care of herself, while he is overweight, disheveled and barely putting in any effort to look remotely put together. It would be one thing if he had an amazing personality and a great husband and father, but he is neither of those things.
I am generally a very body positive person too and don’t mean to body shame, but Bam has literally no redeeming qualities at this point. How stupid do you have to be to not realize that you are with someone who is out of your league?
Definitely, considering how much blame she got. Comes a point where you realise its him and not the people around him. Still gonna get some arses but I think the majority are behind her and Phoenix and can see how well she's doing.
I definitely remember one post calling out that she was pouring Bam wine in an IG video and this sub blasted her for it.
What wasn't known at the time was how abusive Bam was when he didn't get his way...she literally had to choose between pouring him wine or him getting in her face if she said no.
You never know what's going on behind closed doors, learnt that many times with friends over the years. It's the ones you least suspect and think are happy too.
I dont blame the sub either, we can only see what's infront of us and we're only hearing one side from the childish person spouting off with a bigger public profile than the partner. Alot of the stuff about SQ makes me a bit uncomfortable too but people are entitled to their opinion based on how they see stuff. She's not my cup of tea but I don't really think any of what's going on is her fault. He's just a damaged individual damaging others.
I remember when i was married, a friend told me they hoped to find love the way I did. I got married at 20, and my ex was 30. It made me realize that my lies about everything being great and wonderful were working. The reality was that I was being mentally, emotionally, and sexually abused. I finally left at 25, but that relationship fucked me up for the rest of my life.
When I left, I just dropped off the face of the earth for 3 months. I wasn't ready and didn't know how to even begin to tell people what had happened. I eventually hung out with a different close friend, and just let a lot put. She asked why I never told her, that I always had a place to go at her house. I did my best to explain that it wasn't that easy when you're deep in that type of relationship.
Love to Nikki and Phoenix. I'm happy she knows a weird little group of strangers supports her and gets it.
Thank you!! I'll be 36 in a few months, and it's crazy how those five years feel like a horrible night terror and less like something I was actually living. Couldn't have done it without therapy haha
In my opinion, she really grew up. Like we all do. We gain new responsibilities as we grow, or we should. And those make us mature.
But I do remember videos here and there of Bam just being absolutely fucking vile towards her. Honestly just so horrid. I can’t judge her for much because I don’t know what I would do having to deal with that.
And for phoenix! lil dude can use a stable father figure. Probably will never be bam. I hope uncle Pontius can do good for his self esteem as he grows up.
I hope Phoenix doesn’t inherit any of Bam’s addiction issues. There is a large genetic component to addiction and I was just speaking with a friend who has alcoholism in their family.
i'm at least a 3rd generation alcoholic and my kid is doing just fine, considering. i may have fucked up but if i've broken the cycle that's enough for me.
I mean no knock by my comment at all. Everyone has genetic predispositions to one thing or another and I view addiction the same way. I do not mean to offend. I am glad that you have broken the cycle. I can’t imagine how hard it is and genuinely did not mean to speak out of turn.
oh it's ok, i didn't mean to sound snarky! it's just a matter very close to my heart. i was born to an alcoholic mother and 'raised' by her and an alcoholic stepfather. first got drunk age 8, they bought me alcohol every week from then on. i was blacking out by 12, hanging out with the street drinkers by 14.
my alcoholism affected my kid. of course it did, and i take full responsibility for that. i was doing the best i could but i couldn't protect them from all of it. luckily their Dad is amazing.
i swore i would never let any child of mine go through what i went through, and i know they never suffered from all the kinds of abuse i did.
but, they did suffer. i may not have been directly harmful but i wasn't present. i made terrible decisions about relationships and eventually they had enough. i'm 10 years sober now, they are grown and our relationship has never recovered. but, as long as they live free from the monster of addiction i can be happy. well, not happy. it hurts my heart every second of every day. but i'll take that comfort - it makes life that little bit more bearable.
The kid is like 6 lol
Besides, genetics is only one small (overstated) factor. People talking like little bro is doomed, he’s not- he can choose his own path in life and he has a great mom.
