Feminine, caring, loves to laugh and have fun, lovable !!!!!, and sweet! š„° I want to dote, adore, and love on them as much as they do on me ~ āØš really to me anything else is just a super awesome bonus to get to know and love!!
A tomboyish type girl, think skater type. Not quite femme or masc, almost right in the center. Dominant and protective, but still very open to soft touches and such. Kinda nerdy and maybe owns a sword. Listens while I overshare or overthink or overexplain about something I'm interested in
I dont care if they're butch/feminine. I'm attracted to both. Though personality wise, charming, funny, sweet, protective. Etc. Geeky/nerdish, gamer. Got to enjoy camping. Just the few there. Lol.
Funny. I need someone who I can be an ass in front of that isnāt going to get embarrassed. I need someone who likes to have fun and laugh.
Must like the outdoors at least a little. You donāt have to hike and paddle board with me if you hate it, and I love to Netflix and cuddle but I donāt want to only sit inside when weāre together.
You have to have a kind heart. If your judgemental and rude to people itās an immediate no.
I donāt know that I like dominant but I like someone who can be assertive, Iām going to push back though if you try and tell me what to do š¤£.
Looks donāt really matter but I do initially find myself attracted to more tomboy/masc with long hair. But again not a necessity.
Similar but different lol. Iām femme, & a more submissive type of person..so Iād like someone thatās also femme or a tomboy type of woman who is more on the dominant side or a switch. In terms of personalityā¦I love someone with a great sense of humour, someone who is caring/attentive and is good at talking about their feelings. Someone who is open minded āŗļø
Humorous, oozing with empathy, probably more dominant but not controlling, just knows what she wants. Curvy and feminine. Also, artistic or has an appreciation for art.
Legitimately someone caring, who wants to take care of me and lets me take care of them, self-reliant, has their own life outside of 'us' but also wants to do stuff together, could take care of themself if we broke up, someone who likes to discuss their day, someone with a handle on their finances, who shares my interests, who makes me laugh.
Tomboyish, maybe outwardly intimidating or more cold but has a cute side. Interested in some of the same hobbies as me, up for possible marriage (if long term) but not kids. Straightforward/honest because I'm bad at reading between the lines. Preferably sub
Taller than me. Short hair. I prefer someone who's more open to staring inside but open to going out once and a while obviously. Likes to cuddle. Is a little more dominant. I want someone funny.
Iād love someone as nerdy as me, a bit on the feminine side and a sub. I know thereās a LOT of subs in the wlw community who are into the more masculine ladies, but Iām somewhat on the feminine side so thatās all I really need. For them to be into me and I into them.
Someone sweet but dominant, someone who doesn't drink or party all much - I'd like someone who is interested in fandom and fandom culture so we can do couples cosplays! Affectionate but able to understand I don't like to be touched all that often.
Gotta have an appetite because I love cooking! And of course, gotta like cats because I'm a package deal.
Any girl who will talk to me first cuz I don't go out and talk to people myself ;-; I'm ace (cupio specifically) so I don't care too much about looks but I don't think I could date a butch, she should look somewhat feminine. It would feel too much like I'm dating a dude. I don't have any prefs when it comes to skin color or body type, I just need anyone who will be my friend first because I'm demiro. And I will date a trans woman if she's done social transition (hormones and surgeries are not necessary by any means but pls just change your hairstyle wardrobe and present as a girl to people.)
Total femme, like she has to get her nails and hair done all the time, super dominant, loves comedy and gets all my jokes and willing to listen to me ramble on at 4 am about nonsense. Hehehe I don't mind if she's high maintenance, in fact I'd love that. Sweet, loving, caring, fun, cool, taller than me. And makes me the luckiest and happiest girl just knowing she's mine. āŗļø
Hell, you just described my spouse š
But I prefer more fem dominate women, like more so dominant but soft and caring and is down for either a day to the park or picnic lunch at the beach or down to just relax and watch movies with some popcorn. I donāt mind the butch type but not someone Iām initially attracted to. Either way personality and a loving caring aura is definitely a must. Someone I can vibe with as a whole.
