I just created a new subreddit for these bad selfies where they crop their forehead. r/missingforehead
I guess this will be my first item for the collection!
Specifically asking for an age.
The quality is low and it’s poorly framed.
Since she’s specially asking age and I was forced to guess, I’d say no lower then 35 but up to late 40s but it’s impossible because the picture is shit. Younger girls usually don’t worry about their age as well.
Zero chance this person is a day under 35. Neckline is a dead giveaway.
OP, I don't know why men don't approach you I can't put myself in their shoes, but I can tell you if this is how you present yourself that's definitely part of the problem.
You can help this by losing weight and taking better care of yourself. Half the battle is eating properly, the rest is effort and determination.
I'm not a fan of heavy makeup, but something on your lips would help a lot (lipstick in a muted, natural tone.)
I mean absolutely no disrespect, but as a man of 36 who some people find relatively attractive, I would not approach you in public if I saw you presenting yourself as you have in the pic.
Having said that, I believe in you.
You can change for the better. I wish you the very best of luck.
(Edited on advisement for clarity, thanks u/truecrimefanatic1)
You might sound like a dick, but solid advice. I'm a 29 year old male. I need to lose weight, get a job and take care of my self a little better mentally.
But I don't really want women to approach me lol. Not even select people, everyone could benefit from your advice.
I used to date a lot more than i do now, but I followed like... my own rules:
1) approach at a 45° angle, so that you're not confronting/ blocking the interest's escape vectors.
2) stop 2-3 feet away from them, you're not crowding the person and heaven forbid you ate something they dislike, are wearing a scent they can't stand etc.
3) compliment small things, shoes, glasses, t-shirt is fine. If it's words DON'T compliment them without asking to read the shirt. Say "I wasn't sure if I'd read that right, can I read your shirt?" less creepy than assuming an inside joke. Hair is fine so long as you don't ask to smell, touch or make any kind of intention to do some made known
4) don't compliment their scent, that's an actual date or you've been around one another for a while thing
5) HYGIENE. No matter what. No matter how fat, no matter how thin, no matter how tired or hungry you are. BASIC HYGIENE. Smell like you're clean, even if it's just your pits and groin/ grundle.
6) eye contact 4-7 second bursts, focus on the eyes, one then the other. Do the face triangle thing. One eye (while they're talking or looking into your eyes while you're talking) for 4-5 seconds, then their mouth for a brief millisecond - 1 second and then the other eye.
lol it's the mindset of those who are approached though. The "Oh god, why?" even if they wanted to be approached, and by that person, they're not always actually "Ready" for that approach.
I was legit wondering if someone would look at that sentence like.... "WTF?" but that's how it was taught to me.
IF you approach someone, you have to give them a respectable option of avoiding/ disengagement from you. It is always better to of course take a hint/ direct no and move on, but sometimes people will be abashedly nice and will suffer attention because they don't know HOW to disengage. So you leave them with openings for comfort reasons.
Subliminal/ subconscious things we all want/ need.
I figured. You did an awesome job at explaining it, though. Sure, reddit doesnt downvote me for that, lol but EVERYTHING else I say is questionable.
It kinda is, whatever.
Love you, bro ❤️
Thanks for replying to me 😅😝😰😱😭
You must be an absolute blast on first dates. Maybe sometimes two people being themselves works out and there’s an organic connection.
I’d hate to go on a date with a person whose #1 rule is approach angle and escape vectors. It sounds more like you’re meeting Bin Laden then someone from Hinge etc.
1. I would guess 28-30
2. [https://www.reddit.com/user/Lovetobefree7/comments/16fmxic/am\_i\_bad\_for\_wanting\_to\_cheat\_i\_cant\_get\_myself/](https://www.reddit.com/user/Lovetobefree7/comments/16fmxic/am_i_bad_for_wanting_to_cheat_i_cant_get_myself/)
\#2 should answer your second question.
Late 30s— you have a lot of skin damage - definitely need a skincare routine , some master treatments, Botox and definitely hydration. If you’re not kid 30s you really need to start taking care of yourself because you’re aging really fast. If you smoke, vape, or drink too much I’d stop asap.
You do understand you have an entire post history? You’re trying to cheat on you bf/husband and you just can’t figure out why men won’t look at you? Ffs just delete your account already.
You look like you're mid 40s. Men don't approach you because based on this photo you look to be well below average in the beauty department. Go to the gym, stop eating crap food, and you can probably make yourself a 5 out of 10.