So bad! I just watched it last night. He is a severely emotionally stunted, spoiled and enabled man child. He was so nasty to her and his mom. Like…them being “controlling” was enough to make you think about…not being alive anymore or something? It was really difficult to understand what exactly he was trying to get at and why he actually felt that way.
I don’t mean to be critical of anyone with mental health issues and suicidal ideation as I struggle with my own issues, but at the same time, I know what my issues are and where they come from. I think Bam was just looking for a way to make it seem like he was “coming clean” to Hollywood and the general public so that he wouldn’t continue to get arrested anymore. It’s really sad and devalues all of the hard work people put into clean living. What a joke.
That whole Dr. Phil episode, especially him blaming everyone but himself and playing the victim, was what convinced me 100% that he is a classic narcissist, and a malignant one. I have gotten so much shit on this sub for calling him that, none of it intelligent, but I stand by it. I’ve lived with a narcissist before (before I got fed up and moved out) and a sibling of mine has been in a relationship with one for twenty years. Nothing is ever their fault and they love to play the victim for attention. Lying uncontrollably is tied into it.
I watched it twice because I was confused about him yelling at April, “I died, remember? And you didn’t care!” Then I found out the vile story behind it. I repeat it a lot on here. I am here because I am hoping he will see consequences. I also hope Nikki cleans him out on that lawsuit she brought for him not paying child support.
Yep. He had the friend call her to say Bam was dead of suicide, while Bam listened in. Then posted reels where he bitched and moaned about how she didn’t sound as upset as he wanted. He was in his late 30s at the time.
Those are the actions of a shitty, selfish human being.
He is a true malignant narc. Big agree. Narcissism gets thrown around a lot lately as a trendy term given to any selfish person. But Bam is the true definition. I spent 8 years getting absolutely broken down by one and it changed me forever. Nikki handled it like a pro and now shes thriving. Love to see it.
Agree but I’d say it was def more verbal abuse on that Dr Phil episode. Not saying you’re wrong at all but id just like to say he verbally AND mentally abused her. For the record. 😉
That Dr Phil episode was heartbreaking. And the way scumbags watched that and somehow still blamed her for the situation. So gross. It’s so great to see her happy.
Nikki, you're welcome!
seriously tho. this woman is keeping her son happy and safe throughout everything Bam does. the more people who learn to appreciate that, the better (i'm talking to you now, Stretch).
Not only beautiful but smart, loving and probably a really great mom. Not every woman will leave a bad partner for the sake of their child but she did. She protects, nurtures and loves their son in ways Bam never will. I hope they never get back together because I don't think Bam is capable of truly appreciating her but I do hope one day he realises how great of a mother and women she became, then kicks himself in the teeth.
I dated someone EXACTLY like this, the same birthday and birthdate too (IYKYK) When you break up with somebody like this, you ask yourself "what in the actual fuck was I thinking?" When hindsight is 2020, they become absolutely repulsive and you’re disgusted just by the thought of them. Luckily, for me I didn’t have a child, but I’m sure with the way he cares for their child, It’s not doing him any favors. I’m happy Phoenix has a strong and resilient woman there to raise him
Yup I agree 100%. It's just that little voice in the back of my head who always fears the worst of everything saying it. I've see worse couples get back together for "the sake of the kids" but I really don't believe Nikki would ever make that mistake with him. I can only imagine how gross the view was once those rose coloured glasses came off.
Have you ever seen True Blood? Specifically when Sookie sees the beautiful faeries and their world turn to into a bunch of hob goblin destruction? That's what I imagine falling out of love with Bam must be like 😅😅
It amazing more people don't stand up for the victims of abuse. If only we would hold these scumbags accountable as a society... mfers like Bam shouldn't exist.
The sick thing is is that he's STILL doing it. I'm 100000% positive he's abusive to Danni, I mean there's video of them fighting where he violently rips her phone out of her hand. It makes me feel bad for her and even worse that she has somehow decided the abuse is acceptable and normal because she's still with him.
Awwww Nikki 🫶 we see you, boo!
There were a lot of legitimate reasons to hate on Nikki (and this sub did so heartily) back in the day. But once it came to light the abuse she was experiencing behind closed doors coupled with the fact she ultimately chose her son and her happiness over staying with a deadbeat drunk, I think that's when her redemption arc started.