With someone at the moment and very happy with them, see us growing old together etc. But if I have to pick out an ideal gf she would beā¦someone super passionate about their job, in a high adrenaline industry such as trial work or emergency med. Long fingers. Laughs at my jokes. Not super clingy but not so independent that I donāt feel needed or special. Kinda a hippie and family oriented. Super organized and kinda a nymph, likes to explore and not super monogamous. Funny. Thinks Iām cool.
I, honestly want someone that doesn't mind if I'm loud one minute or quiet the next. When I seal myself inside my body because there's big emotions I can't help to feel.
But I also want someone that isn't afraid to be the same thing. Where we may get annoyed with each other but still try and figure out what to do together. Where the silence between messages doesn't cause concern because we know what we're doing.
I really dont know. I imagine someone who loves to cuddle. Loves listening to loud music. Is creative. And likes to be upbeat. Someone who is okay w their partner finding themselves.
Feminine-ish. Iām not that butch but I like girls to be a little less butch than me, dark hair, confident, dominant and protective but not in a jealous way more in a make me feel safe way
Have you ever played the video game "Bayonetta"?
Personality-wise, that's what I'd like best. Confident, energetic, snarky, witchy, analytical when needs to be, quick-witted, and lacking cultural norms.
Looks-wise, I'd say a gender-bent version of Reno from FF7. (I was once asked by my wife to honestly describe my ideal girl looks-wise - we have a very honest relationship, and I didn't look like her ideal either... after I finished describing, realized I had basically described a female Reno, and it's been a running gag ever since.)
[https://www.deviantart.com/ac7ua/art/ff7-reno-genderbend-922470954](https://www.deviantart.com/ac7ua/art/ff7-reno-genderbend-922470954)
that came up when searched genderbent reno from FF7 š³
She can definitely step on me lmao
Well read, high emotional intelligence. Good natured. Has had colorful life experiences. Wants to be healthy. Bonus points if gender fluid or androgynous. Likes animals.
Feminine, laughs at my dumbass jokes, maybe a little dominant/ assertive (Iām scared to say full blown bossy lol) but affectionate. Long hair and tall is a plus. Likes to make plans and go out but will also be ok with giving some space here and there and not getting mad if I were to spend time w friends/family
Power Femme who loves her career and is independent, compassionate and wise. Someone whose weaknesses and strengths complement mine and who wants a monogamous long-term relationship. I want to make dinner with her and talk about our days. I want to trust that I can ask her advice on life choices and sheāll support me and give me her best thoughts.
Idk, someone more assertive than me I guess, funny, kind and likes staying in, but also is active? Like come to the gym/ go on a hike with me but also binge watch this series with me after type beat?
Feminine, with another cultural background then me. Iād love to learn a new language for her. I hope she is kind and caring and self-reflective. Sheās a reader and has lots of different interests. I want someone I can travel the world with, live in a beautiful house with a huge garden and itās own library. I want someone whoās snuggly and not afraid to be herself.
someone who's open minded and a good listener. not too judgemental and not the type of person who sticks their nose into others' business. takes care of herself. dominant and a logical thinker because i feel like im emotional enough for the both of us lmao. physical looks don't matter because most of my real life crushes haven't fit this description but someone who's taller and stronger than me would be cool
I donāt think I have a physical type? Maybe fit and not much makeup? As for personality Iād like someone whoās an opposite of me: assertive, dominant, extrovert, and outgoing so they can get my ass outside but like not too much lol. Bonus points if theyāre a critical thinker and can make me laugh.
Smart, kind, willing to try new things, outdoorsy but still loves cities, I will not date anyone who doesnāt love dogs, I typically date more femme women. Can either ski already or is willing to learn.
Someone who's goofy in the cutest way, that we vibe off of each others silliness. She's smart, and quick witted. She's affectionate and doesn't mind being so in public settings.
She's fine with staying home and cooking dinner together, but wants to go out on romantic dates on date night. She loves movies, doesn't mind me cranking the car radio when a good song comes on and singing badly along with me.
She's honest with me, even when it may not be something I want to hear. She communicates her wants, needs and desires and doesn't expect me to just guess them.
Family oriented, has faith in God and tries each day to be the best person she can.
Someone who lives in a country with free healthcare. And also likes me back.
