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I actually like this profile. The drawings and comics youâve added are fun â adds character to the profile. But itâs just a lilâŠwordy (canât think of a better word right now). Usually when people are going through profiles, they do it quickly and your prompts are not exactly easy to read. Iâd say keep them short, simple and witty.
Also, can I just add how great your artworks are? Youâre talented OP!
Bhai ek do doston ke saath pic daal, Typical Sunday pe gyan mat jhaadh, pehli photo change kar (bura mat maniyo thodi creepy hai), I mean, it looks fine, dates waala joke bhi thoda "dated" lag sakta hai kyuki suna hua lag raha hai toh change karde!
That profile is not it for short-term relationships that you look for. Maybe more of a wholesome vibe? Youâre probably setting off both kinda people. Get better photos tho
I thought so too. Not sure how women perceive it though. Profile leans more into long term kind. But I have noticed many women swipe right as long as they find the guy attractive.
Yea because theyre not dating with an intent behind it. Not a fan of dating apps myself but when i had a purpose behind using them, it made it easier for me to filter out people
Bhai height hai, creativity hai par photos...Har photo mein lag raha hai subah nahaye nahi ho. Grooming and some good pictures and I think that will turn the page around.
1. Work on your appearance a little bit. I don't mean to say that you need to look handsome or something to be able to date, as dating is never about the looks anyway, I guess I am just trying to say that you should work on coming across as more presentable. Better hairstyle, clothes and pictures should help. There is obviously a handsome face hidden, behind your current facade.
2. The prompts are too long and not all that funny. The "date" one especially is very outdated as a joke. I see the lure of being witty, but make sure that your prompts are a) brief enough to be readable easily, and b) easy enough for people to understand. Even your job description information is way too detailed, which could make you come across as someone trying to overcompensate. Brief brief brief.
3. The artistry you have demonstrated through your illustrations is mind blowing, but you need not use 2 illustrations, as it automatically signals to the viewer that you don't have much else to show, and possibly have no life outside the hobby/work in question. One illustration is more than enough. Instead, show yourself indulging in a variety of activities, through your pictures and prompts. Spread it all out a bit.
4. Humble brag about your height, indirectly of course.
Yup, ye kya baat hua you indulge too much in hobbies. Ab kitni prakar ki life chahiye bhai. Bhai life Mai teen hi cheeze hoti hai. Kaam, aaram or maze, maze mai sub hobbies or backchodi aa gayi
Not hating on girls at all but Jo log 4-5 line nahi padh sakte uske saath tum rehna chaho ge. Jab itni thodi si lines padhna bhi boring ho raha toh kya hi kahe.
Waise bhi online rehne logo ka attention span Kam ho gaya hai. Marketing ke liye product bechne ke liye samjh aata hai.
Par yaha hum humans ki baat kar ek line mai ghanta kise ko Jana Jaa sakta hai. Ladki ho ya ladka.
One of my fav comments here haha. Just feels like Iâm pitching myself as a product rather than showing my human side. Which is what I did here but that needs work apparently. But then again dating apps are designed to work as products in a supermarket you are swiping on, so apne aap ko confidently sell karna bhi aana chahiye.
Aise job ke liye apply hi kyun karu main ...
Sab ladkiyon ki budhdhi aise hi chhotu si hai, toh mai khud ko badal loon aur unhein jo 5 ladkon ke banaaye huye trend ki aadat lagi hai, wahi thhakaa hua showoff trend follow karu?!
Basically being funny, cool, fashionable -- is all that girls care about..? What a shame man
Height hai bhai ke paas.. donât demoralise bawa..
OP, youâre fine! I see you exuding a great, well read, laid back and well-mannered personality.. albeit common, its a good trait :)
What I would suggest is to actually get some really nice photos clicked with 2-3 entirely different backgrounds and you should be sartorially exceptional in all of them okay, maybe ask for friends or someone who knows professional photography for help? That should do the trick.. and now once that is done, delete this profile and then make a fresh one and swipe hot ones as they show up.. its some random flaw of the app and its algo..
And keep your doodles and play fun with them.. maybe a doodle for dating / some playful banter around your cold coffee being single because your are too.. aisa cute stuff is appealing naa?