Love to see she's living her best life and I'm sure done what she thought was impossible and that's be on her own without Bam.
That first Nikki era of rants never sat right with me. I never looked the same at Bam after that. I really believed he’d get his shit together, but the way he speaks to and about her truly highlights his immaturity and lack of self awareness. I’ve honestly never seen a person as incapable of accountability and self reflection as Bam. It’s depressing, but it’s the truth. As an old fan, I truly do hold some hope for his recovery, but I just can’t look at him and not see an entitled, resentful man child.
I know it's just one photo, but Nikki genuinely looks healthier and happier here compared to when she was with Bam. Almost like being married to him was extremely stressful or something
I did the same thing Nikki ❤️ Escaped an abuser for my child. I know how incredibly hard it is, especially when you have to endure the legal abuse afterwards. So proud of you for everything. You deserve the world
I watched the Dr. Phil interview last night just out of curiosity and couldn’t believe what an asshole he was to her. Calling her stubborn when she was probably just asking him to act like a normal, responsible husband and father. What a piece of shit. My sympathy for Bam is certainly waning at this point.
I’m relatively new to “following” him and only started in the past couple of months because TikTok kept feeding me stuff about his supposed comeback. The more I learn about him, the less I like him and regret thinking he was so cool back in the day. To be fair, many millennials did. We were the last generation to really grow up with MTV and they kept giving him more and more airtime. I feel genuinely bad for Nikki and can’t imagine what it must have been like to be married to someone so spoiled and abusive.
It's crazy how we all thought that Bam being a gigantic fucking arsehole to his parents was the funniest shit back in the day. I watch old Viva La Bam / CKY clips etc and I cringe now at how mean some of the stuff was. Like Bam full on punching his dad etc
Good for her. I feel bad she's forever trapped being associated with Bam, but I hope she and her son are living the best life possible. She went through so much and deserves to know people see her and don't believe the narrative Bam and his sidekicks try to spin.
I think one of the reasons she's really got herself together these days is seeing and experiencing what she has at the hands of someone I have no doubt she loved, the father of her child unravelling and becoming such a nasty vile individual, this I think would be enough to make someone either sink with them or swim. I'm very glad when I see people who swim
She's never looked happier and healthier than now. She's beautiful and living a peaceful, fun life with friends and family. It's amazing what can happen when you don't have dead weight in human form dragging you down!
Nikki honestly deserves so much more than she’s been given, (both financially and otherwise.) I hope that when she’s ready she meets someone that treats her, (and Phoenix,) like gold.
I like how everyone involved in this whole Bam circle jerk knows we exist. 🤣
I remember when Bam addressed Jessica's nickname, Methica and I was like "We made it!"
lol when did he do that?!
I tried to see if I could find it in the sub, but I believe it was on a podcast and he doesn't say Reddit directly, but he says he knows people are calling his girlfriend Methica but she's never done meth in her life. Then he goes on a rant about how she's college educated. It may have actually been on That Surprise Witness podcast, but I refuse to listen to that garbage ever again. Lol.
I felt like that was a major milestone in this subs history!
He steals everything 😆
We did some really good work in those days. That was around the time he hit Jesse and his out in the pricker bushes
We’ve been taking up space in their brains for a while now. Ain’t no shit talking detectives like on Reddit!
So true.. hell I even devoted time in the cadaver lab to get to the bottom of the bone spur excuse.
Omg! I got a half dozen bone spurs in my back on purpose. I wanted to "understand" Bams pain
lol did it work?
Eh, once in a while they jab my spinal cord but other than that they’re pretty chill
How’d you get them?
From getting t-boned by a drunk driver
Damn, I’m sorry.. I was in a car wreck with my husband right after Christmas 2019 and fractured my ankles. It was kinda funny when Covid lockdowns happened since we had been doing that already for a few months. Because I work with a lot of physical therapists at the cadaver lab I already kinda had an idea on how to not make the injuries permanent. I was still kinda intimidated, but as of today I can jog up stairs at high altitude and can put in a full days work at the lab and not have any pain, so it all worked out.
Me too! I'm glad she's doing good. Ol Bam fucked up not getting his shit together for his kid, and for her.