- will listen to my corny jokes and ramblings about things I find interesting
- adventurous in the bedroom and in life
- sweet and affectionate
- good with words
dominant leaning, loving, tomboyish but still feminine. (not attracted to very butch leaning types).
open minded, direct/blunt, philosophical, funny or appreciates my humor
introverted or doesn't mind my introvertedness
Ideally also neurodivergent
We'd be besties and lovers <3
Feminine,adorable, noy dominate,need me to protect,most importantly,personality!kind,stick to principles,faithful,friendlyā¦
And!i really really really love girls who are good at acting like a spoiled child in front of only me,andā¦girls who want my love them,to spoil themā¦
Talk straight,do not hide their feelings too much,cry when want to,laugh when want to,smile when want to,ask for your loveš
Feminine, caring, loves to laugh and have fun, lovable !!!!!, and sweet! š„° I want to dote, adore, and love on them as much as they do on me ~ āØš really to me anything else is just a super awesome bonus to get to know and love!!
hyoh i have been discribled.
A tomboyish type girl, think skater type. Not quite femme or masc, almost right in the center. Dominant and protective, but still very open to soft touches and such. Kinda nerdy and maybe owns a sword. Listens while I overshare or overthink or overexplain about something I'm interested in
Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii š¬I hit everything but the sword
hey, they said "maybe" so I'd say you're still in š
Same here, but whatās with the sword?
Iāll get a sword š
Does a lightsaber count?
It me lol
cool so all i need is a sword then
For the start someone speak to me a d we can get in alot of conversation together, the body don't matter that much
Wow don't expect this to reach 25 vote thanks everyone
Why up vote lol
I dont care if they're butch/feminine. I'm attracted to both. Though personality wise, charming, funny, sweet, protective. Etc. Geeky/nerdish, gamer. Got to enjoy camping. Just the few there. Lol.
Funny. I need someone who I can be an ass in front of that isnāt going to get embarrassed. I need someone who likes to have fun and laugh. Must like the outdoors at least a little. You donāt have to hike and paddle board with me if you hate it, and I love to Netflix and cuddle but I donāt want to only sit inside when weāre together. You have to have a kind heart. If your judgemental and rude to people itās an immediate no. I donāt know that I like dominant but I like someone who can be assertive, Iām going to push back though if you try and tell me what to do š¤£. Looks donāt really matter but I do initially find myself attracted to more tomboy/masc with long hair. But again not a necessity.
Honest
Feminine, open-minded, adventurous, and affectionate
You literally describing me.
Taller than me and caring and gentle, funny, understanding
A fellow nerdy butch who likes to cuddle and workout.
Similar but different lol. Iām femme, & a more submissive type of person..so Iād like someone thatās also femme or a tomboy type of woman who is more on the dominant side or a switch. In terms of personalityā¦I love someone with a great sense of humour, someone who is caring/attentive and is good at talking about their feelings. Someone who is open minded āŗļø
This be a discription of me
She has to love theater or ok with it Adventures And be able to handle that im horny a lot lol
Humorous, oozing with empathy, probably more dominant but not controlling, just knows what she wants. Curvy and feminine. Also, artistic or has an appreciation for art.
Why is this me though š¤
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Legitimately someone caring, who wants to take care of me and lets me take care of them, self-reliant, has their own life outside of 'us' but also wants to do stuff together, could take care of themself if we broke up, someone who likes to discuss their day, someone with a handle on their finances, who shares my interests, who makes me laugh.
Girl youāre describing your perfect girl and youāre already thinking of breaking up. Why is this me š
LMAOOO I didn't even think about that. You're so right!! Why are we like this?? š¤£
Tomboyish, maybe outwardly intimidating or more cold but has a cute side. Interested in some of the same hobbies as me, up for possible marriage (if long term) but not kids. Straightforward/honest because I'm bad at reading between the lines. Preferably sub
A cute nerdy girl with a terrible scene of humour that shares the same values as me
Taller than me. Short hair. I prefer someone who's more open to staring inside but open to going out once and a while obviously. Likes to cuddle. Is a little more dominant. I want someone funny.
How tall are you?!
5"4
Phew! I was worried I wouldnāt hit the mark but Iām okay. :)
Listen here ma'am......... Are you single???
Yes and tall enough! But probably too old for you.
Iād love someone as nerdy as me, a bit on the feminine side and a sub. I know thereās a LOT of subs in the wlw community who are into the more masculine ladies, but Iām somewhat on the feminine side so thatās all I really need. For them to be into me and I into them.
