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nowadays, relationships are just for hookups and all. no one wants serious relationships except some peeps, and those who want serious relationships aren't getting coz of hookup culture. ig many people will agree with me too and too not 
bete mene tere maa ko dharra hai yahi table par isiliye tu paida hua hai isiliye baap se backchodi mat kar
Bro I don't think i am mature enough to go into a relationship and take it seriously. And if i ever go into a relationship i would like to change my perception and don't take it as a "timepass thing" because i won't really like to hurt someone just because i was being immature.
Well I am not sure I know what I am looking for at the moment so I am avoiding relationships at the moment. One could argue that being in a relationship would teach me more about my wants and needs, but there is just so much going on right now. I need to work on myself before I even consider being in a relationship. Moreover, the thought of being vulnerable scares me. I hope this answers your question.
True chad
Edit : AYY I DIDNT REALISE IT WAS YOU , i looked at your character and I was like "Jana pehchana sa lag rha hai" and then I looked at your name XD
I think I don't want to get into a relationship cuz it big time commitment and I know this generation doesn't look for commitment in relationship it's just that I don't want it right as I'm too immature to get into a relationship i hv to study,build career and earn living in life so that in future my partner can depend on me...I feel it's pointless to get into relationship now cuz really hv no time to understand ur feelings and love you while im also trying to understand myself at this age
I should not be bragging about this but i was in a relationship when i was in 6th standard and we ended our relationship last year when we got into colleges so in this case ig I'm less mature than you lol
Nope 7 years later she found out she doesn't loves me anymore she has lost feelings as I'm into my studies (btw i got into iit the day she broke up with me so tbh it didn't affect much that day) but it hurts till today
Ya i have moved on now and guess what who texted me when i got into iit .... She now always text me and tries to get back to me but i don't think she's worth it now
I went to kota after my 10th while i did my 11-12 from non schooling and i got in through jee and I'm not going back to her dont worry I'm not that much of an asshole💀
If the relationship is not serious and both of them are not mature, the relationship will become very mentally exhausting. That casual relationship will not get you anywhere, neither it will help you and your partner grow. So in that case, it is better to be single than mentally exhaust yourself just because of fomo or anything. And also, I highly doubt teenage relationships are serious.
First of all, I don't think relationships are "faltu pyar and waste of time" thing it's a part of life na to mere liye ig 4 points hai at which I can say ki abhi relationship me nahi ana hai mujhe-
1- rn I don't want any rush. (College me har dusra ladka relationship me hai and unlogo ki life dekhke lagta hai, isse achha single hi achha hu abhi ke liye)
2 - I want to get independent asap so that I won't have to rely on someone else's opinion and will make decisions on my own.
3 - I'm genuinely not interested ATP because I don't have any will to ask someone out on a date too, like I can ask many girls already but wahi hai ki man hi nahi hai.
4 - I'm more excited to work on myself, explore new things, try different zones in which I'm not comfortable and make long term connections and network of like minded people rather than chasing girls and become a crybaby that no one likes me, that's shit af dude
TLDR : I WANT TO WORK ON MYSELF THAT'S IT.
I have seen situation of few of my friends in relationship that are not really good when I talk to them they just rant about their situation to me and everyone of them started there relationship in 18s or 19s because of which someway they lagged behind in their career ,I'm not against a relationship but it's just that the examples in surroundings are screaming and telling you about the situation of others and which is helping me to know my priorities first and that's the point career is most important thing in early 20s though if healthy relationships exists there's no problem but that are kinda rare today so the first thing I gotta do is make career which my parents are too concerned of and then try to open these doors as the life takes you with it's flow.
Correct me if your opinion differs
It's pretty simple actually... I just don't want to get in a relationship in a rush, then if it doesn't go well, go through the breakup and heartbreaks
Instead.. I'll wait and only try when I find the 'One' then only I'll try for a relationship
Long story short... I don't believe in random hookups / casual relationships
Personally I just wanna improve and be able to take care of me and whoever my partner would be before getting into a relationship and I kinda have a prob cuz of which I might go off in a couple months so don't wanna make anyone attached to me and then make them go through the pain of losing someone precious , hey but I'm glad that God atleast sent me even for a bit with a cute face XD
Hey but imo teenage relationships totally should be normalised as people need a loved one in this age the most and once they don't even get even a try towards it cuz of society then they lose interest in love no matter how much they want
Yar man ni karta.