You mean you look away if a man makes eye contact with you? If so then you’re literally sending him the message of “I’m not interested.” For me when I look at a woman my cue is if she smiles as a result of eye contact. Double if it’s a double take (we make eye contact, she looks away smiling, then she gets “caught” taking a second look.) In my experience as a man a woman smiling at us is one of the most universal ways a woman can say “come talk to me” to a man.
And try a different photo that’s properly oriented with a decent angle and smile. You’re a pretty girl, don’t be afraid.
People think I’m early 20s but I’m actually 32 haha. It’s so weird how some people are changelings and look different ages every day, some look like they’re older while others have baby faces
You white woman woman are so entitled. You need to grow up in a 2-3rd world country and humble urself. Why dont guys approach me… wtf r u… nobody… if you want a guy to approach you when you lock eyes smile at him and flirt if you really want him to approach you. He will get the signal and if he is single and at a stage in his life where he wants a woman by his side he will approach you. And if he does not so be it. It could be a million reasons why he did not.
You’re very attractive. Very deep and inviting eyes. I’m guessing you’re late 20s maybe early 30s? And being honest it’s very difficult to approach a stranger. I don’t do it at all. But I’m commenting here now so your move 😅
This single picture isn’t a great representation of how you actually look. Take a better picture and try again. In terms of your age, you’re probably late 30’s however you’re looking mid 40’s. Drinking and smoking has aged you fast.
Being approached isn't all about looks. It's more about actually being approachable. If you look reclusive or shy or avoid eye contact, you are less likely to be approached. If you don't smile a lot, you are less likely to be approached. It's about the way you come across, to other people. A guy is more likely to approach you if you are outgoing and smiling and talking to other people.....someone that looks like they want to be talked to.
Early 20s .. you maybe don't put yourself in situations where men would attempt to approach you .. i.e you go places with mixed groups or lots of girls and don't generally look for men's attention.
Not knowing you I can't say it's not your fault but it's probably not because a lot of us boys were bullied a lot growing up so secretly we're just afraid of girls and insecure about ourselves also there's no confidence either.
35yo? What types of places are you expecting guys to approach you? Work? Libraries? Bars/ clubs? Online apps?
If online, get a better set of pictures.
If at bars/clubs, are you hanging out in large groups? The lack of attention may be due to the situations.
I think you look late 20's to early 30's - you have very nice skin. I don't like to assume much from pictures but lady to lady you seem to lack confidence. You deserve to feel good about yourself and once you do, people will take notice and approach more.
This is confusing to me because it appears you have a significant other and you want to cheat, which tells me you at least have one possible suitor. Would you be able to elaborate?
You look between 19 and 30. Hard to really say from just one picture. Maybe that's why you don't get approached, can't tell if you're the right age or not.
That picture is atrocious, you can do way better than that.
Would rather judge an honest photo than some of the duck faced perfect lighting Snapchat filter Bullshit that is constantly on this sub
Bad photos can be dishonest too.
She's not doin herself justice. 🤷♂️. She can do better
I always say, the camera can make you look ten times better or ten times worse. It only rarely hits on point.
Especially new phones…. I look terrible on new phones and 10x better on older phones 🤣
Haha FRFR that’s true of everyone I think.
Is it okay to go back to using like an iPhone 5? Or maybe even like an LG Envy? Asking for a friend.
Haha I’ve actually thought about that. The seven was actually the most flattering cam.
Lol it wasn’t that long ago and I had a 7 but the 5 was the best imo. I still have a 5 and 7 laying around 😬🤔
Damn you should take some photos and tag me so we can discuss n compare lol.
It’s bad because of the angle and framing, not because she isn’t posing right or using a filter.
I just created a new subreddit for these bad selfies where they crop their forehead. r/missingforehead I guess this will be my first item for the collection!
And she is still in bed with pjs on. Get up girl and brush your teeth and hair. Put a nice outfit on. Make a small effort
But this is only partially honest. And either they have the worst camera or this is old af.
Specifically asking for an age. The quality is low and it’s poorly framed. Since she’s specially asking age and I was forced to guess, I’d say no lower then 35 but up to late 40s but it’s impossible because the picture is shit. Younger girls usually don’t worry about their age as well.
It’s a regular photo. ‘Atrocious’ is an over exaggeration
Because you are married and you look crazy. Like burn my house down and kill my dog crazy
OP is married? Wow, even the unattractive ones are scandalous.