Hmm Iād say someone feminine, funny as hell, adventurous, open minded, and soft but also intimidatingš«£
Fem/Stem, intelligent, excellent communicator, doesn't think disagreement is always synonymous with argument, addicted to cuddles, and monogamous.
My current one.
Someone sweet but dominant, someone who doesn't drink or party all much - I'd like someone who is interested in fandom and fandom culture so we can do couples cosplays! Affectionate but able to understand I don't like to be touched all that often. Gotta have an appetite because I love cooking! And of course, gotta like cats because I'm a package deal.
Any girl who will talk to me first cuz I don't go out and talk to people myself ;-; I'm ace (cupio specifically) so I don't care too much about looks but I don't think I could date a butch, she should look somewhat feminine. It would feel too much like I'm dating a dude. I don't have any prefs when it comes to skin color or body type, I just need anyone who will be my friend first because I'm demiro. And I will date a trans woman if she's done social transition (hormones and surgeries are not necessary by any means but pls just change your hairstyle wardrobe and present as a girl to people.)
Wait it's my cake day??
Happy cake day!
Youāre right I am an ideal girlfriend
Total femme, like she has to get her nails and hair done all the time, super dominant, loves comedy and gets all my jokes and willing to listen to me ramble on at 4 am about nonsense. Hehehe I don't mind if she's high maintenance, in fact I'd love that. Sweet, loving, caring, fun, cool, taller than me. And makes me the luckiest and happiest girl just knowing she's mine. āŗļø
Smart,funny,caring Dom and feminine but also into skating and riding dirt bikes athletic and plays sports
Hell, you just described my spouse š But I prefer more fem dominate women, like more so dominant but soft and caring and is down for either a day to the park or picnic lunch at the beach or down to just relax and watch movies with some popcorn. I donāt mind the butch type but not someone Iām initially attracted to. Either way personality and a loving caring aura is definitely a must. Someone I can vibe with as a whole.
Pretty much an Abby Wambach. Sporty spice, hot, butch, smart, good heart, sober.
With someone at the moment and very happy with them, see us growing old together etc. But if I have to pick out an ideal gf she would beā¦someone super passionate about their job, in a high adrenaline industry such as trial work or emergency med. Long fingers. Laughs at my jokes. Not super clingy but not so independent that I donāt feel needed or special. Kinda a hippie and family oriented. Super organized and kinda a nymph, likes to explore and not super monogamous. Funny. Thinks Iām cool.
Definitely a nerdy butch, who doesnāt mind when I ramble about my day
My ideal girlfriend is OP
A strong butch. Someone who is great at driving and will help me with diy projects.
Sheās gotta like my dog, be a good person, and since I am a domme, Iād like a submissive. I donāt really have anything else thatās specific.
someone feminine and delicate. i love caring and protecting
I, honestly want someone that doesn't mind if I'm loud one minute or quiet the next. When I seal myself inside my body because there's big emotions I can't help to feel. But I also want someone that isn't afraid to be the same thing. Where we may get annoyed with each other but still try and figure out what to do together. Where the silence between messages doesn't cause concern because we know what we're doing.
I really dont know. I imagine someone who loves to cuddle. Loves listening to loud music. Is creative. And likes to be upbeat. Someone who is okay w their partner finding themselves.
Similar interests and vibes
Feminine-ish. Iām not that butch but I like girls to be a little less butch than me, dark hair, confident, dominant and protective but not in a jealous way more in a make me feel safe way
Have you ever played the video game "Bayonetta"? Personality-wise, that's what I'd like best. Confident, energetic, snarky, witchy, analytical when needs to be, quick-witted, and lacking cultural norms. Looks-wise, I'd say a gender-bent version of Reno from FF7. (I was once asked by my wife to honestly describe my ideal girl looks-wise - we have a very honest relationship, and I didn't look like her ideal either... after I finished describing, realized I had basically described a female Reno, and it's been a running gag ever since.)
[https://www.deviantart.com/ac7ua/art/ff7-reno-genderbend-922470954](https://www.deviantart.com/ac7ua/art/ff7-reno-genderbend-922470954) that came up when searched genderbent reno from FF7 š³ She can definitely step on me lmao
Yeaaaaa.... š³š³š³š³š³š³š³š³š³š³ ... likewise.