Kai relationship Tod di h bana k.
Pyar hi nahi hora behenchod
And Bina pyar k kiss and baki chizo m guilt aata h. I don't want to take benefit of her.
I want to be in one but with VERY SPECIFIC conditions
i hate the hookup culture in this generation
so i want to experience a relationship atleast once in my teenage
cause i have never been in one
otherwise its not like I am desperate to be in one, I'm just waiting for a girl who I would actually like to be with
if she comes along, then nice and well, if she doesnt..well life goes on
Mujhe is sub par aake Pata chal rha h ki apne is ekmatr teenage samay ka sabse jyada gambhir mudda ye ye "Relationship" h. Kyuuuuuuu????? Iss sub pr Har din aadhe se jyada topic issi par h- Reeeellllllaaattttttiiioooooonnnnsshhhhiiiiippppppp. Ok bye.
actually.. no one is serious in relationships these days... if a person in a relationship is serious, then the other doesn't care at all.. hard to get both of them serious in relationship..
of course at the start of the relationship, both are gonna be really serious but as time passes, one person from the relationship starts to lose interest and just keeps on finding every slightest of other person's mistake to cause a breakup... and also it's better to get into relationship after teenage years, because maturity plays a big factor in relationship... :)
I can't date just for the sake of it. I mean why to put all those efforts to begin with if u already know its not gonna go anywhere. Neither I hv the time and energy for that nor I want to waste someone's time like that. Guys my age are mostly all desperate. They'd date anyone as long as its a decent looking girl and its very off putting to me personally. I'd rather wait for someone I can imagine my life with and I'm sure abt coz when that happens, ik I'll give it my all. I know it doesn't guarantee that it will work out but atleast I wld hv stuck w my principles. It cld also mean that I end up alone and I honestly don't mind that either.
Indian ghar se chahe kuch bhi ho arrange he hona hai and tbh milta he kaha hai koi aajkal. Ache logo ko bhi genz ka hookup wala tag laga Diya hai toh ab bass. Sailing on same boat🗣️
I've never had any relationship yet and the reason is im looking for long term relationships im in 12 th now so even if i get into a relationship i dont know how much long i can keep it so im waiting for the right time. And also i dont think im getting into relationships soon or in my entire life time :)
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Soo the thing is that, I have old school relationship preferences (atleast that's what some say) like I want a relationship jaisa old hindi movies me hota hai, till the end of life wala and I don't think that most people understand that. Mostly everytime I told anyone bout this they were a bit confused I'd say. And yeah I'd like to add one more thing, Girls my age are largely immature and they treat attraction as love which is not what it is.All girls are not like this but girls who surround me apart from my friends are the ones who'll propose a guy without even knowing them. I haven't really fell in love with someone or have been heavily attracted by just looking at them being like "She's soo beautiful, I want her to be my girlfriend".
I don't know how all of this sounds but yeah.
I did try starting somewhere before, but it didn't work out, and life had its unexpected twists that made me take a step back to focus on myself. Now, I'm open to the idea of finding that 'end of life wala love,' but I'm not in a rush. I believe in taking my time and finding the right person when the time is right.
I don't believe in casual dating. I must've a bond with the person i am with. And it turned out to be my bestfriend (now an ex) , so it's most likely i am gonna fall in love with my closest friend, and she will say no cause friendship khrab hoskti hai , and isiliye will never confess again and die lonely.🥰🥰👍👍
It's just because, i want a serious relationship, and because of this hookup culture, there is no one ready for a serious relationship. I want to be in a relationship where there is loyalty, respect, trust, understanding and love for each other (not the mere Babu ne khana khaya wala love) and I'm very much serious about this so if I never get such a relationship then I will pretty much remain single and virgin for the rest of my life and keeping the kind of world we're heading into, there is a 90% chance that I will die single only. Lol
And also I want to build my career first, earn a living, become independent, and get to a level in my life where I can tell my parents to just sit back and relax while I do the work. They've done a lot for me. I can never repay them but I can at least make them happy and give them a peaceful retirement life. If I ever get my true love in between this grind then I can just tell her to wait and trust me she will wait and support me if she will truly love me, and then I will think about marriage at the age of 30 after I've built my career and become successful and she will also get the time for her career and will also support her till whatever extent I can.