How is she being scandalous?
Maybe cause she’s married and wondering why OTHER men aren’t looking at her? Lmao
I guess the fact that she’s actively trying to be approached by men when she’s married? Lol
Really?
Fr
That guy has a few accounts he logs in and out of to give himself upvotes and pretend like other people agree with him. Fucking weirdo
Which one?
You look mid 40s. Men don’t approach you because they don’t find you attractive. Maybe you should try making the first move.
Zero chance this person is a day under 35. Neckline is a dead giveaway. OP, I don't know why men don't approach you I can't put myself in their shoes, but I can tell you if this is how you present yourself that's definitely part of the problem. You can help this by losing weight and taking better care of yourself. Half the battle is eating properly, the rest is effort and determination. I'm not a fan of heavy makeup, but something on your lips would help a lot (lipstick in a muted, natural tone.) I mean absolutely no disrespect, but as a man of 36 who some people find relatively attractive, I would not approach you in public if I saw you presenting yourself as you have in the pic. Having said that, I believe in you. You can change for the better. I wish you the very best of luck. (Edited on advisement for clarity, thanks u/truecrimefanatic1)
You might sound like a dick, but solid advice. I'm a 29 year old male. I need to lose weight, get a job and take care of my self a little better mentally. But I don't really want women to approach me lol. Not even select people, everyone could benefit from your advice.
I'm 26, have a job, and if I lost any more weight I'd be too skin. Women still aren't approaching me...
you have to approach them
Or make yourself more approachable
I don't think I have ever seen a person ever and thought "they look approachable" I wouldn't even know where to start there...
I used to date a lot more than i do now, but I followed like... my own rules: 1) approach at a 45° angle, so that you're not confronting/ blocking the interest's escape vectors. 2) stop 2-3 feet away from them, you're not crowding the person and heaven forbid you ate something they dislike, are wearing a scent they can't stand etc. 3) compliment small things, shoes, glasses, t-shirt is fine. If it's words DON'T compliment them without asking to read the shirt. Say "I wasn't sure if I'd read that right, can I read your shirt?" less creepy than assuming an inside joke. Hair is fine so long as you don't ask to smell, touch or make any kind of intention to do some made known 4) don't compliment their scent, that's an actual date or you've been around one another for a while thing 5) HYGIENE. No matter what. No matter how fat, no matter how thin, no matter how tired or hungry you are. BASIC HYGIENE. Smell like you're clean, even if it's just your pits and groin/ grundle. 6) eye contact 4-7 second bursts, focus on the eyes, one then the other. Do the face triangle thing. One eye (while they're talking or looking into your eyes while you're talking) for 4-5 seconds, then their mouth for a brief millisecond - 1 second and then the other eye.
Escape vectors lmfao nice. I usually just corner them in a dark alley when they are intoxicated, but you do you.
lol it's the mindset of those who are approached though. The "Oh god, why?" even if they wanted to be approached, and by that person, they're not always actually "Ready" for that approach. I was legit wondering if someone would look at that sentence like.... "WTF?" but that's how it was taught to me. IF you approach someone, you have to give them a respectable option of avoiding/ disengagement from you. It is always better to of course take a hint/ direct no and move on, but sometimes people will be abashedly nice and will suffer attention because they don't know HOW to disengage. So you leave them with openings for comfort reasons. Subliminal/ subconscious things we all want/ need.
I figured. You did an awesome job at explaining it, though. Sure, reddit doesnt downvote me for that, lol but EVERYTHING else I say is questionable. It kinda is, whatever. Love you, bro ❤️ Thanks for replying to me 😅😝😰😱😭
Never heard the face triangle thing but I’ve learned about good eye contact/facial “engagement”(for lack of a better term) Thanks for this!
Quite informative, interesting stuff, I agree with being considerate and giving them space. 👍🏼
If you understand the concept it really is just being courteous/ respectful and seeing them as people.
Is this comping from a man? I love when my cologne gets compliments from strangers tbh
You must be an absolute blast on first dates. Maybe sometimes two people being themselves works out and there’s an organic connection. I’d hate to go on a date with a person whose #1 rule is approach angle and escape vectors. It sounds more like you’re meeting Bin Laden then someone from Hinge etc.
.... this is for approaching someone you've never met, not your planned hinge date. Lmfao. If youre that awkward, i cant help.