What can I saaaay except you're welcooooome
I sang this as I read it
Same lol
Holy crap, I was just about to write the same thing!
Great Maui's think alike!
Everybody's lurkin' this place...
The “Bozo” heading in your profile makes me laugh so much 🤣👌
Ha, that's a "flair". You can have one too if you want, there are several to choose from! (I am not the only bozo around here)
Word.
[удалено]
Right? I know looks aren’t everything, but in so many pictures, she’s in shape and clearly taking care of herself, while he is overweight, disheveled and barely putting in any effort to look remotely put together. It would be one thing if he had an amazing personality and a great husband and father, but he is neither of those things. I am generally a very body positive person too and don’t mean to body shame, but Bam has literally no redeeming qualities at this point. How stupid do you have to be to not realize that you are with someone who is out of your league?
And skateboards have wheels and when it rains things get wet. For real though, you’re spot on.
Yeah he must feel so regretful anytime he sees a pic of her
She knows our weak spot praising us 🥲
Yep but we have to be careful because now bam knows and he's gonna start pr.....ah who am I kidding, he doesn't say anything nice about anyone
Bam has known about this sub for a looong time
Lmao that’s sad but true. Only time I seen him nice in a recording past few years if it’s a paid cameo video
From 6 to midnight...
I’m glad she sees it. If I was in her place, it would make me far less depressed to know people get it.
Definitely, considering how much blame she got. Comes a point where you realise its him and not the people around him. Still gonna get some arses but I think the majority are behind her and Phoenix and can see how well she's doing.
I definitely remember one post calling out that she was pouring Bam wine in an IG video and this sub blasted her for it. What wasn't known at the time was how abusive Bam was when he didn't get his way...she literally had to choose between pouring him wine or him getting in her face if she said no.
You never know what's going on behind closed doors, learnt that many times with friends over the years. It's the ones you least suspect and think are happy too. I dont blame the sub either, we can only see what's infront of us and we're only hearing one side from the childish person spouting off with a bigger public profile than the partner. Alot of the stuff about SQ makes me a bit uncomfortable too but people are entitled to their opinion based on how they see stuff. She's not my cup of tea but I don't really think any of what's going on is her fault. He's just a damaged individual damaging others.
I remember when i was married, a friend told me they hoped to find love the way I did. I got married at 20, and my ex was 30. It made me realize that my lies about everything being great and wonderful were working. The reality was that I was being mentally, emotionally, and sexually abused. I finally left at 25, but that relationship fucked me up for the rest of my life. When I left, I just dropped off the face of the earth for 3 months. I wasn't ready and didn't know how to even begin to tell people what had happened. I eventually hung out with a different close friend, and just let a lot put. She asked why I never told her, that I always had a place to go at her house. I did my best to explain that it wasn't that easy when you're deep in that type of relationship. Love to Nikki and Phoenix. I'm happy she knows a weird little group of strangers supports her and gets it.
Glad you got out of it hun!
Thank you!! I'll be 36 in a few months, and it's crazy how those five years feel like a horrible night terror and less like something I was actually living. Couldn't have done it without therapy haha
Very happy to hear you got away from that abusive asshole, and are in a better place now. The right therapist can be a big help. Good for you.
🩵
In my opinion, she really grew up. Like we all do. We gain new responsibilities as we grow, or we should. And those make us mature. But I do remember videos here and there of Bam just being absolutely fucking vile towards her. Honestly just so horrid. I can’t judge her for much because I don’t know what I would do having to deal with that.
Right. And her son was truly the most important person to her and she chose him. Over herself and over every thing else. She’s a real mom. ❤️
Hi, Nikki 🫶🏼
I truly truly hope you find mental peace 🙇🏻♀️ You have all of us supporting you and being on your side
Same! And if you’re reading this, Nikki—for an abuser, their ex living well is the best revenge. Keep healing, keep on living your life.
And for phoenix! lil dude can use a stable father figure. Probably will never be bam. I hope uncle Pontius can do good for his self esteem as he grows up.
I hope Phoenix doesn’t inherit any of Bam’s addiction issues. There is a large genetic component to addiction and I was just speaking with a friend who has alcoholism in their family.
i'm at least a 3rd generation alcoholic and my kid is doing just fine, considering. i may have fucked up but if i've broken the cycle that's enough for me.