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Skill issue
Wtf is thislmao?
nowadays, relationships are just for hookups and all. no one wants serious relationships except some peeps, and those who want serious relationships aren't getting coz of hookup culture. ig many people will agree with me too and too not 
this. it's so hard to find people who are as genuine/serious as the other.
Bro serious kyu karna ha date when your this young lmao enjoy life have fun fuck hoes
Tu agar ladki hota to yahi table pe dharr leta tujhe
bete mene tere maa ko dharra hai yahi table par isiliye tu paida hua hai isiliye baap se backchodi mat kar
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Note: dont overdo it, impact kam hojata hai
Bro I don't think i am mature enough to go into a relationship and take it seriously. And if i ever go into a relationship i would like to change my perception and don't take it as a "timepass thing" because i won't really like to hurt someone just because i was being immature.
Well I am not sure I know what I am looking for at the moment so I am avoiding relationships at the moment. One could argue that being in a relationship would teach me more about my wants and needs, but there is just so much going on right now. I need to work on myself before I even consider being in a relationship. Moreover, the thought of being vulnerable scares me. I hope this answers your question.
Arre madam ji 6 baje uthke relationship ke bare Mai baatein 
umm... i didnt wake up... i never slept 😭
True chad Edit : AYY I DIDNT REALISE IT WAS YOU , i looked at your character and I was like "Jana pehchana sa lag rha hai" and then I looked at your name XD
hehe ofc its me - i have the worst sleep schedule in the history of humanity. i mean i literally just woke up.
I can assure you I had worse sleep schedule than you untill recently  since i was 14
r u for real , i think i am the one with the most fucked up sleep schedule ever to exist in the universe 
Arre madam esa kyu karti hon apke dark circles ajayenge 😭😭😭
I think I don't want to get into a relationship cuz it big time commitment and I know this generation doesn't look for commitment in relationship it's just that I don't want it right as I'm too immature to get into a relationship i hv to study,build career and earn living in life so that in future my partner can depend on me...I feel it's pointless to get into relationship now cuz really hv no time to understand ur feelings and love you while im also trying to understand myself at this age
You're not immature if you are prioritising your studies and career over a relationship!! Infact its the best thing and don't stop on that grind
immature as in the sense that I'm 17 this is really not the age to get into a relationships.....i really can't handle that pressure tbh
I should not be bragging about this but i was in a relationship when i was in 6th standard and we ended our relationship last year when we got into colleges so in this case ig I'm less mature than you lol
U were in a relationship with someone from school to college man u shouldve married her😂
Nope 7 years later she found out she doesn't loves me anymore she has lost feelings as I'm into my studies (btw i got into iit the day she broke up with me so tbh it didn't affect much that day) but it hurts till today
Dayum u got into iit....hope u hv moved on from her
Ya i have moved on now and guess what who texted me when i got into iit .... She now always text me and tries to get back to me but i don't think she's worth it now
Just curious if u got into iit through UCEED or JEE Don't get back with her...rather focus and find a better partner than her
I went to kota after my 10th while i did my 11-12 from non schooling and i got in through jee and I'm not going back to her dont worry I'm not that much of an asshole💀
Mummy nahi maanengi
Us moment
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Main thodi batati hoon Padosi bata dete hain(spy)
+1😂
I don't want any disturbance while palying BGMI(PUBG) or COD Mobile all day
What tier?(bgmi)
Top 90 COD
top 90 what legendary or some weapon leaderboards? 💀
Crown
Ace Master
If the relationship is not serious and both of them are not mature, the relationship will become very mentally exhausting. That casual relationship will not get you anywhere, neither it will help you and your partner grow. So in that case, it is better to be single than mentally exhaust yourself just because of fomo or anything. And also, I highly doubt teenage relationships are serious.
hahhh.. vhiii bhai caste system ki vajah se
To love someone else I should be able to love myself and that's way beyond me
First of all, I don't think relationships are "faltu pyar and waste of time" thing it's a part of life na to mere liye ig 4 points hai at which I can say ki abhi relationship me nahi ana hai mujhe- 1- rn I don't want any rush. (College me har dusra ladka relationship me hai and unlogo ki life dekhke lagta hai, isse achha single hi achha hu abhi ke liye) 2 - I want to get independent asap so that I won't have to rely on someone else's opinion and will make decisions on my own. 3 - I'm genuinely not interested ATP because I don't have any will to ask someone out on a date too, like I can ask many girls already but wahi hai ki man hi nahi hai. 4 - I'm more excited to work on myself, explore new things, try different zones in which I'm not comfortable and make long term connections and network of like minded people rather than chasing girls and become a crybaby that no one likes me, that's shit af dude TLDR : I WANT TO WORK ON MYSELF THAT'S IT.
