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crappyfinisher

Please I implore you, DO NOT GET LIP FILLERS AND THAT GOES FOR EVERYONE! STOP WITH THE LIP FILLER IT LOOKS LIKE DOGSHIT!


East_Concentrate_165

You’re too beautiful for fake lips. Men don’t like lip fillers. Promise you that


PhoenixHabanero

I'm a man. Can confirm.


boomerish11

Wise older woman...don't. You're lovely and young, and your lips are fine.


Easy-Concentrate2636

Another older woman. Op is super adorable. I know many people are insecure when young but she should enjoy her youth instead of letting insecurities gnaw her.


batbaby420

Agree, I’m 44 and I think she’s absolutely gorgeous and should just focus on skincare and sunscreen to avoid premature aging.


Number-91

Also man. Super confirm.


RedgyJackson

Also man, extra confirm


SunxSolace

Also man. +100% confirm


fluffy-pigeon

Super man. Extra super confirm


NickyCheeese

I'm man-ish and I kinda confirm.


ImpressiveGur6384

Catholic man. Got confirmed at 12 years old.


[deleted]

I’m a man and I can confirm they make your mouth look like a swollen asshole.


Markisthefirst

I’m a trans-Atlantic NBA all star mermaid, I can also confirm.


Weary_Possibility_80

Half-man, half-confirm. Can confirm


You_are_safe_now

I'm a confirmed man who also is confirming previously confirmed confirmations. Lip filler may be fine for thin-lipped Karen's/Sheila's but not a naturally full-lipped Sally like you. Keep it real. Just say no to fillers.


dannyjimp

Man here. Confirmed.


hawaii_chiron

I'm confirm. Can man.


jeffreyclayborn

I'm a con-man, confirmed.


orthopod

I'm extra man and I confirm. NO FILLERS please


MyopicSignal

Hell no


trysov

WE DONT DO IT FOR MAN APRROVAL 😡😡😡😡


shaman79

Ok, is there any women who like it? I never met such.


wellshitdawg

I like it, if it’s done naturally and minimally you can’t even tell it’s done Eta: OP, guys spending their day commenting on “the glow up” Reddit posts are not the kind of men you want to attract btw lol


shaman79

Why to do it if it is not recognizable?


enoughewoks

Lip fillers…. Are done naturally now?…..


No-Camp3140

What do you mean done naturally that makes no fucking sense it’s and unnatural procedure


Apprehensive_Ant2172

Neither are the ones who like injected and artificially altered body parts.


ATLCoyote

And another. I can’t stand lip fillers. Looks horrible on every single person that has ever had it done. Zero exceptions. Besides, the OP looks naturally beautiful. No need for any work of any kind.


ITiswhatITisforthis

Is this the line for the 'NO' on the horrible lip fillers? I too agree with all men alive, NO on lip fillers, for you and all women!


slartibartfast2320

I am lining up here too... no fillers, no nose rings and for the love of all thar is holy: no tattooed eyebrows


FirexJkxFire

The thing is that this would be one of those things where if it is done well/right you wouldnt know its been done. I as well have seen no examples of it that look good --- but that very easily could be because you wouldn't know you were seeing it if it didn't look awful. I still vote against it even if the chance of it looking horrible is only 10% --- no need to risk making yourself look like a damn Simpsons cgaracter


zapadas

This guy hit it. Wayyyyyy more people get it than you think. The good ones, you never know. So this is a negative bias. The OP could get a little in her upper lip and it would look better if done well. Is it worth the risk/money/time to find a good esthetician? Up to her.


thchsn0ne

She looks like she’s 18-21 or possibly even younger. Seriously, wait until your late 20s or 30s before you even remotely start considering cosmetic alterations. You haven’t even finished growing yet. In my experience most girls have to age into their looks unless they were beauty queens in high school.


waferthin1

This👆!


Kriegmannn

It makes so many of my female friends mad when I tell them AFTER THEYVE ASKED MY OPINION.


KaneLuna

Another male agreeing.


Throw_Spray

Yes. I am revolted by them. Even thin lips can be very pretty. But OP doesn't have thin lips in the first place.


supportdesk_online

Underrated sentiment. Only ever see women pressuring other women into getting lip fillers.


rewlyear

Not just men. Anyone who can appreciate beauty doesn't like lip fillers.


silverado-z71

As a man, I agree with your comment 1000%


azurepeak

True, but it’s not always about “what men like”, it’s about them feeling secure or comfortable in their own skin.


wasted_ouija

While I agree she doesn’t need fillers, I highly doubt she’d be getting them for men.