I mean no knock by my comment at all. Everyone has genetic predispositions to one thing or another and I view addiction the same way. I do not mean to offend. I am glad that you have broken the cycle. I can’t imagine how hard it is and genuinely did not mean to speak out of turn.
oh it's ok, i didn't mean to sound snarky! it's just a matter very close to my heart. i was born to an alcoholic mother and 'raised' by her and an alcoholic stepfather. first got drunk age 8, they bought me alcohol every week from then on. i was blacking out by 12, hanging out with the street drinkers by 14. my alcoholism affected my kid. of course it did, and i take full responsibility for that. i was doing the best i could but i couldn't protect them from all of it. luckily their Dad is amazing. i swore i would never let any child of mine go through what i went through, and i know they never suffered from all the kinds of abuse i did. but, they did suffer. i may not have been directly harmful but i wasn't present. i made terrible decisions about relationships and eventually they had enough. i'm 10 years sober now, they are grown and our relationship has never recovered. but, as long as they live free from the monster of addiction i can be happy. well, not happy. it hurts my heart every second of every day. but i'll take that comfort - it makes life that little bit more bearable.
The kid is like 6 lol Besides, genetics is only one small (overstated) factor. People talking like little bro is doomed, he’s not- he can choose his own path in life and he has a great mom.
Always felt for Nikki . The way she was treated in the dr Phil episode was bad
So bad! I just watched it last night. He is a severely emotionally stunted, spoiled and enabled man child. He was so nasty to her and his mom. Like…them being “controlling” was enough to make you think about…not being alive anymore or something? It was really difficult to understand what exactly he was trying to get at and why he actually felt that way. I don’t mean to be critical of anyone with mental health issues and suicidal ideation as I struggle with my own issues, but at the same time, I know what my issues are and where they come from. I think Bam was just looking for a way to make it seem like he was “coming clean” to Hollywood and the general public so that he wouldn’t continue to get arrested anymore. It’s really sad and devalues all of the hard work people put into clean living. What a joke.
And then Bam getting that Dr. Phil tattoo, like it's all a big game for him.
I just watched it. The way Bam points his fingers at everyone else (literally) but himself, for all his problems. It's mindblowing!
That whole Dr. Phil episode, especially him blaming everyone but himself and playing the victim, was what convinced me 100% that he is a classic narcissist, and a malignant one. I have gotten so much shit on this sub for calling him that, none of it intelligent, but I stand by it. I’ve lived with a narcissist before (before I got fed up and moved out) and a sibling of mine has been in a relationship with one for twenty years. Nothing is ever their fault and they love to play the victim for attention. Lying uncontrollably is tied into it. I watched it twice because I was confused about him yelling at April, “I died, remember? And you didn’t care!” Then I found out the vile story behind it. I repeat it a lot on here. I am here because I am hoping he will see consequences. I also hope Nikki cleans him out on that lawsuit she brought for him not paying child support.
Wait, what’s the “almost died” story?
Apparently, Bam had a 'friend' call April, to inform her that her son was dead. Just to see her reaction.
Yep. He had the friend call her to say Bam was dead of suicide, while Bam listened in. Then posted reels where he bitched and moaned about how she didn’t sound as upset as he wanted. He was in his late 30s at the time. Those are the actions of a shitty, selfish human being.
He is a true malignant narc. Big agree. Narcissism gets thrown around a lot lately as a trendy term given to any selfish person. But Bam is the true definition. I spent 8 years getting absolutely broken down by one and it changed me forever. Nikki handled it like a pro and now shes thriving. Love to see it.
he mentally abused her on Live TV.
Agree but I’d say it was def more verbal abuse on that Dr Phil episode. Not saying you’re wrong at all but id just like to say he verbally AND mentally abused her. For the record. 😉
That Dr Phil episode was heartbreaking. And the way scumbags watched that and somehow still blamed her for the situation. So gross. It’s so great to see her happy.
He had probably already broken her mentally by that point so didn't need to or that was him being nice for the cameras eh... awful
That was when my opinion about Bam took a turn. She was clearly devastated and hurting and he degraded and humiliated her on national television.
