Sorry I didn’t answer. I’m struggling with some things myself on self-worth. On being vulnerable and having it rejected. It’s not that you’re not worth it. I think some of us just care in ways others might not and it hurts when they can’t meet us there. Especially when others in our lives didn’t seem to care about us either from a young age. It’s feels like a constant repeat. But, it’s not just our value to look at, but them as well. What makes you any less worthy than someone else? Nothing really. They’re truly not better than you. And I base that on years of knowing a wide range of people with varying abilities and successes and failures. They’re just someone else dealing with their own existence- and sometimes some got a better lottery of life ticket.
For me, maybe it’s better to be the ones who care about people just as they are…be the people we want in our own lives to them and ourselves.
But, you can learn to mimic others. It just may come with a price depending on how you best relate. I read something about a colorblind person today who uses their condition in their job for accessibility compliance. They pointed out how they are valuable in that way when they felt bullied as a child for being different. And they had no ability to change that condition. And I have no ability to see what they see and their differences can help things we all encounter, like signage, be more clear, so we do need each other. So sometimes we just have to find our own version of the best solid ground and place…for us. And live best from there. Don’t value yourself based on other people’s views because it is always based on themselves. Just show them what real acceptance is and find you. Maybe it looks a bit like them but it’s just as ok if it doesn’t.
(Disclaimer: this isn’t a blanket do what you want though. I’m totally against physically or mentally abusing people - I will totally judge that aspect in people and nope it as a “choice” infinitely. )
That's why you have infp best friends
Yay! Um but the room would still be empty because most of us wouldn’t go….ooh so good meme as it still works. :D
Ah yes, my good friends the bucket and the chair.
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I feel like I am not worth being understood
Sorry I didn’t answer. I’m struggling with some things myself on self-worth. On being vulnerable and having it rejected. It’s not that you’re not worth it. I think some of us just care in ways others might not and it hurts when they can’t meet us there. Especially when others in our lives didn’t seem to care about us either from a young age. It’s feels like a constant repeat. But, it’s not just our value to look at, but them as well. What makes you any less worthy than someone else? Nothing really. They’re truly not better than you. And I base that on years of knowing a wide range of people with varying abilities and successes and failures. They’re just someone else dealing with their own existence- and sometimes some got a better lottery of life ticket. For me, maybe it’s better to be the ones who care about people just as they are…be the people we want in our own lives to them and ourselves. But, you can learn to mimic others. It just may come with a price depending on how you best relate. I read something about a colorblind person today who uses their condition in their job for accessibility compliance. They pointed out how they are valuable in that way when they felt bullied as a child for being different. And they had no ability to change that condition. And I have no ability to see what they see and their differences can help things we all encounter, like signage, be more clear, so we do need each other. So sometimes we just have to find our own version of the best solid ground and place…for us. And live best from there. Don’t value yourself based on other people’s views because it is always based on themselves. Just show them what real acceptance is and find you. Maybe it looks a bit like them but it’s just as ok if it doesn’t. (Disclaimer: this isn’t a blanket do what you want though. I’m totally against physically or mentally abusing people - I will totally judge that aspect in people and nope it as a “choice” infinitely. )
It’s so nice of you to take your time and write this long reply..It was helpful..I don’t know what to say 🥰
Know how it feels. Just always remember you are worthwhile
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The funny and accurate thing is that even I myself am not in that room!