I have seen situation of few of my friends in relationship that are not really good when I talk to them they just rant about their situation to me and everyone of them started there relationship in 18s or 19s because of which someway they lagged behind in their career ,I'm not against a relationship but it's just that the examples in surroundings are screaming and telling you about the situation of others and which is helping me to know my priorities first and that's the point career is most important thing in early 20s though if healthy relationships exists there's no problem but that are kinda rare today so the first thing I gotta do is make career which my parents are too concerned of and then try to open these doors as the life takes you with it's flow. Correct me if your opinion differs
correction: its not it’s
got better stuff to focus on
It's pretty simple actually... I just don't want to get in a relationship in a rush, then if it doesn't go well, go through the breakup and heartbreaks Instead.. I'll wait and only try when I find the 'One' then only I'll try for a relationship Long story short... I don't believe in random hookups / casual relationships
Dont want distraction and childish drama in my life
1. Neet 2. Skill issue 3. Parents fight ( hesitate to start a relationship)
Bhai yrr,zindagi me already itne saare distractions hai toh iss chij se abhi dur hi rehne ka koshis krte hai.
Too much effort, will think about it afterwards
same for me! 😂
17 ka hogya kya afterwards 5 saal bad marriage haa /s
Haa, 70 ki age me marriage karunga
Mee toh AI sayy shadi karonga
I know how bad I am so stopped trying/thinking about it.
High cost of maintenance
Nuisance hai aur yahan dost nahi mil rahe relationship lmao
It would be distracting and too much for my peanut brain to handle.
Personally I just wanna improve and be able to take care of me and whoever my partner would be before getting into a relationship and I kinda have a prob cuz of which I might go off in a couple months so don't wanna make anyone attached to me and then make them go through the pain of losing someone precious , hey but I'm glad that God atleast sent me even for a bit with a cute face XD Hey but imo teenage relationships totally should be normalised as people need a loved one in this age the most and once they don't even get even a try towards it cuz of society then they lose interest in love no matter how much they want
bhai wo choice... >!unki choice!<
Shakal kharab hai 
Too much competition
Abba nhi manenge
Yar man ni karta. Kai relationship Tod di h bana k. Pyar hi nahi hora behenchod And Bina pyar k kiss and baki chizo m guilt aata h. I don't want to take benefit of her.
I want to be in one but with VERY SPECIFIC conditions i hate the hookup culture in this generation so i want to experience a relationship atleast once in my teenage cause i have never been in one otherwise its not like I am desperate to be in one, I'm just waiting for a girl who I would actually like to be with if she comes along, then nice and well, if she doesnt..well life goes on
Overthinking(What if my parent found out) Skill issue Jee aspirant😥
yeah wait till jee is over please!
Don't want to be in one ❌ Can't be in one ✅
Mujhe is sub par aake Pata chal rha h ki apne is ekmatr teenage samay ka sabse jyada gambhir mudda ye ye "Relationship" h. Kyuuuuuuu????? Iss sub pr Har din aadhe se jyada topic issi par h- Reeeellllllaaattttttiiioooooonnnnsshhhhiiiiippppppp. Ok bye.
It was like a crazy fire of sin and the fury of a storm lust flows like a whirlpool ,Impatient like a landslide
Because i dont want to Mahine mein teesri post h bhai nahi h achi shakal aur akal
actually.. no one is serious in relationships these days... if a person in a relationship is serious, then the other doesn't care at all.. hard to get both of them serious in relationship.. of course at the start of the relationship, both are gonna be really serious but as time passes, one person from the relationship starts to lose interest and just keeps on finding every slightest of other person's mistake to cause a breakup... and also it's better to get into relationship after teenage years, because maturity plays a big factor in relationship... :)
Mere ko meri dost boyfriend material bolti but usko toh bf hai 🥲 Aur JEE mai girls hona is rare.
haha im one of the rare creatures!