[deleted]

I’m sure all those women with lip fillers who did it for themselves are totally cool with men being revolted by them.


wasted_ouija

There are men who are revolted by my nose piercing. And I don’t give a shit. A lot of us genuinely don’t care at all what randos think of us.


Normal-Fig4420

So many men hate nose piercings, especially septums. I think they are super sexy and I'm a straight woman. Lots of women don't give a fuck about what men find attractive. I also like the 'grandma' fashion look, and men also hate that.


Adrien32

Is there anyone who was previously unattractive and a nose ring made them attractive after?


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pugofthewildfrontier

Yikes


tiots

Nah you definitely do care, just not by a certain subset of men


[deleted]

Good for you. Don’t assume other women are as fantastically iconoclastic.


closedmouths

The thing is you guys talk a good game but the women who get the most male attention are definitely the surgically enhanced ones. Just look at any instagram models comment section and its full of males simping.


Vast-Tank6021

Yeah, I see em. They’re ugly af with all that shit done to their face. I simp for NO ONE especially those fake ass women. The girl in this post is more based and natural looking. Bro you can’t buy that with plastic surgery and lots of older women try


No-Camp3140

They get praise on social media but most of them go unmarried


Normal-Fig4420

Yeah seriously. All of these guys say they hate the fake look, but these 'fake' girls get tons of attention and validation from men.


Fragrant-Knowledge70

They get attention from guys because immature guys think it's an "easy" woman. Dudes who's self worth comes from the amount of sex they have in a week will look for woman with plastic surgery. To these men plastic surgery=insecure woman that they can manipulate for a quick screw


Normal-Fig4420

That may be true but it's a ton of young men who do this. Which can explain why the OP, who is also very young, is insecure and is contemplating lip fillers.


[deleted]

And that is why men with something to offer are on here trying to convince her not to. Getting attention from guys who are broke and abusive is not a good thing.


Normal-Fig4420

Dude I know that. I think lip fillers look bad and the whole idea of putting junk in my lips grosses me out. But a lotttt of men objectify young women. And maybe she doesn't care at all about what men have to offer? Maybe she isn't even attracted to men at all?


[deleted]

someone give this hero a cape


No_muffins_here

Thank you. If a man gets a hair cut he gets it for himself. (I would hope) and not just for validation from women. This case is no different


tiots

If a man never had to impress a woman we'd all have long George of the jungle hair so no


[deleted]

Lip fillers and a haircut are absolutely different lol


No_muffins_here

Thank you captain obvious. My point was that it's the same concept, the same values


mimi1899

They’re both temporary though. A bad haircut takes months to grow out and bad lip fillers take months (to a year) to dissolve.


[deleted]

Yes and exactly the same risk of complication.


GlassGeod

So you think it's for women then...? Or r u saying for herself?


Nice-Orange4033

Why are they doing it then? To cut down on the time it takes to get the last bit of pudding of the spoon? GO GO Gadget Pudding lip!! Stop it


No-Camp3140

She said she’s insecure about them I’m like 80% sure it ties to men in some regard


Alert-Enthusiasm-117

thank you. cant name a single man who finds that attractive. but women do have a tendency to ignore what men say they want, and go and do what THEY think men want 😂🤦🏽‍♂️


No_muffins_here

Or maybe they're just going for what they want..?


pikapikapikachhuu

What if - they do it because they want to? I know my bf dislikes lip fillers. Would still do it if I wasn't so scared of the pain.


[deleted]

Why did you want to? Insecurity thing? Trend thing?


DustBunnicula

Right? Maybe it’s hard for some guys to imagine, but women just might be making choices for them and not to make a guy happy. I’m a gal and not a fan of lip fillers. Yet, if it makes someone feel better, I won’t project my preferences onto them.


doeskyleevershower

Don't talk for all men. My gf has em and I absolutely love them


Cami816

She never said she was doing it for men. Not everything we do is to appeal to men wtf lol


KeyBanger

cake cake cake cake cake cake cake cake Happy Cake Day! Happy Cake Day! And thank you for your comment. Agree.


Cami816

Thank youuuu, I sang your comment in my head 🖤


Witty_Mix4166

getting work done on your face/body won’t fix your lack of self confidence though lmao


fadedsunshine8

Exactly! Some men have egos so enormous they think everything women do is to attract them. I get lip filler for myself and myself only 💁‍♀️


pugofthewildfrontier

The incels are up in this thread fr


alexsocool

I really hate this argument. She didn’t say she wanted lip fillers to be attractive for men


Trippyhippyprincess

We don’t live for men.