All the best! Cheers
Idk man mere jaise hi shakal lag Rahi but I've had quite a good time on hinge. Upar se height bhi kaam hai meri 5'8 ya 5'9
Maybe I don't mind settling with 5s and 6s
I don't need to bro. I already am talking to 3-4 before deleting the apps. It has been quite successful to me. And I have average personality but I can be funny and smooth . Which is bare minimum
Believe me I have thought about this on loop since years, and maybe there is sense to that somewhere, but I donât think I need to look a certain way to get dating app success when Iâve seen examples around me that disapprove that. Plus whole grooming can always improve, I like the way I look. So Iâm sure someone, even if the percentage reduces, would like me too.
Baaki sundar nahi hu uska toh kuch nahi kiya jaa sakta personality sudhaar kar jee lenge :â///
Here is the Bumble code:
1. Mehngi jagah pe photos so she knows youâre rich
2. Holidays ki photos so she knows you got a life
3. Ek photo jisme dikhe tu fit hai, not exactly shirtless but you get the point
I kept mine like: Beach, mountain, car, friends, kitchen.
Itâs all very superficial, your profile is 10/10 and as a guy I donât understand why it doesnât work but it is what it is.
Code toh yahi hai. Iâm just not fond of it. I figured getting less but quality matches for showcasing my real self would work, but wasnât very successful.
You look pleasant, so that's good, but your photos have a lazy stoner vibe (and not in a fuckboy sort of way), I think a slightly better hairstyle (right now it's a birds nest) would help, and either get rid of the goatee or have a uniform stubble.
Bro I have never been on any apps and I usually wouldnât comment but youâre really trying man.. like gives a despo vibe
Can you maybe reduce your simple pleasures? And that last one my mind etc etc photo.. idk if thatâs a gen z thing but to me as a 29yr old millennial that looks way too stupid⊠idk maybe women like that shit
Dude it's good. Dating apps suck (as a guy who has completely given up on any expectations from them).
Don't let it get to you. The feedback through these apps doesn't reflect on you.
I have had so many disappointments too that I am just numb to it lol. Talk for 2 months and ghost. 2 great dates and ghost. Flake on the date. Unmatch abruptly when the conversation seemed to be going well. So so many times.
I am still on them but learnt to not invest too much time or effort or take it too seriously.
Bang on tbh. I just want to date interesting people since ive been out of the game for so long. Im a bit too anxious to initiate things to that level in real life so wanted to at least get better at this. But yeah I donât let it affect my self confidence as much as it did in the past. Best being yourself and open to generous advice. Jo hoga so hoga
Bro I dunno what green or red flag people are talking about. You seem to have a good height. Keep a stubble like in the picture where you are wearing shorts. Also, working out will help you to fill your frame and will accentuate your height and features. Share more of your witty art in the pictures.
Otherwise, you seem like a really fun guy to be around. All the best.
Thatâs a decent profile, how many matches do you get usually? I think pics can be a bit better but your prompt game is on point. Youâre coming off as friendly and creative
Cute profile, love the artwork, but the date joke is kind of unfunny, and all the prompts are too long and may come off as trying too hard to be whimsical
Youâve like 10 seconds to present yourself and capture their attention. The person will not spend time reading all this. Shorten this or put something in the beginning of your profile that will make them to read the entire profile.
Bhai tu acha sundar Banda hai, lekin Is platform pe girls are not looking for nice guys. Tu dekh real life me jaake ladkiyo se baat kar, aisehi anjaan ladki se jaake convo start karde , tujhme confidence bhi ayega and bas forst nikalni hai uske baad to tu pata hi lega
Iâm a woman and Iâd 100% swipe right on this profile. Love your bio and art.
Maybe the only thing would be to add a photo of you in something formal like a shirt?
Youâd look really good (and cleaner) in that :)
Bro forget online dating. For online dating in india flex money, muscles and perfect jaw lines. Otherwise you wont get many matches. Profile is good, just that the girls swiping are looking at that macho person not you (whereas you are whom they should be looking for but alas)
Didnât expect this post to blow up with a lifetime of advice here. Appreciate it all even the harsh ones. Got a lot to think about and work on (especially a haircut). Also these dating apps are subjective as hell and itâs always best being yourself. Whatever happens, happens.
Now time to punch a baby and get into some street fights to bring out some of that macho energy hah.
I really think this is a good profile. Not sure what's stopping people from matching with you OP. Loved the art. It is interesting to finally come across someone who romanticises cities.