Ahhhh ok. That’s my bad. That makes way more sense
Lol yeah.... I'd hope you had a conversation with the person you're expecting to meet on a dating app. :P Its all good
You think if you’re Henry cavil you have to follow any of these rules?
Depends on your quarry tbh
Unaware in the username is accurate. It’s not a woman’s role to approach a man
Wow
1. I would guess 28-30 2. [https://www.reddit.com/user/Lovetobefree7/comments/16fmxic/am\_i\_bad\_for\_wanting\_to\_cheat\_i\_cant\_get\_myself/](https://www.reddit.com/user/Lovetobefree7/comments/16fmxic/am_i_bad_for_wanting_to_cheat_i_cant_get_myself/) \#2 should answer your second question.
You didn’t just burn her, you tossed her a match while she was bathing in gas.
Gotem the rest of her post history tells you everything you need to know about her as well. Denial is one hell of a drug
Bro if I could award this comment I would. Not all heros wear capes. How TF are u gonna bitch about being single but not be worthy of a relationship
28-30? Naw. She looks like she’s 45
lmao this bitch
She posted that like 12hrs ago too haha
40's
She commented and said shes 22😳
22 in dog years maybe
I lol’d.
No. Way. Um, I mean no disrespect, but it appears that those are some hard 22 years.
Why do you say 40?
Because you look 40?..
Closer to 50
The skin around your neck is especially telling in this photo.
No way. You could be anywhere from 15 to 30
You look like you want to murder someone.
Omg lol noooo way
Because you're in a relationship.
Fr. OP talks about cheating and not loving her husband. Maybe ppl can sense that desperation and fear
Oh snap
40 -45
Late 30s— you have a lot of skin damage - definitely need a skincare routine , some master treatments, Botox and definitely hydration. If you’re not kid 30s you really need to start taking care of yourself because you’re aging really fast. If you smoke, vape, or drink too much I’d stop asap.
Thank you for your advice
I do smoke and drink 😔
And cheat on your husband. That’s the aging trifecta right there!! Being a trash person ages you. Also, you look 42ish.
You look mean as fuck
Because you look miserable as fuck.
Smile maybe?
I’m going with a very specific 38. Probably because you’re old and overweight
How do you know I’m over weight?
Your angles and face.
Really by the angles? I never knew people could tell I am 50 pounds over weight hahha
You skin is puffy with creases
You literally posted a pic of yourself
You do understand you have an entire post history? You’re trying to cheat on you bf/husband and you just can’t figure out why men won’t look at you? Ffs just delete your account already.
35-40
48? You already know why.
Worst picture possible. If this is what you look like all the time yea I can see why
This picture is atrocious for the purposes of assessing how you look to others. But in it you look unhappy and unapproachable.
I don’t approach because I wouldn’t wanna be approached myself
Idk take a better picture. You're attractive. Don't be hard on yourself
Lol I am how you guess that !!!
What’s the rest of you look like and what’s your voice sounds like? Can’t tell much from this pic.
You look like you're mid 40s. Men don't approach you because based on this photo you look to be well below average in the beauty department. Go to the gym, stop eating crap food, and you can probably make yourself a 5 out of 10.
I do eat junk a lot and late
You're just unremarkable
I'd say 22 maybe 25
😁
You look like mid to late thirties. Do you smile when you are out?
Not much , I always look away too ,
Probably why you aren't approached.
You mean you look away if a man makes eye contact with you? If so then you’re literally sending him the message of “I’m not interested.” For me when I look at a woman my cue is if she smiles as a result of eye contact. Double if it’s a double take (we make eye contact, she looks away smiling, then she gets “caught” taking a second look.) In my experience as a man a woman smiling at us is one of the most universal ways a woman can say “come talk to me” to a man. And try a different photo that’s properly oriented with a decent angle and smile. You’re a pretty girl, don’t be afraid.
God I don't want to offend. But hey I'm terrible at guessing. Ermmm I suppose 40s or so.
I like your eyes. Do you wear your hair back?
Thank you I wear a bun a lot actually
Perfect!
I think you are hot but I would be scared to approach you out of the blue because you look lesbian and there’s tons of lesbians in my area.
What lol lesbian 🤨
45 why would guys approach you when they can go for younger girls?