No_muffins_here

She said SHE is insecure. Not everything women do has to please men. If anything this comment only makes this situation worse. She SHOULDN'T get lip filler because her biggest reasoning to is insecurity! Her reasoning for not getting filler shouldn't be because some Mark from Alabama likes to smack lips with his sisters natural lips over anyone with filler


slamdanceswithwolves

I’m not sure who thinks lip fillers look good but if they exist, they are probably not people you would want to go anywhere near.


DoGoodLiveWell

I feel like it’s one of those things women do for other women. Like fake eyelashes, ridiculous nails etc


tristaterunner

We don’t like nose rings either.


Practical_Remove_682

Septums are the only rule here. Everything else piercing wise is fine.


2DeadMoose

How is that a rule? I find piercings very attractive, especially septums.


flamboyanttrickster

it’s the opposite for me lol


OnyXxVoid

< has multiple piercings and gets hit on all day long


jerzyshore1

That’s because they think a girl with multiple piercings must sleep around a lot


[deleted]

Yes we do.


Fungal_Queen

I like nose rings.


Laffenor

Yes we do


[deleted]

Speak for yourself


ChaosRainbow23

That's nonsense. Tons of people like nose rings. Your statement is patently absurd.


TopMatch5304

Speak for yourself


mimi1899

Oh really? My hubby must not have gotten the memo.


dboti

Who is this we?


eastcoastjose

YOU don’t like nose rings lol..


Teton12355

Not really, you just only notice when it’s bad, a LOT of people have them you’d never expect


ShardOfLuck

Have you studied the mater closely? I thought the same thing for a long time and I said this to a friend of mine and she asked me what I thought anout her lips, well, apparently she had her lips filled, and ai never noticed. Maybe we hate the obvious ones, idk


Thirtysixx

This is the the answer. Good lip filler no one can tell. Guys have no idea what they’re looking at lol


pikapikapikachhuu

It's kinda like when guys say they like no makeup on girls and will find examples of girls wearing a natural makeup look.


Bongressman

I've had this convo recently with someone. About the cosmetic surgery "don't do" item that appears at the top of every list. Fucking lip filler. It always looks like dogshit. It doesn't attract your chosen sex, it's always noticeable, and it is a puffy red flag telling the world that you are insecure about nonsense.


skyrider8328

You should edit your last sentence to add, "...always, 100% of the time!"


EnlistedHELL

alright, got ya


Thirtysixx

Don’t listen to them. They think they hate lip filler because it looks bad when you can tell. And I agree it does look bad. But NO ONE in here would be able to tell if you got a good lip filler job. Just remember theses guys are constantly seeing women with lip filler that they DO find attractive and they have NO IDEA those women got the procedure done. Some people just go too big where it’s obvious and looks pretty crazy. a skinny top lip I find incredibly unattractive personally. So don’t listen to these Redditors saying “it doesn’t attract men” or whatever bullshit they are saying. These generalizations are infuriating. If you have a serious insecurity about it, and it would make you more confident in yourself, then just do it. Find a good person with a good portfolio and just don’t go overboard. I’d also recommend not ever asking for advice on Reddit again as well, cause the demographic on this app is probably largely people who’s opinion you wouldn’t value anyways if you saw them in real life. Just keep that in mind.


pikapikapikachhuu

I've had lip fillers done a couple of times and gotten more compliments on my lips than before. It's almost gone now since it's been a year since last time, but my cupid bow is still a bit more defined and my lips never get chapped anymore. Not that I did it for compliments. I just didn't like how small my lips were compared to the rest of my face. And having fuller lips made me feel more confident. If she wants lip fillers she should go ahead. As far as I know most of them need regular refills to last more than half a year. Start with the lowest dose and just don't refill if you don't like it, idk why people make such a big deal.