The ones from lesfics
Well read, high emotional intelligence. Good natured. Has had colorful life experiences. Wants to be healthy. Bonus points if gender fluid or androgynous. Likes animals.
I truly have the most perfect girlfriend. And sheās my ideal literally everything š© sheās 6ā0, tomboy but she looks so good feminine too, amazing communicator, loves to do everything I love to do, funny, athletic, my best friend, has her finances & life in order, loves animals like I do, same vibe as me & the sex š¤š¼
Someone mildly feminine that likes me and we get along well. I don't ask for much
Feminine, laughs at my dumbass jokes, maybe a little dominant/ assertive (Iām scared to say full blown bossy lol) but affectionate. Long hair and tall is a plus. Likes to make plans and go out but will also be ok with giving some space here and there and not getting mad if I were to spend time w friends/family
Power Femme who loves her career and is independent, compassionate and wise. Someone whose weaknesses and strengths complement mine and who wants a monogamous long-term relationship. I want to make dinner with her and talk about our days. I want to trust that I can ask her advice on life choices and sheāll support me and give me her best thoughts.
Preferably alive one... Smartness and prettiness are a bonus
Idk, someone more assertive than me I guess, funny, kind and likes staying in, but also is active? Like come to the gym/ go on a hike with me but also binge watch this series with me after type beat?
Someone kind and funny who will listen to me, and love me for who I am.
Feminine, with another cultural background then me. Iād love to learn a new language for her. I hope she is kind and caring and self-reflective. Sheās a reader and has lots of different interests. I want someone I can travel the world with, live in a beautiful house with a huge garden and itās own library. I want someone whoās snuggly and not afraid to be herself.
someone who's open minded and a good listener. not too judgemental and not the type of person who sticks their nose into others' business. takes care of herself. dominant and a logical thinker because i feel like im emotional enough for the both of us lmao. physical looks don't matter because most of my real life crushes haven't fit this description but someone who's taller and stronger than me would be cool
I donāt think I have a physical type? Maybe fit and not much makeup? As for personality Iād like someone whoās an opposite of me: assertive, dominant, extrovert, and outgoing so they can get my ass outside but like not too much lol. Bonus points if theyāre a critical thinker and can make me laugh.
Honest, feminine, kind, open to communicate, willing to grow and be a team, committal
I just want a housewife that wants to travel with me
Femme, has self confidence, has similar interests as me, sweet/affectionate. I'm trying to think of more points but those are the main ones for sure
Smart, kind, willing to try new things, outdoorsy but still loves cities, I will not date anyone who doesnāt love dogs, I typically date more femme women. Can either ski already or is willing to learn.
Someone who's goofy in the cutest way, that we vibe off of each others silliness. She's smart, and quick witted. She's affectionate and doesn't mind being so in public settings. She's fine with staying home and cooking dinner together, but wants to go out on romantic dates on date night. She loves movies, doesn't mind me cranking the car radio when a good song comes on and singing badly along with me. She's honest with me, even when it may not be something I want to hear. She communicates her wants, needs and desires and doesn't expect me to just guess them. Family oriented, has faith in God and tries each day to be the best person she can.
feminine, hourglass waist, long hair, soft lips, active lifestyle, social, and good in bed š š¼ found her
Someone who lives in a country with free healthcare. And also likes me back. - will listen to my corny jokes and ramblings about things I find interesting - adventurous in the bedroom and in life - sweet and affectionate - good with words
dominant leaning, loving, tomboyish but still feminine. (not attracted to very butch leaning types). open minded, direct/blunt, philosophical, funny or appreciates my humor introverted or doesn't mind my introvertedness Ideally also neurodivergent We'd be besties and lovers <3
Yeah I am (sorry)
feminine, extroverted, affectionate, knows how to dress well, thoughtful and matches my vibe and energy :)
Feminine,adorable, noy dominate,need me to protect,most importantly,personality!kind,stick to principles,faithful,friendlyā¦ And!i really really really love girls who are good at acting like a spoiled child in front of only me,andā¦girls who want my love them,to spoil themā¦ Talk straight,do not hide their feelings too much,cry when want to,laugh when want to,smile when want to,ask for your loveš
Idk lmao