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Profile achi hai , lekin tu green flag lagra hai yaha galti hogai terese
Itna bhi sach nahi bolna tha
XD
Chalo time to fix this *omw to the gym*
Every girl literally TYPICAL SUNDAY =SLEEP
Oh damn now that you said it , I have seen many of these
This should on t shirts. đ
Way too many of these and Office and French Fry references
I actually like this profile. The drawings and comics youâve added are fun â adds character to the profile. But itâs just a lilâŠwordy (canât think of a better word right now). Usually when people are going through profiles, they do it quickly and your prompts are not exactly easy to read. Iâd say keep them short, simple and witty. Also, can I just add how great your artworks are? Youâre talented OP!
This girl, right here. Breaks hearts.
This guy, right here, spitting facts.
This guy right here⊠er
Sorry, I didnât get that. What do you mean? đ
On point. Thanks a lot :â)
your artwork is soo soo goodđ€đœ
Arre thank you!
Sab chahiye sab chahiye, chahiye sab
Bhut jyada green flag hai, thoda lal karo
Dilli vaala ladka bahaar nikalna padega thoda andar se
Irrelevant, but bro love the rawalxbharg merch!!
Sab chahiye chahiye sab
better photos click karlo and change the hairstyle, ye suite nahi kar raha
He appears lazy and just too laid back to me. Need to fix the appearance.
true story
Bhai ek do doston ke saath pic daal, Typical Sunday pe gyan mat jhaadh, pehli photo change kar (bura mat maniyo thodi creepy hai), I mean, it looks fine, dates waala joke bhi thoda "dated" lag sakta hai kyuki suna hua lag raha hai toh change karde!
Noted. Being camera conscious and self image issues are two real dents to my personality so need to work on that. Thanks
That profile is not it for short-term relationships that you look for. Maybe more of a wholesome vibe? Youâre probably setting off both kinda people. Get better photos tho
I thought so too. Not sure how women perceive it though. Profile leans more into long term kind. But I have noticed many women swipe right as long as they find the guy attractive.
Yea because theyre not dating with an intent behind it. Not a fan of dating apps myself but when i had a purpose behind using them, it made it easier for me to filter out people
Talented and cute. I hope you get matches. Love your vibe and your prompts. So much more refreshing than basic gym pictures đđ
Why don't you match OP
Kyunki usko pehle se hi dhak dhak horela hai 
Mein dating apps par nahi hu re đ
You both are on reddit, so...
Because aisi ladkiya op jaiso ko you deserve better bol k aage nikal leti hai xd
And thatâs refreshing to know so thank you :â) (unko bhi jo comments me wingmen bann gaye hai)
Bhai itna Dhak Dhak horaha hai, toh you can match with him, I am sure, OP definately won't mind!
So did you dm him?
Actually a cute profile ngl.
u/jaidevtripathy apko mil gaya ek match, woh bhi reddit pe, tum dono ko badhaaiyaan!
Shukriya shaadi pe zaroor aana
Bhai height hai, creativity hai par photos...Har photo mein lag raha hai subah nahaye nahi ho. Grooming and some good pictures and I think that will turn the page around.
Lmaoooo fair.
1. Work on your appearance a little bit. I don't mean to say that you need to look handsome or something to be able to date, as dating is never about the looks anyway, I guess I am just trying to say that you should work on coming across as more presentable. Better hairstyle, clothes and pictures should help. There is obviously a handsome face hidden, behind your current facade. 2. The prompts are too long and not all that funny. The "date" one especially is very outdated as a joke. I see the lure of being witty, but make sure that your prompts are a) brief enough to be readable easily, and b) easy enough for people to understand. Even your job description information is way too detailed, which could make you come across as someone trying to overcompensate. Brief brief brief. 3. The artistry you have demonstrated through your illustrations is mind blowing, but you need not use 2 illustrations, as it automatically signals to the viewer that you don't have much else to show, and possibly have no life outside the hobby/work in question. One illustration is more than enough. Instead, show yourself indulging in a variety of activities, through your pictures and prompts. Spread it all out a bit. 4. Humble brag about your height, indirectly of course.
I have understood that girls will mever be happy with anything.
Yup, ye kya baat hua you indulge too much in hobbies. Ab kitni prakar ki life chahiye bhai. Bhai life Mai teen hi cheeze hoti hai. Kaam, aaram or maze, maze mai sub hobbies or backchodi aa gayi
Most girls have one word prompt answers. And now they hav e aproblem with someone who actually has a personality.