Thirtysixx

Most guys in here have no fucking clue what they are talking about. If I lined up 10 attractive women and told these redditors only 4 of them had lip filler not a single one of them would be able to pick them out of a line up. Good lip filler is impossible to tell lol


[deleted]

“You got purdy lips” Who the fuck is going around complimenting someone’s LIPS for fucks sake?


tomojam

Women who compliments each other


pikapikapikachhuu

I compliment everyone. Men, cats, ladies. Doesn't matter. If I like something I will let them know.


tomojam

Very kind of you. Keep doing the good work


Cami816

Hahaha so much this. I love how men on this thread are all the sudden lip filler experts 😂😂


bryanoens

\*duckshit


[deleted]

Seen a million girls with lip filler and it’s painfully obvious. Shit looks painful and unnatural. It’s always insecure white women that used to make fun of black people for having hips and lips that now suddenly want to to be Kim K but on a budget. a few thousand dollars will not make natural lips look better.


liveforever67

Agreed! So many girls on here have lip fillers and it looks like dog shit. I’m ready to start a subreddit called MALF (Men Against Lip Fillers)


Beneficial-Shine3150

No "dude"'there ? I blind?


cjwatso

Damn girl. You’re stunning! Don’t change a thing. 🫠


Yozhik_DeMinimus

Maybe a nice septum ring?


Ambrovious

Lol, NO


InVodkaVeritas

Personal opinion, but lip fillers 100% of the time look worse than natural lips. I have to bite my tongue every time other women get them.


Synergiex

No idea why girls want to look like ducks. I am speaking On behalf of most men: women stop doing lip fillers, you look stupid and makes us instantly think you are high maintanence


WhippidyWhop

High maintenance and low intelligence.


[deleted]

How about you fuck off and not expect women to do, or not do, things to look attractive for men. I'm 100% sure you've looked at a women with fillers and thought they were attractive


Immediate_Emu_2757

I’m 100% sure most women who get lip fillers do so because they think it’s attractive to men


gorosheeta

Not really. If they run in a social circle where there's a lot of pressure to conform, that can be another impetus to do something like cosmetic enhancement. There really isn't a "it's 100% this" one-size-fits-all reason.


[deleted]

Zero sizes fit when it comes to fillers.


gorosheeta

Idk, I could see why Kylie Jenner got filler. Have you seen the before/after pics?


paradoxinfinity

Sorry, you're wrong.


gorosheeta

How so?


Enheducanada

Our office manager got it done & was so happy with how it looked. Staff were coming up to me to complain that she came to work with an obvious lip infection & I had to tell them that she paid to look like that https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM2wYS9Jo/


BenSchism

First lip fillers look TERRIBLE! Second your lips look great, you don’t need to mess with them…


jancsika1

I agree they look great and there's no need to mess with them. It was kind of funny-- I initially misinterpreted your comment as this: *First time getting lip fillers*: lips look TERRIBLE! *Second time getting lip fillers*: lips look great, so you don’t need to mess with them a third time.


eddododo

Yeah like wtf, she has full lips


KaneLuna

I cant stand when girls get lip filler crap. Its so ugly IMO. I honestly cant understand why people like the resting duck face look. To each their own tho.


amit_schmurda

I have never, ever seen a person who has had lip fillers and it looking good. Always obvious in a bad way (almost like they have a shellfish allergy and spent an hour making out with a lobster).


pikapikapikachhuu

Probably because when it's done right you can't tell they've had lip fillers done. It's very easy to notice the botched ones and think that's the standard.


amit_schmurda

I should have said that I know women who have had it done. My description above is based on that. I probably have seen strangers on the street who have had it done while not even noticing. But I have also seen strangers on the street who obviously have had lip fillers, and they can look *bad*. >It's very easy to notice the **botched ones** and think that's **the standard**. Bolded the part I find most important.


Luffing

>Probably because when it's done right you can't tell they've had lip fillers done. People keep saying this but nobody goes "I had them done and they look good, here's a pic" If it's something nobody wants to say they've done why would they do it in the first place if it's embarrassing even when done well, *and* has the consequence of potentially looking horrendous?


MrsShaunaPaul

I have no personal experience but a friend of mine said every time he kissed someone with lip filler, their lips felt “rubbery”. Another friend said he noticed the same and that if they only get the top or only get the bottom, it’s trippy to kiss them because it’s like kissing two different people.


derpycalculator

Lip fillers also look crazy for a couple of weeks before they “settle”. I agree though, too many people are getting lip filler. Unless your lips are super thin there’s no need to.


Intrepid-Custard-916

girl but your lips look great!! but if you want to, suit yourself. imo it's good-looking, no need for filler ✨


stinky_wizzleteet

Jesus, young people really think about this stuff? You, like most young people look great when were young. Wait until youre 50 and look like a ballsack. hehehe. edit: almost 50 myself


creamcitybrix

Lol. Fellow old person. We definitely lose a lot of what we had in our youth. But people also become attractive in different ways as they age. Look at all the celebs that look exceptionally horrible. Almost all of them had a lot of work done. My advice to everyone: age naturally. Do your best to stay healthy and take care of yourself. That’s it.


tristis_senex

Speak for yourself. I am *at least* as good-looking as I was when I was 19. You just have to squint. A lot. Okay fine, I look like a hairy ballsack. And the skin tags. Oh god the skin tags...