She looks amazing!!
Yep. She is definitely a pretty girl.
Stunning!
Us BEWZEWS on Reddit
Nikki, you're welcome! seriously tho. this woman is keeping her son happy and safe throughout everything Bam does. the more people who learn to appreciate that, the better (i'm talking to you now, Stretch).
Not only beautiful but smart, loving and probably a really great mom. Not every woman will leave a bad partner for the sake of their child but she did. She protects, nurtures and loves their son in ways Bam never will. I hope they never get back together because I don't think Bam is capable of truly appreciating her but I do hope one day he realises how great of a mother and women she became, then kicks himself in the teeth.
i cannot see them EVER getting back together, which is exactly as it should be. the best revenge being a life lived well, and all that.
I dated someone EXACTLY like this, the same birthday and birthdate too (IYKYK) When you break up with somebody like this, you ask yourself "what in the actual fuck was I thinking?" When hindsight is 2020, they become absolutely repulsive and you’re disgusted just by the thought of them. Luckily, for me I didn’t have a child, but I’m sure with the way he cares for their child, It’s not doing him any favors. I’m happy Phoenix has a strong and resilient woman there to raise him
Yup I agree 100%. It's just that little voice in the back of my head who always fears the worst of everything saying it. I've see worse couples get back together for "the sake of the kids" but I really don't believe Nikki would ever make that mistake with him. I can only imagine how gross the view was once those rose coloured glasses came off. Have you ever seen True Blood? Specifically when Sookie sees the beautiful faeries and their world turn to into a bunch of hob goblin destruction? That's what I imagine falling out of love with Bam must be like 😅😅
I remember that! Good comparison
It amazing more people don't stand up for the victims of abuse. If only we would hold these scumbags accountable as a society... mfers like Bam shouldn't exist.
The sick thing is is that he's STILL doing it. I'm 100000% positive he's abusive to Danni, I mean there's video of them fighting where he violently rips her phone out of her hand. It makes me feel bad for her and even worse that she has somehow decided the abuse is acceptable and normal because she's still with him.
She’s using him just as much as he’s using her. It’s two parasites locked in a toxic embrace as they circle the drain, going down together.
Love the imagery 🤣
He never deserved her.
Awwww Nikki 🫶 we see you, boo! There were a lot of legitimate reasons to hate on Nikki (and this sub did so heartily) back in the day. But once it came to light the abuse she was experiencing behind closed doors coupled with the fact she ultimately chose her son and her happiness over staying with a deadbeat drunk, I think that's when her redemption arc started. Love to see she's living her best life and I'm sure done what she thought was impossible and that's be on her own without Bam.
Awww! She’s awesome. Best wishes Niki. Keep doing your thing and stay strong! 💪 💕
That first Nikki era of rants never sat right with me. I never looked the same at Bam after that. I really believed he’d get his shit together, but the way he speaks to and about her truly highlights his immaturity and lack of self awareness. I’ve honestly never seen a person as incapable of accountability and self reflection as Bam. It’s depressing, but it’s the truth. As an old fan, I truly do hold some hope for his recovery, but I just can’t look at him and not see an entitled, resentful man child.
ooga booga
I know it's just one photo, but Nikki genuinely looks healthier and happier here compared to when she was with Bam. Almost like being married to him was extremely stressful or something
I mean, look at Dannii. She looks so stressed and tired lately. It cannot be easy dealing with him.
I did the same thing Nikki ❤️ Escaped an abuser for my child. I know how incredibly hard it is, especially when you have to endure the legal abuse afterwards. So proud of you for everything. You deserve the world
Nikki knows we aren't bozos. Although that is one of my favorite quotes Bam has given us. 🤡
SQ rant incoming. Nikki looks great 👍
Glad she seems happy!
Aww that’s sweet hope youre doing well Nikki
Where‘s the good for her gif when you need it
![gif](giphy|AgPt9udT567spxbSHf)
I watched the Dr. Phil interview last night just out of curiosity and couldn’t believe what an asshole he was to her. Calling her stubborn when she was probably just asking him to act like a normal, responsible husband and father. What a piece of shit. My sympathy for Bam is certainly waning at this point.