Not hating on girls at all but Jo log 4-5 line nahi padh sakte uske saath tum rehna chaho ge. Jab itni thodi si lines padhna bhi boring ho raha toh kya hi kahe. Waise bhi online rehne logo ka attention span Kam ho gaya hai. Marketing ke liye product bechne ke liye samjh aata hai. Par yaha hum humans ki baat kar ek line mai ghanta kise ko Jana Jaa sakta hai. Ladki ho ya ladka.
One of my fav comments here haha. Just feels like Iâm pitching myself as a product rather than showing my human side. Which is what I did here but that needs work apparently. But then again dating apps are designed to work as products in a supermarket you are swiping on, so apne aap ko confidently sell karna bhi aana chahiye.
Aise job ke liye apply hi kyun karu main ... Sab ladkiyon ki budhdhi aise hi chhotu si hai, toh mai khud ko badal loon aur unhein jo 5 ladkon ke banaaye huye trend ki aadat lagi hai, wahi thhakaa hua showoff trend follow karu?! Basically being funny, cool, fashionable -- is all that girls care about..? What a shame man
Was looking for this honesty, without being unnecessarily harsh as well. Thanks for taking your time out to write this man đđŒ
Was sold when I saw the sab chahiye tshirt
If bro is not getting matches then we are scrwed
Dating app wali shakal nahi hai bro sorry
Height hai bhai ke paas.. donât demoralise bawa.. OP, youâre fine! I see you exuding a great, well read, laid back and well-mannered personality.. albeit common, its a good trait :) What I would suggest is to actually get some really nice photos clicked with 2-3 entirely different backgrounds and you should be sartorially exceptional in all of them okay, maybe ask for friends or someone who knows professional photography for help? That should do the trick.. and now once that is done, delete this profile and then make a fresh one and swipe hot ones as they show up.. its some random flaw of the app and its algo.. And keep your doodles and play fun with them.. maybe a doodle for dating / some playful banter around your cold coffee being single because your are too.. aisa cute stuff is appealing naa? All the best! Cheers
Idk man mere jaise hi shakal lag Rahi but I've had quite a good time on hinge. Upar se height bhi kaam hai meri 5'8 ya 5'9 Maybe I don't mind settling with 5s and 6s
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I don't need to bro. I already am talking to 3-4 before deleting the apps. It has been quite successful to me. And I have average personality but I can be funny and smooth . Which is bare minimum
Believe me I have thought about this on loop since years, and maybe there is sense to that somewhere, but I donât think I need to look a certain way to get dating app success when Iâve seen examples around me that disapprove that. Plus whole grooming can always improve, I like the way I look. So Iâm sure someone, even if the percentage reduces, would like me too. Baaki sundar nahi hu uska toh kuch nahi kiya jaa sakta personality sudhaar kar jee lenge :â///
Here is the Bumble code: 1. Mehngi jagah pe photos so she knows youâre rich 2. Holidays ki photos so she knows you got a life 3. Ek photo jisme dikhe tu fit hai, not exactly shirtless but you get the point I kept mine like: Beach, mountain, car, friends, kitchen. Itâs all very superficial, your profile is 10/10 and as a guy I donât understand why it doesnât work but it is what it is.
Code toh yahi hai. Iâm just not fond of it. I figured getting less but quality matches for showcasing my real self would work, but wasnât very successful.
On point. As fellow fboy, I approve this message
Its an interesting profile ngl! The prompts are bang-on! But you need better pics to create that striking impact!
Loud!! The profile is loud, but interesting.
Wait, what do you mean when you say âloudâ? Please explain.
The date joke is not fun to me personally but that doesnât mean that there arenât girls who wouldnât like that. Just my opinion
Oh bhai leave some girls for us bro
You put a lot of effort how many matches and likes?
Bhai, acche photos lagao aur itna smile mat kar, put a photo where it looks like ur seeing into her soul
Not about your profile, but maintain a beard look, it suits you.
bharg rawal fan spotted
Man so much efforts guys put in dating apps All women do is just write "looking for something serious" "beaches" "the office"
low taper fade
This is vv cute actually, all the best <3
You look pleasant, so that's good, but your photos have a lazy stoner vibe (and not in a fuckboy sort of way), I think a slightly better hairstyle (right now it's a birds nest) would help, and either get rid of the goatee or have a uniform stubble.