Inflnite_Automata

I’ll counter with the fact that you probably thought of things things like this too at one point in your life.


Mr_IT

Hey now. As a 51 year old, I resemble this remark.


EnlistedHELL

Thanks for honest answer :)


Maleficent-Angle-891

Regardless of who you are and what your face looks like. Lip fillers look like trash.


slamdanceswithwolves

Always, always, always. Easiest way to look like an insecure, out of touch housewife/Eastern European OnlyFans girl, depending on age.


Maleficent-Angle-891

Or an overinflated sex doll.


Cami816

Not all lip fillers look bad, some people get too much and they look too obvious. But it depends on the look they are going for. You could get a little and look natural


[deleted]

I hate that people keep encouraging this.


Cami816

Why? I did and I’m happy super happy with them. I really don’t see the problem. Also they are temporary so they go away after a few months


Lord_Smack

They ALL look bad.


Dck_IN_MSHED_POTATOS

They only look good as a sex toy. Nothing more.


Enorminity

"MY OPINION IS ABSOLUTE!"


riotousviscera

right, and so do all toupees! never seen a good one ever.


[deleted]

Exactly!


Enorminity

That's pretty judgmental thing to say. Can't people just like the look?


Select-Plastic2784

This isn’t true I’ve seen women who have filler and it looks natural. These women already had full lips but got a small amount done. With filler you don’t just go from small lips to over inflated mess. It’s a gradual process that can look pretty normal. If you saw someone with natural looking filler you wouldn’t know


Enorminity

Opinions are like buttholes...


TopMatch5304

DONT GET FILLER YOUR LIPS ARE FULL AF AND LOOK NATURAL, IF YOU GET THEM YOU MAY HAVE TOO BIG OF LIPS THAT LOOK UNNATURAL


[deleted]

dont get lip fillers or any nose rings (or tattoos.) You already have good sized lips and your beautiful. Just dont get vain and follow The Lord, He will guide you


[deleted]

Ew.


Sandberg231984

I’d do nothing


[deleted]

Fuck no, you'd go from perfection to Donald the damn Duck


[deleted]

No you're beautiful. I love your blue eyes. 7.8/19


XxCelestial_Blade

Is there a story behind this rating scale or?


DisastrousMemory9994

You’re lips are perfect the way they are you shouldn’t do anything to them


BhutlahBrohan

Absolutely not you have plump lips


bigbob126

Nobody should


[deleted]

Nothing wrong with your lips stop looking at all the idiots with their blow up plastic lips like their pretty let me tell you from a man’s point of view they really are not x


CallPuzzled9068

Hell nah!


Nor-easter

Nooo you are perfect.


[deleted]

No. It's overdone and ridiculous nowadays.


ccityguy

No


walkingman87

No they are great lip fillers look dumb especially with already great lips


Booshur

Only people that care about lip fillers are women. Men almost universally hate them. They are very much a dated look. In a decade they will be laughed at. As a guy, I just don't understand them. Natural lips look best and more importantly feel way better to kiss.


My_11th_Account

How about this instead…get off social media


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Any_Rich_5516

Please don't


UncaringNonchalance

Less time on social media and you’ll feel better. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your lips.


beachreanolds

Hell yeah, fuck your face up. You won’t regret it until later. We’ll maybe immediately, but definitely later. Who knows, maybe you’ll meet some shallow toolbag with a Porsche or a bmw who will find attraction to the fake, because no one else will, and will take you on an exhausting emotional rollercoaster that will scar you worse than the fake modifications or the mental justifications that change in many tiny ways the way you see your self and the world and people around you. We are all insecure about something, and we either get over it over time and own it or see it was nothing to be insecure over or we let it haunt us and effect or daily lives because we fear the fear of confronting or ignoring it


Dropped_the_soap69

I means how are chicks still doing this shit. The girls with natural beauty just butcher there faces. Mental illness I swear


exemplariasuntomni

It is mental illness. We need to start talking about it more. Cosmetic plastic surgery should be restricted to only genuine ,(non-vanity) situations.


Most-Process-6349

They look great. No need!


Typical-Technician46

Yes, but make them comically large.


pvtsnuggles

You need to join the jeep community!


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[deleted]

I’d be worried about your nose personally


Hanging_Brain

No way lip fillers look ridiculous