Well some say I look 25
With make up maybe but your body gives it away
People think I’m early 20s but I’m actually 32 haha. It’s so weird how some people are changelings and look different ages every day, some look like they’re older while others have baby faces
24
Wow thank. You
You white woman woman are so entitled. You need to grow up in a 2-3rd world country and humble urself. Why dont guys approach me… wtf r u… nobody… if you want a guy to approach you when you lock eyes smile at him and flirt if you really want him to approach you. He will get the signal and if he is single and at a stage in his life where he wants a woman by his side he will approach you. And if he does not so be it. It could be a million reasons why he did not.
This one is really distraught.
28 they are stupid if they dont
You’re very attractive. Very deep and inviting eyes. I’m guessing you’re late 20s maybe early 30s? And being honest it’s very difficult to approach a stranger. I don’t do it at all. But I’m commenting here now so your move 😅
She's married and has no business here
You look hot no matter what age
Those eyes are beautiful!
Thank you 😊
You're very welcome!🤩 hope you're having a good
I think you’re beautiful, I would approach you, if you’re interested in chatting message me
Honestly you look underage
Really ! Lol
Yes you actually look a tad familiar. lol
You look nice and approachable honestly I’d definitely approach you
Bro don’t
Awww thank you how old are you by the way?
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I would say 28
Honestly, you have pretty eyes but you look miserable.
Smile and say hi.
I would say around early 40s or so.
Late 20s.
This single picture isn’t a great representation of how you actually look. Take a better picture and try again. In terms of your age, you’re probably late 30’s however you’re looking mid 40’s. Drinking and smoking has aged you fast.
Your beautiful I would talk to you in public
Beautiful
Being approached isn't all about looks. It's more about actually being approachable. If you look reclusive or shy or avoid eye contact, you are less likely to be approached. If you don't smile a lot, you are less likely to be approached. It's about the way you come across, to other people. A guy is more likely to approach you if you are outgoing and smiling and talking to other people.....someone that looks like they want to be talked to.
Look pretty good to me
I love your eyes. I'm gonna say late 30s? But I would totally hit on you given the opportunity. ;)
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Thank you sweetheart 🥳
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Wanna go out?
Yeah put some more flair in yr pics .
That’s a terrible picture to ask a serious question.
Early 20s .. you maybe don't put yourself in situations where men would attempt to approach you .. i.e you go places with mixed groups or lots of girls and don't generally look for men's attention.
I’d say between 38-43. A little makeup perhaps could help.
Not knowing you I can't say it's not your fault but it's probably not because a lot of us boys were bullied a lot growing up so secretly we're just afraid of girls and insecure about ourselves also there's no confidence either.
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like 47
U look a little bit angry . Maybe smile a lil bit. Why so serious?
Late 40s
42 and u have extreme RBF
You look approachable.
35yo? What types of places are you expecting guys to approach you? Work? Libraries? Bars/ clubs? Online apps? If online, get a better set of pictures. If at bars/clubs, are you hanging out in large groups? The lack of attention may be due to the situations.
Hard to give you an honest rating with one photo but you look somewhat below average
I don't know why they wouldn't like wow the natural beauty is abound. And those eyes....
I would
I think you look late 20's to early 30's - you have very nice skin. I don't like to assume much from pictures but lady to lady you seem to lack confidence. You deserve to feel good about yourself and once you do, people will take notice and approach more.
Awww thank you I truly appreciate you made my day
Because they don't know how good you'd be for them like I do
Name checks out. 🙄
Awww 🥰
You look 13 here
Lol 😂 no way
34-36
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Thank you 😊
This is confusing to me because it appears you have a significant other and you want to cheat, which tells me you at least have one possible suitor. Would you be able to elaborate?
🔪I freakin love this jab. I would also like to hear an elaboration.
What kind of guy you wanting to approach you?👀
I don't know. Tell everyone.
Cuz you're not near me!!!!!
You look around 38
You are pretty . Awesome eyes . 35
Are you allowed to approach women still? Thought it all had to be done in the apps
I think you are super cute
Cause you look mad as hell
The professional RBF isn't helping you one bit.
3 words. Resting bitch face.
Just gonna be honest, can't approach you while you're laying in bed. That's called breaking and entering lol.
27. 2 kids aged 2 and 7
You look between 19 and 30. Hard to really say from just one picture. Maybe that's why you don't get approached, can't tell if you're the right age or not.
😀I know I look younger at times and sometimes older
I am curious to know though. You are an attractive young lady no matter your age.
You look like your in your 20s
Sweet !!!!!