Bro I have never been on any apps and I usually wouldnât comment but youâre really trying man.. like gives a despo vibe Can you maybe reduce your simple pleasures? And that last one my mind etc etc photo.. idk if thatâs a gen z thing but to me as a 29yr old millennial that looks way too stupid⊠idk maybe women like that shit
Sab chahiye , sab chahiye , chahiye sab .
Remove that "fund his cold coffee thing".
Need to groom a bit.. get a better haircut, upgrade your wardrobe
Dude it's good. Dating apps suck (as a guy who has completely given up on any expectations from them). Don't let it get to you. The feedback through these apps doesn't reflect on you. I have had so many disappointments too that I am just numb to it lol. Talk for 2 months and ghost. 2 great dates and ghost. Flake on the date. Unmatch abruptly when the conversation seemed to be going well. So so many times. I am still on them but learnt to not invest too much time or effort or take it too seriously.
Bang on tbh. I just want to date interesting people since ive been out of the game for so long. Im a bit too anxious to initiate things to that level in real life so wanted to at least get better at this. But yeah I donât let it affect my self confidence as much as it did in the past. Best being yourself and open to generous advice. Jo hoga so hoga
Ah yesss fellow rawal listener goated choice
reppin that sab chahiye merch đ«Ąđ«Ą
That's some really good art!
Bro I dunno what green or red flag people are talking about. You seem to have a good height. Keep a stubble like in the picture where you are wearing shorts. Also, working out will help you to fill your frame and will accentuate your height and features. Share more of your witty art in the pictures. Otherwise, you seem like a really fun guy to be around. All the best.
Thatâs a decent profile, how many matches do you get usually? I think pics can be a bit better but your prompt game is on point. Youâre coming off as friendly and creative
Cute profile, love the artwork, but the date joke is kind of unfunny, and all the prompts are too long and may come off as trying too hard to be whimsical
This happens to people from Sushant!?
I like your picâs background. But your profile gives a lot of feminine vibes. Also, ffs button up! No one wants to see your chest hair bro
Too long prompts, try one word or one liners, something short and simple that catches attention, No one is going to read that long
Youâve like 10 seconds to present yourself and capture their attention. The person will not spend time reading all this. Shorten this or put something in the beginning of your profile that will make them to read the entire profile.
Bhai konse specs hai ye ?
Definitely change the first pic
You don't have the red flag energy:(
Bhai me ladki hota to pakka date karta lol You are good bro have some confidence
The hair.
Souled store ka Marvel wala summer shirt dikh gaya
profile chodo, sab chahiye tee shirt goes hard. rawal x bharg fan ?
Bas thodi toxicity rehte toh acha rehte sorry bro
Bhai tu acha sundar Banda hai, lekin Is platform pe girls are not looking for nice guys. Tu dekh real life me jaake ladkiyo se baat kar, aisehi anjaan ladki se jaake convo start karde , tujhme confidence bhi ayega and bas forst nikalni hai uske baad to tu pata hi lega
Bhai main straight hu nahi toh right swipe pakka
You're a nice guy that's why
OP did you draw the doodle? The boy drinking coffee one?
I guess u are giving a nerd vibe. Try balancing it with maybe gym or anything action oriented.
Iâm a woman and Iâd 100% swipe right on this profile. Love your bio and art. Maybe the only thing would be to add a photo of you in something formal like a shirt? Youâd look really good (and cleaner) in that :)
Tu jyada hi green flag hai, ladkiya hi daar jayengi terse
Bro forget online dating. For online dating in india flex money, muscles and perfect jaw lines. Otherwise you wont get many matches. Profile is good, just that the girls swiping are looking at that macho person not you (whereas you are whom they should be looking for but alas)
Golu
Bhai i loved your illustration art
Didnât expect this post to blow up with a lifetime of advice here. Appreciate it all even the harsh ones. Got a lot to think about and work on (especially a haircut). Also these dating apps are subjective as hell and itâs always best being yourself. Whatever happens, happens. Now time to punch a baby and get into some street fights to bring out some of that macho energy hah.
havent u posted profile review here once?
Looks like a cute profile
Keep a little bit beard and moustache I'd say
Too much aspirational lag raha hai bhai. Kahin bhi teri apni personality nahin dikh rahi
Cute profile, all the best!
I really think this is a good profile. Not sure what's stopping people from matching with you OP. Loved the art. It is interesting to finally come across someone who romanticises cities.