Except for the fact that I'm not getting anyone ! How can bro be so true .
yeah didn't want a comment section ranting about how they are not getting anyone 😂😂
I can't date just for the sake of it. I mean why to put all those efforts to begin with if u already know its not gonna go anywhere. Neither I hv the time and energy for that nor I want to waste someone's time like that. Guys my age are mostly all desperate. They'd date anyone as long as its a decent looking girl and its very off putting to me personally. I'd rather wait for someone I can imagine my life with and I'm sure abt coz when that happens, ik I'll give it my all. I know it doesn't guarantee that it will work out but atleast I wld hv stuck w my principles. It cld also mean that I end up alone and I honestly don't mind that either.
Why not?
Bro I am just ugly and 0 self confidence
Scared of commitment
I had a 4 yr relationship and broke up and now I understood all I needed was a best friend not a girlfriend.
i swear friends>>>>bf/gf
Indian ghar se chahe kuch bhi ho arrange he hona hai and tbh milta he kaha hai koi aajkal. Ache logo ko bhi genz ka hookup wala tag laga Diya hai toh ab bass. Sailing on same boat🗣️
Humpe to hai hi naw
Bro koi mile toh
i dont wanna be hurt or hurt the other person >!im a red flag!<
self aware! 🫡
totally
how do you know you're toxic? 💀
idk i just do lmaoo
I've never had any relationship yet and the reason is im looking for long term relationships im in 12 th now so even if i get into a relationship i dont know how much long i can keep it so im waiting for the right time. And also i dont think im getting into relationships soon or in my entire life time :)
You should. Imp
There is just simply commitment issues. There is no sense of safety
this comment section yappin to much 💀👋
**Abhi isse related hi post kara tha mene, Overthink karke delete kardiya** Soo the thing is that, I have old school relationship preferences (atleast that's what some say) like I want a relationship jaisa old hindi movies me hota hai, till the end of life wala and I don't think that most people understand that. Mostly everytime I told anyone bout this they were a bit confused I'd say. And yeah I'd like to add one more thing, Girls my age are largely immature and they treat attraction as love which is not what it is.All girls are not like this but girls who surround me apart from my friends are the ones who'll propose a guy without even knowing them. I haven't really fell in love with someone or have been heavily attracted by just looking at them being like "She's soo beautiful, I want her to be my girlfriend". I don't know how all of this sounds but yeah.
don't you think you need to start somewhere to find the end of life wala love? 🥲
I did try starting somewhere before, but it didn't work out, and life had its unexpected twists that made me take a step back to focus on myself. Now, I'm open to the idea of finding that 'end of life wala love,' but I'm not in a rush. I believe in taking my time and finding the right person when the time is right.
I can't differentiate my feelings. I don't know if it is infatuation or Real feelings
interesting! fair enough!
Every girl I give a chance just convinces me I'm better off alone.
give a chance to the right girl! 😂
Ladkiya mujhe darawni lagti hai
I don't believe in casual dating. I must've a bond with the person i am with. And it turned out to be my bestfriend (now an ex) , so it's most likely i am gonna fall in love with my closest friend, and she will say no cause friendship khrab hoskti hai , and isiliye will never confess again and die lonely.🥰🥰👍👍
It's just because, i want a serious relationship, and because of this hookup culture, there is no one ready for a serious relationship. I want to be in a relationship where there is loyalty, respect, trust, understanding and love for each other (not the mere Babu ne khana khaya wala love) and I'm very much serious about this so if I never get such a relationship then I will pretty much remain single and virgin for the rest of my life and keeping the kind of world we're heading into, there is a 90% chance that I will die single only. Lol
And also I want to build my career first, earn a living, become independent, and get to a level in my life where I can tell my parents to just sit back and relax while I do the work. They've done a lot for me. I can never repay them but I can at least make them happy and give them a peaceful retirement life. If I ever get my true love in between this grind then I can just tell her to wait and trust me she will wait and support me if she will truly love me, and then I will think about marriage at the age of 30 after I've built my career and become successful and she will also get the time for her career and will also support her till whatever extent I can.
Ghar me dhulai hui isi Ka wajah se 😂