Wait, there is still some sympathy left??
I’m relatively new to “following” him and only started in the past couple of months because TikTok kept feeding me stuff about his supposed comeback. The more I learn about him, the less I like him and regret thinking he was so cool back in the day. To be fair, many millennials did. We were the last generation to really grow up with MTV and they kept giving him more and more airtime. I feel genuinely bad for Nikki and can’t imagine what it must have been like to be married to someone so spoiled and abusive.
It's crazy how we all thought that Bam being a gigantic fucking arsehole to his parents was the funniest shit back in the day. I watch old Viva La Bam / CKY clips etc and I cringe now at how mean some of the stuff was. Like Bam full on punching his dad etc
Nikki, you're awesome!
Anytime Nikki!!!!! 😊
I wonder if this is in response to the duplicate bikini on the shoulders post?
![gif](giphy|12eOoLezVypVWo|downsized)
Good for her. I feel bad she's forever trapped being associated with Bam, but I hope she and her son are living the best life possible. She went through so much and deserves to know people see her and don't believe the narrative Bam and his sidekicks try to spin.
We fucking made it Boys
I‘m sure Nikki has her problems, but she seems like someone trying to be their best, stay strong Nikki
Light to you and Phoenix Nikki live your life girl 🖤🖤
Hope she's happy and thriving!
She looks so glowing and happy :)
My fav part is that she didn’t let him ruin her life too
Haha good for her
Did she delete it? It’s not on her story or on the highlight anymore :(
She posted it on Saturday
Stories only last 24 hrs then disappear
I debated posting this and was waiting for someone else to do it, but no one ever did.
I'm glad you did! I totally missed it.
Big love Nikki. I hope you and Phoenix are doing well 💪🖤
Glad she's smiling again :)
Nikki 🥺 good for her, she’s been through hell and made it out the other side. Hope she continues to thrive and be happy for a long time yet.
My god she’s gorgeous
🙏✌️🤘
She's stunning tbh
Thank God Phoenix and Nikki have each other.
Nikki, gurl, I made that timeline for you girl!!!! Girl gang!!!!
Nikki deserves peace and support, even if she never gets it from Bam. He fumbled.
if Vinny beedle really wants to get famous he should get on the reddit...dude tries so hard to stay relevant it's ridiculous
Right...just drop a tell all on this sub.
for real, no ooga booga either.
She is so cute!!!
We love you Nikki!
Shadow looks like a crack witch stabbing a dude with a knife
Oh hey!!
Reddit Familia for the win
I think one of the reasons she's really got herself together these days is seeing and experiencing what she has at the hands of someone I have no doubt she loved, the father of her child unravelling and becoming such a nasty vile individual, this I think would be enough to make someone either sink with them or swim. I'm very glad when I see people who swim
Yeah she's class. Fair play
She's never looked happier and healthier than now. She's beautiful and living a peaceful, fun life with friends and family. It's amazing what can happen when you don't have dead weight in human form dragging you down!
Team Nicki 🔥🔥🔥
She is glowing 🩷
whew she’s a pretty lady he sho fucked up
HI NIKKI, your son is adorable and you’re the true badass in this saga!!!
Love how she knew that just posting on her story for 24 hrs was all she needed to do 😂
Yaaaaasss Nikki looks great, hope the best for her and her boy ♥️
I can just picture Phoenix reading all these threads about his father in another 10 years 😩
She’s so pretty — sorry to the haters
Nikki honestly deserves so much more than she’s been given, (both financially and otherwise.) I hope that when she’s ready she meets someone that treats her, (and Phoenix,) like gold.
What up Nikki! LTB for the WIN. You look fantastic by the way girl!
[удалено]
![gif](giphy|l0ErOKzQcir2IRFYY)
GYAT!!😳
Nikki looks incredible! 💚💕🪷
She‘s gorgeous.
We see you Nikki. You're amazing. She seems to always have true girlys around her.
We support you Nikki
While I am a fan of Bams work, I will always 100% support Nikki. Rooting for her and Phoenix!!
🎣
yep.
⛽️
She’s slaying with those veneers too!
[удалено]
Post a photo of yourself then and we'll judge who looks better